The Road from African Emirates to Europeans Main Volume Chapter 26 Heart-to-Heart Talk 3 When Sister Xie thought of this, a smile appeared on her face.
In the early days, someone said that the couple were like a flower stuck in cow dung.
But later she felt that she had chosen the right husband, thanks to her husband's understanding and support for her work.
At this moment, recalling the past love process adds a part of warmth and feels good.
After dinner, she would see if she could connect with her husband. She was thinking about her husband who could stand by her through thick and thin.
After she came back to her senses, she found Ling Xiao looking at her curiously, her old face turned red, and said, "Xiao Xiao, you said Liu Xianglian was responsible for the death of Third Sister You."
"Yes! In fact, Liu Xianglian was quite impulsive when she made the engagement after Jia Lian arranged the matchmaking, but she didn't feel at ease afterwards. After she was given the Yuanyang Sword, the more she thought about it, the more she regretted it."
While talking, Ling Xiao started cooking. Everyone on the medical team may be a master chef. Of course, the medical team of the successor to dark cuisine still does not have that kind of thing, but there are still levels of skill.
Ling Xiao is considered to have better skills among them. She is better at creating new recipes and making them at a higher level. She is often the chef of the medical team, and the others are helpers or assistants.
After stir-frying for a few times, she added salt and MSG and took it out of the pot. She cleaned the pot and started to stir-fry the second dish. Sister Xie asked, "Why do you regret it?"
"Because the mother and daughter of the You family have always lived in Jia Zhen's house, and Liu Xianglian has been wandering outside for so long, she is definitely not stupid and has seen a lot of dark sides."
"What kind of person is Jia Zhen? Liu Xianglian definitely knows. He feels that he may be a cuckold. This is very important."
"Later, when Jia Baoyu talked about Sister You, he was sure that the fiancée had made a mistake." Ling Xiao started to cook the second dish.
Sister Xie thought for a moment after hearing this. She read Dream of Red Mansions a long time ago and can't remember it.
She blinked and asked, "These things are written in the book?"
She had read this book in her early years.
I have read Dream of Red Mansions in its entirety.
But after reading it, I didn’t do any more research.
I didn't even realize that there was more to that book.
What was going on? She was a little confused at the moment and didn't understand.
"I've written it. You should know about the mess between Jia Zhen and Qin Keqing, right?" Ling Xiao said.
"I know this, I've read the introduction." Sister Xie said, there is a chapter called "Sangtian Xianglou".
"Jia Zhen didn't even let go of his own daughter-in-law. Do you think he would let the You sisters come to his door?"
"Second Sister You got tired of being played by Jia Zhen and his son, so she passed it on to Jia Lian, and then she met Wang Xifeng." Ling Xiao said, shaking his head.
Sister Xie thought about some plots, and the plot she remembered anyway was the scene where Sanjie You scolded Jia and his son.
You must know that Sister You was beaten and scolded at that time. There was a rigidity in her words and she was very difficult to offend.
Seeing that Sister Xie was confused, Ling Xiao said: "A Dream of Red Mansions contains metaphors in many places."
"If you read it in a hurry, you may not be able to read it at all," she continued.
"Sanjie You should just be drinking, nothing more to do with it, right?"
Sister Xie still prefers Sister You, she defended.
Such a lively woman should not...
Ling Xiao shrugged slightly.
Everyone has their own opinion.
It’s not that: there are a hundred Hamlets for a hundred people.
Sister Xie has her own opinions, which is of course normal.
Ling Xiao felt like he talked a lot today, so naturally he just wanted to talk more.
"After the engagement, Third Sister You once said: Even though I sleep alone in a quilt at night, I am not used to being lonely."
She emphasized the last four words. Sister Xie finally came to her senses. She was not used to loneliness? So she wasn't lonely before?
There is something in these words! After savoring it so carefully, you will feel that there is a great mystery in it, and you feel like you have been struck by lightning.
She was a little confused and stood there with her mouth open. Ling Xiao said: "In the Zhi Ping's book, it is said that she actually prostituted a man, not that a man prostituted her."
This sentence made Sister Xie a little confused. Ling Xiao said: "Some people would say that Third Sister You has realized her mistake, so she should be given a chance to correct it." Sister Xie was a little confused, but she still nodded and said, "Yes!
If you make mistakes, correct them, that’s good.”
"If Sanjie You is not a woman, but a man, do you think she should be given a chance to correct herself?" Ling Xiao asked a strange question.
After hearing this, Sister Xie felt that Xiao Xiao was a little confused. Didn't she just say that she would correct her mistakes when she knew they were wrong, so she could be forgiven.
Watching her nod, Ling Xiao understood that her thinking had not changed: Sister You San was still a woman in her heart.
Ling Xiao said: "For example, a man fell in love with a woman five years ago, but he still wants to go out and have sex."
Sister Xie was a little confused as she listened, "That man didn't calm down. Instead, he went out and wandered for five years."
"Later, the man who had been wandering outside for five years came back and found the woman he admired."
The obedient person's eyes suddenly widened. What does this mean? Do you want to propose?
"Said he fell in love with her five years ago and now wants to get married."
"Do you think that woman will believe that man?"
After saying this, Ling Xiao looked at her.
"Of course I don't believe it. The man just ran back because he couldn't move."
"Even if you find an ordinary person, you can't find a prodigal son who turns around."
"What if the prodigal son has rested and wants to prostitute again?" Sister Xie talked eloquently.
Ling Xiao nodded, "As a normal woman, it is true that we generally cannot trust prodigal sons. This is the conclusion drawn from many real events."
She said in a very calm voice: "Although there are some prodigal sons who come back, there are more men who go out to wander again after taking a break."
Sister Xie nodded, this is really the situation. If there are no children, the woman can forcefully divorce, but having children is another matter.
To divorce? Or not to divorce? This is a difficult question to choose. Because as a mother, you have to think about whether divorce will have any impact on your children. You have to think about it.
There are only two ways to get a successful divorce, which is to file for divorce in court, or to divorce by agreement, which takes a lot of effort to achieve your wishes.
Even if the divorce is finalized and even the mother gets custody of her child, it is difficult for a single woman to live with a child.
First, the working hours of single mothers cannot be guaranteed, and now many large companies require 996. They want to make money, but the working hours are too long.
Just like working as a nurse, a mother has to work night shifts. What about the child? Should I hire a nanny? It will cost a lot of money upfront.
Secondly, the nannies are not very reassuring. Some nannies give sleeping pills to the children and spank them.
There are even nannies who set fire to houses, and there are also those who kidnap and traffic children.
It's not safe to think about it, even if you hire a nanny.
You also need to have someone you trust watching over the nanny.
Sister Xie really feels for those single mothers who have no one to help them.
It's really hard work. You have to make money and be a mother, and you have no other way to do it.
Well, unless the woman is determined not to have children, but she is afraid that the children will suffer.
Nowadays, there are many cases of stepmothers abusing their children, and there are more cases where stepmothers have stepfathers.
This is why Sister Xie objects to marrying a prodigal son. This experience is too hard for women, and women often swallow the bitter consequences.
So when a woman wants to redeem a prodigal son and sees the prodigal son come back, she should think more about her own future.
Of course, if you know that there is probably a fire pit ahead, you still jump in without hesitation.
Just look at it as someone else, everyone has the right to choose the path they want to take.
Maybe God can be moved by the woman's love and finally get it in exchange for gold.
"Then the eldest sister doesn't really agree with marrying a prodigal?"
Then Ling Xiao took out the second dish and put it on a large plate.
While washing the pot, Ling Xiao glanced at Sister Xie and said, "Then here's the problem."
"Sanjie You fell in love with Liu Xianglian five years ago, and has been hanging out with the Jia family and his son in Ningguo Mansion ever since."
"Suddenly she said she wanted to marry Liu Xianglian. Is there any essential difference between this behavior and the behavior of a prodigal son?"
Sister Xie opened her mouth when she heard this, intending to say that there was an essential difference between the two, but after thinking about the whole process, she found that there was no difference.
They have all been interested in someone for a long time, but they are not with the person they love. When they feel that they have had enough wandering, they are ready to return to their families.
This discovery made Sister Xie unable to express her views for a while, and she was a little speechless.
Just listen to Ling Xiao ask: "Does anyone who is attracted by her have to accept her?"
"Is there such a good thing?" Ling Xiao looked at Sister Xie as he spoke.
The person being asked could not answer this question for a while.
Sister Xie was a little dizzy.
My eyes almost turned into mosquito repellent eyes.
She was a little confused by Ling Xiao's series of words.
But if you think about it carefully, you will find that it does make sense.
Changing Sanjie You's gender to a male, what she did was indeed not very good.
"Before you answer, put yourself in their shoes and think about it, would you accept such a person?"
At this moment, Sister Xie was a little speechless when she was asked. Of course she would not accept the prodigal son turning back.
She once read a sentence, it was this kind of prodigal who was killed by a hundred women and killed by a thousand women. He should have been promiscuous to the end. Why would he look back?
Seeing that Sister Xie was still speechless for a while, and the whole person was in silence, Ling Xiao started to cook the third dish, which took some time to stew.
Then she said: "If this is the case, we will definitely encourage everyone to have various waves. Anyway, if you go ashore after enough waves, you can naturally live happily."
When Sister Xie heard this, she shook her head repeatedly, "How can this be done? Anyway, I won't wait for a prodigal son to come back. I don't think I have that charm."
"Then it is quite reasonable to say that Liu Xianglian regretted her engagement. This also led to Third Sister You's violent death in the end."
"Really talking about this matter, both sides are responsible. Liu Xianglian is responsible, and third sister You is responsible."
"And I think the person who is most responsible should be Second Sister You and Third Sister You's mother."
"She has been through a lot of things, but she still doesn't know the severity?"
"If the two daughters are young, they have strong vanity."
"I don't know how powerful it is."
"But she should know better."
"But she failed to exercise her rights as a mother."
"Rescue the daughters who are sliding into the quagmire." Ling Xiao said.
She can be regarded as someone who has experienced ancient times and knows that it is possible to have an affair in a big family.
But trying to hide it from everyone is a very difficult task.
When the host and hostess of a large family take action, they usually have to be followed by many people.
There is a very ambiguous relationship between the You family sisters and the Jia family father and son, and the mother-in-law of the You family will definitely know the fishiness involved.
Speaking of which, Mrs. You invited mother and daughter to help look after the house. It turned out that both sisters-in-law had an ambiguous relationship with Jia Zhen.
Youshi was probably extremely angry, but there was nothing she could do about it. She had a low status in the Jia family, and even the girls who served her were not very respectful.
She didn't even say anything when the servants' food was served to her. It was obvious that her status was not high at all. It was strange that she had no objections to Second Sister You and Third Sister You. Even if something happened to them, You would be responsible for cleaning up the mess.
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This is a huge loss for the You sisters, and even their nominal sister may be despising their behavior in her heart.
The You family lived a very miserable life. Why did the You family and their daughter live in the Ningguo Mansion? It was because of the help of their step-sister You family.
If a modern woman encounters a sister like the You sisters, it is impossible for a sister to be very generous and forgive such a sister.
Sister Xie has been listening. After such analysis, she cannot accept the behavior of the You sisters at this moment.
Youshi suffered multiple betrayals: from her daughter-in-law, her husband, her mother, and her sister.
I'm not mad to death, I can only say that Youshi is someone who can always hold it in.
But if she doesn't hold it in, what should she do? She's desperate.
She is a house filler and comes from a relatively low background.
The dowry will naturally not be large.
Jia Mu treated her like a slap in the face.
It’s okay if you don’t accept it, and you should keep holding it in if you don’t accept it.
Anyway, the You family started to dislike Second Sister You’s fiancé.
They are already embarking on a dangerous road. When they see the stepsister's life, they only see flowers blooming. They want to live a life of glory and wealth.
In their minds, they want to marry into a prince's palace like Youshi.
Youshi is a house filler, but she is also a royal wife.
There is a huge difference compared to marrying an ordinary person.
Youshi is also a poor person.
There are so many poor people in Dream of Red Mansions.
Sister Xie has finally come to her senses.
"Xiao Xiao, don't say it yet, if you don't say it."
"I have been scolding Liu Xianglian in my heart for being a thin lover."
"Still, why can't we give you Sanjie a chance to correct herself?"
"Now I feel that Sister You actually has a scumbag side."
Ling Xiao shrugged slightly after hearing this, it was really like this.
Sister Xie laughed haha at this moment.
She looked at Ling Xiao in surprise at this moment.
I never expected that this young teammate would think so much.
Seeing Sister Xie's expression, Ling Xiao remembered that he seemed to have said too much.
Today there are some characters that don’t quite match the original owner!
But now it's collapsed, it's too late.
Just pretend you didn't show up.
She looked at the cooking pot and said, "Thank you, sister."
"Tell everyone to prepare for dinner. It will be ready soon."
"Actually, those are all, not serious, life is not easy!"
Sister Xie said: "Okay! Xiao Xiao, after talking to you, I feel relieved."
Ling Xiao smiled, she knew very well that Sister Xie came to see her specially.
Ling Xiao was also troubled by this. She came to be a doctor, not to catch men.
But just after she resolutely rejected the rich man, she received a doctor from a foreign man who felt good about himself.