Because she has some incredible relatives. Her mother is still alive and she is a relatively favored eldest princess. The emperor is her cousin. As long as her husband’s family is not stupid enough to look like a pig, they will support her no matter what.
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In this case, her status in her husband's family will only be higher and not lower. It can be said that she can go sideways in her husband's family. Because of her relationship, as long as her husband does not seek death, she will definitely live a happy life as the head of the family.
, you must know that her mother-in-law, Princess Tao, has found a male mistress, and no one else dares to do anything to her.
Compared with her marriage to Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, this situation is completely different. It seems that she married lowly and will definitely not be as high-ranking as the queen. But those who know what happened to Gillian will only say that even if she is
So what if Jiaogui is the queen? As an unfavored and disrespected queen, she is just a replaceable puppet.
Just from Gillian's experience, we can see how important getting married was to women in ancient times. In fact, it was the same later. Getting married is like wearing shoes. Whether the shoes are comfortable or not does not depend on whether the shoes are good-looking or not.
But it depends on whether the shoes fit. Later people will say: Marrying is the second reincarnation of a woman, so it is not unimportant.
After arriving in this world, Ling Xiao deliberately read all the laws of this world and found that for a long time there was no such thing as a female household. If a woman wants to be independent, there is no household registration for her.
It also means that it was more difficult for women in ancient times to leave their husbands. First of all, there was no such thing as divorce.
Among them, the ancients had the so-called "Seven Outcomes", as recorded in "Book of Rites: Ben Ming Chapter": "There are seven outflows for women: disobedience to parents, go away; childlessness, go away; adultery, go away; jealousy, go away; and there are
Go away from bad diseases; go away from talkativeness; go away from theft."
Look, one of the Seven Rules states that a wife can be divorced if she has an incurable disease. When she saw this rule, Ling Xiao felt angry and wanted to beat her up and bring about the so-called Seven Rules.
The man who sets the terms.
Of course, it’s not all bad, for example, those among the seven: being unfilial to parents, being sexually promiscuous, wearing cuckolds on one’s husband one after another, and having problems such as stealing, etc. These are all examples of bad conduct.
No matter what, it's understandable to want to leave this kind of woman.
But there was one thing that Ling Xiao couldn't accept the most, and that was the one: If you have a serious disease, go. After seeing it, Ling Xiao just wanted to smile. Who can guarantee that he will not get sick? It's just a minor illness, and he will get better soon.
, but if you get seriously ill, you need the help and stability of your family.
This is a woman who needs the care of her family the most, but the result is that woman is abandoned. Even if she does this, not only is there no criticism, but everyone has always agreed with this clause.
This simply means not treating women as human beings, and simply standing in the man's position and interests. Of course, if the woman's backstage, that is, her mother's family, is tough, the man will not dare to give up easily.
In addition to the situation of divorce and abandonment, there are also cases where the man and woman feel that they have no common language with each other, so they can reconcile and divorce, which is a bit like a divorce by agreement. However, reconciliation usually requires the intervention of the mother's family. It depends on whether the mother's family is willing to accept the daughter.
In ancient times, without her natal family, a woman had no one to support her. If she wanted to live a good life, she had to look at the conscience of her husband's family. People's hearts are sometimes uncertain, and many people often don't have much conscience.
Some women who have no biological family are killed by their husband's family, and they die as soon as they die. If no one is held accountable, the dead person's death is in vain. They can marry another bride, and the first one dies of illness, accidental death, etc. reasonable reasons
Once the reason is stated, everything is over.
Things are so cruel. Ling Xiao doesn't want Eighteen Niang to end up in this situation, but as a friend, he still hopes that she will live well. Fortunately, An Geer's health is gradually improving, and at least he can support his sister.
In addition, as long as the Eighteenth Mother does not commit suicide, she should be able to live her own life well. A woman can fall in love with her husband, but she must also learn to love herself. The person who should treat her best in this world should be herself.
Never fall in love with a man and forget yourself completely like a moth to a flame. If it is that kind of crazy love, it is simply a terrible love and may make you humble. I hope Shiba Niang understands in her heart
: If you want to live well, you must first learn to love yourself.
After thinking about Eighteen Niang's affairs, Ling Xiao was still thinking about one thing: When will the original owner come back? The longer she stays in this world, the more likely it is that it will be more difficult for the original owner. Because she and she are the same.
Two completely different people must be different.
She is not the original owner, but she has to use the original owner's body to do a lot of things, and she has a very good relationship with Zhen Su. I wonder if the original owner will like Zhen Su? Hey! Thinking about it gives me a headache.
Whether the original owner likes Ba Niang or not is her personal choice. If the original owner doesn't like it, Ling Xiao can't just ignore Zhen Su. You must know that Ba Niang has been really good to her over the years.
So in order to prevent the original owner from not liking Zhencheng when he came back, Ling Xiao worked hard to make An Geer in good health and support his own sister when he grew up. It would not matter even if the Tao family no longer stood in Zhencheng.
An Geer's meeting with Zhen Su was justified. Ling Xiao felt a headache when she thought of this, because she didn't know the life trajectory of the original owner at all. In addition, when did the original owner die?
I hope that the Tao family and Shiba Niang will not go their separate ways. With Ling Xiao's feeling, she finds that the original owner is a very capable person. When she grows up, she should not be a person without any ability.
The only thing that gave Ling Xiao a headache was whether the original owner was married? Ahhhh! A headache! When she thought about this problem, she felt helpless. Naturally, she could not choose a husband for the original owner. She was afraid that it would delay the original owner's life and cause some trouble!
But if the original owner's return is delayed, maybe she returns at a much older age, it means that she will live alone all her life and will never get married. I wonder if the original owner will be happy when she finds out?
Ling Xiao suddenly had this idea, and after shaking his head a few times, this was for the good of the original owner. Anyway, Ling Xiao didn't know who the original owner married? Besides, if there was that man at this time, he would have already married a wife.
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But Ling Xiao still decided to wait for Zhen Su to get married and leave Shiba Niang to live his own life. This was to prevent Zhen Su from recognizing that the person inside had changed after the original owner came back.
As for the original owner's two brothers, they will get married and have children in a while. Naturally, they don't have much energy to care about the changes in their sister, so they can definitely separate. The more familiar relatives and friends are, the better to separate.
If there is too much difference between the original owner and Ling Xiaoda, then find an opportunity to leave them and live alone in a place for a period of time. After that, if there are some differences, it can be said that it is because you want to change, or at least fool it.
Alas! Ling Xiao recorded this idea separately and waited for the opportunity to do it again in the future. After traveling through these worlds, she could not guarantee that her thinking was exactly the same as that of the original owner. This was absolutely impossible.
After recalling the original owners in the previous world, I have to admit one thing: she and the original owner both have their own independent consciousness, and there is a big difference in their outlook on life.
After Ling Xiao considered it, he made a decision: from now on, he should keep a certain distance from Zhen Suan and not let her get too familiar with him, otherwise the original owner would be very likely to lose his vest when he comes back.
After the matter was decided, Ling Xiao began to prepare for the implementation of relevant measures. After thinking about it, her thoughts turned back to real life. After recognizing the faces of A Ying and Qing Luo, she thought about giving Sanlang and the others a reminder.
one time.
Because their opponents are too cruel, if they don't pay attention to it, they may be harmed. But on second thought, if she is here this time, it is better to let them fight, so that they will not be too arrogant, thinking
He is invincible.
In fact, behind many invincible stories there is another follow-up, which is often not so wonderful. Not many of the people involved in the story can live a good life in the end.
Take Bai Qi, the God of Death, for example. After she deceived Zhao Jun in the Battle of Changping, she directly had the surrendered soldiers buried alive. In the end, it is said that only a few hundred underage Zhao Jun soldiers survived.
It can be said that Bai Qi's reputation became even more powerful after this battle, but later when the King of Qin was about to attack Zhao again, he asked Bai Qi if he was sure to defeat the Zhao army again?
What he never expected was that Bai Qi was not optimistic about Qin's military operation to attack Zhao, and he did not want to be the commander-in-chief this time. He refused the appointment of King Qin.
Later, the Qin army and the Zhao army met. After the battle, the entire Qin army did not fight well. The King of Qin once again wanted to invite Bai Qi to come out. When Bai Qi found out, he did not agree with him leading the army. His appearance would only arouse the Zhao soldiers.
of anger.
But the King of Qin was very dissatisfied after hearing this. He felt that Bai Qi was unruly and did not know how to commend him. As the king, he invited Bai Qi several times. He felt that Bai Qi simply lost his courage and became a coward.
When the King of Qin asked Bai Qi for the third time to lead the soldiers to fight against Zhao, Bai Qi still didn't want to go. Unexpectedly, he was scolded by the King of Qin. As a minister, Bai Qi had to go to the front line to take over the Qin army, but he still didn't want to go.
Someone followed him, and eventually Bai Qi committed suicide and died.
I'm afraid that during the Battle of Changping, Bai Qi never imagined that he would end up in this situation and actually commit suicide. Unlike a real warrior, generals usually want to return to their bodies wrapped in horse leather instead of running to the battlefield and committing suicide.
When future generations mention Bai Qi, they will think of the Battle of Changping, saying that he is a generation of war god, but how many people will notice Bai Qi's final outcome? He is also a general with great military exploits, and the last sword he stabs is no one else.
, but himself.
If someone knew this period of history, they might think that it was normal for Bai Qi to be forced to commit suicide. After all, Bai Qi had killed so many people in the pit, and he would eventually get his retribution. Maybe so, maybe not.
But Ling Xiao didn't want to dwell on this. What she felt was that it was necessary for Sanlang Wulang and the others to accept setbacks. They had had setbacks before, but they were still teammates in the same camp, and some setbacks still had limited damage.
But Ah Ying is different. The people killed by Qingluo before were from the same camp. Since people from the same camp kill without mercy, will they be merciless against the experts from the other camp?
Later, Ling Xiao continued to observe and discovered a very important problem. This person who looked like a good girl and had the appearance of a boy and a girl - Ah Ying, had no moral values in his eyes.
In his eyes, there is no one else but himself. Everyone else is his tool. Naturally, there are no camps. In Ah Ying's heart, no one else is in his camp.
He is a camp himself, and his lackeys and idiot fans are just his tools in his eyes. If one day the tools get in his way, he will naturally kick them away.
This was the first time Ling Xiao had come into contact with this type of person. After knowing the situation, she had to keep an eye on the contact between Sanlang and his children and Ah Ying, to prevent someone from being killed if one mistake was made.
In this process, in addition to being on guard against Ah Ying, his tool men also had to be on certain precautions. Ling Xiao still clicked on them because sometimes it might be too late to save him.
Wulang and others also found that they cared too much about Ah Ying, which caused them to show emotions when looking at him, making him aware of their movements and then launched an attack.
In the process, they discovered that Ah Ying's driver was speeding suddenly, and a car overtook their convoy and threw them aside. What was going on? Is there something wrong? They made them think that the other party felt them.
Feeling defensive?
But Ling Xiao did not have this view. Ah Ying would not easily accept the possibility that she would fail. He must have gone to cause trouble. Fortunately, she had been vigilant and sent miniature puppets to track him.
Even Yuzhen was somewhat interested when she found out. She told Ling Xiao that she once met a person who looked very much like Ah Ying. This kind of person is very dangerous because he has no scruples and only does things based on his own preferences.
Ling Xiao nodded, this kind of person would not look for trouble unless he was dead. She wanted to see how the other party would plot against them. You must know that Ah Ying has teamed up with many robbers.
If there are some rational people, they probably won't do it, because it may lead to the pursuit of Yan and the imperial court, but if someone just does it for fun, it is really possible to do such a thing.
As for those guys who were favored by Ah Ying and turned into tools, maybe they themselves didn't know the danger at all, and they would follow suit. In the end, they should be hunted down.
Ling Xiao has no sympathy for those tool men at all. Most of the guys who fall into bandits should die. Some people become bandits in the first place but they are finally desperate.
They may be miserable, but when those people start killing and robbing innocent people at will, they are no longer human beings, but have transformed into real evil dragons, and they must be eliminated.
Don't talk about extenuating circumstances. Those who kill innocent people are heinous villains. There is nothing worthy of forgiveness at all. Then Ling Xiao said: No forgiveness is needed, what is needed is the fairness given by the law.
For example, how many times did their team encounter assassinations along the way? If one mistake is not made, many people will die on this road. According to Saburo's investigation, they will find that more bandit organizations are following.