Judging from the experiences of Yin Lihua and Xu Pingjun, the two unlucky first wives, it does not mean that a woman will be completely fine if she takes the position of the first wife, because sometimes that position is not very stable.
What the two of them have in common is that their natal families are not very powerful. Once something goes wrong, they cannot compete with the other party who wants to occupy their original position. The other party can completely overwhelm them.
The Yin family chose to give in and gave up the position that originally belonged to Yin Lihua to another party. After that, the first wife had to become a concubine and obey Guo Shengtong, and she continued to live like this.
The situation of Xu Pingjun's natal family was not as good as the power behind Yin Lihua. She was just the daughter of a guilty minister. How could she fight against the powerful Huo family? Xu Pingjun could only think that they had a weak relationship and had to give in, but in the end she became the queen.
Yin Lihua and Xu Pingjun were two first wives. One became a concubine, and the other refused to give in and became a queen. This was not a choice made by either of them, but a choice made by their husbands.
Of course, judging from the consequences, Yin Lihua finally won the final victory and became the empress and empress dowager. Her son became the second emperor of the Eastern Han Dynasty, and Guo Shengtong became only the empress dowager.
Xu Pingjun, on the other hand, died early and only stayed with her husband for a few years. It seemed that she failed in the end. Because she died too early and was poisoned by the female official around her. After her death, she could not even take revenge. Instead, Huo Pingjun died.
The daughter of the family became the second queen.
But to put it bluntly, maybe it was because of her early death that the emperor always remembered her. The shortcomings of a person after death are often ignored, and the whole person is constantly beautified in the memory.
Judging from the results of the two different responses of Yin Lihua and Xu Pingjun, it is better for Yin Lihua to give in, which makes people feel that Xu Pingjun should take a step back like Yin Lihua.
But it is different. You must know that Guo Shengtong has always been a very virtuous woman in history, and she is generally not harsh to Yin Lihua. But Xu Pingjun's incident is different. Huo Guang's wife is not a fuel-efficient lamp. This kind of disagreement will not harm the queen.
Is the person who was poisoned to death a good person?
From this point, we can see why women in ancient times cared so much about their natal family, because there are facts telling them that their natal family is not able to support them, and the main wife becomes a concubine. The problem is that most people don't know what to say.
The Eighteenth Mother does not have much help from her natal family. Her biological parents died early, her grandmother has also passed away, and her only closest relative, An Geer, is still a child. If something happens to snatch the throne of the princess, what will happen?
What will be the outcome?
Ling Xiao had to make plans early because Shiba Niang had been very friendly to the Tao family over the years, which saved the Tao family from many things. She hoped that Zhen Su could have a relatively stable life.
Rather than bothering Baal to plant the peaches, someone came directly to pick them. This was also the reason why she wanted to leave Prince Yan's Mansion. The Eighteenth Niang needed support from outsiders, and staying in Prince Yan's Mansion was like being in a cage.
In addition, the sons taught by the Tao family must also have their own futures. What she can make clear is that they must follow their own path, so that they can live up to the skills they have acquired through years of hard study.
She told Shiba Niang about this a few days ago, which made Zhen suddenly a little disappointed. She thought that Ling Xiao would follow her to Prince Yan's Mansion. Ling Xiao shook his head and said no more, and did not explain more.
After hearing Ling Xiao's words, Wulang laughed, and his whole body relaxed suddenly. His sister still remembered that she was their sister, and he thought she wanted to stand by Shiba Niang's side all the time.
After living together for these years, he was familiar with Shiba Niang and had a good impression of her, but he had his own ideas. As a man, he did not want to rely on nepotism to get promoted.
In addition, he knew that Ajie had given up a lot for the two brothers, so he did not want Ajie to become a female official for their brothers, even if it was a female official next to the Crown Princess, because a high official position would kill anyone.
As the imperial concubine, the Eighteenth Niang will have many things to do, so the female official next to her must have many things to do. Maybe she is a gun-blocker. He does not want his sister to fall into Prince Yan's palace.
Anyway, the eldest princess left a lot of manpower for the Eighteenth Niang, enough for the Eighteenth Niang, and of course his sister lived her own life. He and Sanlang both swore to let her live the life she wanted.
This time, Wulang was very happy after hearing what Ajie meant. He laughed and relaxed all of a sudden. Having Ajie there made him feel like he was still a child.
After seeing this, Ling Xiao felt that the smart and capable Wu Lang suddenly became stupid, and said: "Wu Lang, just do whatever you want, and don't hurt others easily. But if someone wants to make trouble, don't be polite."
Wulang smiled and said, "Okay! During this period of time, Third Brother and I will see more of the Crown Prince Yan, and talk more to his people to see how he is doing. Let Shiba Niang know what he is doing."
After confirming that his sister would no longer work as a horse for Shiba Niang, Wulang began to think about how to make Zhen Sui's life live well. In his opinion, as long as Zhen Su could live a good life, his sister would not worry.
Soon, her little life will be better, Wulang still knows this.
Ling Xiao smiled after hearing this. She felt that her skills in raising children were pretty good. Seeing that both Sanlang and Wulang were good children, Sanlang was a more stable child and was suitable for maintaining a good life, while Wulang preferred to use his brain.
Of course, Ling Xiao knew that the two of them were still a bit immature. After all, if you haven't experienced some things before, you would know that things would develop differently, but Ling Xiao decided not to point it out and just watched.
Only if they have suffered losses and been fooled will their memories be profound, and all of this is under her control. In addition, she is a little strange. On the one hand, some people are angry that Ling Xiao controls the power of the guards, and on the other hand, they despise it.
She is a woman, what’s wrong with being a woman? What’s the logic of this?
After Ling Xiao discovered that he could use his spiritual consciousness, he quickly realized that those impure-minded guys were cursing him, but generally, Ling Xiao didn't care, and those who wanted to frame others would just find an opportunity to kick them out.
Ling Xiao was always worried when dealing with these matters, and she began to work hard to adapt to the identity of the Crown Princess. After all, she might become the highest leader in Yan land. Who made the loss rate of the men in Prince Yan's palace too high? Several times
Only orphans and widows were left in Prince Yan's Mansion.
If Zhen Suo had to be prepared, she would face whatever might come. This is her path, and no one else can take her place. Zhen Suo knew this very well.
What could Zhenzhuo say after finding out? She could only grit her teeth and persevere. Of course, she was attracted by the ability of the Tao family, especially the children raised by Ling Xiao. They were basically the kind who were both civil and military.
Ling Xiao smiled when she found out and didn't say much. She just asked Zhen Su to pay attention to the situation because she found that the children who grew up with her also had their own ideas.
Ling Xiao didn't want to interfere with their choices. Everyone had their own way to go, and this required them to make their own choices. If anything happened, it had nothing to do with Ling Xiao.
In the past, there was chaos in the capital, so they had been kept in the village without going out, but I didn't expect that there was another interpretation. After reading the relevant interpretations, I only had a rather ridiculous feeling.
Ling Xiao didn't want to correct anything about this, because sometimes the more he corrected, the more people doubted him, so let's leave it like that for now, they can have their own future.
While their siblings were talking, Zhen Suan was also asking the people around him to start training, because he knew that Ling Xiao could not always follow her as a female official, and even planned to send her to Prince Yan's Mansion.
She knew that Ling Xiao had always been the kind of person who didn't like to be restrained very much. Even though she was a female official, she rarely interfered in her private affairs. She mostly let Ba Niang learn how to do things and how to discern people's hearts.
The Eighteenth Niang was very grateful to Ling Xiao, precisely because she had no intention of intervening in Zhen Su's life. The Eighteenth Niang had many loyal servants around her, and she would not worry about having no manpower even if she entered Prince Yan's Mansion.
It was precisely because of her arrival that Zhen suddenly broadened her horizons and realized that there were plains, mountains, deserts, rivers, and oceans in this world. She realized that the world was very big.
It also made her understand that there are too many alternatives in this world. Every adult has to bear the burden of life to some extent, and in order to survive, they cannot stop and have to shoulder the heavy burden for themselves and their children.
Descendants seek a way to survive.
Zhenzhen actually wanted Ling Xiao to stay, because with her here, she would feel much more at ease. Having sister Tao around for so many years has made her live a good life, and she wants to be with her sister.
But in the end, she did not say anything about her thoughts, because Wu Lang of the Tao family had already told her that she had worked hard for so many years, so she should let my sister rest. She was originally a noble daughter of a noble family, and he would not agree with her surrounding her.
Suddenly.
He only wanted to let his sister live a good life and not waste too much time on it. She had the right to enjoy her own life. The previous sister had always lived for them, but she had not lived for herself.
In addition, my sister has been training everyone's abilities in various aspects. She should want to live a relaxed life instead of always checking and filling in the gaps for people like them. Please use your brain more, live well, and grow up.
Eighteen Niang naturally felt it, as if Ling Xiao had some plans and didn't want to be with them forever. In fact, Ling Xiao wanted to wait for the original owner to come back and then stay in a different place to prevent the original owner from being too different from Ling Xiao.
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Ling Xiao hopes that Zhen Su will continue to improve, because no one is as capable as herself. Ling Xiao tells her: The mountains that support you can fall, and the water that relies on you can be broken. You can only rely on your own efforts to learn skills.
Moreover, it is said that Ba Niang has been studying with me for several years and it is time to become a teacher. There are some things that can only be made great progress by experiencing them in real life. This is an issue that requires special attention.
After Ling Xiao's explanation, Zhen Suan thought about it and understood that she had to work hard. It was up to her to be able to stand firm in Yandi. No one could help her all her life, just like the maids around her. When she was old enough,
Now, we should let them go out to get married.
Although it is possible that the people around her will not want to get married and choose not to marry for life, but most people will get married and have children, and their lives will have a new beginning, so they must be mentally prepared for this.
And Ling Xiao once told her: "On the road of life, many people may only walk with you for a while. When the time comes, they will separate. Everyone has their own personal trajectory. When you are lucky enough to be able to walk together, take good care of yourself.
Just get along well.”
Zhen suddenly felt a little sad after hearing this. She had to say that Ling Xiao was right. She could even think of it: Brother An would have to separate from her when he grew up. He had his own way to go, and one day he would have her.
My own little family will become further and further away from her sister.
Although she had known this would happen, she still felt sincere sadness in her heart. Although she had not yet become a mother, she had to experience the mentality of being a mother early and felt that her brother had been taken away.
But looking at it from another angle, she also snatched away her husband, allowing her to have her own little family? After thinking of this, Zhen suddenly felt a little funny. I see. If this is the case, why would An Geer be sad when he gets married when he grows up?
?It’s great that he has one more person who loves him! But he finally accepted this reality.
After being pointed out by Ling Xiao, Zhen suddenly felt a little frustrated. She found that she had gotten into a corner. Fortunately, Ling Xiao had told her some ideas before, which made her feel much better.
In addition, she finally understood why Ling Xiao wanted to leave them, because she found that after following Ling Xiao, she didn't need to think for herself at all, so there was no possibility of progress.
After thinking about this, she was very grateful to Ling Xiao and tried hard to use her brain to prove that she was capable. Ling Xiao was very satisfied after seeing it, and even if she found some mistakes, she was not depressed.
The group of them stayed in this place for a while because of the snow and the wounded. Fortunately, Ah Ying had stored a lot of food, firewood, and even fodder because this place was his base camp.
The group of people in Prince Yan's Mansion were also very tired, and it was just time to adjust their lives. Wulang and Sanlang would also take time to visit, and Prince Yan naturally received them happily.
During the process, Wulang made some insinuations and found out what the prince was planning, which was not bad! If the Eighteenth Niang seizes the opportunity, she will get a good husband, and the military advisor will know after seeing Wulang that this is a man who has not yet become a master.
As a little fox, Saburo is much more honest and honest than his brothers.
He later told the prince, "Hahaha! This time the emperor suffered a loss of blood. If he knew that the people he sent had such outstanding talents, he would almost vomit blood. The Tao family is not easy to mess with, and we must build a good relationship."
He also saw that the best people here should come from the Tao family's children. What he didn't expect was that the Tao family was so far-sighted that they would want to survive in Yan. In fact, the military advisor was very surprised when he learned about the situation.
It was important to know that everyone in the Tao family was literate, even those who planned to farm for a living. This discovery made him feel what kind of Tao family they were.