King Yan, who was still very young, blushed all of a sudden. She felt ashamed after hearing what her uncle said. He naturally knew how unreasonable his thoughts were, but he still felt from the bottom of his heart that his wife cared too much about his brother.
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Fortunately, my uncle is the kind of person who is well-informed. He did not start to be afraid because his brother-in-law was a prince, nor did he become furious after hearing the news. He smiled slightly.
I took my brother-in-law to a quiet place and planned to have a good talk. After pondering for a while, my uncle said that he planned to become an official somewhere else and would leave Yandu for a while so that they could live a good life together. In addition, he
I will never file a complaint against Princess Yan for this matter.
King Yan was stunned after hearing this. He was just jealous that his wife often thought about her uncle, and he, the husband, was put in the back, which made him feel uncomfortable. Isn't it always said that a woman should regard her husband as her heaven after marriage?
? But from the bottom of his heart, he didn't want to drive away his uncle. If his wife knew about it, she would probably explode.
The uncle laughed loudly after hearing this. He looked at King Yan and saw that he was still very young, so he did things so impulsively. But when every man is impulsive, it means that King Yan is still young.
As an elder brother-in-law, he naturally has to be considerate of his brother-in-law. Speaking of which, he is twenty years older than his sister. Raising his sister is like raising his own daughter. He also teaches a lot of things that men learn. His sister is very smart.
He can learn better than ordinary men.
This is also the reason why he had to marry his sister into the palace even though he knew that Prince Yan might not live long. Other families would not be able to use his sister's abilities, but Prince Yan's palace could let her use her talents anyway.
The men in Yandi lived less, and most of them died on the battlefield. In this case, he felt that the palace was more suitable for his sister, and after some manipulation, his sister married in.
When he heard that his status in his sister's heart was higher than that of King Yan, he felt a little proud, but as a very thoughtful person, he quickly understood that this situation was not good for his sister.
As a man, I understand one thing very well: if a husband is not as good as other men in the eyes of his wife, this will cause a lot of damage to the relationship between the couple. This is a taboo, even if he is his wife's brother, this
My sister did something wrong.
He wanted his sister to live a good life, so he couldn't hold her back, so he would give in. After all, the person who will spend the rest of his life with his sister is not his brother, who is twenty years older than his sister, nor his sister.
Children, each of them will leave their parents like little birds. With their own family, the only person who can accompany their sister for the rest of her life is her brother-in-law.
He saw this very clearly, and naturally he would not be the same as his jealous brother-in-law. He hoped that the man would always be like this. This meant that everything about his sister would deeply attract King Yan, and they had the potential to become a loving couple.
He was naturally happy for his sister, so he had no intention of getting between her and his brother-in-law. Anyway, the relationship between him and his sister would not change at all. They would always be brother and sister.
It's good to have one more person to love and protect my sister. As someone who has been living in a border town, he always knows how fragile life is. He himself doesn't know when he will die, so let his sister have more people who love her, just in case.
If he is gone, my sister will live well.
With this kind of thinking, the uncle didn't care about the fact that King Yan was jealous of him, and he still treated King Yan very peacefully. However, after speaking freely this time, the friendship between the uncle and the uncle became a little bit stronger.
Originally, King Yan thought that his uncle was just saying that, but he never thought that he would actually leave Yandu and live somewhere else. He said that he wanted to see a different kind of scenery. This was a reason that the princess simply could not refuse.
After leaving, the elder brother-in-law wrote a lot of letters to his sister, instigating her sister to learn to treat her husband well. This greatly promoted the emotional communication between King Yan and his wife, and made King Yan feel very grateful to his uncle-in-law. He originally thought that
Let my uncle come back in a few years.
She never thought that her uncle would die in the hands of foreigners, which made Concubine Yan hate the foreigners and fully supported King Yan in attacking the foreigners. She even used too much energy to deal with the foreigners, and eventually died early.
King Yan didn't know what to say. In fact, he later realized that he had asked for too much. It was normal for his wife to miss her brother. As time went by and she had children, she would not have so much energy to keep busy.
Thinking about my brother.
But at that time, he was still a young man, and his mind was not very mature. Naturally, he was not very reliable in his work, so he did the stupid thing of coming to talk to his uncle, which made him feel a little sorry for his deceased uncle.
After the death of his wife, the King of Yan did not think about remarrying. His heart was taken away by his wife. The reason why he is still alive is because he remembers his responsibility. He is the King of Yan and wants to maintain the peace of Yan.
In addition, after his wife passed away, their children were still young. Princess Yan sacrificed her own life to get them. He wanted to watch them grow up for his wife, and also watched them marry and have children one by one. In the future, he would say to his wife
Speaking of circumstances, this is the driving force for King Yan to survive.
When his son He Hui encountered the same problem, King Yan quickly discovered it. He felt sympathy for his son in his heart. This child was even more ignorant than himself. After all, the object of his jealousy was a woman.
If these things are not resolved, he may continue to be jealous in the future. Seeing his son at a loss, King Yan wanted to laugh, but his son's inner obstacle was still not lifted, and King Yan thought that nothing had happened.
He Hui was a little helpless. He himself knew that something was wrong, but if he told it, it would make people laugh. Until now, he could only keep it to himself, not telling anyone anything, especially since his wife couldn't know about it.
King Yan was a little helpless after hearing his son's words. He had experienced his son's mentality before, because the people they were jealous of were all outstanding people. For example, even if he was jealous, he knew that his uncle was really a very good person.
There are too many people who cannot match the charm of a person.
Even King Yan had to admit that the reason why Princess Yan was so outstanding was all due to the contribution of her elder brother-in-law. After the death of her parents, her elder brother-in-law took on the responsibility, became both father and mother, and raised his younger sister.
King Yan couldn't deny this from the beginning, but as a husband, he still felt dissatisfied. Why did his wife care more about his uncle? That made him give in and leave Yandu.
When he later found out that his uncle died just to keep them apart as a couple, this incident always made him feel very guilty. Sometimes he thought to himself: It would be nice if he was not jealous, but what could he say?
It's too late.
He didn't tell his wife about this, for fear that she would settle the score with him if she found out. He was not stupid at all. If his wife found out about this situation, he would only say that he was petty. King Yan often recalled his uncle's actions in his heart.
A move.
Later, after his wife passed away, King Yan would often think of everything that had happened and regret it a little, but he had to say that it was all fate. He, the King of Yan, was still alive, but his wife died.
After going through these things, he was not clear about other issues between husband and wife, but he had a lot of experience with the fact that a husband is not as good as another person in his wife's heart.
Especially when he saw his eldest son like this, who had been a bachelor for many years, and finally got a young wife, King Yan could feel his son's feelings, and it suddenly felt like the old house was on fire and there was no way to save it.
In terms of the relationship between son and daughter-in-law, the son naturally has to pay more, and the daughter-in-law has more people to worry about. In addition to his own brother, there is also someone who has been accompanying the daughter-in-law when she grew up. The son is very fond of his brother-in-law.
It's better. To put it bluntly, my son is old enough to be his brother-in-law's father, so their relationship is pretty good.
But for the Tao family lady, he could feel his son's depression, because his daughter-in-law often mentioned the Tao family lady, fearing that she would have her mark on every aspect of their married life. This feeling made his son feel very difficult.
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King Yan had always been a bystander and knew that the love rival in his son's mind was his daughter-in-law's best friend, just like how he felt about his uncle at the beginning. King Yan didn't know what to say. How could this happen?
He specifically investigated the Tao family's eldest lady. They had already conducted investigations before, but before, they mainly focused on the Eighteenth Niang. They felt that the Tao family's eldest lady was very capable, but in fact they didn't care too much.
King Yan carefully investigated this time and felt that this person was quite good. According to the information, this best friend was the daughter-in-law's senior sister. He suspected that the later daughter-in-law was actually a student of the eldest lady of the Tao family. She was called a sister, but she was actually a teacher.
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It’s no wonder that after the Eighteenth Niang married into the palace, the eldest wife of the Tao family didn’t stay in the Yan Palace at all. And it’s very likely that the person who made this daughter-in-law particularly capable was her best friend. No wonder the daughter-in-law did a lot for her best friend.
What happened was that the friendship between them was quite deep. King Yan could not blame his daughter-in-law for thinking about his senior sister very much.
If the daughter-in-law doesn't care at all about the Tao family lady who is kind to her, then King Yan will feel terrible because this daughter-in-law has no human feelings at all. This is the situation that needs attention. King Yan would rather his daughter-in-law care about her former friends, like this
He is a human being, not an emotionless machine.
After King Yan figured it out, he naturally wanted to understand his son, so that his son, who had always felt a lack of emotion, was very immature when it came to dealing with relationships, and did not go the right way when getting along with his wife, which might lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the couple.
People on the battlefield are a big no-no.
The men in his family are generally not tempted, but if they are tempted, it will be a lifelong matter. He hopes that his son will have a good life. In the past, the couple had a wise uncle to mediate, but now the son needs him to do this.
Father's man comes forward.
"Although the Eighteenth Mother is a woman, she is quite capable. You must learn to respect your wife. In fact, it would be very troublesome if she didn't care about the Tao family's wife at all, because she is impersonal." King Yan said.
The prince opposite looked at his father in surprise. In his eyes, his father had always been a person who was not very good at saying nice things. At this moment, he had some doubts that this was not his father. He actually wanted to give him the job of being a son.
What ideological work?
But this was indeed his father, and He Hui still recognized it. At this moment, King Yan saw his son's suspicious look, which made him look unhappy, and he wanted to beat his son, this naughty boy!
He is also doing it for his son! But this scene also shows that his son is really living in reality, which is great! If his wife knew, she would be very happy. Her son will grow up and love his wife.
He suddenly wanted to talk about his wife. Later, after getting along, the couple lived very happily and talked about what they had said to each other. This was also a warning to his son not to let him go his own way.
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He always remembered that before his wife passed away, she asked him to pay more attention to her eldest son. She did not want her son to be an aloof person, but to live a real life with his own joys, sorrows and joys.
King Yan still remembered this sentence, and finally waited until his son became jealous. Hahaha! If his wife knew about it, she would be very happy. It turns out that this son is a child with too straight ideas.
King Yan laughed when he thought of this. The prince opposite him once again felt that there was something wrong with his own father, and he suddenly laughed. He was just thinking about whether to invite the military doctor from the palace.
King Yan came back to his senses and said slowly: "Your mother was raised by your uncle, and he introduced her to me when she grew up. She was really young and very beautiful at that time.
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When he said this, King Yan showed a nostalgic look on his face, which made the prince stare with wide eyes. What did his biological father mean by this? His father had never talked about these things, and all this made He Hui feel a little confused.
King Yan was so angry when he saw his son's expression that he lightly kicked his son. Why was this naughty boy so expressionless even when listening to gossip? When he saw his face, he was so angry that his father was so angry.
Make a play.
After he kicked his son, he said: "Later, after your mother got married, she thought about your uncle every day, which made me so angry." At this moment, he seemed to see the very reckless version of himself.
At this moment, King Yan wanted their son to understand the way husband and wife get along, so he told his eldest son the most private part of his heart, because the two were somewhat similar.
The prince stared with wide eyes. At this moment, he didn't believe that this was his father. Wasn't he dizzy? His father had always shown great respect for his uncle. Why did he feel that his current father was very respectful to his uncle?
Opinion, what is going on?
King Yan saw through his son's thoughts and said, "Yes, I respect your uncle very much. He is quite talented and a very smart person, but that doesn't mean I have no objections to him."
After hearing this, the prince didn't believe what he heard. What? He respected his uncle, but he still had many opinions. What did this mean? At this moment, he didn't understand what his father said and what it meant.
King Yan wiped his face with his big hand and said, "That's right! Didn't I just say that? Your mother cares more about your uncle, making me, a husband, feel ignored."