You must know that the heroine, the cheating man’s wife, stays at home every day, which is responsible for doing housework and shopping. She was once a city beauty and a rookie in the workplace. After many years of being a mother and raising children, she has transformed into an out-and-out
housewife.
Even though the heroine has more household expenses due to her husband, she still pays more attention to dressing up and buys luxury goods from time to time, such as clothes and cosmetics. She definitely looks much more beautiful than the original heroine.
But in the eyes of the cheating man, his wife has not worked for many years and is completely out of touch with the social environment. He doesn’t know anything about hot topics when talking to her, and he feels too boring when talking to her.
And now that the woman who has a common language with him is so good at talking, he will find that this is his confidante. She speaks very kindly and speaks to the point, making him feel her caring every time.
Then he discovered that every time he encountered problems at work, he would get the most suitable help from his female colleague. In the workplace, he was a two-pronged sword, invincible. Although she was a divorced woman, she was his best confidant, making him
He became increasingly inseparable from her, which gave him a new feeling and made his blood boil.
As for my wife, the once smart and beautiful woman has undergone great changes in the grave of marriage. Compared with her confidante, all the topics she talks about gradually become boring.
When he is with her, he only talks about children, children, and some things about clothes, shoes and hats. He is not interested in these at all, but his wife has no other topics except these. In his opinion, she has turned into a yellow-faced woman.
.Ouch! It will also cost money. You must know that these will cost a lot of money.
When he disliked his wife, he completely forgot that this road was the one he had originally drawn for his wife. It was he who said that the child was still young and someone needed to sacrifice his or her career to take care of the child. The child would always need the support of the elders along the way.
Accompanying, then the mother's accompanying will definitely make the child live a good life.
The wife heard that it made sense, but she was also a little worried. After all, if she left like this, everything she had put in before would be in vain. The time after returning to the family was too long, and she might fall behind and become a housewife.
In the eyes of many people, the contributions of housewives are not recognized.
But he said that his wife was not as worried about work as he was also responsible for his son. It was a great achievement for his wife to take good care of her son. The heroine concentrated on being a housewife at home, but the white moonlight gradually turned into white rice grains, and the ordinary and trivial life wore away her former love.
Glorious, in the eyes of cheating men, she becomes a yellow-faced woman who is gradually becoming vulgar.
When he met a like-minded female colleague, after comparison, he felt that his wife did not know anything, was of no help to him at all, and had no common language. He no longer loved her because she was no longer the same person she once was.
The woman he fell in love with.
Since he no longer loves her, there is no need to maintain this marriage. He confessed to his wife that he had cheated on her mentally. He fell in love with his female colleague and asked for a divorce. Because marriage is the result of the union of two people who love each other.
Just like this, a yellow-faced housewife who had been completely disconnected from work for eight or nine years ended a marriage for which she had sacrificed everything. In the eyes of her ex-husband, she was a woman with no characteristics, so she naturally had no pity.
Everything she did to save the marriage was hysterical in the eyes of the cheating man, making him even more eager to get rid of this woman. This woman really has no female self-esteem at all, and the ridiculous marriage must end, and he even doubts whether
Let the son meet his biological mother.
In fact, this is the scariest point. Because there is no financial foundation, the woman will be at a disadvantage in the fight for child custody. Because as a housewife, there are no channels for promotion and no salary as compensation, so she will naturally not have any opportunities after divorce.
If the man provides household income, the woman will be completely defeated.
In order to protect the interests of the children and ensure that they have a house to live in, clothes to wear, food to eat, and sufficient education funds when they grow up, the custody of the children will be biased towards the party with financial strength.
The heroine is a housewife and cannot get custody of her children at all. In fact, after the divorce, she doesn't care about the custody of her children at all. She has to figure out how to live. No job means no salary, that is,
If she can't survive, then she has to be driven into the workplace.
But the heroine, who has been away from society for many years, found a problem after looking for a job: she is at a disadvantage in the workplace, and basically no promising jobs will hire her. She is an older person who has nothing.
All she can do is buy strength.
This had to remind her of the job she had before having children. If she had persisted in doing it, she would have reached the middle level, right? Instead of like now, hey! There was a good job in front of her, but she didn't.
Cherish it and listen to your husband’s words and go home to take care of the children. Alas! The heroine regrets it in her heart.
While regretting in her heart, the heroine also knows that as long as she loves her child, she will leave her job and go home to take care of her child, because she has no choice. She gave birth to the child. If she doesn't love her child? Who will?
It is particularly difficult to raise children, especially boys. They have to go to the hospital almost once a month. They have high fevers and need injections and medicines. They cost thousands of yuan a month in medicines. They gradually get better after they go to elementary school. They are not very good.
Love is sick.
Only then would she have time to go to work. The heroine was even more miserable. The cheating man who was pursuing love dumped her unceremoniously. After the divorce, she still started to look for a job, but she found that she had been abandoned by society.
Because job hunting there requires experience, and she is not the kind of student who has just graduated. It is normal for her to say she has no experience. Who would use her if she is a lot older and has no work experience? Don’t talk about her previous work experience, but know her job.
The experience span is too long, which is equivalent to none. In other words, she needs work experience but not work experience, needs connections but not connections, and is too old, so she has no advantage at all in finding a job.
There is no shortage of people these days. There are a lot of young people competing for a job, and there are not a few older ones. The heroine is very frightened. Everything makes her feel cruel. Fortunately, there is a good person.
Best friends are just barely able to maintain a foothold in society.
After a lot of struggle, the heroine, who was originally a consumer of luxury goods, became a salesperson selling luxury goods. This change and gap in identity was too big, but the heroine still persisted.
Thinking back to this, Ling Xiao's heart became heavy. Will the heroine's experience happen to the original owner? It's really hard to say. Ling Xiao checked the original owner's memory and found that the original owner had forgotten almost everything he had learned.
If everything is returned to the teacher, it means that you don’t have the ability to eat anymore.
Based on this calculation, although the original owner is not very old and does not have any work experience, the only work experience is mainly fishing. After all, we cannot treat a pregnant woman too harshly, so she has no work experience.
When Ling Xiao recalled this, he felt that the original owner was too silly. According to the original owner's memory, the original owner's husband Zhang Xiaotian was a few years older than the original owner. He was a very smart person. After skipping a grade, he happened to join a large company after graduating with a doctorate.
If you have the ability, you will have the confidence to let the original owner resign and take care of the children.
According to the memory of the original owner, this person later changed jobs and received a higher salary, so that the original owner could not go to work without affecting the quality of life. When he saw this, Ling Xiao had a bad premonition. There is a good saying: Men have
The money will go bad, so what will happen to the original owner’s husband?
This makes people feel doubtful. You must know that the time the couple has been together is too short, their feelings have gradually stopped communicating, and there are too many temptations that will make him sink. So what should the original owner do?
Ling Xiao still had a strange feeling after looking through the memory of the original owner. In fact, the original owner in his early years was the kind of person who liked to study. He did not plan to get married so early at first. Later, he was moved by her husband's sweet words and did not continue his studies.
Postgraduate entrance examination, but work.
The original owner didn't like people who dressed up very much. What she loved was neatness, as long as it fit well and she could wear a piece of clothing for several years, so she basically had no impression of the brand of the clothes. Ling Xiao couldn't help but think of it.
That pajamas sold on the street stall, I found that if the original owner liked to dress up, he would never be able to stand it.
Of course, there is another reason why the original owner is so simple. She belongs to a family with an average background. Although she can guarantee food and clothing after the reform and opening up, she is definitely not the kind of rich person, and her family has not bought a car yet.
.
The original owner also had a twin brother in her natal family. When she went to college, she mainly relied on the school's bonus for tuition. Because her family could not subsidize a lot of money for her to go to college, the original owner never liked spending money randomly.
Even though Zhang Xiaotian's salary is getting higher and higher, the original owner has not developed the habit of spending money like water. She has always been more concerned about food and drink in life, and not so much about what she wears.
But after Ling Xiao collected some of the ties, shirts and other clothes and watches left by Zhang Xiaotian, he realized something was wrong. Ling Xiao even searched for some photos and found that the things Zhang Xiaotian was wearing were all valuable.
Of course, she was still not sure. The reason why she had some doubts was because Ling Xiao didn't care much about luxury goods and didn't have much memory of luxury brands, so she doubted whether she had made a mistake?
Forgive Ling Xiao for traveling through several lives but not allowing her to develop such a spendthrift temperament. After traveling through several worlds, she has no interest in designer clothes, so naturally she has no interest in studying related knowledge.
But she has met many wealthy people in the world she has traveled through, and even as a bodyguard, she knows more or less about her employer's preferences. Or in order to judge the relevant situation, she still knows more about so-called luxury goods.
I pay less attention to the brands of clothing that men like, but I still have a trained eye. I can tell at a glance that the clothes Zhang Xiaotian is wearing are all brand-name goods, at least they are mass luxury goods.
Ling Xiao made a judgment. If everything Zhang Xiaotian wore was not a fake (according to Ling Xiao's intuition, it was genuine), but real, it meant that he had a certain amount of money, but he had not yet found someone to customize it.
The level of clothes.
It is certain that he is really rich, much richer than ordinary people, but he doesn't know that he can be on the wealth list? Ling Xiao once again searched the memory of the original owner and found that he did not tell the original owner what his current occupation was. This was intentional.
?
Or did the original owner not ask, so he didn't plan to tell? All this is so confusing, but fortunately she still knows his mobile phone number. Otherwise, Ling Xiao would have thought that the original owner married a fake person, but she felt from the bottom of her heart that the original owner had married a fake person.
The risk is very high. You must know that the gap between her and him is too big now.
If you take a closer look, you will find that the original owner is a housewife who has accomplished nothing. She doesn’t like to dress up. She likes to wear street clothes and is not even a vase. What’s even more frightening is that she finds that she has gradually forgotten the knowledge she has learned. If this situation is revealed,
I'm afraid not many people will like the original owner,
The other party to the marriage, Zhang Xiaotian, is completely different. Judging from the memory of the original owner, his situation is completely opposite to that of the original owner. He is a man that everyone likes and pays attention to his dressing.
Not only does that person have a high degree of education, he can read, and his IQ is not low, he is also very good after working and has a high emotional intelligence. Although the original owner does not know how he works, it can be seen that he makes a lot of money because of it.
It can be seen from the clothes he wears that this man is more particular about his clothes and even spends a lot of money to buy clothes. Every move he makes has the characteristics of a nouveau riche. Fortunately, the temperament of learning outweighs the temperament of the nouveau riche.
The original owner was not particular about clothes. She would rather save her money than spend a lot of money to buy brand-name clothes. She basically only wears them for one season. It is said that the new clothes of brand-name clothes in spring should be worn in autumn.
If she wears it, she will be ridiculed by people who care about her. So wouldn’t she be laughed at even more if she wears the clothes for many years?
After understanding the situation of designer clothes, she had no intention of becoming a famous lady, nor did she want to be good at dancing. Even after Zhang Xiaotian told her to dress up, the original owner still went her own way.
Probably the original owner didn't have this problem at all. Even though she found that the distance between herself and her husband was increasing step by step, she didn't want to change her lifestyle. She was disgusted with so-called famous brands and felt they were too luxurious.
The original owner felt something was wrong with Zhang Xiaotian, but because she had to take care of two children, she did not want to pursue it to the end. Although twins looked nice, in fact, taking care of them was too tiring, even more tiring than having one child.
This is also the reason why the original owner has been neglecting her major. If the two children are sick, they have to be born together, which makes her life very tired every time. She only has two children, and she has no time to care about them.
major.
After seeing this, Ling Xiao felt tired for the original owner. No one helped her. Every time her children got sick, she had to take her two children to the hospital. Ling Xiao decided to wait and cheat so that the children would not get sick every month, otherwise the children would
After recovering from his illness, the adults almost lay down.
In fact, the original owner's body was in trouble! She looked fat and not very healthy. She had been thinking about what to do since she came through the new age. Now she breathed a sigh of relief after discovering the problem.
If they were a loving couple in the original owner's memory, then it would definitely be troublesome. If a loving couple was separated because of Ling Xiao's time travel, it would be tantamount to committing an evil act, and she would naturally feel very uncomfortable.
But if the marriage between two people goes sour, it will naturally be different. It can be seen that the original owner is gentle, but also very stubborn. Once he makes up his mind, he will go all the way to the end.