At this time, those people will dig deeper, and maybe they will find that the husband of the original owner is quite rich and there is no need for the woman to go out to work. Then the original owner will once again be criticized a lot. After all, who knows who on the Internet?
Many people will vent out the anger they have accumulated due to unfavorable situations in their lives.
Only when they see others living a bad life can they feel that they are living a good life. If everyone was living a better life than them, they would not be able to bear it for a long time. As everyone is a moral role model, netizens speak eloquently.
It is said that the original owner insisted on going to work and working outside after having a child. She was just eating enough to support herself. Is it necessary to give up her children for work? She gave birth to these children by herself. The children are so miserable. She has a child who does not love her.
Mother.
Just because a mother doesn’t want to lose her job and abandons her children, is the job more important or the children? Does this question need to be answered? There is no need to answer it at all. In fact, children are more important than work. All mothers put their work
You care more than your children. No wonder the children have to suffer. Oh, the children are so miserable. Such mothers should be deprived of their custody rights to their children.
Otherwise, why wouldn't it mean that you can go out to work when your children are older? If you let someone else take care of your children for a small salary, if something goes wrong, it's the mother who did something wrong. This mother will be greatly despised.
When her children are really in trouble, this is the cry from those keyboard warriors. It is best for this mother to get out of the house. A mother who does not love her children is the most disgusting. They have never considered the embarrassment of being a mother.
, I never thought about how difficult it is for a woman to be a mother and work at the same time.
The most terrifying people who made the two arguments are probably the same group of people. They are all idle and boring people who like to show off how thoughtful they are and how they uphold the moral standards of saints. Of course, those people have private
What's going on underneath is another matter.
Ling Xiao thought for a moment, because he had watched the keyboard warriors' battles online, so he naturally understood their action strategies. In fact, what's funny is that these people are often saints in words and dwarfs in action.
She decided to jump out of this possible strange circle. When she thought that the original owner might end up scolding her, she really felt that it was very difficult for the original owner. No matter what the original owner did or what choices he made in the future, nothing would happen if nothing happened.
Well, once a problem occurs, she will be the one scolded.
As for what will happen to the man? Ling Xiao can be sure that the man will not be scolded. This is because according to custom, a man's main task is to make money outside. If he takes the money back and gives it to the original owner's family, he has completed the task.
Ling Xiao also knows that it is difficult to make money outside. She knows this very well. Many adults have to devote themselves to making ends meet, and the household income he provides is completely sufficient for outsiders, which means that he has fulfilled his obligations as a husband.
After all, the person who is left responsible for taking care of the children is often the easiest target to be attacked. There are many places for those keyboard warriors to attack housewives, and they can dig out a lot of dirty information at will.
In the eyes of the keyboard warriors who hate evil, the evidence they found will definitely make the person involved feel like a fool every minute of his life. It would be better if he died earlier and the world would be completely peaceful.
The main direction of the keyboard warrior's attack is private life. It is best if there is some bloody drama. If you want to continue as usual, you will definitely not find it. This is because in fact, many times there are two sides, and that piece of material can be dug out for the positive.
, can also be turned into black material.
For example, the original owner used to be a beautiful woman, but she became a yellow-faced woman in order to give birth and raise children. She has no job yet. In the eyes of the keyboard warrior, she asked for all this on her own. Why not dress up well when she has money?
How can you still be worthy of a wealthy husband?
There will be some keyboard warriors who will say: A wife who doesn’t want to make progress is holding her husband back. She is simply the kind of woman with an aging mind. You know you can hire a nanny to do housework. Why do you have to live a miserable life? Haha!
I live such a humble and insignificant life, what do I do to get everyone's pity now? I'm just playing tricks on myself.
But what if the original owner still stopped working for the sake of her children, listened to their advice after becoming a housewife, and wanted to effectively change the possibility of becoming a yellow-faced mother-in-law. In order to make her life comfortable, she really hired a nanny to do housework and dress up.
It is also a woman's sin to become beautiful but fail to save any money.
Those keyboard warriors will say: Isn’t a woman just living with two children? Is it necessary to hire a nanny? In the early years, the heroic mothers gave birth to seven or eight children one by one, but they all took care of themselves, and they couldn’t even take care of two children? Are they squeamish and pretentious?
! In short, there is still something wrong with the woman, and if she is not good, she is asking for it.
Those people will also say: Do you know how difficult it is for a man to make money? You have to please other people, bend down and grovel, just to make money, feed your family, or spend it all on various needs.
?I don’t know how to save some money.
You must know that men are not the so-called rich second generation. To make money, you need capital. If you don’t have capital, you have to save little by little. As a wife, you can’t help at all. How are you still thinking about how to get the man to contribute money and effort? You must take advantage of any benefits.
You would say that this kind of housewife has no ability to live a hypocritical life. The best way is to change her wife. Anyway, as long as you have money, you can't marry a wife?
In short, many times the same thing has different meanings under different interpretations. Ling Xiao is very aware of the situation she may encounter. After all, she wants a divorce, and as a housewife, she is too weak to know about Zhang Xiaotian.
How many good sisters are there around me? I don’t know if those people will take advantage of Ling Xiao’s divorce proposal to step on me.
Ling Xiao would rather think about how to control the overall situation first than wait for the other party to take action. She must know that in addition to Zhang Xiaotian, the other party also has his confidante. She looks down on those people and does not think that they are all good people and can
No matter how good a woman is with a married man, she is always an enemy to Ling Xiao.
Although Ling Xiao doesn't know how many women are around him, he can be sure that a rich man will be surrounded by girls? No! There will definitely be no shortage of women in the world who think they are talented and beautiful.
Want to marry into a wealthy family.
If you compare with the original owner, you will find that the conditions for becoming Zhang Xiaotian's wife are so low, so how could they not be able to do so? Among them, the most stumbling block is the two children.
They are too young, and one of them may die if they are not cared for well. The reason why the original owner's child is safe and sound now is by chance, but it will never be absolutely safe. Once the two children are targeted, they will be in danger. Fortunately, Zhang Xiaotian is basically
Not spending much time with the children.
The original owner had some opinions on this point, because her husband and the children spent too little time together. She really hoped that Zhang Xiaotian could spend more time with her children, and did not want the children to be alienated from their father.
But if she, a mother, said that as her children grow up, they need the care of their parents, and that she hopes her husband will not be too tired and stop to take a rest and spend time with his children, someone will definitely say that it is wrong.
If you stay with your children all the time, how can you achieve 996? How can you stand out among too many people? If adults don't work hard, they can only let their children live in the most ordinary house, and let their children lose at the starting line.
Do you have a long-term heart? How can you treat your husband and children like this?
Ling Xiao could foresee that the original owner would be criticized for this reason, saying that she was short-sighted, saying that she only looked at her own land, went to college in vain, and completely turned into a housewife, blindly showing low-level taste.
If this is really the case, the original owner will probably have nothing to say. Although Zhang Xiaotian is absent from the parent-child relationship, he has instead defeated the original owner and severely humiliated the original owner. In this situation, the original owner and her children will not end well.
You must know that once an unpopular mother is rejected by her husband, her children will also be affected. After all, there is a saying: dragons beget dragons, phoenixes beget phoenixes, and mice's sons can make holes.
The two children of the original owner will be branded as being disliked by their father, which will inevitably affect their future. If Zhang Xiaotian is rich, I'm afraid there will be more troubles around him.
Ling Xiao remembered an incident where a rich second-generation family fell into ruin due to various reasons. Fortunately, after his family fell into decline, he still had some connections, so he went to another place and married a rich man's daughter through marriage.
As his wife, he later became rich through her influence.
It can be said that this man was very lucky. Under the care of his father-in-law, he gradually revived the family business. After his father-in-law died, it happened that the first wife fell ill. The son-in-law actually got close to the person who took care of the original wife and took a concubine directly.
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After he had his first wife, he had his second and third wives. This one could be said to be very blessed and had several beauties by his side. Anyway, he later became super rich and would not let the women who followed him suffer.
Of course, these houses were acquired at separate times. Anyway, it had been ups and downs for many years, and a lot of things happened in the meantime, and the most important thing among them was that something happened to the eldest son of the original wife, the orthodox prince.
When the prince was in his prime, he was unexpectedly involved in a car accident. As a result, the couple died together, leaving behind their underage children. After the prince's death, his children no longer received the protection of their grandfather, and they remained the prince's biological sister.
Raising nieces and nephews.
There were rumors that there was something fishy about the death of the prince. It is not known whether anyone was involved. Because there was no evidence, the case was eventually closed as an accident. This shows that the children of rich people are not easy to be.
Of course, the so-called conspiracy theories are just speculations, because nothing was found out at the beginning, and even if there is, it can be erased. Everything is full of unknowns.
But it is undeniable that the prince died in a so-called accident. After that, his sister went crazy and the younger sister never got married. What is even more interesting is that the descendants of the original wife's house basically did not get much assets.
On the contrary, those who were represented by the later wives all obtained generous assets, and the children they gave birth to were all elites among the second generation of rich people. It is even said that the most favored people were beaten to work.
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Ling Xiao didn't have much idea about how the prince died. After all, his death was confirmed, and even if there were conspiracy theories, they were just rumors. She was more concerned about what happened to the children and grandchildren of her original wife.
One thing can be seen from this incident: if a mother is not valued by her husband, her children will basically not be favored by their biological father, and they will not think about these children for any good.
Ling Xiao thought of this and sneered at the corner of his mouth. The most terrifying thing was that Zhang Xiaotian didn't even worry about being ungrateful. After all, the original owner's family was not rich. It was impossible for him to spend money to make his son-in-law rich, and he didn't have any connections.
Let him use it.
In other words, people's wealth is entirely due to their true ability, so if Zhang Xiaozhen really steps into that rich class, the original owner has nothing to show off. In this regard, she is not as good as the original wife, who can still deal with it.
The husband said: Without my dad, you wouldn’t know where to hang out.
What can the original owner say? That it is very hard to raise children by yourself? Haha! Thinking of this, I can only find out with great frustration that you have nothing to show off and no merit. He made his fortune entirely on his own.
You can't say that you are raising your own child. What's so hard about it? Isn't this your own child? When you give birth to a child, aren't you responsible for them? If you say this, the original owner can only be speechless.
Ling Xiao will never be passive and wait for her husband's decision like the original owner. She feels that she should learn to control her own life while she is alive, rather than just follow the crowd. Don't count on Zhang Xiaotian.
After receiving a call from Zhang Xiaotian, she decided to make money. Money is the way to go. Only then could she find someone to find out what Zhang Xiaotian had done. Then she thought about how to cut off from him and stay as far away as possible.
In order to prevent Zhang Xiaotian from getting involved, she decided not to live a Buddhist life, but to break out of the world. This would be good for the original owner and the two children. Fortunately, Zhang Xiaotian wanted to tell her at the end: He had something to do.
It will take about half a year to come back.
After learning the news, Ling Xiao curled her lips slightly and refused to reply. She didn't bother to see him at all. It happened that after making good money during this period, she wanted someone to check on Zhang Xiaotian.
After looking at the assets of the original owner, I found that the money in her hands was okay, because she was always worried about having no money, so part of the money given to her was spent on household expenses, and part of it was reserved for current deposits in the bank, because the children might get sick.
Then if you get sick, it may be pneumonia or something, which will cost you a lot of money.
After the remaining money was saved, it was mainly used for fixed-term investment, and part of it was invested in stocks. Ling Xiao thought about it and felt that stock trading was slower, and futures were the fastest way to make money, but this investment direction was very dangerous. One disadvantage was that