They know one thing very well: their daughter-in-law is just their son's wife. Even if they have lived together for many years and become familiar with each other and have grandchildren, it does not mean that the daughter-in-law is one of their own. She is completely different from their son. They must not catch her.
If a problem persists, you should not criticize and point out your daughter-in-law arbitrarily. This is because there is no blood relationship between the daughter-in-law and her parents-in-law. Once they fall out, both parties will feel uncomfortable.
For example, for example, parents criticize their children's behavior for various reasons. Because of that criticism, both parties, that is, parents and sons, may become very angry. One feels that the younger generations are stubborn and ineffective, and the other feels that the elders are just catching on.
Chatter about little things.
Because of this quarrel, both parties may even have hurt feelings. The elder party will simply tell the children to leave and never come back again, while the other party will slam the door and walk out angrily.
This level of quarrel is extremely hurtful to the feelings of both parties. If there is no blood relationship, the two parties may never interact with each other for the rest of their lives. Both parties will blacklist the other and never see each other again.
But if it happens to people who are related by blood, especially parents and children, even this level of quarrel will quickly end without leaving much traces on both parties. Over time, it will simply become
Forget that they once had a quarrel, this is the power of blood ties.
But if it’s not the case for the daughter-in-law, she will remember in her mind: on a certain day of a certain year, a certain month, for what reason, the parents-in-law are looking for trouble. The daughter-in-law will indeed think so in her heart, and she will feel that she is living a wronged life, and she wants to object.
But I found that my parents-in-law are also elders. If you dare to quarrel with your elders, you will never end up in a good situation. You can only write it down in a small notebook.
When a new daughter-in-law gets married, the conflicts between her parents-in-law and daughter-in-law are not too big at first. Even if they do exist, they usually involve small things in life. For example, they both like to eat differently, and their work and rest schedules are also different.
Same.
It's just that as time goes by, so-called small conflicts will grow like snowballs and may lead to big problems. It's okay if you vent them out normally, but if you keep holding on, there might be a big explosion.
The daughter-in-law will definitely feel that her father-in-law and mother-in-law are very poor people, which is not conducive to everyone living together. So it is better not to live together in the first place, but to live separately. Isn’t there a saying: What’s close smells bad, but what’s far is fragrant?
Therefore, although the original owner's parents and their son's family live in the same community, they do not live in the same house. Normally, they will help take care of the grandson, but generally they mainly live according to their own living habits.
It seems that she and her daughter-in-law don't know each other very well because they don't live together, but there are many advantages. The daughter-in-law feels that her parents-in-law are very nice and they are more polite when getting along with her, so she doesn't put too much hope in them, and any small frictions will be over quickly.
In addition to these, there are some benefits. For example, if the daughter comes back now, if the old couple does not have a house and lives with their son at home, they may not have a guest room. Then the daughter will stay for a long time, which will naturally make her sister-in-law unhappy.
This period happened to be relatively free, and the couple had reached the age of retirement. They had not been able to help their daughter when she gave birth, which was a thorn in their hearts. Later, when they bought a house, their daughter even provided a special amount of support.
Only with enough money, I was able to buy two houses. Later, after the house prices increased, I felt it was a good fit.
It's just that their daughter has never come back to see them, and they feel very disappointed from the bottom of their hearts. However, because they did not take care of their daughter's confinement issues and did not think about raising children for her, they feel guilty and will not blame their daughter.
This time they heard that their daughter was coming with her children. They were very happy. They prepared delicious food and tidied up the special room. They were just waiting for their daughter to come and stay for a few days.
They were as excited as chicken blood, and they didn't know what the twins looked like. They were both thinking about it in their hearts.
As for their grandson, who is several years younger than the twins, it happened that the daughter-in-law's parents came here to see their grandson. They lived at the son's house, so the grandson did not come over during this period.
The old couple who were still a little concerned about their grandson thought about their grandson very much after learning about it, but they had to let their grandson stay with their grandparents. So now they are very welcoming of their daughter and the children, and the two of them can't see their grandson at all.
She was slumped and preparing things very happily. People around her knew that their daughter was coming.
However, what they never expected was that the package that arrived before their daughter and her family was specially delivered by a courier company that had just been established. The old couple was a little surprised. There were so many things, and they felt that their daughter was
It’s a waste of money. The things have arrived before the person arrives. Is it necessary to spend a special amount of money for express delivery?
But soon they received a call from their daughter, and the two old men said: "Qing Huan! Don't be too good at spending money. You must know that you can't get your money back after you spend it. This person must learn to save money, otherwise one day
If you don’t have money, you’ll be in trouble.”
Ling Xiao's mouth twitched after hearing this, because she finally understood where the original owner's frugal temperament came from. She only saved money by listening to her parents and didn't live like a rich man's wife.
"Look at you, come here! Why did you send your luggage here first? You child, please pay attention. You are not working now and you are always counting on your son-in-law to give you money. It is not a problem." At this point, the original host's mother became a little depressed.
Because she was afraid that her son-in-law would change his mind.
According to her experience, if a man is away from home for a long time, the possibility of cheating is very high. She has been thinking about this in her heart, but she can't tell her daughter because her son-in-law goes to work in other places to make money.
It made her daughter feel uncomfortable if she said it, but the old lady felt uncomfortable if she didn't mention it. Later, she didn't mention it because she couldn't see her in person. She planned to wait for her daughter to arrive before finding a chance to have a good talk with her.
As soon as the original owner's father touched his wife, he signaled not to talk about it, and it would not be too late to talk about it after his daughter came over. Fortunately, Ling Xiao had already explained on the phone at this time, and the old couple realized that if they didn't express it, their daughter would not be able to take them with her alone.
A child and a bunch of luggage set out on the road.
The old couple heard it right. They both forgot one thing. There are two children, and the daughter is alone. If she needs to bring luggage, she really can't take it with her. Although money is very important, the children are more important.
The two of them also knew that there were still abducted children, so they asked their daughter to pay attention and take care of the child. They also agreed on a bus time with their daughter and prepared to go to the train station to pick them up.
Ling Xiao put down the phone and breathed a sigh of relief. This was to meet the elders of the original owner, so she had to pay attention. Hey! She was used to not having any elders, so she still had to pay attention and look at her whole body in the mirror.
In fact, the main reason why the original owner became mediocre was that she was too homely, failed to manage her figure, and became chubby. She was also very frugal in her clothes, and she was a person who liked to wear street clothes.
After Ling Xiao came over, he started to exercise. After successfully losing weight, he didn't plan to wear any famous brands. She had no intention of wearing any famous brands after knowing the situation of real famous brands.
Because she doesn't have the strength, she can't afford clothes that will be worn out once she wears them. Even if she can afford them, she doesn't need them. She doesn't plan to attend any parties. She plans to focus on studying.
Of course, she didn't want the goods from the street stalls, and the famous brands were not acceptable, so Ling Xiao went to buy some clothes that seemed to be of good quality and good style. They were better than the goods from the street stalls, and the price was quite low compared to the famous brands.
In addition, she decided on the most important outfit and directly asked someone to make the clothes. Anyway, someone did a good job. After these tidying up, the body glowed with brilliance. This is the style that her body should have.
Fortunately, the original owner takes good care of his children, and the clothes he wears are generally very good. Although it is not a top brand of children's clothing, it is still a pretty good brand. This is the item that the original owner spent the most on.
Just in this way, the original owner, who dressed very simply when the family was together, looked like a nanny, and had no idea that they were a mother and son. Now that Ling Xiao has lost weight and put on decent clothes, it can be seen that they are a mother and son.
relation.
In this way, Ling Xiao only carried a backpack, and with both hands free, she pulled the two children into the car. After getting in the car, she was more alert along the way. You must know that problems are most likely to occur on the road. The children are still young now. Once something happens to the children,
Don’t you regret it very much?
Usually she has to take her children with her when she gets there. She is alone and cannot leave the children to outsiders. Fortunately, she secretly brings a puppet, a very inconspicuous doll. This is a trump card. If there is a trafficker, she will definitely
Let them never come back.
People we meet along the way just say hello, and no one intends to talk in depth. They are all travelers, coming and going all the time, meeting by chance, and they will soon be separated, and they may not be able to see each other again.
This is also the reason why we don't have close friendships with each other. Since we don't have a chance to see each other again, don't say more. Unless you are the kind of person who is naturally willing to make friends, they are usually just acquaintances. Ling Xiao is very satisfied with this, because this is good, she is the only one
People with two children should be careful.
Baby and Beibei were full of energy at first, but then they felt that it was not interesting. Fortunately, Ling Xiao led a radio and let the two of them listen to the radio. They also went to the bathroom together without putting the other child on the seat to prevent problems.
.Everyone saw it and didn’t say anything.
After the station, Ling Xiao got off the bus with her two children. From a distance, she saw two people waiting on the platform. The two of them searched around carefully for fear of missing someone. Ling Xiao smiled and she pulled the two
A child walked over quickly and said, "Mom, Dad!"
The original owner's surname is Yao. Yao's father and Yao's mother are the kind of people who have always been very responsible. The couple looks pretty good, but the original owner is the kind of person who takes advantage of their parents' strengths and thrives.
As a result, two average-looking parents actually gave birth to a very beautiful daughter. On the contrary, the twin brother is still average-looking. It doesn't matter that she is not as good as the younger sister, but she is not very good at studying hard. Her academic performance is average, and she is not as good as her younger sister.
It's not as good as kissing your parents.
This strong contrast made the brother and sister not deal with each other since childhood, and later they even looked down upon each other. Although they never quarreled again when they grew up, they had absolutely nothing in common and no connection.
Ling Xiao didn't know what to say when he found out. In fact, it's hard to say who is right and who is wrong in this situation. No one wants to be the loser in the control group. This is definitely uncomfortable.
Of course, the original owner is not wrong. Is it because she is good-looking and smart that she gives way to her brother in everything? No! There are many beautiful and smart people in the world, but she will not tolerate a grown man who cares about trivial matters.
Brother, if you don't pay attention to her, she won't pay attention to you. She's not afraid.
This time, Ling Xiao didn't notify the original owner's brother when he came, and waited until they met. He hoped that when he grew up, he would think about it. Men in adolescence are also very awkward, and maybe they have gotten better now.
Besides, Yao's father and Yao's mother were a little surprised when they saw their daughter. They had to know that they had been to their daughter's place before and found that their daughter had changed a lot. She looked like a housewife.
At first, when their daughter gave birth, the couple had not yet retired, so they did not go to help their daughter during confinement. When they visited their daughter after retirement, they found that she had become a housewife. The two of them felt that it was not very good, and some
What do you want to say to your daughter?
They all felt that if their daughter stayed at home to take care of the children, wouldn't she be out of touch with society? This couldn't continue, but they soon found that they had no position to talk about their daughter. They didn't help her at the beginning, and even hired a confinement nanny.
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But there was nothing they could do at that time. They were about to retire, and at that time many places were laying off employees. If they were not good, there would be no pension, and they could only feel sorry for their daughter. So what right did they have to blame their daughter?
Even if they come to see their daughter, they can't help more, because they will return to their home soon. They know that their daughter-in-law is pregnant, and the young couple needs their help to take care of the child. In this case, they naturally can't help.
She takes care of her daughter and child, so how can she go to work?
After confirming the reality, the Yao couple swallowed their worries and didn't say anything to their daughter, because they had no shame to say it, and no one would help take care of the child. They didn't have the shame to ask their daughter to leave the child and go to work.
Later, the two of them asked their daughter and saw that the son-in-law gave a lot of money to the family, so they said nothing more. After all, the mother should take care of the child first. For the sake of the child, let the daughter endure it!
Time passed like this little by little, and they knew that their daughter was still taking care of the children at home. They thought: If they wait until their grandchildren go to elementary school, they can let their daughter find a job. It’s not enough to stay at home every day! Taking other people’s money, even if it is her husband
No, she should have the ability to make money.
However, they also knew that their daughter's future depended on her own thoughts. This time they were really happy to hear that their grandchildren were here, so they couldn't believe their eyes when they first saw Ling Xiao.
When they went to see their daughter before, they found that her daughter had gained weight and had aged a lot. They couldn't believe that this was their daughter, but they didn't say anything considering how hard it was for her to raise the child alone.