duo After signing the pawning document, the husband's family can get a sum of money, and then pawn the wife away according to the contract. Most of the families who can pawn the wife away are those whose living conditions are not very good. Very few
It is possible that a family may not have enough to eat or clothing to keep warm.
They will tell the wife that the family has no money, and the family has reached a point where they can no longer survive, and they have to give the wife up. If she does not fulfill the contract, the family will have no money, and everyone may starve to death or freeze to death, and even the husband may die.
Say: When a woman is married and obeys her husband, her husband asks her to live with another man. As a woman, should she listen?
I believe that a wife has to struggle deep in her heart. On the one hand, it is the imprisonment given by the three obediences and four virtues. On the other hand, it is the humiliation from chastity education. No matter whether the wife turns left or right, it is a pain. No matter what she does, she may regret it very much.
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In the end, the wife has no choice but to live with other men, just like husband and wife. In the end, the woman gives birth to another man's child. Generally, the woman who borrows her belly and asks to give birth to a boy is considered to have met the conditions.
If a girl is born, she will have another baby.
A wife who gives birth to a boy with another man will be sent back to her husband's house after completing her mission, and will live with the original husband. As for the child she gave birth to by another man, she will usually die after the confinement period.
Will have any future and relationship with my mother-in-law.
Even if the mother is pregnant for ten months and risks her life to give birth to a child, she will still not be recognized as having any relationship with that child. This is the rule of a typical wife. She is really just using her belly to give birth to someone else's child.
Generally, there are two types of people who come to pledge their wives: one type is the kind of men who are really too poor to support their wives, and they are the kind of poor people who have no money. They will save a lot of money and then borrow money to give birth to a son.
In other words, there is a saying: There are three types of unfilial piety, the greatest is not having children.
Not all are poor. There is also a type of people who come to pledge their wives. They are definitely rich, but they just can’t give birth to a child for some unknown reason. So sometimes these people will lend money to them. After the pledged wife gives birth to a son, she will say:
This is the child born to this wife.
Either way, it is because married women with children can be sure that it is easier to give birth to a boy, which solves the problem of the buyer's family inheritance. This is an exchange between the two parties. In fact, it is a way of buying and selling to give birth to a child.
As for the wishes of women who risk their lives to get pregnant and give birth, they are basically ignored. Even if they themselves are not willing, if the husband's family agrees, she will still be traded like goods. Anyway, some women can be manipulated.
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As the buyer, the buyer usually comes up with a sum of money. As the buyer, they don't feel that they have done anything wrong, because buying and selling people was very common in ancient times. Selling children, daughters, and wives is nothing, and it is not illegal at all from a legal perspective.
As a seller, it is easier to deal with a woman. She will definitely give birth to children. Generally, the children can be used to control the mother. As a beneficiary, there is no fear that the buyer will take away the wife. After all, what they are buying is the woman’s fertility. After giving birth to a son, she will be released.
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Ling Xiao couldn't know the woman's psychological thoughts after the transaction was completed, because she would never agree to any kind of borrowing a baby, whether it was the ancient kind or the modern kind using in vitro fertilization, she would never be able to do this.
Take the woman’s thoughts into consideration.
But she still knew that the most vulnerable person in this kind of transaction was none other than the woman who voluntarily or unwillingly lent her belly. Now Ling Xiao happened to meet this woman who was unable to disobey her husband in ancient times. She decided to help the woman
Just because she firmly opposed being pregnant, he sent his own puppet to rescue her.
Why do you say this? This is because Ling Xiao, as a medical student, knows very well that women undergo many psychological and physical changes after pregnancy, especially when a wife is pregnant with a child that is not her husband’s child, but another woman’s.
A man's child will not be easy for anyone with a sense of shame.
Moreover, a woman’s uterus cannot give birth to endless babies. For some women, the uterine wall will become thinner after giving birth to more children. It can be said that the risk of giving birth to more children increases.
After the delivery stage, the mother's risk increases. In ancient times, there was no caesarean section, and one person would not be able to kill two people. In modern times, even if caesarean section is available, it is not 100% safe. Amniotic fluid embolism can also kill the mother.
After risking her life to give birth to a child, the wife will leave the child who once again allowed her to experience ten months of pregnancy and return to her original home after the full moon. From then on, she will cut off all contact with that child.
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And her return seems to have everything back on track, but is it really the same as before? It won't feel the same, because it will take almost a year, or even longer, to get it all done at the earliest.
Then she and her children will not see each other for a period of time. Will the children complain about the mother? Will the people around them whisper in the children's ears about marrying off their wives? This is all a question, will it?
Let the wife face it after she returns.
In addition, as a mother, when the fetus grows in her belly, will the fetus fall in love with this child who does not know his biological mother according to regulations? You must know that when the fetus grows in the mother's body, it will usually make the mother fall in love with her.
The child in the womb.
If in the previous circumstances she only cared about the child who stayed in her husband's family, after she was imprisoned, wouldn't she feel that the child she gave birth to later was not her child? Would a mother not miss the child she could never get to know again just after he was born?
See the child?
But if you persist, will people think you are still thinking about that man? Or will you be considered to be doing it for money? There are also contract issues. If you think too much, the original family will be affected. In many cases,
They will try not to think about the child.
Some women are able to return to their families, while some women are unable to return to their former homes for various reasons after being passed away. Even if they do go back, they still feel resentful in their hearts.
In the final analysis, wife pawn trading is considered a short-term human trafficking, but the person who pawns the wife will usually return to the family, as if nothing happened, and the mother-in-law has returned after leaving due to something else.
It's just that no one knows what they feel like as pawn wives, not even Ling Xiao, but what is known is that women who are pawns and sold are often in a weak position, and have to live on even if they don't want to. A lot of sadness and anger end up like this.
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This is also the reason why Ling Xiao wants to meddle in other people's business. She feels that it is too painful for those who are free wives. Why do female compatriots have to bear all the suffering? It is too uncomfortable for them to feel that nothing is right no matter what they do.
When the proprietress heard the question, she looked at Ling Xiao. She said that the appearance of the puppet was very good. At first glance, she had a feeling: this is a man of virtue with long hair and a childlike face, and he is the kind of person who is very reassuring at a glance.
With such a temperament, the landlady never thought of hiding it.
"Hey! What a sin! The children just followed me. How will the two children live in the future?" The landlady said again: "Speaking of which, the old woman knows two families. One is the daughter of Song Xiucai."
When she said this, the landlady shook her head with a bit of regret on her face, because she knew Song's family and didn't know what happened. Not long after Song's marriage, her parents passed away, resulting in no
The natal family came forward. Later, the Song family's husband also met, but he was also an unlucky person.
Thinking of this, the landlady sighed again, "Later, Mrs. Song married a scholar. I don't know what happened. That child would get into trouble every time before the exam. Even though he was full of knowledge, he didn't get a single child in the exam.
After a few times, the husband's family was unwilling to support Song's husband to study, so they had to separate the family. Alas! He was obviously a good student, but he fell to this point. That Qiusheng vomited blood when the family was separated, and later his health failed. This is not true.
He just passed away a few days ago.”
The landlady shook her head. She didn't know what the family was thinking. Why did they humiliate their children so much? She didn't believe that the family insisted on selling off their eldest daughter-in-law, and the Song family was still observing filial piety for her husband, so someone came to court.
The little sedan spits and feels that Mrs. Song is such a bad woman.
Of course, the landlady would not think that this was the Song family's responsibility. How could she, a weak woman, know how to sell herself? You must know that she had hardly been to the county town after she got married. Naturally, it was her husband's family who was up to something, but no matter how sympathetic she was, there was nothing she could do.
Help, she is so sympathetic to the Song family because she is not related to her and has no reason to interfere.
"But what I never expected was that while the widow was still observing her husband's filial piety, her mother-in-law would be married off to Zhu Yuanwai in the town. Knowing that Zhu Yuanwai was over fifty years old but had no children, she wanted to marry someone who had given birth.
I wanted a woman who was good-looking and well-educated, so I found the Song family.
It is said that the money she said was sincere and her husband's family agreed just for the money. Alas! The children born to Qiu will have a hard time in the future. Their father died and their mother was sold off. I don't know how many people will laugh at them. Alas.
"It's a pity that no one from the Song family is here. Song Xiucai came from out of town, and the couple don't have any family in the local area, so they were bullied like this." The landlady said nonchalantly.
Damn it! Ling Xiao was furious after hearing this, what is going on? The woman was not willing at all, wait! Her surname was Song? She suddenly remembered that her current identity was also surnamed Song, and now she felt better, so she said that she and Song
They were related to each other. She counted on her fingers and found that she was indeed somewhat related to this identity.
That's fine! She had previously thought about finding some backstage or a natal family for the original owner. Although Ling Xiao didn't like the kind of woman who only wanted to take advantage of her husband's family to give blood to her natal family, it was undeniable that in ancient society, women did not have a natal family.
It is really easy to be bullied. If you are bullied and have no support, now is your chance.
No wonder she had determined that this identity was the best when she was doing the divination. Now she can see why she feels good about it. She hopes that the Song family is not the best. If they are really good people, they can cooperate with each other.
At this time, the puppet she sent broke through the news and said: "Ms. Song was tied up and placed in the sedan. Her two children chased after her and suffered a lot of injuries. Now mother and son
Three people are crying loudly, what should the master do?"
Ling Xiao asked the puppets to protect the three Mrs. Song. At the same time, he talked to the landlady and asked him to prepare a few more upper rooms. Well! It would be best to have three upper rooms and two lower rooms.
Then Ling Xiao said to the original owner: "Xiao Liu, let's do something good today. Speaking of which, we are related to their family. We will come to have dinner after we rescue them." He led her towards the Zhu family.
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At this moment, the puppet stopped the people who wanted to break up the Song family and did not allow this ritual to proceed. Anyway, there was no need to pay attention to the others. He just said that his master would be arriving soon, so he would stop for a moment.
Speaking of this procession that looks like a wedding, it does not really mean marriage, but a kind of ceremony. This is because it means that it is not an ordinary situation, and it means that their family attaches great importance to the child that the potential wife may give birth to.
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The last child born by the wife must be in the name of the wife, which means that everyone will recognize the legitimacy of the unborn child. As for the wife, she will not change her identity. She is just borrowing money and will eventually leave.
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What I didn't expect was that someone would stop the ceremony. Zhu Yuanwai was a little unhappy when he saw it. What was going on? He had deliberately chosen a good and auspicious day. Whose responsibility was it after the time passed?
Ling Xiao came over with the original owner. The original owner was still a little unable to react at the moment, because such things were not included in the education she received. She did not expect that her wife could still give in, but she could feel that Ling Xiao was very unhappy.
The original owner did not dare to speak out. If she saw Ling Xiao at first and thought she was a woman, she thought Ling Xiao was her companion. But after a long time, she naturally would not regard Ling Xiao as a companion, but as a person.
She looked at her elders and cared very much about her opinions.
It was like she knew at this moment that those people had done something wrong, but she was still worried about it. She had been following Ling Xiao, and naturally she heard what the boss lady said, and she was very angry. How could this happen?
As a woman, she never imagined that women among the common people would live such a miserable life. After marrying their husbands, they would be imprisoned. This was very scary to her, and she found it unacceptable.
She looked at Ling Xiao who was walking in a hurry, and hurriedly followed her, but she finally felt that it was not the advantage of her small feet. If she were a three-inch golden lotus now, she would not be able to walk very far in one step, but she could walk as fast as flying.
Thinking of this, she quickened her pace again, and at this moment she heard noises and someone shouting, "Hit me! If it's an auspicious moment, I'll hit you. I'll see who dares to stop you!"
The fight broke out for a while, and there were several sounds. Many people rushed to the street, and some people were even more angry. You must know that he specially hired someone to calculate the time, and anyone who stopped him would disturb his plan.
Ling Xiao walked to the front and saw at a glance the tied woman with sesame walnuts stuffed in her mouth. The woman was slender and was still struggling hard to get rid of her fate of being tied up.