Children were easy to fool when they were young. After all, their intelligence was still developing at that time. In addition, because they were cubs, they were all Q-version babies. They usually had big heads and waddled when they walked.
The smiling baby is so cute, like a sweet little angel.
At this time, the children will indeed be easier to get along with. As parents, you don’t need to spend too much effort. The robot nanny can take care of everything. Just wait and pay attention to the situation when you get home. Anyway, there is an omnipotent robot as a nanny.
Thinking of this, Ling Xiao felt that this situation was somewhat familiar. After thinking about it, he found that it was similar to the situation of children in ancient aristocratic families. After the children of noble ladies were born, their mothers generally would not feed their children.
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Instead, the wet nurse is prepared early, which means that the children do not eat the mother's milk, but the wet nurse's milk. Then the children usually grow up under the care of the wet nurse and the maid, and the mother will watch them every day.
Several cases of children.
In this case, there are relatively few deep feelings between mother and child. After all, they are not familiar with each other, and the feelings between people are born from time to time. In fact, many people who grow up will have more feelings for their wet nurses.
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There is another famous person in history who had feelings for the palace maid who took care of him when he grew up, that is Ming Xianzong. Even if the emperor's mother-in-law, the empress dowager, objected, the emperor still loved Concubine Wan Gui the most. Concubine Wan Gui made the emperor older.
She was more than ten years old, but she had always been the support of the emperor. Not long after the death of Concubine Wan Gui, Emperor Xianzong of Ming Dynasty also died.
Therefore, it can be seen from this example that when it comes to relationships, you can get rewards only if you put in the effort. People who think that everything will be fine if they arrange a nanny robot, will most likely find that their children love the robot nanny more.
This cannot be blamed on children who have no feelings for their parents. They have been growing up in artificial wombs and then under the care of machine nannies. It is strange that they have feelings for their so-called biological parents.
I'm afraid that this kind of child lives a little confused and lacks the love from his parents. Maybe the parents think that it is because they love their children that they work hard to make money, but when the children are growing up, neither parent has the same attitude.
How can we cultivate family ties if we take time to participate?
Anyway, Ling Xiao feels that artificial uterus can be researched, but even if it is developed, it will take many years of very rigorous experiments. It will take many generations of experiments, yes! It will take many generations of experiments to prove that it has no impact on children's emotions.
Make sure it can be promoted, instead of just deciding to get an artificial womb.
There are too many unknowns in this. Don't think that women can be liberated. Maybe what is released is a Pandora's box. Relevant research needs to be explored bit by bit from too many aspects. Don't add fuel to the flames.
Just like someone once edited the gene chain of an unborn fetus without informing relevant personnel of the risks, directly removing a certain group of genes, and said that this would prevent HIV infection.
This incident came out because the person thought he was doing a good thing and was very proud of it. But after thinking about it carefully, it is really scary. Did you think it was just removing a gene? This is completely illegal.
The question is how to determine which gene needs to be edited out? The development of science and technology has proved that human research is shallow in many aspects, and there are too many things that prove that human research is only the beginning.
As science progresses, we find that there are more continuation studies of things previously studied. The initial research results are not wrong, but they are still relatively rough, and more detailed research needs to be done.
For example, at the beginning, the research on a certain drug was very superficial, thinking that this was the final result. But when science and technology become more advanced, you will find that you can study deeper into the eighth level, and you will find that the findings on the second level are not wrong.
But there are still more effects that have not been discovered.
For example, a certain kind of rat poison has always been used to kill rats. After some research, scientists found that this poison has the effect of treating diabetes when the amount is reduced. Are you surprised? Unexpected? In fact
There are too many old medicines, but after research, it was found that they have other effects.
Therefore, even though Ling Xiao has practiced the skills on the mysterious side, he is still very interested in the new technologies on the scientific side, because he feels that success on the mysterious side is more focused on the individual, while success on the scientific side requires the collective, and every world is in
Study hard, and the incident of the Song family in this time traveling through the world touches on the issue of childlessness.
Ling Xiao has known one thing for a long time: even with the development of science, there are still some people who are unable to have children for various reasons, and they often want to have a child, what should they do? Then when test-tube babies appear, it is really those who want children who take care of them.
Come to the gospel.
In the original world, she never knew how to do in vitro fertilization, but she was definitely faced with infertility advertisements. You could see advertisements for infertility hospitals all over the streets, and you also saw advertisements with celebrity endorsements, so she still
I thought this was not difficult.
Anyway, she has never experienced it personally, but she just feels that IVF technology has brought hope and light to the majority of infertility patients. Every character in the advertisement is cheerful. After all, people who have never had children finally get their own children.
, can be said to be a good thing.
But she had no idea that it was so difficult to make a successful in vitro fertilization. She was waiting for her to know how to do in vitro fertilization when she was a doctor. The most difficult thing is that as a mother, you have to take risks to retrieve eggs. If you go to a regular hospital
It's better to have this kind of surgery, but it still carries certain risks.
This kind of behavior may cause problems with female body organs. Surgery is risky. Regular hospitals basically guarantee that any problems will be treated properly, which is relatively safe.
If some girls are deceived into donating eggs, even if they go to a rogue clinic, problems may arise, and the most serious victims may lose their right to be mothers in the future.
Waiting for the egg retrieval to be completed is only the first step of IVF. It must be combined with sperm to form a fertilized egg. The fertilized egg must then be implanted into the mother's uterus at a suitable time, waiting for implantation.
However, implantation does not necessarily mean that it will be successful. You must know that many fertilized eggs are not very suitable and cannot live in the mother's uterus. After all, miscarriage may occur during natural pregnancy.
This kind of aborted fertilized eggs are generally not very good at the beginning. According to the laws of nature, they are the kind that are directly eliminated. Therefore, some mothers have to do several implantations to save a child. For this reason, mothers
It takes a lot of hardship.
Don’t think that everything will be OK once the fertilized egg is implanted in the uterus! In order to preserve the implanted fetus, expectant mothers generally need to inject drugs to help the fetus grow in the uterus. After a lot of hard work, they can give birth to a child.
From what Ling Xiao learned later, it can be said that making an in vitro fertilized baby costs a lot of money, and people who don't have money can't afford these expenses at all. As the saying goes, they are the sons of thousands of dollars.
But no matter what, this kind of fighting spirit for children is still worthy of admiration. After all, this is the person who wants to be a mother who has been working hard to be a mother. It not only costs money, but also uses her own body to make it and fight hard.
This is legal behavior.
Later, Ling Xiao learned that in addition to the parents who wanted to do in vitro fertilization for themselves, there was another kind of person who was also eyeing the technological method of in vitro fertilization and wanted to exchange money for children.
These people have not given birth to their own children due to various reasons, or do not have time, or do not have the relevant organs, or they want to have children but do not want to experience the so-called pregnancy reactions, let alone the pain and danger during childbirth, so they use the belly to
This behavior occurs again.
This behavior is legal in some countries, but illegal in some countries. Regardless of whether it is legal or not, it will cause a series of problems. There are women who have been borrowed and fall in love with their unborn children during pregnancy, and they want to keep them alive.
For this reason, the client and the client filed a lawsuit specifically for the custody of the child.
There are also children who are later found to have big problems: for example, if the child has a physical problem, that is, it is disabled, then the client does not intend to have that child at all, and the newborn is directly abandoned by the client, and the child is born.
Some women will keep the child, while others simply cannot afford to raise the child and abandon the child.
What's more, during the process of giving birth to a child, the client immediately regretted it and tore up the contract, refusing to give up the unborn child. Then the woman who was pregnant with the child discovered that her husband had fled with the client's compensation. In short, there was a lot of shit.
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After learning about the relevant process, Ling Xiao had only one idea: she was absolutely opposed to the legalization of this behavior, because the whole process treated pregnant women and children as commodities that could be bought and sold.
People do not regard the same kind of people as human beings, but as commodities that can be traded. This is the most terrible behavior. If you think about it carefully, it is no different from the previous world. It will only aggravate class solidification step by step.
If this continues, I am afraid that more women will become victims of belly borrowing. After all, her family can let her lend her belly again and again for money and profit.
In fact, people who have to lend their stomachs and suffer for pregnancy are generally at the bottom of the family, because female compatriots will be persuaded time and time again to do it for their children, their families, their houses, and their cars, as long as they find out
We don’t have enough money, so let’s borrow money again!
Why Ling Xiao is so disgusted is because she knows that women will encounter more dangers during in vitro fertilization than pregnant women who get pregnant naturally, and many people are not aware of the dangers at all.
This is a message from some people on the Internet: This kind of behavior is very good. It is completely a good deed. It can help others and solve one's own economic crisis. It kills two birds with one stone and there is no danger at all.
Ling Xiao didn't know what to say for this reason? What does it mean that there is no danger? There are always potential dangers to women during pregnancy and during childbirth. Those who say that there is no danger should learn about gestational hypertension and diabetes.
Mothers who get pregnant naturally are so hard and dangerous, so mothers who have in vitro fertilization are even more dangerous. There was once an expectant mother who had to be sent to the emergency room because she took a certain injection to protect the fetus after doing in vitro fertilization, which caused high blood pressure during pregnancy.
, almost died.
These are still pregnant with their own children. The life of pregnant women who are carrying children for others is even more difficult, because after receiving other people's money, they will naturally be confined to a certain place and wait.
I remember that after the issue came out, most of the people who posted opinions were firmly opposed to that kind of behavior, but some people insisted that there was no risk. The two sides were fighting online. Among them, those who insisted that there was no risk said: As long as the contract is signed, everything will be OK. See here
Ling Xiao felt why the person who said this was so naive?
In fact, the client and the client are not at the same level at all. Will the person who can borrow money through entrustment be the one who has no money? Most people really cannot afford this amount.
Rich people can hire lawyers who are most proficient in law to litigate the case, and every aspect of the contract will be meticulously scrutinized. Maybe they will only see the trustee’s obligations but not their rights, and the client will probably have no other obligations except paying. In addition,
Even if you can't win the lawsuit, it will kill a person with little money, which is equal to the final victory.
Most of the people who accept the entrustment on the other side have no money, otherwise why would they do that kind of thing? You must know that morning sickness during pregnancy has other side effects that can make women uncomfortable. Generally, they do it only if they need money, and they are short of money! Naturally, they can’t do it.
Hire a competent lawyer and you won't even know if the contract is fishy when you sign it.
If Ling Xiao didn't understand the problems before the incident happened, he later discovered that there were so many tricks involved. Even though the country still considered it illegal, some people still did it for money.
Sure enough, as "Das Kapital" says: as long as there is 10% profit, it will be used everywhere; if there is 20%, it will become active; if there is 50%, it will lead to active risk-taking; if there is 100%, it will be used by people everywhere.
It will make people ignore all laws; if it is 300%, it will make people not afraid of committing crimes and even not afraid of the danger of hanging. (1)
There are also people who illegally engage in black links, or the kind of gender-inclusive pretext, which is really scary. Fortunately, because of the big melon of the year, a nationwide discussion has been vigorously opposed to that kind of behavior.
And Ling Xiao also insisted on opposing this kind of behavior. People who really like children can have them themselves if they can, and people who can't have children at all can adopt an orphan who has no family.
Instead of using money to induce women to sell their wombs, in fact there are many women who do this. They think that their behavior means liberating themselves and that they are superior.
In fact, all women are on the same starting line, just like those women in feudal society. Every one of them is oppressed. Even the so-called aristocratic women cannot escape the oppression of patriarchy and husband power. They think that a few people