It is simply impossible. In fact, society treats all women as a whole, and the status of all women will not be greatly improved just because a few of them perform well.
For example, there was a famous Empress Wu Zetian in history, who was considered a relatively successful female politician. Did her appearance improve the status of women?
I feel that it did not improve the status of women. On the contrary, many officials in later dynasties were very wary of Wu Zetian's appearance in the harem again, and they would try to eliminate it as soon as there was any sign of it.
Later, Emperor Kangxi of the Manchu Qing Dynasty also specifically established three ancestral precepts: 1. Anyone who loses an inch of land shall not be included in the ancestral throne, 2. The harem shall not interfere with politics, 3. Never increase taxes. The second of these is specifically targeted at women. It can be seen that,
The emergence of the Queen did not give other women more freedom to use their talents.
The main reason why there was no queen in subsequent dynasties was that the Tang Dynasty had relatively few restrictions on women, and the restrictions on women in the dynasties after the Tang Dynasty were further strengthened.
Even in the powerful Tang Dynasty, where the status of women was relatively high, there was still a marriage policy, and about twenty women (including real princesses, daughters of clan members, and daughters of courtiers) served as princesses of the Tang Dynasty and married foreigners.
The marriage princesses of the Tang Dynasty continued the fate of the marriage princesses of the Han Dynasty. Most of them did not end well. They had to follow foreign rules, that is, the rules of step marriage. They had to marry again. Isn't this the worst thing?
, there is also a Tang Dynasty princess who was beheaded by the ridicule and sacrificed to the flag six months after her marriage.
From the marriage incident, it can be seen that the status of women has not improved at all. The vast majority of princesses have to face a husband who may be their grandfather's age. Even after getting married, he may not be the official wife, but may be a partial concubine.
Speaking of which, the marriage princesses of the Tang Dynasty all fell into the category of noble women. Before the marriage was confirmed, their status was much higher than that of most other women of the same period. They were truly noble women.
But when faced with such a tragic situation as getting married, they still cannot change their fate. No matter how much they think of resisting, they will find that their ideas are not important and they have to continue their mission.
After sighing about the marriage princesses of the Tang Dynasty, Ling Xiao's thoughts turned to history. She had read history books many times and found that there was no dynasty in history that would never fall. At most, it would only take a few hundred years of national destiny to start the change of dynasty.
That is to say, the most noble royal family will fall one day, and the lives of most of the royal family who have perished are as thin as paper.
Her thoughts couldn't help but think of the Jingkang Incident in the Northern Song Dynasty. At that time, the Jin Kingdom invaded Kaifeng and the two emperors of the Song Dynasty were kidnapped. Even the emperors were humiliated by the nobles of the Jin Kingdom and made them serve as servants of the nobles.
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Not only the emperor was like this, but the imperial concubines, princesses, and princesses in the capital were also made prisoners. In addition, the women who wanted to open their seals were forced to be given to the Jin people as compensation. These women were even more miserable, and were treated by those Jin people.
Many women died on the road due to wanton bullying and persecution, and many Song Dynasty women became official prostitutes.
Official prostitutes were women who sold their bodies and talents operated by the imperial court. They first appeared in the profit-making establishments established by Guan Zhong. Their source mainly came from slaves, that is, women from the side that lost the war.
Later, there was another source, and that was the family members of the guilty officials. In the dynasty, the ministers went to court in the morning, and something happened. They ransacked their homes and exterminated their families. The men were beheaded, and the women were turned into official prostitutes. The noble ladies were superior.
A noble girl becomes the lowest person,
Therefore, after understanding the status of women in various dynasties, Ling Xiao felt that the status of women is not based on the status of a small group of people. Even if there are a few disasters that stand out, it should also be based on the status of more women.
Only when the status of the entire female group is improved, and women are recognized as human beings, and receive due respect and understanding, can real women be liberated.
Ling Xiao believes that those who think that they are rich, powerful, and have connections make them extremely noble. If they step on other women's heads without knowing it, they are definitely living a life without knowing her status at all.
It is like a castle in the air, and may be pulled down at any time.
There is also a possibility that many people who want to get pregnant simply don’t know what the so-called surrogacy is. Maybe they don’t need to go through it, and they don’t care about the dangers and sufferings involved. After all, the knife only has
Only when it is inserted into your heart will you feel pain and danger.
This also leads to the client as the entrusting lender thinking that as long as he pays the amount in the contract, he has fulfilled his obligations and just waits for the child to be born. Anyway, if you give a sum of money to a woman who took the risk of getting pregnant, it is considered to be a clear settlement. Therefore, it is said that
When it comes to this kind of thing, I will be quite understated: just to borrow a stomach.
Then Ling Xiao wanted to say: "Please take a good look at how to do in vitro fertilization. Those who don't understand the whole situation should take a good look at it. Please respect every life. If someone dies in the process of giving birth to someone else because of borrowing their belly,
Will anyone feel guilty about this?"
Of course, Ling Xiao knew that it was no longer important whether there was an answer to this question, because guilt or not could not change a cause and effect. Maybe in the eyes of some people, this result is not important, because these people also suffered losses, and the process would have to start all over again.
once.
Once again, you may have to spend a lot of money to select a suitable candidate, or you may have to find an intermediary agency to compensate for your losses. You must know that this costs real money, but the result is nothing.
Naturally, I would like to find another woman to help with the pregnancy.
And they generally don't think about the possibility that it is because of them that a child will lose his biological mother because of this reason, and will never see his mother again in his or her life.
In order to let their family or children live a better life, or for various reasons, mothers have to sell their wombs and become pregnant mothers on behalf of others. They are as humble as ants, trading their lives for one.
Money is earned if you live.
But have they ever thought about it? In case of danger, no amount of money can buy back their lives. Maybe the person involved has thought about it, but that amount of money is really good to them, and it may take a long time.
I can't earn that much, so I go to the tiger mountain even though I know there are tigers in the mountain.
But they don't know that the risk of this kind of behavior is much higher than that of natural pregnancy. They are not afraid of ten thousand, but afraid of the worst. Once it happens, it will be catastrophic. And the person involved risked his life to earn that money but did not spend it with his life.
will fall into the hands of others.
Not to mention that the money should be left to their children. Generally, the women who engage in this kind of business are not too old, and the children are basically underage. The money will not be given to minors. It will only fall into the hands of the guardian.
The last money the person concerned earned with his life would be given to other people, and he might let other women live in his house, spend his own money, and beat his own children. The children will not live long after losing the protection of their mothers.
It's miserable, so why do it?
After all, every woman is a human being. Once most of them can be commercialized, in Ling Xiao's view, social civilization will retreat sharply. After all, there is no bottom line, and the entire society will inevitably degenerate into a situation where as long as you have money, you will be the boss. Then
The entire society is bound to become cyberpunk.
Anyway, Ling Xiao thinks why should women embarrass women? Don’t think that because your life is so noble, you can use money to buy other people’s bodies, because after ten years in Hedong and ten years in Hexi, maybe one day she, who is noble, will be sold at a price.
Just like the aristocratic women in ancient times, they have no control over their own destiny.
If women don't feel sad and struggle for this situation, one day every woman will have a price. The reason why they are not taken down is because the benefits are not enough.
Once there are enough benefits, I am afraid that every woman may be betrayed with a clear price tag. How terrible! Ling Xiao naturally firmly opposes any kind of proxy, which is completely objectifying women.
This is also the feeling that Ling Xiao had after coming into contact with the Song family. This is also an important reason why she stepped forward to save the three people of the Song family, mother and son. Otherwise, these three people would basically not survive. Alas! It was really a crime.
I can't express these thoughts to the original owner, because the original owner is still a little girl, and it is not suitable for her to be a wife now, so I say it is to let the original owner rely on many people in the future.
The original owner was greatly surprised when she found out. After that, she was also thinking about her future. After knowing Ling Xiao's plan, she kept trying to build a good relationship with the Song family, which made Ling Xiao feel distressed. After all, the original owner lived a cautious life.
Later, after Ling Xiao lived in the small courtyard for a while, he got to know the Song family better, mother and son, and discovered that the two children were children with pretty good minds and had the possibility of education, as well as the Song family.
Her personality is too shy and not very suitable for being a housewife.
Therefore, she will definitely find an opportunity to tell the Song family some rules about the officials. You must know that the Song family was a scholar's daughter before. After all, she still belongs to the kind of Xiaojiabiyu who doesn't understand the life of the officials.
You must know that people in the village will regard scholars as powerful people. In fact, it is just the beginning of the imperial examination. There are also candidates and tribute scholars. After passing the imperial examination, you can become a Jinshi and a fellow Jinshi. In this way, you can wait to be assigned to
Officials in various places are usually seventh-rank officials.
Mrs. Song's eyes widened when she heard this. You must know that she has carefully thought about her future life during this period. She plans to let her sons study hard and make them progress.
But her idea is too simple. To put it bluntly, in her eyes, the palace is full of golden scenes. It’s not wrong. You must know that the tiles on the palaces are all yellow glazed tiles, and the palace floors are all yellow glazed tiles.
It is paved with gold bricks.
Song was fascinated after hearing this. These were all legends to her. In her mind, the county town was already a very prosperous place. Ling Xiao suspected that she would imagine the county town as the scenery of the capital city, but in the end she did not say it because the other party did not
imagination.
Ling Xiao told her the good side, and then told her the good and not bad side. This was because he could see that Mrs. Song was a little overwhelmed by the good side, and wanted to tell her that there are always people messing with people everywhere.
She wanted to tell the original owner and Mrs. Song to be careful. There are good and evil sides in human nature. Sometimes good and evil are just a matter of thoughts. This is not only the case for ordinary people, but also for those who are scholars.
Regardless of what scholars say all day long about benevolence, righteousness, and morality, in fact there are many thieves who are doing evil things secretly. There is a saying that scholars look down on each other, but the fights between scholars are more hidden.
She then told the two of them about the situation in general. Looking at history, you will find that in the beginning, the nobles controlled writing and took knowledge directly into their own hands. The children of the poor had no chance to receive education. Wait until
After Confucius began to say that there is no distinction between education and distinction, more people gradually began to become literate, which is why Confucius is called an educator.
Later, a group of people who came from poor backgrounds but became literate due to various opportunities appeared. Therefore, the scope of scholars expanded at this time. At first, scholars were only the descendants of upper-class nobles (except for the eldest son, who could inherit the noble status). Later, scholars came to
During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, the number of scholars increased.
Of course, not long after the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, aristocratic families began to appear on the stage of history. Culture and education were still the privileges of a small number of people. It can be said that aristocratic families controlled the power of the court.
Aristocratic families are also divided into different levels. Some are top aristocratic families. Basically, members of these large families take on the responsibility of three princes. Of course, the members of aristocratic families are not static. In some aristocratic families, if there is no one who has been a high official for several generations,
It will fall down.
Of course, why people from aristocratic families were so strong at that time was because they had always enjoyed the privilege of education and had many connections in their families. At that time, if you wanted to be an official, there was no such thing as taking an exam to become an official.
Recommendation, personal connections are an important condition. Without personal connections, there is no chance.
Mrs. Song's eyes widened when she heard this, and she said somewhat depressedly: "What should we do? We don't have any connections in our family, how can we let Da Lang and Erlang have any connections?"
After hearing this, Ling Xiao wanted to laugh a little. Poor parents in the world. He felt that he didn't know what to say, so he said slowly: "You are wrong. Now that the family is in decline, there is no longer any recommendation system.
If you want to make progress, you can take the imperial examination."
Although there was a lot of criticism of the eight-part essay system of the imperial examination later, to put it bluntly, the imperial examination system completely broke the monopoly pattern of aristocratic families and gave many children from ordinary families the opportunity to embark on the road of becoming officials.
This is stronger than the dominance of aristocratic families. In a court where aristocratic families dominate, the life span is generally shorter, that is, the Eastern Han Dynasty was longer, and the subsequent Wei and Jin Dynasties were shorter, dying within a few decades.
The big reason is that people from aristocratic families only think about their own family. Whether it is the collapse of the country or the death of other people's families, it will not leave any trace in the hearts of aristocratic families, and aristocratic families even look down on the emperor.
The children of aristocratic families can do many things for the sake of the family, causing free people to lose their land, suppressing the children of poor families, one by one, all aggravating social conflicts, and ultimately leading to the fall of the dynasty.