Many times, people who have not suffered all kinds of pain tend to ignore it and ignore it, while those who really suffer pain are very young when their feet are bound, about five years old, and they have no idea of the priorities of things. At the same time, as a
The parties concerned have no right to refuse or object at all.
The people who force them to bind their feet are often their female elders, and they are doing it for their own good. It comes from their own experience. As elders, they see it clearly.
They had no choice but to do this. Men loved the three-inch golden lotus. For this reason, they specially summarized various standards. So, whether a woman is beautiful or not depends not on her face or figure, but on whose feet are well wrapped.
, is it the three-inch golden lotus?
A golden lotus must never exceed three inches. If it exceeds, it is no longer a golden lotus. A four-inch one is an anemone. Those with more than four inches of feet are called iron lotuses. Those without bound feet will naturally not catch the eyes of some people.
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If the face and body look are more innate, that is, natural beauty. Then the three-inch golden lotus can be acquired. In this case, more and more women would rather die in pain than become
The ugly girl everyone calls her.
In other words, the upper class loves small feet, and small feet are the certificate leading to wealth. Women eventually began to endure the pain and have their female offspring have their feet bound, and big feet became a symbol of family poverty.
In this torrent of people who believe that small feet are beautiful, there are definitely some clear-headed people among them, but the number will not be too large. More men will not care whether a woman has bound feet, but there are definitely some who are adding fuel to the flames, which will eventually lead to
Abnormal aesthetics has become the public’s aesthetics.
Therefore, if you want to end the custom of foot binding, it is not to make women realize that foot binding is bad. This kind of recognition is useless at all, and women will not have enough power to oppose it.
At the beginning of the Song Dynasty, foot binding was not so perverted, but there were men who loved it, and they were so-called celebrities. The celebrity effect eventually led to an increasing number of foot bindings, and they developed in a small direction.
Therefore, if you want to stop foot-binding, there is only one way to go: make men feel that foot-binding is bad. But what can be done to make them feel bad? You must know that foot-binding has been taken for granted.
The best way is to let the men feel the pain. This is the best way, but unfortunately Ling Xiao also knows that this is completely impossible.
Ling Xiao thought that he should throw these men who like women into the daughter country of Jinghuayuan, let them feel the pain of having their feet broken alive, smell whether their feet smell bad, and then let them see the pain of their feet being cut off.
I believe most people will not like the deformed appearance after wrapping. Once you don't like it, it is worthless.
It's a pity that she knows that this is just a fantasy. She can never let men who like small feet wear small feet now. She is not the king of the daughter's country, and the men are not Uncle Lin.
She didn't care that she had no secular rights, because she knew that the emperor would not issue an order to strictly investigate the harmfulness of this bad habit. In his eyes, he didn't care about the situation of women at all, and the emperor almost died at the hands of a palace maid.
Here, it would be nice if there is no hatred for women.
Historically, the Manchu emperors of the Qing Dynasty abolished the custom of foot-binding, but the effect was almost ineffective. Instead, some Manchu women also followed suit. Fortunately, the living emperor strictly ordered Manchu women to bind their feet, so much so that they were not allowed to hold office.
What’s funny is that during the Qing Dynasty, the ratio of foot-binding among Han women increased. This was just because some men did not face reality after the fall of the Ming Dynasty and began to indulge in obscenity: saying that men should be demoted but women should not be demoted.
Damn! A capable man would rather die than surrender! If you have to do something to a woman and not surrender, and let women suffer so much pain one by one, it is progress for women not to bind their feet, right?
After thinking about it for a while, Ling Xiao knew that he couldn't go through the normal channels. He wanted to find the emperor who was dedicated to alchemy? No! Because this emperor always considered himself to be wise and powerful, and he especially hated people telling him what to do.
If Ling Xiao comes to him for help, will he be blacklisted? And this person is very small-minded. If he does ten thousand good things for him, if he doesn't do one, he will be resented by her. Naturally, she is too lazy to care about that.
emperor.
She fully intends to take another path, and has been making preparations during this period, and is almost done with the relevant preparations.
There's just one more problem: after doing this, you have to feel sorry for the women whose feet have been bound. After all, they have suffered countless hardships and are likely to become the ones who are disliked in the end.
Why do you say this? That’s because the abolition of foot binding happened, and many innocent victims had miserable lives. Some people regarded women with bound feet as feudal remnants and scorned them vigorously.
Obviously they are all victims, but they are criticized by some so-called progressive people and even become grounds for divorce. They are eventually abandoned by their husbands. Alas! I hope those women with bound feet in this era are better than those women who are regarded as remnants of feudalism.
We are lucky.
Ling Xiao also thought about it for a while before deciding to do this, because if this behavior is not stopped, more women will suffer such pain, so he would rather wrong this generation than let more people suffer.
women suffer this pain.
Therefore, Ling Xiao decided to take action. The reason why she did not take action before was because she had been thinking about how to make most men stop liking the three-inch golden lotus.
Who makes this a patriarchal society? Even if she can explain clearly the disadvantages of foot binding to some women, women who like it and ultimately rely on men for a living will still continue to have their feet bound.
So what does Ling Xiao think he should do? It's impossible to go to the capital and become emperor after killing the emperor. In this case, he will definitely be regarded as a traitor.
After much thought, she decided to use her status as a monk. After thinking about it, she found something she could do because she thought of the illusion formation in the formation.
It's just that we need to study the plot carefully about the phantom formation, so that people immersed in it can have a full sense of immersion. Only in this way can they feel the pain.
But whether people who enter the phantom array will have adverse reactions due to the influence of the phantom array is something that needs to be studied. After all, it was in the world of cultivation before, and the people there should have much better physical fitness than the people in this world.
Will it be acclimated to using the magic array in this world?
She had to think carefully before taking action, because she was saving people, not killing people. As a mortal, she had to think carefully about the phantom formation that could be accepted before making a decision. After she had an idea, she kept groping for it in secret.
Still have to experiment.
She kept watching during the whole process to make sure that the magic array she refined was harmless to ordinary people. Besides, the number of people to be tested cannot be small, because small numbers are inaccurate.
The reason why she did this was because she remembered a sentence: human life is greater than heaven. She is a monk, but she still remembers that she was once a mortal. Remember not to let mortals suffer needlessly. Saving people can never turn into killing people.
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Ling Xiao has always been in awe of life. This was due to her own mother's remarks. Ling Xiao still remembers that her mother was disgusted with the guy named Li Kui in a certain famous book.
That guy would often pull out an ax and chop people with his ax when he disagreed. It was described in the book that when he robbed the prison, he didn't care that the bystanders he hacked to death and injured were all innocent people watching the fun.
After Ling Xiao learned about it, he also hated people like Li Kui. There are also some people like this in modern society. When they want to vent their bad life, they kill elementary school students, kindergarten children and other innocent people.
We all have the courage to kill, so why not find justice through normal channels? Can we kill someone just because we feel wronged? People like this are very annoying, because basically everyone in this world will feel wronged.
Therefore, Ling Xiao must be especially careful not to injure innocent people when doing things. This is why she traveled back in time for nearly ten years before starting to prepare for action. She had been making preparations and conducted a series of experiments to ensure that people would not
get hurt.
After finishing the phantom formation, she was ready to take action. Of course, she did not intend to do it herself. She could just let the puppets do it. She would start taking action after the original owner and the Song family settled down.
She plans to install those magic arrays mainly in big cities, because there are many people there, and there are also major academies to go to. Only by letting the scholars know that they are wrong can the foot-binding trend be stopped. Three-inch golden lotus is not beautiful.
This process will take a little longer. After all, there are many places here. I hope it can wake everyone up and prevent the bodies of those women from being disabled.
After preparing to start the magic formation, she decided to settle down. The reason why she decided to live here was because she felt that the Wei family, the local leader here, had a good overall reputation, and the patriarch and elders of this family were quite reasonable.
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There are also some people in this family who are more difficult to take care of, such as the people in the fifth house, but most of them are good. There is no place in this world that is good in everything. There is no absolute perfection, only suitability.
You must know that after this experience, I am afraid that the Seventh Old Lady will like the original owner more. If they want to live in this town, they will not be rejected by the original owner just because they are strangers.
There is another most important reason. For the sake of the original owner, the original owner was not too young in ancient times and was just in the time to get engaged. Most girls get engaged at this age. Unless they are from particularly bad families, they have no plans.
For the sake of the original owner, she must settle down as soon as possible. You must know that she is now a man and it is not easy to find a good family for the original owner.
In ancient times, it was basically impossible for a woman to get married unless she became a monk. A woman who stayed at home without getting married would soon become a gossip.
In addition, the original owner is not the kind of person who likes to become a monk. Since she has had no family since she was a child, she wants a harmonious and beautiful home, so Ling Xiao naturally wants to find one for her.
He met many adult women along the way. Ling Xiao had to give up after observing them. Some of them had bad character, and some had good character but had family connections and could not get to know each other deeply.
The husband of the seventh old lady I met this time passed away and her son was in another place. It can be said that he has a unique position in his family and is the best candidate.
Although Mrs. Qi was born into a poor family, it was obvious that she was well-educated and reasonable. In many cases, she had the resilience and mobility of a woman. She was not willing to live a life where someone would openly compliment her and then be rejected, so she would go back to her hometown to live her own life.
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Her life experience is very good for the original owner. After all, they belong to the same era, so their ideas should be somewhat similar, unlike Ling Xiao's and the original owner's ideas, which are too different.
After much deliberation, Ling Xiao felt that there were some things that needed the help of the Seventh Old Madam. This was equivalent to finding a suitable teacher for the original owner, and the Song family. Therefore, she bought a house specifically. She felt that the money in her hands was a little tight.
It seems that he wants to prepare to make money, and also to establish a good relationship with the seventh old lady.
This is also an important reason why Ling Xiao accepted Madam Seventh's invitation to visit Wei San. Of course, there is another reason, that is, she really sympathizes with Wei San.
This girl encountered a disaster that she shouldn't have to bear. After being hit at every turn, she was so overwhelmed that she no longer wanted to live, so she fell into a deep sleep and didn't want to wake up.
In her opinion, her life was a joke. Her original family had oppressed her and plotted against her. She was still very sad when she returned to her own home. She shouldn't be alive. It would be better to die early and be reincarnated.
Even because of this period of thinking, she was unwilling to be a human again when she was reincarnated. There were too many difficulties in her life, and being a human was too painful.
Even the maid can sarcastically mock her. She has suffered criticism and hardships again. She is too tired from life and wants to take a good rest.
Maybe her life was not important in the eyes of some people, and many people even said some words casually, but to her it was a fatal blow. In the end, she wished she was really dead, and she didn't want to wake up.
Ling Xiao wanted to tell Wei San: Mrs. Qi adopted her, and everything will be fine in the future. Just forget about her biological parents! Some people are simply not suitable to be so-called parents.
That couple really didn't care about their children, they only cared about their own face. In this case, there was no need for Wei San to punish himself for other people's mistakes.
If you are alive, you must live better than others. This is the best revenge for your enemies. Don't compare yourself with them, there is no need.
I don’t feel anything when facing them, block everything about them from my life, let myself live well, stop being attached to these places, and live my life well first.
The reason why she did this was because Ling Xiao once watched some bloody dramas with her mother. In the plots, a female compatriot found out that her husband had cheated on her, and she tried hard to get it back.
To this end, she traced her husband's traces and found her mistress and started a fight. Unfortunately, the marriage she tried so hard to save was generally irreparable.
All the efforts she has made will only make her feel bored if her husband sees it, because people have a characteristic. Once they feel disgusted, they will be dissatisfied at everything. The more they do, the more disgusted they will be.
In the end, it's like sand between your fingers, thinking you can grab something, but in the end those things will slip through your fingers and you can't grab anything.
Ling Xiao still remembers his biological mother saying: "Aren't you stupid? The more you want to save her, the more you can't save her because she is too lowly and makes the man feel too cheap.
As the saying goes, it’s worthless to give them away in a hurry. Why are those women reluctant to eat and wear, and focus on saving money for their husbands, but the man still doesn’t like them?
That's because he thinks this wife is stupid and doesn't know how to dress up. He simply regards her as a nanny who doesn't need to spend money. This means that the children will have other ideas when they grow up.
If you first want to cheat, and finally want to get rid of your aging wife and marry a charming young wife, then you are living in real life.
In order to make a better life for himself, the man even transferred the family property, and the wife was asked to deposit all the family savings in her husband's name, and there were many small treasury deposits, which the woman didn't even know about."
Ling Xiao was amazed after hearing this, and her mother went on to say that there were many such things. She knew women in this situation. The couple came from the countryside and were originally from the same village.
Later, the man moved to a big city, and his wife followed him. She cared about her husband very much and looked proud when talking about him to others.
But she never thought that one day her proud husband would despise her and find another young and beautiful woman as his lover."
When she said this, her mother paused and glanced at her husband. Ling Xiao remembered that her father's face changed again because her mother hit her father, which made him feel very wronged. It was not his fault.
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My mother glared at my father and said, "The poor woman didn't know what to do. She ran to the bank and asked the bank staff to freeze the cheating man's account.
When the bank staff heard about her experience, they were very sympathetic and told her that the bank was not qualified to freeze customers' deposits. If they did, they would be taken to court. Only the court had the qualifications to do so. He suggested that she find a lawyer.
Later, they really got divorced. The woman mainly got a house, and the daughter was willing to follow her mother. But what she never expected was that the value of the room increased later, and the money and the house were originally of the same value, and the man asked for a share of the money. Haha