Chen Liulang also knew that he was not very qualified as a father. He didn't know how to be a good father. And because he had a big problem with his wife, he gradually became unwilling to go back and look at his wife's elongated face.
Face, resulting in weak relationship with children.
But he really tried to be a good father, because he knew that he could not help his children more emotionally, so he could only make up for it financially, and would bring money and things home every time he went home.
It was just that Ling Xiao laughed at his behavior, saying that his behavior was somewhat irresponsible to the children because he did not give the children enough support, which would make them have bad personalities in their future lives.
defects.
In addition, his behavior of throwing money at people is not right, because this kind of behavior will make them think that they can have everything if they have money. Also, it does not make the children feel that money is difficult to get and they will suffer in the future.
After hearing this, he thought about it for a long time, and finally accepted the criticism, because he was indeed deficient in the education of his children, so he was tricked by his children and grandchildren and accepted it, because he, as a father, failed to fulfill his responsibilities.
Of course, he himself also knew one thing. From the very beginning, the children stood beside his mother. He was so unpopular that even his own children were against him.
Seeing that her younger brother was not very happy and was relatively criticized, Mrs. Qi comforted him: Even if Chen Liulang had problems, his wife and children also had problems. After this time, she could clearly see the nature of these children. In the end, it was very important.
Difference.
That's right! Chen Liulang did not do well enough, but he did try his best. A country man must have suffered a lot just to make money, even though his brother never said it.
The old lady also knew about the problems between the couple. The sister-in-law was considered very capable at first, but later she found out that she was not a virtuous woman and only wanted to take advantage.
On the one hand, that woman wanted to take advantage of her, but on the other hand, she was jealous of her elder sister-in-law. In the eyes of the old lady, her sister-in-law had a problem in her mind. She was mumbling behind her and always wanted to compare with her sister. She wished that the old lady had
She also needs to have some things.
When the old lady found out, she didn't know what to say, because no matter what, although the Wei family was also a farming family, its background was still better than that of the Chen family. Moreover, with Sister Yao here, the Wei family began to take off. The Wei family was far behind the Chen family, and the sister-in-law
What to compare with her?
At that time, the old lady still remembered that she would rather demolish a temple than destroy a family. She felt that her younger brother’s family already had a child. If he changed his wife to a younger sister-in-law, wouldn’t it mean that the child would suffer? It would be better for the two of them to get used to each other first, and maybe they could reconcile.
Have a nice life.
Only now do I understand that leaving that short-sighted woman behind will cause even more harm. The children of the Chen family will be destroyed in her hands. Alas! The losses should have been stopped at that time.
Of course, they wake up to this too late. Before stopping the loss, people often have to calculate how much loss they have suffered. If they stop the loss, they may suffer losses and never get them back.
Therefore, when faced with a bad situation, relatively few people dare to stop losses directly. They often take a fluke mentality and think that if they endure it longer, they can get it all back. However, they often put in more effort and lose more.
Just like Chen Liulang.
Chen Liulang is completely unwilling to be with his children and grandchildren now. Maybe they are not capable of committing great crimes, after all, those guys don't have that ability yet, but they are definitely selfish.
Those people have no respect or love for him as a father, that's all! Don't worry about those white-eyed wolves in the future. He earns money to support a large family, so he is worthy of them. At least he has built a house for them.
, the property left behind includes land and money, what else is missing?
He has been working hard outside for these years, not only for a few children, but now he can finally live the life he wants. At this time in life, one has to think about himself.
Naturally, he would not charge them with disobedience, but from now on, they would go their separate ways. Anyway, didn't they say that they were already dead?
They really had a dark heart. If they hadn't had another way out, they wouldn't have been able to escape. If they stayed there, they would have been burned to death or starved to death. Thinking about it, Chen Liulang felt chilled.
Although the relationship between him and his wife is not good, he has never looked for a woman outside, because Chen Liulang is a stingy person who only cares about his family and takes back all the money he has to support his family.
Maybe he felt sorry for his children and grandchildren because he didn't educate them well, but he really tried his best. Compared with those white-eyed wolves, he still has some conscience.
Now he looked at the inexplicably surprised third son and felt nothing at all. There was no fluctuation at all, because he had uprooted them from his heart during his illness. He was such a cruel person.
Sister A told him not to hate someone easily, because hating takes effort and wastes one's own feelings, and he just ignores those white-eyed wolves.
And he also felt that Sister A was right. He was not the kind of person who had always lived in the countryside and knew nothing. After being outside for so many years, he knew that there were many dark sides in the world, which was why he had always been cautious.
Later, when the family got rich, they were not allowed to live in the county town, because they did not know how difficult it was for a commoner to live, and it was better to live in the countryside.
This was also one of the reasons why he and his wife were at odds. To prevent any eventuality, he directly recorded the land at home in his own name. Although he might lose some rent, it could ensure that the land would not be sold off.
When the wife found out, she was very angry. She felt that her husband was trying to protect her, but she couldn't find anyone who sympathized with him except her mother's family, so the couple completely broke up.
Those unfilial sons who followed their wives all the time naturally turned their attention to their mother. However, because most of the family's money came from Chen Liulang, they did not dare to talk back to their father and would only curse in their hearts.
Although the quality of these people is not very good, the degree of guilt is too big, so Chen Liulang plans to ignore everything and let a few unfilial sons suffer severe beatings from society, and then let go of caring about them.
I originally thought that their family would be able to live well with their land, house, and money, but they never expected that in the past few years, these fools would have spent almost all their money.
Chen Liulang remembered that he had just checked the situation of the Chen family a few days ago. After getting this answer, he didn't know what to say. His wife wanted to live in the county town and wanted to get rid of the title of mud-legged person.
But Chen Liulang was unwilling, because he knew that the water in the county town was much deeper than that in the village, and people like his wife couldn't do it. He tried his best to block it. As a result, after the separation, all of them were so awesome that they all moved to the county town.
Hahaha! How funny! Chen Liulang almost died laughing. Those people had really been thinking about moving into the county town, but Chen Liulang suppressed them and moved in one after another after they became the masters of their own affairs.
Ha! Do you think you are not a country boy after you move into the county? It’s really a joke. Chen Liulang has known their actions for a long time, but he didn’t want to stop them. Why did he stupidly stop them? In their eyes, they were only afraid of him as a father.
A great villain.
Since he is a great villain, why should he think about them? He has no intention of taking care of them at all, but he can feel how fast his children and grandchildren spend money!
I only discovered the problem when I ran out of money, and I didn't have the ability to make money on my own. I felt bad now. After hitting the wall one after another, I changed my mind and wanted to find someone for help.
I just thought of the old lady, and that's why I met Siping. I was really too naive, thinking that the old lady would definitely help them, how could that be possible? Her sister is the kind of person who hates evil as much as she hates it.
She didn't go and beat her up for Chen Liulang's sake. Naturally, she was too lazy to take care of those white-eyed wolves, people who even her own father was not willing to take care of. As an aunt, she wouldn't think of taking care of Yi Er if something happened.
What do people do if they don’t stay away?
This was also one of the reasons why the Chen family collapsed so quickly. Things that could have been let go for the sake of the Wei family would naturally not be let go, and each plan made them panic.
The Chen family brothers really regretted that they should not have pretended not to know anything in the first place and had to show it no matter what. Moreover, they did not let Mrs. Qi know about their father's accident.
All this made Mrs. Qi so disgusted that she refused to let her brothers see her, saying that the reason why she took care of them was because their biological father was her brother.
The brothers knew that it was too late to regret it. If they had known that this would be the case, they would definitely have a good relationship with their biological father. Some things can be taken slowly.
Feeling like they were running out of money, they thought about how to make money, and they knew that it was not easy to make money outside. Some of them thought of Siping, who disappeared with his biological father. If they found Siping, wouldn't they also find their biological father? Even if they were relatives,
Dad died and there was no money to take, but Siping could be asked to help them work.
Coincidentally, I happened to meet Siping, and I knew that my biological father had indeed run outside. He just didn't know whether he was dead or alive, but Siping was alive and well.
Thinking that Siping was living a good life at this time, Saburo wanted to go crazy. He wanted to catch Siping and torture him to find out what was going on, and see if he could find his biological father.
However, after Siping saw him, he had no intention of having anything to do with him. He just rode on a mule and planned to leave as if he didn't know him at all. How could he be happy?
He chased after him and shouted that Siping was a fugitive slave. You must know that fugitive slaves can be killed without mercy if caught. In his eyes, Siping was a slave of the Chen family, saying that there was no problem with fugitive slaves.
What he never expected was that Siping would actually run into a village. Apparently everyone here knew Siping, which made him realize that this was his aunt's territory. Thinking about it made him feel depressed. Their relationship with her aunt was too ordinary.
At this moment, his father appeared to protect Siping, which made Chen San a little surprised, happy, and unspeakably jealous. After these years, he had gained some brains, and he really felt that it was better to have his father.
They were also misled by their mother before, thinking that their father didn't care about them. The situation in the past few years has finally made them realize that some things may not appear very often, but that is the backbone behind them.
I was a little surprised to see my father appear, because I didn't know what his condition was, and I felt that there was some overnight feud between father and son. He would forgive as soon as he apologized. If father and son reunited, his father would agree to his request, and then he would be happy.
After seeing Mr. Chen Liu, he suddenly thought that his life would be easier in the future, and he could also ask his aunt for help. He knew that if he wanted to ask the Wei family for help, he could only rely on the old lady.
At this moment, he naturally understood that it was his aunt who had hidden his father. He believed that she would not let others know about his father's existence, so that he could have a good talk with his aunt.
In the years since his father left, he has known how difficult it is to live without support. The Chen family does not have a child with a talent for reading, and it is impossible to stand up.
It has always been because the seventh old lady gave them face, but when the seventh old lady did not intend to give them face, he felt that life was much more difficult. He wanted to get help from his aunt and live a good life.
Mr. Chen Liu looked at his third son who was kneeling down. He felt that his son had aged a lot after not seeing him for two years. He used to be fat and white, but now he is dark and thin. Ha! This is really great!
The corners of his mouth were slightly raised, perhaps because he was too indifferent to his children and grandchildren, and because of their slutty behavior, he really had no feelings for them.
But no matter whether you are their father or a passerby, you will not like their behavior. As long as they live a bad life, these unscrupulous descendants who ignore his life and death should return to where they should be.
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He still remembered what Ling Xiao said. It was precisely because of his lack of education of children that all his children and grandchildren were ungrateful white-eyed wolves. There was a cause and effect problem on his part.
After being taught a lesson by Ling Xiao, Chen Liulang thought about it and determined that he was indeed not a good father. He was busy making money outside all year round and had no time to pay attention to his children. He did not even plant a tree.
Like a tree, it takes good care of its children.
It is true that he failed to fulfill his responsibilities as a father, which was his fault, but Chen Liuye felt that he could not bear all the responsibilities. You must know that he also asked several children to go to school. He did not ask them to succeed in the imperial examination, but asked them to have more exams.
Read and understand the truth well.
This should allow them to know what is right and what is wrong. But obviously they have not learned these principles, and in the end their ideas remain ignorant.
So much tuition money was really wasted, hey! Mr. Chen Liu sighed. At least he contributed to that family. It was precisely because of his years of hard work that his wife and children lived a better life than others.
In life, there are gains and losses.
Even Mr. Chen Liu feels that even if he gives up running around and stays at home to educate his children, it may not make the children happy. Sometimes being poor is not good.
Because people live in a circle and often compare themselves with each other, if they are not around their children just to make money, it will make the children unhappy.