Some developments depend on personal choices, but Ling Xiao just wants to make it clear to the original owner, and does not want to tell her what to do. I believe the original owner will make her own decision.
The reason why Ling Xiao did this, instead of giving advice on everything, was for the original owner's own good. She had to stand up and make decisions on her own, and she couldn't expect others to give her advice throughout her life.
Naturally, the original owner did not expect that Ling Xiao would have such thoughts. As a woman, she recalled the plots of the two dramas and felt that they were generally different. She never expected that there would be such a bad plot and character setting.
The original owner didn't think too much about the initial entanglement between the male and female protagonists. After all, she was a straight woman and had never thought about love at all.
She has no more feelings about whether lovers love or dislike each other. She has always been on the periphery of the separation and reunification of lovers, just watching as a bystander.
I don't have any empathy for the heroine's lingering and sentimental feelings for the hero, and I don't feel that they are miserable, because they are not the ones who suffer the most in the matter.
I just think they are stupid, and don't look at the gap between them and the male protagonist. The gap between their three views is too big. If they can become a pair, both parties must learn to make concessions. Unilateral concessions are invalid.
This is something that the original owner learned from his original family. The reason why his biological mother was able to marry him was because his biological father was willing to marry a woman of a foreign race.
My father may not be attentive enough to take care of his family, but he is still good to his family. Even if his wife later becomes very strange, he still provides the protection that a husband can give.
Maybe it's because he has seen through many problems when he is older that he is so responsible. The male protagonist of the musical has obviously not grown up yet. Maybe it would be better if the heroine met him at night.
Of course, it may not change anything. What some men give to their lovers is still a lover, and he has a real wife. So the heroine gives up her emotions without knowing anything, and ultimately gets nothing in return.
Why do you say that? Because the original owner knew from the plot that the hero never intended to take the heroine back to China to get married. This was because of the overall environment.
Don't look at what various media preach about freedom and equality all day long, and they seem to say there is no discrimination. In the opinion of the original owner, those propaganda are just rhetoric, and anyone who believes it will definitely be fooled.
People from foreign lands are considered lower-level people in the eyes of some people, especially in country A where the Yellow Peril theory is prevalent. The heroine will not bring any benefit to the hero's future, so why bring her back?
The original owner didn't have much sympathy for the heroines, but he also knew that their way of thinking was largely caused by that era. In many cases, they were also considered victims and were hurt by the male protagonists.
The reason why I say no sympathy is because in the opinion of the original owner, I am afraid that the heroine does not need sympathy, and may even feel that she will love the man even after death, so there is no need to sympathize.
But the original owner hated the male protagonist who did nothing. In her eyes, he was a piece of garbage! The thought of them not caring about her bloodline made her hate it extremely.
Why do you think so? Because in her previous life, she was afraid that she would be abandoned by her family one day because of her mother, but her father later told her: Absolutely not. This made her feel relieved, and she understood that a caring person
How important parents are to their children.
If compared with the male protagonist in the play, her biological father did a very good job and worked hard to provide space for his two daughters to grow.
I have never thought about abandoning my eldest daughter or don't care about her at all. Although I don't care enough about my eldest daughter to avoid suspicion, I have always shouldered the responsibility of being a father.
This alone, in the eyes of the original owner, his biological father completely killed the two male protagonists. As human beings, we should shoulder our own responsibilities. We only want to waste time on ourselves, but do not want to take responsibility. They are not garbage, who is garbage?
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Since they don't want to take on the responsibility of being a father, they should control themselves and avoid having romantic affairs. I believe that if they had known that there was an illegitimate child, they might not have come to travel at all.
This is also the reason why the original owner felt that the heroine was completely blind. Why couldn't she see the scum of the male protagonist in the end? Or maybe she knew that the other person was scum, but she hypnotized him into thinking that he was not bad?
It’s really a shame in a woman’s heart. As a woman, the original owner can’t understand what the heroine is doing. She doesn’t understand why they still believe in that man? Will a man who is so ruthless to his ex-girlfriend be good to his children?
This is forcing an irresponsible person to shoulder the responsibilities that he should bear. I'm afraid that the male protagonist will feel as miserable as coptis and complain in his heart that the female protagonist is too careless in doing things. Who asked her to give birth to the child?
Why did the original owner have this association? It was because when she was in high school, she witnessed with her own eyes the entire process of a couple going from loving each other to turning against each other.
It was not until later that we found out that the reason for such a big change was just because the woman was pregnant. The loving couple gradually became different, and the love they once had was soon gone.
The reason why they were able to eat this melon was because a pair of young lovers found a quite private place to discuss issues, and the original owner who was hiding in the dark watched the scene silently because he arrived one step early.
At that time, the woman arrived at the place first. She sat down and stood up at that place, frowning, biting her lip, and looking into the distance from time to time.
The original owner naturally recognized her - Elisa. She was in the same grade as the original owner and had a boyfriend who was said to be very handsome. However, the original owner found it strange, why would Elisa hold her belly from time to time?
This action couldn't help but make her a little more curious, because no matter how she looked at it, she felt that Elisa was eager to do something. The original owner, who wanted to test her reasoning ability, paid some attention to Elisa.
While peeping, the original owner carefully hid himself to prevent the other party from discovering that he was nearby. If he went out now, he would be remembered by Eliza, so it was better to stay still than move.
She also wanted to explore what was going on, and felt that Eliza probably didn't want others to know her private affairs, so she naturally wanted to hide herself from being discovered.
Waiting for the boy to come, he was in high spirits with a ball in his arms. He couldn't help but smile when he saw his girlfriend flying into his arms. The original owner who was watching on the side slightly curled his lips, feeling that the man would soon stop laughing. This is Yi
Lisa's movement of holding her belly made her have some suspicions.
As expected, the two people who were hugging each other at first quickly separated. Elisa looked at her boyfriend with a shy face and put his hand on her belly.
"?????" The boyfriend looked confused and didn't understand what his girlfriend meant at all. "You are going to be a father!" said his girlfriend Elisa with a bit of excitement and a bit of anxiety.
After Elisa found out she was pregnant, she was a little scared and a little excited, because it was the fruit of their love and she was going to be a mother. But she never expected that her boyfriend was not happy at all, and instead he said a series of words.
"Why are you so careless? What? You actually have a child? Did you do it on purpose? And is this child mine?" the boyfriend said with an ugly face.
He is completely unprepared to be a father. He is still a baby, so how can he be a father? Moreover, they are still in high school and cannot afford all the expenses after the child is born. He still has a bright future.
After hearing this, the girl was so surprised that she couldn't believe her ears. She looked at him with a bit of pain, as if she didn't know him. She couldn't temper her boyfriend's enthusiasm at first, but the two of them had a child after eating the forbidden fruit. Don't they have a boyfriend?
The reason?
She originally planned to get comfort from her boyfriend, but she never expected that her boyfriend would accuse her, as if the main responsibility was on her. Didn't he get happiness when he ate the forbidden fruit?
Two people who once loved each other had two completely opposite ideas because of the child in Elisa's belly. The man demanded that his girlfriend not give birth to the child, saying that he did not want to be a father. The child in his girlfriend's belly was not the same as his.
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The woman wanted to give birth to the child, but she was unwilling to abort the little life. Their ideas were incompatible. The sweet couple blamed each other, as if everything in the past was a mistake.
As a bystander, the original owner didn't know what to say when she saw this, but she didn't come forward because Eliza had plotted against the original owner in the early years, and there was some grudge. If she didn't retaliate, it would mean that the original owner had a good temper, and she would naturally not come forward.
But things between two people are really rare. The original owner paid attention with some curiosity, and later found out that the girl had to take a break from school to give birth to the child, and then she stopped going to school because the child was too young and she had to take care of the child.
Although the woman's family was very dissatisfied with Eliza's behavior, they still extended a helping hand. It must be said that Eliza's family was good. Some of the woman's family members simply kicked the child out without caring about family relationships.
Although the woman's elders did not take time to help take care of the child, they at least provided the mother and daughter with their daily necessities. Otherwise, Elisa, who was unable to support herself, was afraid that she would not be able to keep her child and would be taken away by the relevant departments.
The child didn’t have a father after he was born, because after the news of Elisa’s pregnancy was known, what he got was not the concerted efforts of the other family. In the end, the boy’s family ran away without even saying hello. It was really too bad.
Scumbag.
This is also the reason why the original owner determined that the two male protagonists were unwilling to take their sons with them. They probably still thought that they were babies and people who needed to be taken care of.
Waiting for them to really get married is like completely forgetting the past. If you don't have children, you may think of children when you get older. You never thought of them before.
After watching the whole plot, you will find that the heroine is stupid and the male is a scumbag. As their child, they are quite innocent. They wait until the child grows up to know what happened to his mother, especially knowing that his mother had to commit suicide for the sake of his future mother.
, will it make the child feel good?
The original owner took the role of the child and found out that it was not good, because the mother risked her life to give birth to the child, and then committed suicide in order to allow the man to adopt the child. He always thought about his own child, and he did not hesitate to give everything for it.
She couldn't understand the heroine's thoughts, but she felt that the logic of the whole drama was touching. After exchanging her thoughts with Ling Xiao, she agreed with Ling Xiao's thoughts. These two dramas really didn't look good.
Ling Xiao reminded the original owner that there is a possibility that the child will be too young in the future, and the impression of his biological mother will gradually disappear, and eventually some traces of her will be cleared away over time.
Of course, it is also possible that a series of things will happen when the children grow up, letting the children know the truth of the matter. There are countless possibilities for what will happen after that. This is also a speculation, after all, this is a written script.
The joys and sorrows in both dramas have been arranged long ago, and both the heroine and the hero are tools that the screenwriter can use at will.
Even so, Ling Xiao couldn't help but want to complain. In this drama, in addition to the innocent children, there was also a person who was hurt by the male and female protagonists, who was also quite innocent, and that was the wife that the male protagonist later married.
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It was obviously a happy trip, but in the end, there was a thunderstorm. What's even worse is that as a person who was implicated, whatever she did was wrong. If she agreed to take away the child, it would not work, but it was a pity that the male protagonist was unwilling.
In the end, the heroine dies, and no matter how you look at it, it feels like the wife is the one who got in the way. Even if she didn't do anything, or she resents the heroine's behavior, there's nothing wrong with it.
Just think about it and you will know that the woman in the wife's position is very miserable, and she may feel that her life is extremely aggrieved, and this is all because the man does not know how to restrain himself when doing things.
He only thinks about pursuing his own happiness and does not consider what will happen to the girl he seduces in the future. He is just a heartless and unjust person.
Some people may say that the heroines also have certain responsibilities. They have to walk the path they walk on their knees. This is indeed undeniable.
But Ling Xiao still sympathizes with some women, not only because they belong to the same gender, but also because she knows how difficult it is to be a single mother.
For example, the original owner talked about Eliza. She had to face the problem of pregnancy out of wedlock alone. Should she give birth to the child? Or should she not want the child?
No matter which choice she makes, it is possible that in the last moments of Eliza's life, she will look back with some regrets and think: Maybe it would have been better to have chosen another option at the beginning.
The original owner said that Eliza finally chose to give birth to the child, which was the most difficult for her because she dropped out of school in the third trimester of pregnancy, and she ultimately did not receive more education.
Then she had a child without getting married. Will some men think that she is a casual woman? It will be more difficult after getting through the pregnancy period.
Because the child needs someone to take care of it after birth, Eliza did not get married even after giving birth to the child. Her boyfriend's family even ran away because of this, so her whole family would be gossiped about in secret.
She also has no one as a companion who can share the hard work of raising a child for her. She has no salary and has been asking her family to help support her and the child?
Eliza's life was a bit of a failure. She gave birth to a child out of wedlock when she needed to focus on working hard for herself. As a result, her education came to an abrupt end and she was far behind her classmates at the same level. She might find out when she wanted to go out to make money.
The distance between each other increases.
That's why Ling Xiao always hopes that the women around him will keep their bodies clean, instead of giving their bodies to others casually, because if he doesn't cherish himself, who will cherish you?