Ling Xiao knew that if she spoke out about her desire to keep herself clean, some people would probably say that she had a rigid mind and that she died early in the morning, as if what she said was wrong.
The phrase "die early in the morning" is often used by netizens on the Internet to criticize people with rigid ideas. Anyone who is said this often gives others the first impression that the person being criticized is a remnant of feudalism.
It's just that Ling Xiao found it a bit funny when she saw it. She didn't understand why some people would accuse her of thinking? Indeed, the person who was big on writing died early in the morning. In other words, there must be a different voice, so she wanted to speak out about herself
Is the idea wrong?
And why do some people think that a person who is clean and self-sufficient must be a stubborn person? Who makes this distinction? Is there any difference between labeling someone with a complete lack of understanding and the so-called hegemonism?
Ling Xiao knows that there are people who are willing to go out and have fun, whether it is traveling, exploring places they are not familiar with before, or wanting to be the king of the sea, that is their choice. But it does not mean that you can ridicule those who are not willing to go out, this is also a personal choice
All right?
Ling Xiao agreed very much with those who worked hard to keep themselves clean in order to prevent weird sexual behaviors and ensure their own health. She and he did nothing wrong.
What's wrong with being secluded? What's wrong? Some people think that there's nothing wrong with preaching the so-called sexual freedom everywhere, but it's wrong to preach secluded people? How funny!
People don’t live for others, they live for themselves. So Ling Xiao thinks that he has the right to decide how to live, and he can even express his thoughts to his family and friends, and he can also promote his thoughts. What’s wrong with that?
In her opinion, one should live according to one's own ideas rather than being told what to do. Is it illegal to keep one's mind clean? No, it doesn't even go beyond moral standards.
But do others have the right to call those who are willing to keep themselves clean as old-timers? No! Just like Ling Xiao just sticks to his own ideas, the funniest thing is that in the eyes of some people, Ling Xiao seems to have done something heinous.
Of course she knows what she is doing and her philosophy, but others don't want to listen. This is everyone's right. Ling Xiao feels that each other should respect each other's own philosophy, not seek each other's ideas if they have different opinions, and each go his or her own way.
If she has different ideas, she doesn't need to care about each other's opinions. She is willing to keep herself clean, and even hopes that everyone will do the same to prevent the spread of certain bad diseases to the greatest extent.
This point was also approved by the original owner, who felt that in the relationship between lovers, it is better to be more modest than excessive. This was because of her experience after peeping on Elisa's affairs.
Later, because I was afraid that it was just an example and not accurate enough, I paid special attention to my other classmates, and it seemed that a new world had opened up.
Originally, the main purpose of going to school was not to study, but there were quite a few lovers among her classmates. There were also many types of lovers, and there were also so-called Shura fields.
For example, there was a situation where A liked B, B liked C, C liked D, and D liked A. They were just single arrows.
In addition, there are situations where a woman is pursued by n men, and every male student wants to spread her peacock tail to attract the attention of her sweetheart. Of course, there is also a man who is pursued by n women, and this has caused many fights.
Wow! The original owner never noticed this kind of thing before, because she has always been a transparent person, naturally no one shared these gossips with her, and as a straight woman, she never thought about it.
After discovering what happened to Eliza, I suddenly realized that there were couples of lovers. When encountering such a situation where they were fighting for love, they would leave early.
As an outsider, she naturally wouldn't dig into who was with whom, but she found that the so-called lovers had changed several times, and the so-called love came and went quickly.
There are also so-called lovers who fight and fight very fiercely. If someone interferes, the two lovers who originally wanted to beat each other to death actually unite together to accuse outsiders of meddling. This operation makes others feel cheated.
This is also the reason why the original owner has no sympathy for the heroine of the musical. Don't waste your feelings. If one party is not aware, no matter how much outsiders help, they will only be resented by the person involved.
After seeing too many of the separation and reunification of men and women, the original owner felt that the so-called falling in love was a complete waste of time, and if he had the time, he might as well study hard.
Ling Xiao was a little surprised when she heard about it. The original owner saw it clearly. Is this the reason why she never wanted to fall in love? So she couldn't help but rest assured that the original owner would not be fooled by the rhetoric.
She didn't want the original owner to live such a humble life like the two heroines, not even waiting for his lover's heartfelt pity and love until death. The original owner should have a good future.
The original owner laughed after knowing Ling Xiao's thoughts, and she said lightly: "What is there to like about that kind of man? Is it because he is handsome, so he must like him?
Yes, people like beautiful things, but most of the time they just want to look at them. Otherwise, just because they see the beautiful scenery, they would be thinking about bringing it to their windows?"
She laughed when she said this, and continued: "Looking at a beautiful man is not as good as looking at beautiful scenery, because beautiful men also have a certain shelf life, and after that, people will be surprised.
There was once a man who was considered extremely handsome. As he got older, he actually gained weight, and then he was no longer handsome. He vividly reflected the saying: Time is like a butcher's knife."
After knowing the original owner's thoughts, Ling Xiao couldn't help but want to laugh. The original owner said with a smile: "Is this the pain that outsiders feel when they see a beauty grow old?! I understand this very well.
Ahhh! I can’t believe this is true. Why didn’t I expect that such a handsome guy would gain weight and have a belly and a full beard? I really can’t bear to look at it.
Hey! Although the flowering period of handsome men is generally longer than that of beautiful women, except for a few individuals, handsome men and beautiful men will eventually lose their former beauty little by little because of time."
After hearing this, Ling Xiao nodded repeatedly and said: "The big taboo for handsome men and beautiful women is to be overweight. Of course, some beauties are good even if they are plump, but being plump does not mean being overweight."
It is not a good thing for normal humans to be overweight. Not only may their face shape and body shape deteriorate, but the internal organs of the body may also be affected.
Ling Xiao specially told the original owner. The reason why he emphasized it was because he knew that the original owner was the kind of person who was not very willing to move around. In such a situation where he was not hungry at all, it was easy to gain weight, which was not good for his health.
The original owner felt a little shy after being pointed out, so she wanted to change the topic. In fact, she vaguely remembered that her mother had watched a similar drama. She said with some recollection: "I still remember that my mother was in tears.
, which surprised me at that time.”
Ling Xiao was very interested when she heard it. When she was older, she had also explored the memory of the original owner, but she didn't pay attention to some details at all, so she listened to the original owner's review with some seriousness.
"Maybe it's because I don't have a good relationship with my mother. What she likes is often what I hate. I don't like the things I see she likes, even if they are good."
The original owner felt a little sad when he said this. It is obvious that the relationship between mother and daughter should be the closest, but because of the relationship between their biological mothers, there is too much estrangement between them.
"I didn't really like that kind of plot before, but I didn't know much about it after all. Now that I finally know the more complete plot, I only have one thought: some plots are really too stinky.
I have only one thought for the two heroines: they really hate iron, but girls, it is really incomprehensible for them to refuse to let go when they meet a scumbag. And they are not afraid of death, so why don’t they have the courage to live?"
emmmmm! Ling Xiao wanted to shake his head. Although there is a saying: it is better to die than to live, but they who have lost their dreams actually feel that on the one hand, they can solve the problem of their sons following their biological father, and on the other hand, they have broken their defenses.
It's probably because they didn't think about it, they always had a dream that everyone would be happy, but when the man came, they found that their dream was completely shattered. This result was unacceptable to them.
Ling Xiao thought for a while and felt that the original owner could not understand the heroine's mentality. After all, she had no relevant experience, so she could not imagine the despair of the woman after her hope was shattered.
The original owner continued: "Even if I get married in the future, I will not find a man who plays games with the world. What I want is the kind of partner who can share life and death with each other. In this way, I will not get married because of different views."
's grave.
If two people find that they are not compatible with each other after getting married and cannot move on, they will move forward alone, because marriage is only a part of life, and there are other places where I can work hard after the marriage ends."
Ling Xiao smiled slightly when she heard her words and gave her thumbs up. This was because she felt that the original owner had a good idea. It was inevitable that she would encounter ups and downs in life, so she could live a better life.
The original owner was very smart before, but her temper was soft before. But after these years of adjustment, the original owner has matured a lot, and it's great that Ling Xiao can feel the changes in her.
Ling Xiao had no objection to the original owner's desire to get married. Love is indeed the most important emotion in a woman's life, and it would be great if she could get a true love.
But Ling Xiao is a little worried. This is because women are more emotional. There are more women who are loyal to their marriage partners. Some women may be more open before marriage, but after marriage they really want to be a good wife.
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It is difficult for men to say that even if they have tried every means to pursue a woman, spent a lot of time, put in a lot of emotion and energy, but after waiting for the real marriage, they will slowly forget the vows they made to their wives in the past.
Back then, a talented man fell in love with a beautiful lady. In order to pursue that woman, he often wrote love letters to her. As a woman, she did not love the talented man, so she refused the talented man's pursuit, saying that she did not love the talented man.
As a woman, she does not want the love letter from the other party, because this kind of behavior is not good for women and makes outsiders mistakenly think that the woman is willing to have contact with the talented man, so she does not let the talented man write a love letter to her.
But the talented man didn't want to, just because he just fell in love with her. The woman's conditions were much better than his. The only thing he could offer was his talent. A love letter was his best gift, so he wrote it to her.
In the end, the woman became a little anxious and went to the scholar's boss to ask him to stop his subordinate's pursuit of her. She already felt extremely troubled.
But the boss had another idea. He felt that she and the talented man were a good match. As the saying goes, the man is talented and the woman is beautiful. The boss strongly recommended his subordinate.
In the end, she had to leave disappointedly, feeling helpless in the face of the scholar's pursuit. Even though she was completely unhappy, the scholar's pursuit was still very enthusiastic.
The man has always been eager to pursue her, and the woman is not happy with it. But after this situation has been going on for a long time, problems arise. Even her biological sister thinks that the younger sister should try to date the talented man.
Beleaguered on all sides, the woman finally had to agree to the talent's pursuit. After a while, the two officially got married, and the talent and beauty truly became a family.
She soon had her own child, so naturally she could not go to work and be a career woman, so she focused on her family and began her life as a good wife and mother.
But one day she seemed to be struck by a thunderbolt from the clear sky. It turned out that the talented man had cheated on her during the marriage, and a talented woman who worked with the talented man became his new sweetheart.
After learning the news, the woman no longer wanted to be with the talented man. Although the couple did not divorce, they were separated.
Ling Xiao didn't know what to say after learning about this real case, and he didn't know what Caizi was thinking. She was the wife that Caizi spent a lot of effort to pursue, and she should be held in the palm of his hand, but Caizi betrayed her first in the marriage.
Got a wife.
If the woman is a weaker person and has no ability to support herself and her children and give them education opportunities, then the couple may one day get back together.
But the woman was not the kind of person without abilities. She had her own abilities, and she flew far away. She did not return to her husband in the end, but waited until her husband died to compile and publish his collection of essays.
When I know this situation, I really feel that women are very powerful. Girls should keep their own thoughts after getting married. Please remember that a woman is a person first, and then someone’s daughter, wife, and mother.
Please keep your free thoughts for your own sake. Don't put everything you have on others. Rely on yourself. Only in this way can you stand up again after being hit again and again.
Never turn yourself into a dodder flower. This is because when the thing that the dodder flower relies on collapses, the person you are dependent on will inevitably collapse with it.
If you can build a tree that can grow freely and strive to grow upwards, you don't need to depend on others, and everyone can live a wonderful life.
I believe the original owner has thought it through. She is a person first. She lives not only for love, but more for herself. She makes her life meaningful. People who have goals in life live well.