As main teachers, they finally retired as special teachers. Although they were not the only special teachers in the school, it also proved that they were quite qualified as teachers.
Even though the two of them later became older and lacked energy and no longer served as the class teachers of the graduating class, they had rich teaching experience and had taught many children.
The most important thing is that they are willing to listen to students' voices and are willing to have a good relationship between students and their parents. They are really good teachers in the eyes of most students.
Of course, in the past, the couple only focused on academic issues. After they could not find their daughter, the way they treated students changed. Because as parents, they have suffered from poor communication with their daughters, so they naturally hope that students will have a good relationship with their parents.
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Since there are no children at home who need constant attention, the couple puts more energy into the students and tries their best to help the students master the knowledge test points.
There is also an all-round way to check and fill in the gaps in students’ learning, lay a solid foundation for everyone, and then do a large number of questions so that students can adapt to the college entrance examination process.
It is precisely because of their efforts that most of the students they have taught have been admitted to college, which made the two of them even more popular. Many people wanted to let them take classes, and even the school leaders tried their best to retain them when they retired.
However, both of them felt that they were getting older and had many problems in various aspects of their bodies. They would be too tired to take care of those students anymore.
After thinking clearly, they naturally did not re-employ as teachers, because the two of them had been too sleepless and forgetful about food at work, resulting in poor health.
Therefore, when they reached retirement age, the two of them were only thinking about taking good care of themselves in the future. After retirement, they may have let go of the mentality of forcing themselves to work harder, which caused the old man to become seriously ill.
Later, because of the seriousness of his condition, he was issued a critical illness notice, and later entered the intensive care unit for rescue. The old man almost passed away, but he survived again.
I heard that the reason why the old man survived was because he had a very strong desire to survive. He was worried about his wife. What if he ran away and there was no one else in the family?
Their family members died due to disasters. Although there are distant relatives at home, they have not been in contact with each other for many years. Who cares about an old lady, so he does not want to leave early. They have no children and they still have to support each other.
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The old man thought that if he left, wouldn't she have to live alone? It was a difficult life, and after he stopped going to class, he found that life was particularly difficult. Because there was nothing to do, the time felt very long.
In the past, the two of them were busy preparing lessons and correcting homework papers, and felt that there was not enough time at all. But now that they are retired, there is nothing to do. She will feel that living alone is meaningless, and he has to accompany his wife.
He would be somewhat relieved if his daughter was still alive, but now the children at home have no idea where they are. There has been no news for so many years, and his wife can't point to her daughter at all.
It was this belief that supported him. When he opened his eyes again after being in a coma for several days, he saw an expression of surprise and surprise on his wife's haggard face, and she even had tears streaming down her face.
"Why do you look like a child?" The old man muttered. Afterwards, he felt very tired and fell asleep again. His wife worriedly asked the doctor what was going on, and then she realized that he had fallen asleep.
Naturally, the original owner felt sorry for her grandfather and his wife after knowing this detail. As a daughter, she was not very willing to talk about how her mother was a poor daughter. After all, the problem between father and daughter might be caused by mistakes on both sides, so she would not say it.
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But as a daughter, I deeply feel that my mother is incompetent and does not fulfill her responsibilities as a mother. Many times, my mother behaves like a young lady, showing off her nobility in every aspect.
The original owner was wondering how her mother developed such a temper before. After looking up the information, she finally understood: It was probably because her maternal grandfather's family felt that they had failed her and gave in to their daughter at every turn, which caused her to feel extremely swollen and unable to suffer the loss.
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The same goes for getting married later. Not to mention that my mother was very lucky. Although my father was young and promiscuous, he still had a certain bottom line deep down.
And because he is many years older than his wife, she has even given up everything for him, so he usually does not restrain her much, which only allows her to continue to expand, leading to a situation: she is never wrong, only wrong.
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The original owner couldn't help but think this way: If her maternal grandfather's family and her biological father had not indulged her, she might not have been able to reach this point. A lesson can be learned from her biological father's marriage: sometimes you still need to keep your eyes open when looking for someone, and don't assume that someone is beautiful.
Just good people.
The danger of liking someone just based on their appearance is too high. In fact, marriage is more about the compatibility of three views. Anyway, it means that the father's moral sense is not low, otherwise he would have divorced long ago.
It seems that my father does not really want his wife. Even though he is older, he still likes to hang out outside and rarely has time to stay at home, let alone spend time with his wife.
His friends of the same age felt that they could not run away, and gradually shifted their focus to their families. On the contrary, his father mostly went to leisure places, probably because he was not very willing to be with his wife.
Perhaps her own mother also felt this, so she only held on to her youngest daughter and was not very kind to her second daughter. As a result, Irina was an egoist who only wanted to get and did not want to give.
This kind of person can nod and talk in daily life, but once something happens, he will definitely only care about himself. That is to say, his own mother later encountered a conspiracy, so she did not feel the evil she had done.
Even if Elena knew about the plot against her parents, she would pretend not to know. It was precisely because the original owner was aware of this problem that he did not want to have anything to do with Elena.
In fact, after the wedding, Irina never thought of contacting the original owner. Fortunately, the original owner had already prepared, so it was not affected, and the original owner did not contact Irina.
Since the two sisters have a certain tacit understanding, no one needs to disturb the other. The original owner intends to not only persist in research, but also take on the responsibility of being a junior, so that the two old people can live a good life in the future, and she is here.
Not too late.
After surviving that disaster, the old man gradually got better, but his health was still not very good and he was unable to do many things, which made his wife very busy.
But instead of feeling tired, the old lady felt that she was living a very happy life, because the couple had been accompanying each other all these years, and she did not want her husband to leave first.
If the old man left, she would feel that there was no point in living. Fortunately, her wife survived. Although the two of them no longer had the love and love they had when they were young, they have lived together for so many years and have a relationship like family members.
This kind of feeling may not be intoxicated by love hormones, but it is purer and more reliable. With the existence of this kind of feeling, they are the closest people.
When they were young, they walked together and had a very good relationship. There were also times when they disliked each other, but they had a daughter, and even though they had some problems with each other, they never thought about divorce.
In their view, marriage is a very serious contract. They recognize each other clearly in life: they are neither criminals who commit crimes, nor saints, but ordinary people who try to do their own things well.
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Of course they thought they had done a good job, but later they discovered that what they did was not really good. For example, they thought that since they were teachers, they would definitely be good parents.
But the reality is: they are not good parents in the eyes of their daughter. Her daughter is full of resentment towards them, and the fact is that they are slapped in the face.
As class teachers, they don't have much time to devote to their daughters, because they have to care about their students and prepare lessons, which takes up most of their energy.
Even after returning home, I was exhausted, rushing to cook and take care of the housework, so I gave my daughter very little. Although I tried hard to provide financial compensation to my daughter, in the end, the relationship between my daughter and them was still not good.
Only after their daughter disappeared did they realize that being a good teacher and being a good parent are completely different things. Sometimes children are obviously the closest people to their parents, but the children are not very willing to tell the truth to their parents.
Children are often more willing to discuss solutions with their friends, and even ask strangers online. The same is true for their daughters and them. Even if they try hard to be good to their daughters, they gradually don’t know what their daughters are thinking.
In the end, their daughter is gone like Huang He, never to come back. After their daughter leaves, they often wonder where she is at first? Is there any danger and how is her life?
But no news came, and the daughter seemed to be missing from the world. They only knew that her daughter planned to marry a middle-aged foreign man, but they had no information about that man.
I once checked the relevant information, but found that she was following a group, probably the kind of men who like to travel around and gather together in one place. They were similar in age but had different nationalities, so it was impossible to find out for a while who she was.
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The two later regretted one thing extremely: when their daughter was planning to get married, they couldn't continue the discussion when the age issue came up, because they couldn't accept that the prospective son-in-law was similar to them in age.
Therefore, the couple had a conflict with their daughter, whose relationship was not very harmonious at first. In the end, the old man fell. Fortunately, his life was not in danger at that time.
But this time, there was a rift between them and their daughter. After all, the daughter behaved very coldly, which made the parents somewhat uncomfortable, and the estrangement was aggravated due to work reasons.
When their daughter disappeared, the parents still loved their daughter, and family affection took over. They had no intention of forcing their daughter away, they just wanted to express their unwillingness and wanted their daughter to have a better future.
But the daughter left very decisively. She didn't give her parents a chance either before she left or during the process of leaving. She left very cleanly, leaving no chance for reconciliation with her parents.
Parents have also discovered this problem, and it is really painful. But people cannot always be immersed in the pain of loss while living, because there are more children to take care of.
Having already failed their daughter, they naturally could no longer afford to fail their students, so they worked harder to teach, which resulted in a very high admission rate for the classes they taught.
It can be said that the two of them have really devoted a lot to their students and have been liked by many students. They also pay attention to allowing students to communicate with their parents more, hoping that the children will not follow the old path of their daughters: having a cold relationship with their families.
This is also the reason why the two of them were rated as special teachers, because they have endured hardships themselves and do not want other parents and children to make the same mistakes.
After reading the information, Ling Xiao understood the approach of the original owner, his grandfather, and his wife. It is true that the couple did not care enough about being parents, and they were indeed not very qualified in this regard.
I heard that the couple, apart from being very concerned about their daughter's academic performance, rarely care about her affairs. For this reason, her daughter has always been unhappy.
But it would be too much to blame it all on the couple, because as teachers they have to go out early and come back late, busy with the students in the class, and responsible for the future of dozens of students, which is a lot of pressure.
In the daughter's opinion, her parents treated those students better than their own daughter, which ultimately made her character somewhat distorted and she had nothing to say to her parents.
After she went to college, she read a lot of articles promoting other countries, and felt that it would be her paradise, so she practiced foreign languages hard, and finally found an opportunity to study abroad.
When I returned to my country after graduation, I felt that my hometown was not good, so I took the opportunity to leave my country with others, got married, and then cut off contact with my family.
When Ling Xiao knew the cause and effect, he thought that the couple did not do enough in many places. For example, they did not have time to care about her, which made her feel wronged.
But the reason why the original owner's mother was able to study all the way and receive higher education besides compulsory education was because her parents worked hard every day and received a salary, so they had the money to provide her with many aspects of education.
It is true that she does not have a lot of time to spend with her parents, but every time she makes a request, she can achieve it, even going out to study abroad, it costs a lot of money, all of which are her parents' savings.
Although parents have received higher education, it does not mean that they have investment acumen and do not have many investment channels. You must know that speculating in stocks and futures may lose everything.
After knowing this, they naturally do not dare to make such high-risk investments, and often deposit them in banks. However, this kind of investment has the least return and generally does not have the opportunity to obtain foreign money.
As a teacher, you can only educate your students well so that you can get more rewards. If you want students to excel academically, they need to spend a lot of energy to specialize in their professional skills and pay more attention to their students.
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This takes a lot of time and energy, which also means that they really have no more energy to take care of their daughter everywhere, and can only compensate in money.
This becomes a vicious cycle: without time to spend with the child, she feels that she is not valued, and pays more attention to other external things. She wants to compare with others, and needs financial support, such as her parents spending a huge sum of money.