Ling Xiao did not notify the original owner when she left. Before that, she had reduced the time for the original owner to see her, especially after the original owner had a loyal suitor and the two gradually fell in love, she showed up less often.
After all, love in human emotions is more exclusive and a more private matter. Although Ling Xiao has never been in love, he also knows that two people in love probably don't like people watching.
Just imagining it makes me feel a little embarrassed. Ling Xiao is absolutely unwilling to be a light bulb in love. It is better to show up less often. Otherwise, the original owner will be in a dilemma. Ling Xiao is still very conscious, and she is very happy that the original owner has another one who loves her.
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For the original owner, she has indeed received love from her elders over the years, and to some extent the original owner has felt the unprincipled doting love of her elders, but she met them too late.
The two grandfathers of the original owner are old and cannot spend much time with the original owner. Even though they are very close to each other, they are still a bit different. For the original owner, it is more her contribution and she has the responsibility to take care of the old man until he grows old.
Therefore, the elders cannot accompany the original owner to the end, and she may have children of her own after getting married, but the children will grow up sooner or later, and they will have their own paths to walk.
There are too many children who may fly high when they grow up and rarely return to their mothers. Even if they do return to their hometown, they still have their own small families to take care of.
Ling Xiao felt that the person who could accompany the original owner for a longer period of time would be her husband. This was also a person that Ling Xiao had to pay special attention to. Finding a suitable person would keep the original owner from having any messy things.
When the original owner was finally determined, that is, there was one more person to accompany the original owner throughout his life, Ling Xiao was happy for the original owner, because the person who could accompany the original owner throughout his life was in place.
Regarding the issue of who should be the original owner's lifelong partner, Ling Xiao was not very willing to intervene, but let the original owner make the decision, because it was the original owner, not Ling Xiao, who wanted to spend the rest of his life with another person.
When making the choice, Ling Xiao just took a look at it secretly. After all, there is no shortage of pretenders with human faces and animal hearts in the world. She wanted to see the man before leaving. Of course, she did not require that the husband of the original owner be a perfect man.
This is a completely impossible situation. A person cannot be a perfect person, nor is he a saint. Some shortcomings are normal, but certain problems must be avoided.
The man finally selected by the original owner is still very good. He has a sense of responsibility, has his own moral bottom line, and has his own persistence in all aspects.
That's good. The man may not be an absolute good person, but he knows what he should do, which is good. Some people are indeed good people, but that doesn't mean they can be good partners.
I still remember the setting of a certain novel: After getting married, someone wanted to do good deeds. After receiving the monthly salary, he did not give it to his wife, regardless of whether the family's expenses were sufficient. Instead, he went to help other people.
This man was indeed a good man, but he was not a good husband or a good father. The wife tolerated it at first and once persuaded her husband to take care of his own family.
The man was not very happy after hearing this, because what he did was a good deed. Their family would suffer a little at most, but if he did a good deed, he might save someone's life.
Being a wife is like a mute eating Coptis chinensis - she can't tell the pain, because in everyone's eyes her husband is a good person. If she insists on getting a divorce, some people will definitely point fingers, saying that she only thinks about pleasure, and she has to endure it.
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The money at home is really not enough, and it becomes even harder for a wife to have a child. On the one hand, she has to keep working and take care of the family affairs. In addition, she also needs to be very careful with her budget to be able to take care of all the family expenses and housework.
Her salary alone has to cover the expenses of three people. In addition, she works hard to save some money, because accidents are inevitable in life, and she always needs some savings as a precaution.
But one day when her child became ill and needed money, she couldn't find her only savings, so she had to borrow money everywhere to save others. After the incident was over, she inquired and found out that her savings had been taken away by her husband because he wanted to do something.
Good thing.
When the wife found out, she was really angry and asked for a divorce. After that, she took the children and left. After the divorce, her life was a little better. You must know that she had to bear one less person's expenses and her life was better than before. Even the wife later remarried.
, lived better.
It's just that the mother and the child are living their lives well, but some people see it and hate it in their hearts. They don't intend to let go of the two people who just want to live a good life.
Just over ten years later, someone approached my timid and reserved daughter as a friend. First, he helped her make a proposal, and then specially provided his own creative ideas, saying that we were all friends, so don’t worry.
After a while, I waited for my daughter to be exposed for plagiarism. She was bullied by the Internet for doing something wrong, and finally committed suicide. The mother was scolded, saying that she disliked poverty and loved wealth.
And all of this is a trap set up by the so-called messengers of justice, who want to do everything possible to trample the mother and daughter to death (1) and say they are trash.
When Ling Xiao saw this clip, she simply didn't know what to say, because in her opinion, whether it was a wife or a child, there was nothing wrong in deciding to leave a man who was dedicated to doing good things.
That’s not to say you shouldn’t do good deeds. Doing good deeds should indeed be praised. But when doing good deeds, everyone should do what they can. Especially after getting married, you should consider the thoughts of your wife and children, instead of just forcing your family to do good deeds.
If you really want to do good things, don't get married at all, because raising a baby costs a lot of money. Is it wrong for a mother to want her children to receive a better education and live a better life?
To put it bluntly, the woman is not wrong at all. The man has indeed done a lot of good things, but he has never thought about his family's life. Doing good deeds is his top priority, and he has completely ignored the needs of his wife and children. There is something wrong with that.
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As for the beneficiary who carried the banner of justice, he was certainly at fault. Although the man who did good deeds became ill because his wife and children left him and felt that his life was unhappy, and finally died early, this is not a reason to take revenge on his mother and children.
Whether from a moral or legal perspective, there is nothing wrong with what the mother and child did. The mother and child just chose to leave and live their own lives, so that the man could devote himself to doing good deeds. What was wrong with that?
One thing can be learned from this story: a truly good person may not necessarily become a good partner. If you want to be a true partner, it is best to have more consistent three views.
For example, how to do good deeds? If one party feels that one should do things according to one's ability and live a good life first, the other party wants to provide all the resources and would rather eat rice bran to do good deeds.
The attitudes of the two are completely different. If they become a family for a long time, there will definitely be problems. If they don't explode in silence, they will be destroyed in silence. This shows that the harmony of three views is very important when becoming a couple.
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Of course, the three views cannot be exactly the same, so we should face all problems together and express our own opinions to each other, instead of acting arbitrarily and not taking other people's thoughts into consideration at all.
For this reason, Ling Xiao specially told the original owner her thoughts. She hoped that the original owner would learn a lesson and never think that a good person praised by everyone has no lethality. If there is a falling out, only one person is wrong, and it is very likely that he will be blamed even if he dies.
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The original owner was a little surprised after hearing this. Why is there such a plot in a novel? Ling Xiao told her that reality is sometimes more outrageous than the plot of a novel.
That's right! The original owner remembered that she had also been resurrected from the dead, and that she actually had the chance to leave the ruins after dying once. This was quite outrageous and completely unrealistic.
Even if the whole process is rationalized under Ling Xiao's operation, it is still a little mysterious, which still attracts the attention of many people. It has been in a state of surveillance for a long time, but it also somewhat makes some people's actions
Don't dare to make it too big.
The reason why Ling Xiao didn't leave immediately after rescuing the original owner was because he knew how to survive the original owner's death, but it didn't mean that the original owner was safe. Later, he found out that someone really wanted to decipher how they survived.
The four survivors didn't know how they survived. Later, they all survived through dangers due to Ling Xiao's strategizing. Ling Xiao stayed for a few more years because he planned to watch the fight among the consortiums.
At the same time, she withdrew from the original owner's life little by little, so that the original owner would not be sad after leaving. When the original owner decided to get married, Ling Xiao embarked on a new world, leaving only four words for the original owner: Peace every year.
Ling Xiao left resolutely and began to travel through the new world. After coming over, he checked the memory of the original owner and found that this world also belonged to ancient times, but it was not a world of Eastern civilization, but a world that was biased towards Western civilization.
This discovery couldn't help but make her feel a little bad, because the productivity of ancient society was extremely low, and the social status of ordinary people was even lower, and this body belonged to ordinary people. In the age of aristocratic supremacy, there were many shackles, but for the sake of the original owner, he couldn't do whatever he wanted.
She then went through the memory of the original owner, hoping that it was not an era where witches and wizards were everywhere, otherwise she might be reported as a witch just because she was rich and beautiful.
Although Ling Xiao is not afraid of this situation at all, she is not willing to put in any effort. She hopes that this world does not require too much effort, because she knows that it is better to increase her own skill.
You must know that what happened on the Monster Continent made her know that her future was unclear. Not only were there enemies outside, but she might also be her own enemy. But could she retreat? No!
Although after so many worlds, she had almost forgotten the faces of her parents, she still remembered the haggard look of the two of them, their heads turning gray overnight.
Not only must he be responsible for his daughter's medical treatment, but he must also pursue the person who caused his daughter's injury, but he may or may not find him.
It is said that the thing that hurt you may have some residual substances, and maybe some fingerprints, but it is also possible that nothing was found. The person who did the bad thing probably did it unintentionally, and was just too scared to show his face.
The reason why he said this was that Ling Xiao suspected that his body might undergo brain surgery and then enter a vegetative state. This situation is a big spender.
Even if it turns out that the person involved dropped something unintentionally and injured Ling Xiao, he will at least be compensated for the loss. Most people can't afford compensation at all, so naturally they don't dare to take the risk. This is human nature.
By that time, her parents will be helpless about it, and even over time, will it become a burden to her parents? Will they change their minds?
Ling Xiao, who has experienced many worlds, definitely does not overestimate human nature. Some people are very weak and fly away when disaster strikes. There are also some people who live very strong lives and would rather die than surrender. She is not willing to test human nature because of falling objects from high altitude.
Ling Xiao looked through the memory of the original owner and basically determined that the original owner was a super shy girl who didn't like to talk and was unwilling to communicate with strangers. She was also a rather socially anxious person.
Hey! I have a headache! This kind of person is very troublesome. It takes a lot of effort to wait for the death disaster. Ling Xiao really wants to ignore the original owner's personality at all, but looking at the petal-shaped birthmark on his wrist, he
Gave up the original idea.
From the memory of the original owner, I learned that this world is also different from the general Western world. The reason why I just thought it was the Western world is because the people in the memory of the original owner have similar looks to Westerners.
But it is different from the Western world in history books. Instead, it is more like the world of Western fantasy novels. Why do you say that? Because this world is more focused on force value, that is to say, there are warriors, dwarves, and even elves.
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Elf? Ling Xiao couldn't help but wonder what kind of elf it was? If you had a chance to see it, after all, whether it was an elf or the elves known for their handsome men and beauties, they were all rare beings.
In addition, people in this world like to draw swords whenever they disagree. No matter how you look at it, they feel that the safety is not very strong. It is better to work hard to train your body. It is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others.
The original owner no longer had her father in her memory, and her elders did not tell her, so this weak girl who was raised by a strong grandmother did not know whether her father was dead or alive.
Her mother remarried when the original owner was six years old and moved to another place, leaving the original owner to live with her grandmother. Perhaps because her grandmother was too strong, the original owner had always been a nanny.
My grandmother lost her husband early and had only one young son. She did not think about getting married again, but started making medicine. This was her specialty.
It's just that she raised her son, but one day his son will never come back, and even the news is not sent to him. There is a high probability that he does not know where he died.
After waiting for three years, the daughter-in-law couldn't stand it anymore. She didn't want to be a widow, but wanted to marry someone else. The mother-in-law looked at her daughter-in-law and didn't immediately say anything.
Seeing her mother-in-law like this, her daughter-in-law's calves were trembling a little. She was afraid of her mother-in-law, so naturally she was unwilling to stay. She was still young and could still find another man.
The mother-in-law looked at her former daughter-in-law and naturally saw that she was upset. She sighed secretly and did not force her daughter-in-law to continue to guard her. She just asked to keep the child.
The daughter-in-law was a little hesitant at the beginning about how to explain clearly to the child, whether the child would not let her go. After thinking about it for a while, she finally left the child behind.
But I told the original owner that I could visit her if I had the opportunity in the future. At first, my biological mother was still thinking about the original owner and would bring some things from time to time. But when she had new children, she gradually stopped contacting the original owner.