There is an old saying that says: A loving mother often loses her children, and a spoiled child is like a murderer. In other words, over-indulging children will only harm the children and make them become giant infants. They will always live in their own world and have no spirit of cooperation at all.
I only want to get, not give.
Overprotecting children will only prevent them from growing up, and parents who leave early when they are old cannot always protect their children from wind and rain. As children grow up, they will always have to face the ups and downs of the outside world.
Ling Xiao sincerely hopes that Feili is a weed that has experienced ups and downs in the wild, rather than a delicate flower in the greenhouse, because although delicate flowers are beautiful and delicate, they are easily destroyed, while weeds have stronger vitality.
After hearing Ling Xiao's statement, Wen Ni had to admit that the dean's words were more reasonable. She owed her son something and wanted to compensate him in all aspects, but it was impossible to protect her son for a lifetime. If you love your son, you can't break his son's ability to fly.
wing.
Edward's eyes lit up at the side, and he felt that the dean was really the kind of person who made people feel at ease. What he said was really down-to-earth and there was nothing fancy about it at all.
Now I am finally relieved. I don’t need to be separated from my wife due to differences in their son’s education. In fact, both of us love our son, but there will definitely be big differences in education.
He is a little afraid that he will quarrel with his wife because of his son's education. Sometimes it is impossible to be reasonable between husband and wife. Once his wife gets into trouble, it will only make her unreasonable.
It can be seen that Winnie thinks that she does things according to her conscience, but it has also caused her son to suffer so much. How can she be too controlling of her son? She will definitely go with Feili in everything, but there are
It may make my son grow crooked.
On the one hand, Edward knew that his son had to be controlled, but on the other hand, he felt that he might not be able to control his son. Since they had never lived together before, his son might not be obedient.
And if the wife insists on protecting her son at all times, differences in educational concepts will cause the couple to quarrel many times, which is also emotionally damaging. Repeated outbursts are a blow to both husband and wife.
Fortunately, the dean was there, and he directly pointed out that there was nothing wrong with Winnie loving her son, and there was nothing wrong with being partial to her own son, because we are all mortals, and our hearts are inherently biased.
Winnie felt happy after hearing this. As a person who has always insisted on wife diplomacy even though she has not gone out to work, she knows very well that even if some people sympathize with outsiders after knowing that her son has been replaced, there is definitely no shortage of people who are gloating about the misfortune.
Come and persuade her to be more generous.
The thought of such a situation made Winnie furious. The more outsiders persuaded her like this, the more angry she felt. Will people who advise others to be generous really be generous when they encounter similar things? Impossible
, I'm afraid I want to beat the other party to death, what kind of compassion do I have to show by coming here?
This is why Ling Xiao's words made her feel extremely recognized, and she would not resent Ling Xiao's words, so she would listen to the rest of Ling Xiao's words. Winnie is actually a very smart person. Once there is no resistance, she will naturally
Clearly distinguish between good and bad.
She jumped out and realized that she was right in favoring her son before she reflected on it. She also realized that overprotecting her child and doting on her child without principles would actually harm her son. Winnie had to deal with all of this by herself.
Edward on the side secretly breathed a sigh of relief. He didn't expect that his wife would become less interested in listening and teaching after seeing his son. She was probably stimulated. He had to admit that the dean could talk, so Winnie accepted the dean's opinion.
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Winnie thought for a while and then nodded. She naturally knew that her son's future was the most important thing. The couple had done good things before, so they couldn't take nine or nine steps and fall short at the last step.
She was too narrow-minded and didn't believe that her son was inferior to others. In fact, she remembered that her son was handsome and had been educated by the dean for a while. Apart from being a little afraid of strangers, she basically couldn't tell anything about this child.
If it is bad, it will not be bad in the future.
This thought made Winnie let go of the breath she was holding in her heart, and she could look at things from a more objective standpoint. If a couple is not good to their children, it means that the good things they have done before have been in vain, and it will also make people think that the couple is very ugly.
Hypocrisy is tantamount to giving people a handle.
No matter what, they should treat Hugh's son well. Winnie reminded herself to forget that the child was born by Oisa, just remember that he was Hugh's child, and the matter of changing children had nothing to do with that child.
Ling Xiao naturally noticed the change in Winnie. Winnie's eyes showed firmness and she breathed a sigh of relief. Edward was really lucky to have such a smart wife.
I'm afraid of people who can't explain the truth at all and can't get out of trouble. If they are such people, it's best to have less contact with them, because they are too stupid and they are rotten trees that cannot wither.
Thinking of this, Ling Xiao looked at Edward and said: "This time I plan to open a class, which will educate children from elementary school to adult, so I will recruit children, but not all of them will be rich children, and some will belong to ordinary families."
Although this land has not been getting better for a long time, there has already been a polarization between rich and poor, and Ling Xiao does not want to continue like this. After people get rich, some people will change their faces and look down on the most ordinary people.
Ling Xiao doesn't think so. In her opinion, everyone who works seriously deserves respect. For example, those who are engaged in scientific research work diligently all their lives, but in the end they fail to create an immortal theory. But as long as they
If you work hard, you deserve respect.
Similarly, people in other industries, even if they don't have any great skills, are just small screws in society, as long as they do their job well, they should be respected.
Ling Xiao, who accepted the concept that everyone is equal, did not think of classifying other people into three, six or nine grades. Her three views had been established long ago and were absolutely impossible to change.
It was precisely because she saw that the gap between the rich and the poor was widening that Ling Xiao was ready to take action. In fact, the property under her name has been increasing over the years, so she was ready to invest heavily in education. Children's education must not be biased towards the rich and powerful, otherwise there will be problems
Big.
Edward glanced at Ling Xiao and found that the dean was indeed different from others. In fact, the powerful people in the town had long planned to approach the dean to become their disciples, but Ling Xiao was not willing at all.
There was also someone who wanted to privately ask the dean to open a small stove, intending to spend money on it, but there was no news after that. I believe it was completely unsuccessful. Unexpectedly, the dean had to teach classes and face children from all walks of life.
Unexpectedly, Edward couldn't help but glance at Ling Xiao. He was a little surprised, but after thinking about it, there was no doubt about what the dean had done before.
He even had a thought in his heart and felt that the dean's approach had some ideas, but in the end he did not say it out, but he wanted to know why the dean told him in the first place.
"I want you to tell others that I have the final say on matters at Guangming Academy. Don't think that I don't care just because I am easy to talk to. If I find out that someone wants to take advantage of my students, I will be rude."
After hearing Ling Xiao's words, Winnie couldn't help but glance at her husband. Speaking of which, Edward was also the dean's disciple, and he was also recognized as a person with high martial arts in this town. However, when facing the dean, he was quite respectful.
, What a great dean!
Edward nodded after hearing this. He naturally knew that Ling Xiao's words were absolutely true. Another one of Ling Xiao's vests had encountered bandits before when he was delivering goods to various places, and they were all killed.
At that time, someone peeked and realized that the bandits were the most ferocious people in this land. As a result, Ling Xiao killed them one by one with a knife. After that, no one dared to rob goods again.
It is said that no one in the outside world dares to rob Ling Xiao's goods, and there are also killings outside. Edward knows Ling Xiao's abilities very well, and people in the town dare not offend easily, even though Ling Xiao rarely cares about the town's affairs.
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The two talked about other things, but Winnie found it boring. Ling Xiao saw this and asked Winnie to find Feili, and even sent someone to take Winnie there. Winnie was naturally very happy.
Edward wanted to know what Ling Xiao wanted to say. Ling Xiao said indifferently: "I will only say some things once, just listen to them. Have you ever thought about how the people on this land will live in the future?
Maybe people are disgusted with slaves now and don't have a good impression of nobles, but as time goes by, some people will definitely come forward to beautify every move of nobles. I suspect it won't take too long, maybe there are such people now.
You don't have much contact with the outside world now, but in the future this land will have more contact, and more noble lackeys will come here to bribe some people. Will one day your children aspire to become a noble?
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Ling Xiao directly asked this question that shocked Edward. The reason why she was so rude was because she had also seen how fanatical some people were in order to be promoted to the nobility.
Uh! The blond beauties don't count. After all, they live in this era. Nobles are the top. It's understandable that those rich people are crazy about becoming nobility.
So in the modern world where a certain aristocracy has come to an end, there are actually people who desperately want to join the aristocracy, and they are still celebrities. Because this celebrity is well-known among the people, he can meet the monarch, and then he may be named a noble. This celebrity
I'm so happy! I'll show it off from time to time (1).
It can be seen that the title of noble should be the pursuit of many people. Naturally, many people in this land want to become a noble noble. Even if no one dares to say it openly now, there may be someone who is secretly planning it.
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Edward couldn't help but be shocked when he heard this. He shuddered after imagining the situation. He wanted to say that this was impossible, but he couldn't say it for a while after seeing Ling Xiao's eyes.
Ling Xiao shrugged her shoulders. The word aristocrat was often envied by people. In fact, she still remembered reading a book in her native world, and there was an introduction on the cover: The last aristocrat - so-and-so father and daughter.
At that time, she was confused after reading it. What is the last noble? As a country with five thousand years of civilization, it naturally had an aristocratic system. There were so-called nobles in the Xia, Shang and Zhou Dynasties. There was a strict hierarchy among the nobles.
There are insurmountable barriers between the system, the nobility and the common people.
In the Zhou Dynasty, a special book - "Li" was published, which stipulated all kinds of etiquette, mostly stipulating all aspects of the system of the nobility. With the development of society, slavery turned to feudal society, and the nobility gradually came to an end.
The aristocratic system came to an end around the Qin and Han Dynasties.
Some people may say that it is impossible. The aristocratic families that emerged from the Wei and Jin Dynasties and were the same as the royal family can also be regarded as part of the nobility. EMMMMMM! In fact, it can be said that because the children of aristocratic families are often above the law.
Even though the aristocratic family was considered a noble, it still persisted for less than a few hundred years and eventually disappeared in the long river of history. From the Sui and Tang Dynasties, the imperial power began to vigorously attack the aristocratic family. During the period of the empress, it became even more severe, which caused the aristocratic family to begin to decline rapidly, and the aristocratic family disappeared.
When Ling Xiao was young and ignorant, he felt a little pity when he saw these records. He even had an attitude of admiration for the so-called nobility, because the children of the nobility who had been cultivated for many years all had a demeanor that ordinary people could not achieve, excellent educational resources, and beautiful clothes.
A life of food makes the nobles unparalleled.
It can be said that when she was young, she looked at nobles through an eight-fold filter. When she grew up and knew more things, she felt different. For example, the love story that was once publicized everywhere was said to be the love of a certain quasi-king.
The beauty does not love the country, and would rather not ascend the throne than change his wife who has been divorced twice. The love between him and her is truly touching.
But after I learned more about the truth, I felt that the so-called love had changed. The couple who co-authored the book were both close to the Axis powers. Naturally, the government of the Great Empire at that time would never let them become monarchs, even if they were just mascots.
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After learning about this situation, Ling Xiao couldn't help being surprised. It turned out that it was not that he didn't want to ascend the throne, but that he was not suitable to be a monarch. The asymmetry of information allowed people to beautify one thing, and a bad one would confuse black and white facts.
When Ling Xiao, who has lost his filter, looks at the nobles again, he will find that a very small number of people control the channels for promotion, resulting in a situation where only a very small number of people are human beings and everyone else is an object. Therefore, when he looks at the nobles, there is no filter.
Mirror, the so-called nobles still have very gorgeous robes, but there are countless fleas and pus and blood underneath.
It's just that many people would rush to put on that robe even if they knew it, because the nobles! They have always been high and have wealth that ordinary people can't get in a lifetime. They can control the life and death of ordinary people at will. The kind of people who wake up to dominate the world and sleep drunk.
Who wouldn’t like the pride of a beautiful woman’s knees?
Ling Xiao, who was born as a commoner, knew very well that the education she received made her unable to agree with this system: sucking the blood of the majority of people to support the minority is really abnormal, and as a person involved, she felt very disgusted with this situation.
Edward thought for a while and then said: "That's why the dean opened the class to face all, instead of only recruiting children from powerful families. Is it because he doesn't want nobility to appear in this land?"
"Yes! I want to know your opinion. After all, you may make yourself a noble." Ling Xiao said rudely. She looked at Edward, wanting to know an answer.
"Of course I will not become a noble. This has never been my wish. I can only guarantee that I can do it, but I don't know what other people will think. Dean, I am also a little scared at the moment." Edward said.
"Do you think what I said is right? There are people who want to become a member of the nobility? There may even be people who think that way around you." Ling Xiao said slowly.