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Chapter 990 Reality Skinny

Chapter 990 Reality

According to world conditions, it is not suitable for a sister to get involved in the affairs between brother and sister-in-law, especially for an unmarried girl. If she interferes in the affairs between brother-in-law and sister-in-law, she is afraid of being criticized.

There is another important reason. They are a husband and wife. There is a good saying: the closest relatives are husband and wife. As long as the wife does not go too far, outsiders cannot easily interfere in the affairs between husband and wife. Even if this body is the sister of compatriot Lin Ge

, and he can't outdo his wife. If he does something wrong, he may be scolded by his brother.

The sister-in-law may not necessarily cause trouble, but she will definitely keep accounts. Sometimes others may not want their privacy to be known. So Ling Xiao decided to be more careful when doing things, so as not to let the sister-in-law find out that someone is investigating the couple.

If Brother Lin is a scumbag, I'm afraid it will make life difficult for the Lin family's parents, because a son's marriage is a marriage, but if a son feels sorry for his daughter-in-law, it will be a grudge.

The Lin family's parents were very angry, but because of the distance in time and space, they could not teach their unfilial son a lesson. Instead, they wanted to apologize for their son. They were afraid that they would feel very uncomfortable, and they did not know how they would treat their son. They were afraid that they would be in a dilemma.

Hey! Thinking of this possibility made Ling Xiao frown, feeling very troublesome, as if he had been handed a hot potato, because the relationship between husband and wife is more of a household matter, and this body is not easy to control, and it is not easy to deal with it.

But I have to check it out. Some things exist like pustules. If you find them early and deal with them early, otherwise the pustules will become bigger and you may need to dig out a piece of flesh.

If there are problems between Mr. and Mrs. Lin, it may lead to more troubles. This is why Ling Xiao, as an outsider, feels helpless and unwilling to take care of it, but is still willing to intervene. Without a stable family, it is easy to attract others.

calculation.

Ling Xiao didn't know what the facts were, so his first idea was to check Brother Lin first. The reason why he checked Brother Lin first was because of Brother Lin's gender. In this world, men are likely to have more power and be the dominant ones in the family.

Status is also more likely to deteriorate.

In particular, the marriage law of this era seemed to formally propose monogamy, causing concubines to disappear from a legal perspective, but did concubines disappear in reality?

Not at all. As long as a man is capable and has several women by his side, it is still just money. If he is rich and powerful, I am afraid there will be more confidantes, and the woman as the first wife will not be able to resist.

It can be said that in this situation, women are at a disadvantage in marriage. Many women are on the bullied side. In order to prevent their husbands from having an excuse to divorce, they will give up themselves in the marriage. Most women in this situation will not betray.

husband.

If you check and find that there is nothing wrong with the Lin brother, I'm afraid things will be more difficult to handle. After all, if the brother is not good, the most he can do is ignore Brother Lin and his wife and provide for the parents of the Lin family in their old age.

In Jiuzhou, the son is responsible for providing for the elderly, but Ling Xiao does not think that the daughter does not need to pay attention to the elderly care of her parents, especially the original owner's parents are really good to the original owner. If the son cannot provide for them, the original owner can

Provide care for parents in their old age.

Ling Xiao also knew that it was too early to talk about the issue of supporting the Lin family's parents in old age. The Lin family's parents did not need the support of their children yet, so the most important thing was to find out what the situation was.

There is nothing else to do on the cruise ship. You can read, but you must put part of your mind outside to prevent danger. Therefore, with more time to spare, Ling Xiao devoted a little thought to thinking about Brother Lin and his wife.

matter.

Looking through the original owner's memory, she didn't have much impression of her sister-in-law, because the couple went to study abroad after they got married and didn't live together at all. She only remembered that her sister-in-law was very shy and timid when looking at people.

Seeing the memory here, the corner of Ling Xiao's mouth twitched. The original owner's sister-in-law looked exactly like a little daughter-in-law. She looked like a timid and good girl. She didn't dare to be a monster, right?

Not necessarily, there are people in this world with two faces, and there is a big gap between reality and appearance. So, what kind of person is that little white rabbit-like sister-in-law? What happened in Brother Lin's marriage? It must be

Is it Brother Lin's own fault?

There are both men and women in a marriage. Since Brother Lin, who was originally very serious, may become a scumbag, then the seemingly shy sister-in-law may also have completely different changes. What kind of person will she become?

Anyway, in Ling Xiao's eyes, both people need to be checked. When she looks at people, she doesn't look at whether the other person is a boy or a girl, because she knows one thing very well: whether a woman or a man, they are both a person first, and as long as they are people, they will have shortcomings.

place.

For example, when it comes to betrayal of marriage, not only men can change their minds, but women can also have this possibility. There are so-called scumbag men, and naturally there are scumbag women. Both men and women can experience betrayal in marriage.

There are men who want to have both domestic flowers and wild flowers. There are also men who dumped their first wives and found new loves in the name of opposing arranged marriages. They are totally scumbags.

But there are also women who are pregnant with other people's children, but ask their husbands who are kept in the dark to provide money and effort to support the illegitimate child. There are also some women who are looking for horses and dump their exes after finding them.

Ling Xiao, who has traveled through many lives, knows many "glorious deeds" of cheaters. Most cheaters are thick-skinned, don't care about morality at all, and even ignore the law. They just want to live a good life and don't care at all.

Others.

Thinking of this, Ling Xiao felt for a moment that he might get a big deal. He wanted to see the current situation of Brother Lin's marriage up close, and what kind of situation the Lin family's brother and sister-in-law were in. He was really looking forward to how it would end.

Hey! It’s just that neither situation is good. Thinking of this, Ling Xiao decided to tell the Lin family’s parents directly after knowing the truth of the matter and let them decide what to do instead of taking matters into his own hands.

I can't help but think of one thing. The Lin family's parents have not been able to hold their grandchildren in the past few years, and they feel a little anxious. During the Chinese New Year, they often lamented why the third generation didn't come. The original owner also thought about visiting the place.

After Ling Xiao came through, he felt that something was not right about the Lin family's brother and his wife. They looked a bit weird no matter how they looked at it. If there was really a problem, it would be a good thing that they didn't have children.

There are victims in failed marriages, whether they are men or women, they are all pitiful, but Ling Xiao feels that the most vulnerable people to be hurt in failed marriages are children, especially underage children.

For children, whether they have lost their mother's care or their father's support, it is an unspeakable pain, but there is nothing they can do about it.

If the child's guardian never gets married after the divorce, then the child's life will be somewhat easier. After all, the child is dependent on the divorced parent and the relationship between them will be somewhat deeper.

But parents after divorce may not necessarily remarry. Even if they have no intention of remarrying, they will be urged to get married again. Some people even say that they should remarry for the sake of their children and give them a complete family. However, this kind of statement is often

The ideal is very full, but the reality is too skinny.

In fact, after remarrying as a spoiled child, it is very likely that life will be more difficult. Instead of getting a complete family, you will find that the people you are closest to are gradually no longer close to you.

Because people who remarry have people who are closer to them, the relationship between husband and wife is often closer than the relationship between parents and children. After having a stepfather or stepmother, there may be smaller children born. If something goes wrong, the original child will be destroyed.

Not having a good time.

Yes, if you have a good stepfather and stepmother, you can do better than your biological father and mother, but the probability is too low. In many cases, if you have a stepmother, you will have a stepfather, and if you have a stepfather, you will have a stepmother, which is aggrieved.

He is the most hurt child, which is why Ling Xiao thinks it is a good thing that Brother Lin has no children.

This way, the child will not be dragged into sadness. It is really important for the child to have a happy childhood. Such children will have better characters and will have more possibilities to be happy when they grow up.

As an outsider, Ling Xiao was very calm. He could analyze the incident and recall the number of letters from Brother Lin. It was really not many, but he knew from the letters that letters were lost, but there was still too little contact.

Ling Xiao recalled that he didn't know what to say. Fortunately, he could explain that there are too few communication tools nowadays, and there is a problem of losing emails from time to time. In many cases, it is not suitable for contact, resulting in not many contacts.

But she still felt that the Lin family's parents had paid too much, and she didn't know if their efforts were rewarded. This made her recall the original world. She had a cousin with a close blood relationship who also went to study abroad. He said that he could find a better job after returning from overseas.

Work.

The aunt and uncle who spent a lot of money for their children to study abroad were happy at first. You must know that it is really difficult to study abroad. When their son got this opportunity, many people envied the old couple and thought that their son had a future.

Anyway, Ling Xiao knew that his brothers and sisters who were the same age as his cousin had once disliked other people's children - his cousin. After comparison, the situation was too tragic and really annoying! One was a top student who could be admitted to a key university.

Others are at the upper-middle level, and they are not admitted to key universities, so they are completely incomparable.

After my cousin went abroad, my uncle and aunt received more praises. Relatives and friends all said that their children were useless and had no future. The brothers and sisters who could only stay in China were even more disgusted when they found out. Who wants to be compared to a poor student?

?

At that time, Ling Xiao was still a little kid and didn't have this kind of anxiety about being compared. When she grew up, she discovered that her aunt and uncle's smiles became superficial when they were complimented, instead of smiling from the heart.

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When I inquired about it, I found out that after my cousin went abroad, Huang He would never return. He would only make two phone calls a year to greet his parents, who were getting older.

It was originally said that I would return to China after finishing my studies, but my cousin got married and had children abroad and never returned to China. No one asked me about it, and my aunt and uncle later regretted it, because this question was difficult to ask and difficult to answer.

(End of chapter)


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