"Xiaoman... I call you Xiaoman, do you mind?" Zhao Tiezhu said shyly.
"I don't mind, of course I don't mind." Lu Xiaoman said with a smile, "My family calls me Xiaoman."
"What do the people in Xiaoman's family do?" Zhao Tiezhu asked curiously.
"My father is the chief physician of FJ Second Hospital, and my mother is a clerk in the Industrial and Commercial Bureau. The warden of this prison is my uncle. I just graduated from college last year, and there happened to be a shortage of people here, so my uncle took me
Arrangements are in."
"Oh? Or are you from a related household? Oh, I really envy you for having a good family." Zhao Tiezhu's face was full of envy. But if Lu Xiaoman knew that the guy in front of him who envied him was the fourth-generation first-born member of one of the largest families in the country.
As an heir, I wonder if he will stab this pretender to death with a syringe.
"I also envy you for being self-reliant. I originally planned to go out and work hard on my own, but my parents didn't trust me. They said that a place with relatives and acquaintances is safer and I can get more care from others. Hmm, actually I think, young people
People still have to go out and explore." Lu Xiaoman wrinkled his nose and said with a bit of dissatisfaction and regret.
"Actually, you are all blessed and don't know how to be blessed~" Zhao Tiezhu sighed, "You rich children are used to living a comfortable life, so naturally you need the so-called self-challenge, but we poor people have never asked for it.
The so-called ideal is just to give us a reason not to collapse under the pressure of such a life. Although everyone knows that it is self-deception, but...how to say, sometimes we always deceive ourselves and others.
Better than despair."
"But...don't they say that everyone must challenge themselves in order to achieve greater success?" Lu Xiaoman asked.
"That means you people who are rich and can have some leisure time. Everyone's living conditions are different. You rich people are used to eating delicacies from the mountains and seas. If you occasionally eat wild vegetables and coarse rice, you will find it particularly delicious. Then
You will envy us that we can eat these pollution-free, natural foods every day. In fact, if we really let you eat simple meals for a week, no matter how healthy and green you are, I guarantee that your faces will be green. When we are fighting for food and clothing.
When you work hard, you eat meat every day. When we can eat meat occasionally, you are tired of eating meat. When we can eat meat every day, you are tired of eating all kinds of delicacies, so you go to eat ours.
I always feel that we can’t keep up with your pace of life.” Zhao Tiezhu sighed, and then glanced at Lu Xiaoman with a vague look, because according to Zhao Tiezhu’s observation, it can basically be concluded that this Lu Xiaoman is an inexperienced person.
The little girl is only 24 years old and has only been out of society for more than a year. What kind of tricks can she have? So Zhao Tiezhu adopted the opposite tactic against Lu Xiaoman.
What is the opposite tactic? To put it simply, it is to go against your target from time to time, or show a different side of yourself that is opposite to everyone else, because a woman like Lu Xiaoman must have many suitors, and the common suitors are
When chasing girls, that is what you are used to, so Zhao Tiezhu plans to do the opposite, but you must also pay attention to this, that is, you must behave differently from others, and you must not agree with Lu Xiaoman's point of view
If they are too opposite, if they are completely opposite, it will easily make people feel disgusted.
Zhao Tiezhu observed Lu Xiaoman and was pleased to find that Lu Xiaoman had a thoughtful look on his face.
It can be seen from this that Lu Xiaoman basically agreed with Zhao Tiezhu's words, and then combined his past knowledge to make his own judgment on Zhao Tiezhu's words.
Zhao Tiezhu doesn't know anything. The most powerful thing is his mouth. These words really gave Lu Xiaoman some ideas. Zhao Tiezhu's analysis is very correct. Lu Xiaoman had no shortage of pursuits when he was in college.
There are many ways to pursue people, but the one thing that remains the same is that many people follow Lu Xiaoman's will. Even if there are some people who have some brains and want to stay with Lu Xiaoman,
He hoped to arouse Lu Xiaoman's interest, but he couldn't control the coldness, which made Lu Xiaoman not have any good impression of him.
In fact, Zhao Tiezhu had planned to come coldly before, but then he remembered what Lao Shi had said to him back then. He could only deal with one kind of woman coldly, and that was a woman who had some feelings for you.
Zhao Tiezhu disagreed at the time, saying that he could come in the cold even if he didn't feel anything. I heard that it would arouse people's curiosity. As a result, Zhao Tiezhu was directly taught a lesson by Lao Shi. Zhao Tiezhu always remembers what Lao Shi said at that time:
"You idiot, do you really think that every woman is a stupid heroine like those in third-rate novels? As soon as you ignore her, will she stick her butt up for you? Come on, this is the 21st century. Say
To put it bluntly, if a girl has no interest in you, how can you ignore her? If she doesn’t say a word to you, doesn’t even look at you, and just ignores you, who are you ignoring? How can you ignore her? Is it possible?
Pretending to be cold in front of others? That would be even more stupid. Think about it, how would you feel if an inexplicable woman snubs you? You must not feel anything at all! Because she is an insignificant person, even a sidekick.
A person who doesn’t count. Even if a person like that leaves you in the cold to Siberia, it’s none of your business. A serious person is someone who has some feelings for you. When you ignore someone, they will think, are you right?
She is not interested, or maybe you have a woman you like, etc. In this way, only after you are left in the cold can you have the possibility of attacking, do you understand?"
After Lao Shi's teachings, Zhao Tiezhu transformed from a novice in love to a veteran. Although Zhao Tiezhu didn't lose his virginity until Linda, Zhao Tiezhu felt that the theory he learned from Lao Shi could only be transformed into practice.
, then there will be no girl who can’t be broken!
Zhao Tiezhu returned his thoughts to Lu Xiaoman. Lu Xiaoman was only friends with him now. If he was still stupid and neglectful, it would only alienate the relationship between the two, but Zhao Tiezhu was doing the opposite now.
When it comes to tactics, it's just right. On some things, Lu Xiaoman agrees with him, but on some things, he has his own opinions and opinions. Moreover, these opinions and opinions make people feel that they are really what they are. The result is like now.
, some of Lu Xiaoman’s original concepts were assimilated by Zhao Tiezhu, thus creating better conditions for Zhao Tiezhu’s subsequent attacks.
"I think what you said makes sense." Lu Xiaoman's eyes slowly became clear, "People who have never suffered, suffer occasionally, that is to experience life, then naturally they cannot feel that others are really suffering all the time.
Human mentality, Tie Zhu, I understand!"
"What do you understand?" Zhao Tiezhu asked curiously.
"We must cherish everything we have now, no matter how it came here!" Lu Xiaoman said with high spirits, "Live a good life and don't die without illness."
"Hey, disease-free**, this word is used well, you are a cultured person, but you are different from a rough guy like me," Zhao Tiezhu said with admiration.
After the reverse tactic is over, the follow tactic begins.