While Zhao Tiezhu was talking on the phone, Sister Sun was talking to Li Linger.
"I'm telling you, when it comes to some men, you have to take the initiative. For example, some boys like to tease you. Then you have to make him want to stop and then leave. After doing this a few times,
He will understand that teasing you will only make him feel more uncomfortable, so he will not tease you again! Of course, if you meet a boy you like, then you can not only tease him, but also let him tolerate it
When he is not staying, give him some benefits appropriately, which can increase his enthusiasm."
"What... is this a good way?" Li Ling'er asked curiously.
"This is not simple. For example, a kiss, or a bump without surprise. Anyway, you have to grasp the degree and don't overdo it. If a man wants to leave you, he will be very reluctant to leave you. This way
If so, wait until you are really together in the future before you can take the initiative. Men, there is no one who doesn’t like new things. They always need freshness to stimulate themselves, and what they can’t get is the most exciting thing for them to possess.
Desire and aggression!" Sister Sun talked eloquently.
Li Ling'er looked at Sister Sun with admiration and said, "Sister Sun, please tell me carefully, if you like a boy, how can you make him chase you, and do you have to chase him to the death?"
"This is not simple. You inadvertently reveal to him that you don't have a man and are a bit lonely, and then you have to show that you want to refuse him. At the very least, the ambiguity must be in place, and don't make it so clear.
The other person feels that you like him. Let me tell you, men are cheap. The more you like him, the less he may value you. Only what you can't get is the best. This sentence
There is still some truth to it.”
"Oh, but if I don't let him know that I like him, then how can he pay more to me?" Li Ling'er asked.
"It's even simpler. There is no man who doesn't like beautiful women, especially a childlike beauty like you. As long as you look at her a few more times, he will have to pay for you. When the time comes, wait
He is almost chasing after you, and you only give him a half push. In this way, he will treat you like a treasure or something. Let me tell you, when a man and a woman are in a relationship, the one who takes the initiative always suffers. If you really
If you get along with that man, then, even if you like him and love him again, you have to be more reserved. If you give too much love, it is often worthless. As long as you maintain a certain attitude, you have to follow me wholeheartedly. I
If you are in a state where he may leave at any time, then it is too late for that man to please you, and it is impossible for him to engage in any other affairs. Those who write online about how they get hurt when they love someone are basically the ones who take the initiative, like this
People are generally very afraid of losing. If a love is broken, the person who is more seriously injured is often the more active one, so in order to avoid getting hurt in the future, you can only be the passive one, but this is just a
It's just a strategy. If you really love him, you must not be arrogant because of his favor. Don't think that what will happen to him without you just because he dotes on you and spoils you, if one day you touch him
The bottom line, then, after being hurt, he may be more determined than anyone else to leave! Because no one likes the feeling of being hurt again."
"Sister Sun, you know a lot!" Li Ling'er said with admiration, "Sister Sun's husband must have been kept submissive by you, right?"
As soon as Li Ling'er mentioned Sister Sun's husband, Sister Sun's face looked a little weird. Then Sister Sun said, "My husband is fine. We respect each other as guests. Ha, it's late. We have to go to bed."
"Then, okay." Li Ling'er said, looking a little unfinished, "Then let me ask Sister Sun one last question!"
"What's the problem? Tell me." Sister Sun said.
"What should you do if the man you like is very troublesome?" Li Ling'er asked.
"To be honest, Sister Sun, I don't know what to do about this problem." A hint of recollection appeared on Sister Sun's face, but then she shook her head in confusion, "Men are born to be possessive creatures, and
After possessing one woman, their primitive nature often makes them want to possess more women, especially some outstanding men, who will never be satisfied with just one woman."
"Then what should we do?" Li Ling'er asked.
"What else can we do? It depends on the man. If that man is good enough, treats you well, and loves you very much, but he is very philanthropic, then it is understandable for him to be more carefree. After all,
Excellent men are always easy to attract women, and when men work hard outside, there are too many temptations." Sister Sun said a little helplessly.
"Oh, but, but I think love has to be dedicated!" Li Ling'er said a little anxiously, "If there are three people, it's not love."
"Why not?" Sister Sun smiled and reached out to touch Li Ling'er's head, "I love you, I love her, it's all love, and no less than others, why can't it be love? Some people say that love is selfish,
Because of its nature, it stipulates that love can only belong to two people, but if you think about it, human feelings are not quantitative. It is not how big our brains are that determine how much they have. A man can give everything to a woman.
love, but he can also make another copy of this love and give it to another woman. Love is an abstract thing, not a material thing. If it is divided between two people, it will be half to one person, nor to three people.
, one person is one third, for one person, love can be 1, for two people, it can be 1 for both people, as long as everyone is sincere and love each other, love is actually endless, of course.
There should be a bottom line, for example, is that man just for fun?"
"Oh, it's so complicated!!" Li Ling'er sighed depressedly, "I just feel so awkward."
"Haha, Linger, tell me, have you fallen in love with such a man?" Sister Sun said with a bad smile.
"What, who likes a man like this? I don't like this kind of man. Not to mention that he is very naughty. Humph, Sister Sun, go to bed." Li Ling'er said, pulled up the quilt and lay down.
Sister Sun didn't seem to want to let Li Ling'er go easily, so she opened the quilt and got in. Then she heard Sister Sun smile and say, "Come, tell me, are you still a girl?"
"Sister Sun, she is a serious girl!"
"Yo? Really? Haha, then let me verify your identity."