1497. Chapter 1497 Bear a large part of the responsibility
“…”
"Actually, aren't we the same?"
"I don't understand... what do you mean..." Sikong Lingge retorted without any confidence, his voice was dry.
In fact, Sikong Lingge had long agreed with the butler's words in his heart, but he couldn't bear to save face and insisted on it.
The housekeeper smiled and did not poke her further, "Grandma, let's make an assumption."
“What assumptions?”
"Suppose you made a friend today and really wanted to communicate with the other party, but again and again, you found that the other party was wearing a mask and never honest. What would you think and do?"
"..." Sikong Lingge pursed his lips and said nothing.
I knew very well that the butler was making assumptions on the surface, but in fact he was implying that he had never really had a heart to talk to when he got along with Shangguan Rui.
He thought about it carefully, so too.
From the beginning to now, she has indeed not, and has truly been completely honest with Shangguan Rui.
All the way, either lies or concealment...
"Young grandma is a smart person, she should understand what I mean." The butler left this sentence and turned around and left.
The garden of Shangguan’s family is specially taken care of by servants, and the flowers are blooming very well.
Champagne roses, Diana roses, red super roses, pure white roses, and all kinds of flowers compete for beauty.
The air is full of flowers.
Sikong Lingge stood aside, hesitating, and the scissors in his hand could not get out.
The butler's words kept echoing in his mind.
At the beginning, Sikong Lingge was very resistant to the butler's words.
After all, people are cowardly.
Many times, I don’t dare to face my own shortcomings.
Especially, if this shortcoming is pointed out in person, it will have a more rebellious mentality—
When you are criticized for your shortcomings, the first reaction of ordinary people is "Why do you blame me?"
Then, you will first find a lot of excuses, constantly brainwash yourself, and tell yourself that others are wrong and you are right.
Once brainwashing is successful, you will find ways to find various reasons to excuse yourself. Even if the whole world knows that you are wrong, the person involved will not admit that you are wrong...
Only a very small number of people will accept the other party’s accusations and humbly correct them.
Sikong Lingge is not a saint. Like everyone else, she felt that the butler had intervened too much.
The butler has no position to talk about himself.
Sikong Lingge even used "Don't do to others" to brainwash himself repeatedly, constantly telling himself that he was not honest with Shangguan Rui and that he had no mistakes at all, and that all his mistakes were on Shangguan Rui.
——
Who made him so domineering that he had no room for anything?
It is an individual, and under such pressure, he will choose to lie and hide...
However, when coming from the hall and blew the cold wind, Sikong Lingge's mind suddenly became much more awake.
Realize that things are indeed as the butler said, and that in the whole process, I do have to bear a large part of the responsibility.
only--
The relationship between the two is so tense now, how can she resolve it?