"Good sister, listen to me. I know that you are from a noble family, and you don't bother competing with these coquettish people for favor and suppression. But remember, that man is your husband and will be your support for the rest of your life! If you
If you don't fight, I'm afraid your life will become more and more difficult in the future! What about face, aloofness, and what else can't you let go in front of your own man? Other women can do those tricks, and I don't believe that my sister can't
meeting."
When Princess Qin heard Su Xiyue's words, she couldn't react for a moment! Didn't people always say that Princess Rui was a knowledgeable, polite, gentle and virtuous person? Why did she sound like a jealous woman when she heard what she said?
Woolen cloth?
Princess Qin blinked, unable to adapt for a while!
Aunt Qing, who was following Su Xiyue, looked at her and her eyes widened! How could a sister-in-law instigate her sister-in-law to use tricks to win favor? My master is too courageous, right?
What are you thinking about? If these words are spread out again, will the princess still need her reputation? How can Prince Rui hold his head high outside?
Aunt Qing's performance was pretty good! And the personal nun behind Princess Qin was so frightened that she broke out in a cold sweat!
Who on earth said that Princess Rui is a virtuous and generous person? She is obviously blind! The Princess Rui in front of her looks like a jealous woman!
"Good sister, don't be scared yet! Think about it, if the prince really cares about you and feels sorry for you, but you pretend to be virtuous or generous in front of him, you are clearly hurting your prince.
Heartbroken!"
Princess Qin looked at Su Xiyue with some confusion, "What do you mean, sister-in-law?"
"Sister, we women suffer, whether we are young or married, it is the same suffering! When we have children in the future, it will be even more bitter! But we women must learn to love ourselves! We cannot just be wronged! Otherwise,
What fun is there in this life of frustration and helplessness?”
Su Xiyue's words caused quite a shock in Princess Qin's heart. She was right! If she had to accept everything and was wronged in every way, wouldn't it be a waste of time to go to the next life?
Since childhood, I have been taught by my parents to learn rules, etiquette, music, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry and songs. Which of these things have I not learned in a decent way? But are I really happy? Are those things really what I want? It’s because
My mother said that she must learn these things so that she can find a good husband in the future and not be laughed at by others. Therefore, she worked hard to learn so that her parents would not be embarrassed in front of others!
When I grew up, my mother said that she would be a noble person in the future, so naturally she could no longer show up casually! Every year during the Lantern Festival, she couldn’t go out to enjoy the lanterns, and every year during the Flower Festival, she couldn’t go out to enjoy the flowers!
Life, now that I think about it, is boring and boring!
"After listening to my sister-in-law's words, my sister suddenly became enlightened! Thank you very much, sister-in-law, for the advice!"
Su Xiyue knew that she had listened to her words, so she reached out and handed over another cup of tea, "Good sister, although we have met for the first time, we feel like old friends at first sight! Although we are not sisters, we do feel a certain sympathy for each other! We are both the same.
Royal wives always have some sufferings that ordinary people can't understand! Outsiders only see that we have a glamorous appearance, live a high life, and dress beautifully, but they never think that we also have unspeakable sufferings!"
"Sister-in-law is so right! It is good to have food and clothing, but if you are busy dealing with other people's plots all day long, it would be better to abandon this wealth, find a pure land, and live in seclusion in the countryside.
"
The nun behind Princess Qin was about to stop her when she saw Su Xiyue's expression suddenly became excited, "Does my sister also have such extravagant hopes? To be honest with my sister, I also look forward to having such a life to feel comfortable.
.I work at sunrise every day and rest at sunset. Although it is dull and hard work, it makes me feel at ease in my heart."
"I didn't expect that my sister-in-law would also have this idea?"
Su Xiyue smiled, then shook her head, "So what if you have this idea? Since we are married as royal wives, we should understand what our duties are? No matter when, we must never forget to abide by ourselves.
It is my duty, and I must always remember to put the face of the royal family first. To be honest, sometimes I think the same as my sister, since life is so hard, why not give up this glory? "
Speaking of this, Su Xiyue sighed softly again, "But I can't bear to part with it after all!"
Princess Qin's eyes darkened. It turned out that she was also a person who talked about pastoral fun, but in fact, she still couldn't let go of the glory and wealth. It seemed that she had misjudged the person again!
Su Xiyue sighed again, "Sister, what I can't bear to part with is not this gold, silver, jewelry, silks and satins! It's not this pride and nobility! It's the responsibility I bear."
"Responsibility?" Princess Qin was stunned. A gleam of light seemed to flash in her mind. After all, it was covered by something. For a moment, she missed the light and could no longer capture it.
"As women from aristocratic families, we eat well, wear well, use well, and are served by countless servants. This kind of luxurious life is born with us. There are so many women in the world, and how many people are there?
Can we enjoy it? Since we have inherited a noble bloodline in the eyes of outsiders and enjoy the wealth that only nobles can enjoy, we must not allow ourselves to do things that are against the interests of the family."
Su Xiyue seemed to be deeply touched and blinked lightly, "To be honest with my sister, I was also bullied by Cao and Su Lian, oh, my concubine sister. My father was busy with government affairs and neglected his duties.
The matter of the rear house. And my brother has been in the outer courtyard since he was a child, and often traveled abroad to study. Later, he went to the military camp, and came back rarely. How can I count the grievances I suffered in the Marquis Mansion? "
"But now, since I am the legitimate daughter of the Hou Mansion, I should naturally consider it for the Hou Mansion. With my father's love, my grandmother's pampering, and my brother's protection, I can't let them all treat me coldly.
I’m sorry! I’m the only one who’s been wronged, so what if I’m uncomfortable? After all, I can’t make more people feel wronged, don’t you think?”
Princess Qin was a little confused! She just said she couldn't be wronged, so why was she willing to be wronged now?
Su Xiyue knew that Princess Qin was a bit deceived by what she said, and chuckled, "Sister, I think what I said is a bit contradictory? One moment, she said that women cannot be wronged, and the other moment, she said that she must do it for the glory of the family.
Have you wronged yourself?"
"My sister is stupid, please tell me sister-in-law!"
"Actually, there is no grievance that a living person is willing to endure! And this grievance for the benefit of the family is naturally different from wronging oneself in the matter of husband and wife!"
