Mark Twain was quoted in "The Power of Habit": "The key is to do something every day that you don't want to do, so that you won't feel the pain of the obligations that really need to be done.
, this is the golden rule for developing conscious habits.”
In Mr. Luo's eyes, it is used to explain how to achieve self-restraint. In his view, part of the things you are unwilling to do are things you are too lazy to do, part you are disgusted with doing, and part you are afraid of doing. Things you are too lazy to do
, if it is something at work, sometimes I feel that I will suffer a loss if I do it, so I don’t do it. The things I hate doing are really because I don’t want to do them in my heart, and if I do them, it will be painful. Most of the things I am afraid of doing are beyond my ability.
In other words, things that require cooperation with others are things that are not what you want.
Mr. Luo still didn't look back. His back was hidden in a deeper and darker shadow. He was originally going to be a shadow figure, a big shot who seemed to really exist but could not be controlled, understood or caught by anyone. Only
But the red wine in the glass has reached the bottom. He also has a habit of never letting others pour wine when drinking red wine, not waiters, friends, women, brothers, or even family members. He prefers the sense of accomplishment of pouring wine for himself.
, and also enjoy the aroma of wine that fills the air the moment you open the oak cork. He is definitely a person who is good at living and understands life. He should be a busy man and a trapeze artist, but those who know him know that he is just a leisurely and comfortable person.
, his great success has allowed him to control his time and space according to his own temperament.
He thought he would never be jealous again, but now the jealousy still came. He would not say it clearly. How could a person like him say such a thing directly? Even if he died, he would die arrogantly and proudly as a detective.
He poured himself another glass of red wine, then sat slantedly on the mahogany desk, still facing the woman, and said in a deep voice, "I think any adult has the ability to distinguish good from bad, but deep down in his mind
There is a clear dividing line: the dividing line between public and private! The real situation is that there is no dividing line between public and private! Public and private are limited to the size of the environment, and this size is also equal. For the collective, the public in the unit is large, and
The family is small. For the family, the individual is big, but the collective is small. From the perspective of life, the collective and the family are equal and compatible. Their development is unified and cannot be separated...
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What he said was a bit nonsense, but the woman understood it completely, because she was one of the few people who knew that Mr. Luo liked that book, so she read it countless times and thought about it countless times. But at this time
She didn't speak. She was the real winner tonight. She came to defy him. Even if it was only this time in her life, it would be enough.
Mr. Luo didn't seem to care about her reaction. He paused and continued, "Does the success of a successful person lie in his IQ? Does it lie in his hard work? Does it lie in his destiny? Yes or no! I say it lies in his habits!
Good habits constitute success! "Habits" begin with countless repetitions of small actions and are solidified in corresponding patterns. They are formed through the development of behaviors that can be sustained. Habits are the most durable and powerful foundation that pushes the boat of destiny to the other side of success.
.So the key to cultivating habits is action and support. "Habit" is like a speeding train. Inertia makes people rush forward without stopping. There may be heaven or a valley ahead, and habit is your steering wheel. "Habit"
It is a subconscious activity, just like the programming of various software in the human body. Once it is started, it will be performed according to the established program. And you, Concubine Feng Mi, the most important habit you should form in front of me is compliance and respect. Once you have any
If you have a rebellious mind, then it is not your career that is over but your life. I... am not a sinister person, I just occasionally have my own desire to dominate. You should feel honored that I got your body.
Because there are not many, or very few, women's bodies in this world that I can use force to get. I'm not interested in politics, and I'm not very interested in women. You... are a little accident. You yourself are actually
You know this... Oh, by the way, if you have time, you can study Shangtang County. This place looks poor, but maybe the newly built development zone here is a good place to invest...
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That night, Mr. Luo and the woman didn't mention Xiawa Village a word. It seemed as if the incident in Xiawa Village was over. Mr. Luo didn't mention it, and neither did the woman. She just came to show off her victory and despise him. Anyway, she
In his heart, this terrifyingly powerful man did not turn around and look into her eyes until the end of the night. Of course he was not afraid, he would not be afraid. If they had just started an interesting game, that would be the case.
It's a game of cat and mouse, and it's a game where he has complete control over the situation and plays with her in the palm of his hand, so why should he be afraid?
He just returned to his previous arrogance and pride.
The final topic unexpectedly fell on Shangtang County, a poor place. Should this place really see a development zone? Is this place really worth investing in Zhongyuan City? Anyway, Concubine Feng Mi strongly doubted this. Obviously
Mr. Luo has a clear purpose in saying this. He is showing off his feathers. What he basically means is, aren't you a woman very happy with Tang Lin? Don't you want to take refuge in him and abandon me? Okay.
, then I will give you another good opportunity. Tang Lin will be transferred to Shangtang County soon, so you can follow him. Then there may be the graves of the two of you.
He already said that he only occasionally has his own desire to dominate...
In fact, when she turned around to leave that night, Concubine Feng Mi really wanted to say something, "You have your desire to dominate and I have my own choices. I won't always have to look up at you. My future is up to me and not to you. You
Do you really think that in order for me to become a master, I have to be your subordinate in your territory?"
But in the end she didn't say it, because it wasn't the right time yet, and she was weighing and fighting in her heart. Yes, taking over Tang Lin's career and completely drawing a clear line with the person named Luo would require greater bravery and courage, because she really
Doing so is absolutely tantamount to committing suicide quickly, and you may even die without making a sound.
But will she accept her fate? What choice will she make?
Concubine Feng Mi looked at Tang Lin, who was obviously depressed and weak, and suddenly felt a little funny. Is this kind of guy really enough to compete with someone named Luo? In any case, they don't look alike from any angle, let alone the two of them.
The ability and accuracy in handling women's affairs are very different. Those named Luo are in the sky, while those named Tang are buried in the mud, and they can't even see their heads.
"It's probably the most unlucky thing that's ever happened to me that I know you!" He couldn't help teasing him.
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