Tang Lin now has to admit that he has met too many outstanding women, and these women are really good to him. Even Chu Feifei and Feng Mi, who are rivals and enemies, actually did not harm him at the critical moment, but helped him.
Even save his life.
The relationship between people is very complicated, and the relationship between a man and a woman is even more complicated. He is still not good at handling the relationship with women, but at least he has experienced ups and downs now, and Zhang Panpan is in front of him.
Pregnancy is one of them.
He was drunk and caused harm to Huang Doudou. He sacrificed his life to avoid death and then wanted to get a marriage certificate from her. What happened? Huang Doudou was still a high school student. Not to mention whether he could get the marriage certificate. The problem was that she didn't understand love yet, and he was harmed by him.
He didn't struggle with all his strength when he was there, so the problem here is so complicated. It's not that he caused harm to others. If he wants to be responsible for others, he will be responsible for it.
Where is Zhang Panpan?
Zhang Panpan is a typical American thinker and American character. The most prominent feature of her character is that she has less female thinking and more independent rational thinking. Her first principle in doing things is that as long as I take the initiative to do it,
If I am willing to do it, then I will bear all the consequences without hesitation.
I don't care about other factors, I am responsible for what I do.
In the Americas, this is not a matter of great character, but a combination of lifestyle, economic level, national system, etc.
Women are relatively more independent, and truly independent.
Looking at this issue now, she should actually be the one who is fearful, flustered or has conspiracies, but she comforts Tang Lin in turn, and even wants to stimulate him to see if she can make him regain his glory.
And although she is weak and needs to rest, she doesn't look pitiful and doesn't have the imprint of pretending to be strong. That's what she thinks in her bones. If she really gets pregnant, she has to take care of it herself. It has nothing to do with Tang Lin and she won't let her.
The child recognized Tang Lin as his father.
She and her children are a single parent.
She is at a turning point in her life. She is just using work to numb herself now. She has no goals for what the future will be like. If she really has Tang Lin's child, her life will be completely changed. Many people think that she will be a disaster.
It seems that maybe I have a goal and a destination for my future.
My neighbor in the Americas has a woman raising three children. The children never know who their father is, and the mother doesn't tell them. The children's uncles often come over to take the children out to play, which can be considered a kind of compensation.
So she can think freely now, and she is also capable of raising a child.
What she was worried about now was that Tang Lin had to take responsibility and make this matter so touching and complicated, but in fact it was not in line with her wishes.
She fell asleep, she slept peacefully, and she was really tired. She never felt that she was great at any time. Even the parts of her work that were beyond her job responsibilities, she regarded them more as the fulfillment of having her own value recognized. Moreover, at the same time, she felt that she was great.
Tang Lin was also generous with her actions. She put in more work and received a bonus several times her salary.
There is no financial entanglement between her and Tang Lin. The relationship between lovers is lovers, the financial relationship is independent, wages are wages, and bonuses are bonuses.
She had always been used to the AA system, but Tang Lin couldn't adapt to it, so the limited times he went to see her, Tang Lin would bring a bottle of good wine or something else.
To him it was a kind of compensation, but in fact Zhang Panpan didn't care.
After her marriage in America broke up, she had lost confidence in her marriage. Does she have a crush on Tang Lin? Of course she did, but she didn't think that Tang Lin would become her husband and her man. From the first time she had a relationship with him,
She had never thought of it that way before.
When she was in college, she traveled to Europe for several months. There, her father lived in separate rooms for three or four days a week. They would sleep together only when they wanted to be intimate. The rest of the time, they had their own time and space.
This is of course unbelievable in Huaxia Kingdom. Living separately in Huaxia Kingdom is definitely a last resort and the marriage will turn red and enter crisis mode.
But the thinking of most Europeans is that if they get tired of being together every day, shortcomings will continue to amplify and conflicts will increase. Proper separation will make it easier to maintain the need for each other and a sense of mystery, and can make the relationship between husband and wife longer and more stable.
Lover relationship is the most unstable but also the most stable relationship in the world. At least in Zhang Panpan's heart now, she would rather choose a lover relationship than marriage.
The women in China would all call her stupid and wonder what she wanted? But maybe those women didn't understand her character, thoughts and lifestyle at all.
Now Zhang Panpan is still a free deer. She can run freely on any playground at any time without belonging to anyone. She can even run freely with her own deer. She enjoys and cherishes this freedom and solidity, as well as what she has now.
You can feel the tranquility.
Everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, but if a person lives in a country like China, then the natural basic requirement is the happiness of a family of all ages.
But not everyone will get such happiness, and even fewer and fewer people can get this kind of happiness. Nowadays, men and women in big cities fall in love quickly, have relationships quickly, get married quickly, and divorce quickly. The irony of many is that after three years of marriage,
They were divorced within a few months, and the divorce rate has been increasing over the years.
why is that?
It is still related to the economic environment, personality and other factors, and it is not an isolated problem. Or in Tang Lin's opinion, the easier it is to get things, the less they will cherish them.
Everything comes so easily for young people nowadays. Good schools, good clothes, good houses, good cars, and even good marriage partners are all arranged by their parents who have worked tirelessly to save their life savings. What will they do? What will they do?
Just destroying it, right? Many surveys of college graduates show that 70% of them require a salary of more than 8,000, but what will they do? Apart from spending money, chatting online, playing games, and eating their old age, they can’t do anything else?
Therefore, more and more factories and mining enterprises do not like to recruit undergraduates, especially those from general schools, and prefer technical school students who are hard-working and have professional skills.
The salary of technical school students has long been higher than that of ordinary undergraduate graduates in the southeastern coastal areas. This has long been a reality. In the past, the labor force was not worth much, but now it is not. What is moving now is a more equal labor distribution. People who do heavy manual labor
They will get more wages, and the wages of college students who only sit in the office and answer the phone and surf the Internet will naturally be higher because the things they create are inherently different.
Stability is becoming more and more difficult for today's young people. First of all, young people do not support their families but themselves. Being able to support themselves first is success.
Colleges and universities are still expanding their enrollment, and college graduates are still increasing every year, but young people always have to adapt to this society little by little. In the end, except for a very small number of people, they still have to rely on their own hands to work, eat, and support their families.
Just like Tang Lin, he never thought about his own survival and future when he was in the army, because there was no need to think about it. But once he was ruthlessly thrown into society, he had to face these problems soberly immediately.
It doesn't matter if he goes to the construction site to carry bricks and push cement. He has the physical strength and not such a delicate body. But what about love luck? How to deal with women? This became the first problem before him.
I have to admit that at that moment, his mind was a little wandering, and he thought about some irrelevant things. Anyway, Liang Shuang next to him thought that he had said something wrong, so he held it back and did not dare to speak anymore. She had already discovered that after being discharged from the hospital this time
Tang Lin's personality is a bit capricious. Although he has tried his best to control it well, she, who follows him every day, understands it best.
It's best not to provoke this man at this time, and what he just said, he won't fall into deeper pain and be unable to extricate himself, right?
She understands Tang Lin's strengths and weaknesses, but it's not up to her to decide how to improve the shortcomings or whether they can be improved. How can such a perfect person actually be like this?
Fortunately, Tang Lin finally came back from his wandering mind and raised his hand to touch her head, "Liang Shuang, actually you don't have to be so perfect. Compared with you, I look more and more like a bastard and a stupid bird who doesn't know what to do!"
Tang Lin said with a smile and his expression was very relaxed, but Liang Shuang was still very nervous, "You... I... I didn't mean that, I just said how I felt... I'm the stupid one in this regard..."
"
Tang Lin was stunned, "Are you stupid? You are so perfect, just like Cinderella in the fairy tale, and you are making progress every day. Sometimes I feel that I am making progress every day, but once I encounter women's problems, I
Being knocked back to the original shape immediately is called no progress."
Liang Shuang gritted his teeth and said, "I know why you are suffering, but this problem is between two people. Anyway, the reality of life is like this. I can help you share other things, but you still have to solve this kind of problem yourself. Or
I don’t know what other people think about that sentence, but in my opinion you are much more stable and mature than before. When I first met you, you were completely sharp and you didn’t know how to restrain yourself or use tricks even after the twists and turns.
That's not the case now. You look like you have hope no matter what. If you can continue to evolve to the point where people feel reassured no matter what, then you are not far away from your own true success."
"Are you teaching me a lesson?" Tang Lin raised his hand and touched his nose.
"What class are you going to take? Go and see if Zhang Gong is awake and settle things first. Otherwise, I don't believe you won't feel uncomfortable if you are left hanging like this!" Liang Shuang couldn't help but urge.
But Tang Lin still didn't move, and suddenly asked in a low voice, "What if Zhang Panpan handles this matter by herself? I have said what I should say, she understands what I mean, and her personality and habits are still American, so
Just saying this kind of thing, would it violate her privacy if I go in with a pregnancy test paper? Although it seems to us that it is natural, she may not necessarily think so. She said this when joking before, and I said it
Her neighbor’s story.”
Tang Lin was not hesitating. Even if he didn't do well in anything, his courage to take responsibility at critical moments would never change.
He just started to learn to analyze women's problems from a woman's perspective.
Suddenly his phone vibrated. It was a WeChat message from Zhang Panpan, with only three words: I'm here. Tang Lin was stunned for a moment, and then immediately rushed into Zhang Panpan's room, "What's coming?"
Zhang Panpan didn't know whether it was disappointment or surprise, "What's supposed to come has come, so it's really not..."