The female mayor was stunned because she was looking at the night outside the window and just remembered the problem of her children. She is 37 years old this year, but her external age is 36. This is not a falsification of age, but a problem of false years. Calculation of normal official age
They are all one year old, not fictitious years. But in life, everyone basically uses fictitious years to report their age.
That is to say, she regards herself as a 37-year-old woman, and 40 is a watershed for her, whether in life or in life. The career plan Xiao Kedong made for her was very good, reasonable, far-sighted and courageous, but he did not
Consider her personal life.
Maybe he didn't consider it on purpose, because not only did he have no selfish motives, but he was also full of confidence. Of course, a person like him must have absolute confidence in himself, and there is no reason to shrink from this matter.
Although feelings are the most complex things that cannot be measured rationally, when feelings are involved in marriage, they cannot simply be considered independently. They are bound to be affected by various influences from the real environment, power environment, and economic environment.
Then, Xiao Kedong still has the advantage.
Tang Lin's disadvantage is that he is young, and his advantage is also that he is young.
This is an open loop paradox.
Her achievements and position before the age of 40 will largely determine her career and final culmination. If she does not get married and have children before the age of 40, it is basically impossible for her to get married and have children in her life.
The reason is very simple. One is that if she follows the plan given to her by Xiao Kedong, she will be promoted one step higher before the age of 40, and then she will need to desperately seize the opportunity to fight for three years, and then continue to be promoted. The promotion also represents her courage.
aggravate.
Then will she still have time to spare a year to have a baby? From pregnancy to delivery, even if she returns to work two months after giving birth, plus the 10 months of pregnancy, it will be exactly one year.
She is very different from ordinary female cadres. She is a senior young female leader who attracts the attention of thousands of people, and she should also be relatively the main leader. Female leaders in their 40s have to be accompanied wherever they go, and they are pregnant.
This is not impossible, but it is too rare at least in Chinese official circles.
Is she going to set this precedent?
No, she didn't plan to do that. If she had a baby of her own, she would definitely cherish it. If she followed her usual workload, the baby in her belly would easily be overwhelmed.
How to truly fall in love with a man is when a 37-year-old female mayor begins to seriously consider giving him a child. In contrast, Tang Lin's career path will definitely be accompanied by high pressure and high promotion.
She doesn't have time to take care of her children, what about Tang Lin? Tang Lin certainly doesn't have time, he might be much busier than her.
Then the baby’s parents won’t be able to see him?
This is a cruel topic, but does that mean she doesn't want her own child? She can, but what about Tang Lin? From any angle, Tang Lin can't give up a normal man's right to be a father just because he married her, right?
This is unfair. Don't let others tell you. The female mayor herself can't pass this test.
Another is that the best age for a woman to have children should be strictly controlled before the age of 35. More strictly, it should be before the age of 30. But the female mayor has already exceeded the limit. According to her delicate relationship with Tang Lin
, they must get married first, get the certificate first, and then have children.
She also has another worry in this regard, that is, will she get pregnant easily? Infertility and difficulty in getting pregnant among older women have now become almost a national problem.
She is really worried about herself.
Originally, there must have been no problems with Tang Lin. This guy was young and strong, as strong as a bull. But now the situation has undergone a cruel change. Just yesterday, both of them felt that Tang Lin was not a man.
She came back today, and he reacted miraculously strongly, but did this mean everything was fine?
Not necessarily. If he is poisoned, it will have an extremely serious impact on his vitality and fertility.
So even if she wants to get married quickly and have a child, I'm afraid she has to wait and see. Maybe she will get pregnant soon, thank God, or maybe the two of them have been working hard for a year, two, or three years, but it still doesn't work?
Does she still want to undergo in vitro fertilization at the age of 40?
The female mayor had never really considered this issue before, but now that she had stepped down, she felt strange, contradictory, and heavy. Just looking at the expression on Tang Lin's face, she looked indifferent.
This guy probably doesn't even realize these things exist.
Yes, he is still young, only 25 years old, so he doesn't need to worry about these things.
Dudu.
Tang Lin's WeChat reminder made Tang Lin stunned. Who would send him a WeChat message? He subconsciously opened it and saw that it was the female mayor who was very close at hand. The female mayor asked a question that could not be asked in front of Yang Qin.
"Is your family pushing for marriage and children?"
Tang Lin was stunned for a moment, but then he felt that real communication was quite exciting, so he immediately moved his fingers, "No, I don't call much. Tang Guo is the one who contacts and takes care of the family. But I plan to go home once in a while, even on weekends.
I have to go back once to visit my relatives. I let the two old people worry so much and they are still scared. Will you come with me?"
The female mayor is actually sweet in her heart. Tang Lin's parents are neither noble nor rich, but they are very kind and simple old people. In fact, if people calm down and think about it carefully, such old people are real blessings. Looking at it,
Look at those young ladies and female celebrities who married into rich families, how many of them live a truly happy, happy and free life?
I am afraid that besides some short-term vanity and so-called money, I have lost more.
The female mayor is neither a female star nor a young lady, but she is considered a noble person. Considering her current position and unlimited future, she is definitely so.
So is a well-matched match the most reasonable?
Don't forget that her parents are gone, the teacher is her only relative, and Tang Lin is the man chosen by the teacher at a glance, the man chosen for her. It is not that there were no particularly outstanding men around her before, such as Xiao Kedong, for example
For some other people, the teacher has made it clear.
She didn't support or object, as if she had already seen the result that they couldn't be together. It was completely different from Tang Lin. She would even rather pretend to be confused, and then make mistakes and let the two of them fake it.
It shows how much she likes him. Moreover, the female mayor especially enjoys the relaxation and freedom every time Tang Lin talks to the teacher on the phone, and is even a little naughty, because she can never give this kind of family happiness to the teacher. The two of them are usually together.
When we meet, no one can express their emotions, and their speech is always quite polite. Only Tang Lin can shout like an old lady without restraint, but the teacher is still smiling happily.
Strictly speaking, "old lady" is by no means a completely complimentary term. In many cases, it is not even an honorific. However, Tang Lin calls General Huang, old man, and teacher, old lady. His popularity and status in front of the old man are not generally good.
. The teacher’s case is already a special case, but the old general’s case is unprecedented.
She thought for a while and replied, "I don't ask you about it, but I must be thinking about it in my heart. If you want to go back, I will naturally follow you. But we have to go to the Huang family compound this weekend first."
Teacher and veteran general."
Tang Lin took a look and replied, "Then I'll definitely go. The old man and the old lady are close to each other. They can go at any time. Just go there after work. Besides, I still work in the village. But the old man and the old lady are living quite comfortably now.
It’s quite happy, especially for the old lady. The cancer cells are under unprecedented control. The old man not only eats well and sleeps well, but also reads in the morning and works in the greenhouse in the afternoon. In the evening, he also has a high-end doctor to do an examination. The quality is definitely improved.
What’s rare is that she really likes that place herself, but in the future I plan to arrange for the old lady to live in the mountains, over there at the Dongshan Reservoir. You don’t have to worry about this, my relationship with the old lady is better than with you now.”
The female mayor felt moved again because this 26-year-old man put himself ahead of himself in everything and considered everything thoroughly, even in this unstable state after he was discharged from the hospital.
She knew that the teacher had been doing well while she was away from Zhongzhou. No matter how busy Tang Lin was, he still took good care of her. Especially now that Tang Lin was very close to Qi Xin, so the teacher could stay there.
More comfortable and assured.
And she asked herself, if it weren't for Tang Lin, she wouldn't have taken such good care of the teacher in Zhongzhou. The teacher would never have come to Zhongzhou at all. The difference here is huge.
So she got excited and said something that Tang Lin was unprepared for, "If I get married, I want to have children right away."
Tang Lin opened his mouth so much that he no longer used WeChat at this time. He just said, "Are you serious?" The female mayor's face immediately turned red. She knew she had lied.
He immediately replied on WeChat, "But I haven't decided yet whether to get married or not."
In fact, the female mayor is also thinking about another issue, that is, the matter of Tang Lin's lover. Now she actually knows that Tang Lin and Zhang Panpan are related.
So before she came back, what she was most worried about was that when he came back, Tang Lin had already recovered. What did that mean? One was recovered by himself, and the other was cured by Zhang Panpan's help. As for how to cure it, that's all.
Need to ask?
Even though she was better than Zhang Panpan in everything, she really didn't dare to compare the things on the ship with the American returnee. She could even think of the world war and the end of the world when the two of them were together.
Her heart began to feel uncomfortable, because Tang Lin could not be a man and Zhang Panpan would not ignore it, at least she thought so. In fact, Chu Feifei's analysis was right. In her heart, among the women around Tang Lin, only Chu Feifei was the real opponent she was most worried about. Even though
Zhang Panpan had something confusing with Tang Lin, but she wasn't overly worried.
But it was simply unrealistic to say that she wasn't heartbroken or uncomfortable. She let Tang Lin handle it on his own, why not see how Tang Lin would do it?
So now, on the way from the airport to the hospital in the middle of the night today, she at least figured out one thing, that is, Tang Lin and Zhang Panpan have not been together for a long time. She does not believe that the two of them have no chance. If they are willing, the two of them have plenty of opportunities.
.
If it doesn't work once, you can try another time. It doesn't matter ten or twenty times.
But obviously, they didn't try.
Because if it weren't for her as his real girlfriend, if it were Tang Lin and Zhang Panpan who set up the tent, then Tang Lin would definitely go to the hospital as soon as possible. She believed this very much.
So she was complicated and a little proud. In the end, she, a little man, learned the necessary restraint, but how far is she from solving the problem?
Just like she doesn't know when she can really solve Xiao Kedong's matter, she also doesn't know when Tang Lin will be able to solve it? And how to solve it?
I'm afraid there is no fixed answer to this.
As for what Tang Lin said, about Concubine Feng Mi and Yue Duo examining him, to be honest she was a bit dumbfounded. Of course she hoped it would be a male doctor, but Tang Lin's life was saved by someone else, at least from a doctor's perspective.
I can say that these two beauties are very professional and trustworthy.
Just as a woman, she really didn't know how she felt when she thought that her man would be messed with by Concubine Feng Mi again.