Entering the door is not the rule of the general, but the tradition of the prime minister. The general is about making alliances with blood and killing chicken heads to become brothers. The prime minister is about entering the door and becoming a disciple. The tradition is long, and it also pays attention to the family style and the ethics of the teacher. At the same time, it also pays attention to the apprenticeship and apprenticeship.
The inner sect and the outer sect. The outer sect is a public student, while the inner sect is a closed disciple. Although such disciples are not publicly announced to the outside world, they actually have a very high status and a high level. The teacher usually teaches them all.
, and finally entrusted my network to him.
But in recent years, with the reform and opening up and economic development of China, this situation has become less and less, because there are fewer and fewer prime ministers who pay attention to the dignity of teachers, and young people who pay attention to the traditional respect for teachers are even rarer.
, so the sect has become a rare thing in China that has lasted for five thousand years.
This has to be said to be retrogressive and sad.
Peng Guoxing is a great person today, the Taishan Beidou of Chinese academic circles, and a role model for scholars. In fact, compared to a great scholar like him, the deputy ministerial position hanging on him has become less important. Because his name itself has become
It is a business card that represents the best.
Tang Lin did not enter directly. Although he did not fully understand the rules of the Peng family, he did understand the most basic etiquette.
"Teacher Peng, I am a junior from the grassroots. I don't understand the rules of entering the house. Please enlighten me." He said these words very sacredly and seriously, because Peng Guoxing just said "entering the door" does not mean actually entering the room. It is a special recognition of his identity.
and highly certain.
Peng Guoxing turned around and looked at him kindly, "I have been a member of the Peng family for 17 generations. It has been hundreds of years. These 17 generations are not the accumulation of years, but the accumulation of generations. The Peng family has strict rules and strict rules.
Scholars must also make appropriate changes according to the current situation and environment. Do you know what the Peng family’s family rules are? There are only six words: Scholars’ empty talk harms the country.”
Tang Lin was stunned. The Peng family was such a big family, and the family rules contained such a strange six words. However, from these six words, he suddenly saw the secret of this family being able to pass down the family for 17 generations.
Scholars are sometimes looked down upon or even hated by others, just because they can only talk, are sour, pedantic, stubborn, like to show off, and are self-righteous. In the end, they end up ruining the country by empty talk!
Only by hard work can a country prosper. In fact, this is the same truth no matter ancient or modern times. Tang Lin suddenly thought that the rules of the Peng family's prime minister's family were just empty talk by scholars and harmed the country. What about the Huang family's general family? Serving the country with loyalty?
Peng Guoxing was a man of great wisdom, so he could see through Tang Lin's thoughts at a glance, "Haha, you are the descendant recommended by the old general Huang Xingye, but you may not know the ancestral motto of the Huang family. The ancestral motto of the Huang family is loyalty and justice!"
Tang Lin was suddenly startled. What he originally wanted in his heart was to serve the country with loyalty, so after his solemn face there was a smile, "Haha, the ancestors of the old man have really high demands on their descendants. Since ancient times, loyalty and righteousness have been in dilemma."
Peng Guoxing was also laughing, "Haha, so the grumpy General Huang almost never mentioned it to outsiders. He often said this himself, I only have one life, and the country can take it whenever it wants. The Huang family has no ancestors.
If there are any family rules, it’s just one sentence: Don’t be a coward to me even on the battlefield, and die like a man if you have to!”
The elegant and kind Peng Guoxing imitated the old man's speech and was able to imitate it very well. This surprised Tang Lin and made him feel that the Peng Guoxing in front of him was the real master.
"It's indeed the old man's tone. In fact, he beat and scolded me all the time. But as a person of our generation, if I can be beaten and scolded by him, I would be willing to beat him to death! I am from the Southwest Falcon, and
Falcon and Black Panther were both created by the old man, and they were the biggest things he did in the later years when he took charge of the military. So he has always been my idol. I never thought that one day I would actually meet a living person, and also
You can be beaten and scolded by him!"
"For Teacher Peng, in fact, the gift of being sent to Peking University has made the juniors very admired. As you said the other day, where did the big shots come from, they will return to dust and dust. When you calm down, they are just small people. I am still young, although
I don’t fully understand the truth, but I do know that one who knows others is wise, and one who knows oneself is wise. Today, among the great Chinese scholars, there are not that many who truly know both others and themselves! Teacher Peng, I also didn’t expect to see you here today.
I didn’t expect you to let me in. So I can’t just enter today. You told me the rules. I must strictly follow the rules, otherwise I will feel uneasy."
Tang Lin has never been a literate person, but he has a master's degree in psychology. He doesn't like to talk like that and finds it awkward, but now he naturally behaves in front of Peng Guoxing. Peng Guoxing has never been dignified or asked for anything.
He did this, so this is the bearing and influence of a true master.
Everyone who is with him will be affected by him, and they will possess some very precious qualities without even realizing it. Peng Guoxing looked at Tang Lin in front of him quietly, paused, and then nodded.
"Young people know how to respect their teachers and be filial to their elders. This is the greatest hope of China. Well, you really didn't embarrass General Huang. In fact, General Huang has been worried before!"
Peng Guoxing put it simply. On the surface, he didn't care about these rules and customs, but in his heart he valued them very much, because Chinese culture and the master-apprentice model are the true essence of the Chinese nation. The master can teach with confidence, and the apprentice can
If it is truly inherited and learned, this is the wealth of the nation, the real wealth left by the ancestors to future generations.
According to the rules of the Peng family, to become a master, you must first invite someone to marry you, then choose an auspicious day to hold a banquet, write a letter of apprenticeship, and perform the apprenticeship ceremony. The apprenticeship ceremony is three or six, which means "thirty-six lines, go out, go out."
Number One Scholar".
No wages are paid during the apprenticeship period, and the master is responsible for food, accommodation and making winter and summer clothes. Generally, the first year is to do odd jobs, and the second year is to learn the craft. After three years, the master has to make wine, and then he has to work for the master for another year to become proficient.
period. During the apprenticeship period, you have to help the master with housework for free, and you have to "send the master" three times a year, that is, give gifts. While making the master's wine, you have to give red envelopes to colleagues who are of the same line as the master, called "sitting gifts", gifts.
It is usually a day's salary of the master. If you are courteous and affectionate, you will be taken care of from now on.
When leaving the apprenticeship, the apprentice gives the master money, and the master gives the apprentice a set of tools, and shares half of the rice in his bowl with the apprentice at the apprenticeship banquet, which symbolizes the apprentice's departure from the apprenticeship. It also means that the master has something to do and the apprentice will not be hungry, and also indicates that it is important to support oneself in the future.
Got it from the master.
It's just that Peng Guoxing won't explain these to Tang Lin one by one, and the above are common etiquette for masters, apprentices, and entrances. They are also applicable to other industries, but it is more important for scholars.
He naturally has his own arrangements for these, "Since you insist on this, then fine, I will accept you as an inner disciple. The master-disciple relationship will not be made public except on special occasions. As for becoming a disciple and entering the disciples, you go back and wait, I will send someone to deliver one
I’ll give you the post, and then you just have to follow the requirements on the post.”
Tang Lin immediately bowed his head and saluted, "Thank you, teacher. This is junior's mobile phone number. Teacher, you can call me anytime if you need anything. I won't bother you anymore today. I'll go back now."
Tang Lin said and handed over his business card. He didn't say it was a business card, but said his mobile phone number. There was a lot of knowledge here. At least, he was careful!