Yi Tianhao looked at Zhou Yue's mother sincerely and said: "When she was just born, you gave her life, and on the way she grew up, you gave her maternal love, aunt, so I said, you
There is no need to blame yourself, and no matter what the material life of your family is, Zhou Yue is happy in his life."
When he saw Zhou Yue's mother and wanted to say something else, Yi Tianhao stopped him and said, "Listen to me. Before I went to visit Zhou Yue's home, I didn't know much about your children. I can explain it as
My time as a class teacher is still short, but what about her classmates? Have you ever seen one of her classmates come to your home?"
Zhou Yue's mother shook her head, showing a sad look on her face.
Looking at her sad look, Yi Tianhao sighed and said, "Do you know the reason for this?"
Seeing that she was silent, Yi Tianhao said seriously: "This is because your child's self-esteem is stronger than that of children of the same age. You have not planted in her heart that this is a person worthy of the envy of others."
In terms of family psychology, you didn’t let her truly realize what the existence of this family has brought to her. Even if she was silently giving, you always let your child know that you were sorry for her and that you didn’t take care of her.
To give her a good life, you did not give her a good material environment. Your family is far inferior to other wealthy families. This is what you always let her understand. Slowly, you give your child a heart
Sowing the seeds of lasting low self-esteem.”
Zhou Yue's mother secretly clenched her little hands, with a thoughtful expression on her face.
Yi Tianhao sighed and said: "Actually, from many aspects, your family Zhou Yue is happy, and your family is also happy. You should let her understand these things, you should let her understand these, and you should give her
She is right to be proud. The most terrifying thing for a person is inferiority, especially for a young girl like this. The inferiority complex makes her withdrawn. The inferiority complex causes her to lose a lot of happiness in her life. It also makes those around her
The classmates couldn't integrate with her."
Zhou Yue's mother whispered: "Zhou Yue is at school..."
Yi Tianhao said with a serious face: "Do you feel that if it weren't for the lack of trust between her and her classmates, that jumping incident would have happened? This is definitely not just a misunderstanding. If we investigate the cause, you can even be held accountable.
As her mother."
Zhou Yue's mother shed tears. While wiping her tears, she murmured to herself full of self-blame: "They all blame me, they all blame me."
"Alas, there is no use in blaming yourself. The most important thing is how to change."
"Teacher Yi, please teach me how I can change?"
Yi Tianhao said with a serious face: "First, she must be proud of this family. Even if she does not have good material conditions, she has enough warmth from family affection at home. Second, you
We need to care more about her and support her in bringing good friends to her home. The third point is to gradually change her mind. Not having money is not a shameful thing. The most important thing for a person is not whether he has money.
The most important thing is whether you have a progressive heart, that is the most important thing."
Yi Tianhao looked at her thoughtful look and said, "A person's character will affect a person's life."
Zhou Yue's mother trembled, and finally nodded heavily, saying firmly: "I understand, Teacher Yi, thank you, thank you very much, you are the best teacher I have ever seen."
A smile finally appeared on Yi Tianhao's face: "You are too polite. There is no need to thank me, but your last sentence is true."
"The last word?" Zhou Yue's mother was stunned for a moment, and then she couldn't help laughing. She must have felt that something was wrong with her, so she hurriedly held back her laughter, but the corners of her mouth were still twitching, and she looked at Yi
When Tianhao was in his prime, his eyes were a little weird.
Yi Tianhao laughed unfazed and said, "Why, you must think I'm bragging, right? Alas, my low-key appearance has affected my melancholy... Oh, it's my pure heart. The more I
I have discovered more and more that a person who is too modest sometimes tells one or two truths, and other people hear them as if they are lies. Just like me, although I am handsome, graceful, charming, and loved by everyone,
I am also of noble character, knowledgeable, and open-minded, but I have never been embarrassed to face my own strengths calmly, and always expose my few shortcomings to the world, so that no one believes me when I occasionally tell the truth.
It’s, alas, so pitiful!”
Zhou Yue's mother covered her mouth and said with a smile: "Teacher Yi, what you say is so interesting."
"Mom, teacher, the food is ready..." Zhou Yue couldn't help being stunned as she pushed the door in. She hadn't seen such a bright smile from her mother in a long time. I'm afraid even she herself was stunned.
I can't remember. Since a few years ago, my mother has never smiled so happily. Zhou Yue's heart is full of emotion at this moment, and her nose is slightly sore. She turns her head to look at Xian Yi Tianhao, with a look on her face.
gave a grateful smile.
"Teacher, Mom, the food is ready, wash your hands and eat."
"Okay, let me try out our Zhou Yue's craftsmanship."
After saying that, Yi Tianhao stood up and walked out of the room first, and walked directly towards the kitchen without being polite at all. There is no bathroom in this kind of bungalow, and people usually wash their hands and faces in the kitchen. Yi Tianhao is no stranger to this.
The washbasin in the kitchen was filled with warm water. Yi Tianhao smiled slightly, and a feeling of envy arose in his heart. This kind of life is actually quite good. While thinking about it, Yi Tianhao started to wash.
stand up.
Zhou Yue's mother did not walk out of the room directly, but walked slowly to her daughter, gently held her daughter in her arms, and said slowly and gently: "My daughter."
"Why."
"Starting tomorrow, ask your good friends to come over and play at home. Although our home has nothing to show off, no color TV, no game console, our home has freedom that they don't have at home. I'd like to buy some.
Do you think it’s okay for you to talk, chat and study at home together for food?”
Zhou Yue's body trembled, a look of surprise appeared in her eyes, and she finally nodded heavily and agreed: "Okay, Mom."