Just "Stop making trouble" resolved all my grievances.
Many times, the real reason for the quarrel is not who is right or wrong, but who can pamper the other person more and who can be more tolerant.
On the first day of our relationship with Gao Zijian, when we were enjoying the beauty, he felt that I was entangled with my ex-boyfriend because of the reverie in his mind. When he had this idea at this moment, it was actually
It desecrates our feelings.
If we really trust each other, I think this kind of thing will not happen. Since the two of us don't know each other deeply and the level of trust has yet to be cultivated, I think I can forgive him.
While forgiving him, I was also reflecting on myself.
"Actually, it's just a matter of one sentence. Why are you so stubborn?" Gao Zijian brought the cold rice noodles in front of me and said with an aggrieved look.
I looked at the cold skin in front of me, rolled it up gently with chopsticks, and said with a smile: "Come on, to express my apology, you eat first."
Gao Zijian was stunned for a moment, then quickly showed a big smile, opened his mouth and ate.
Sometimes the problem with stairs is really that once you give them, you have to take them down. A protracted battle requires internal energy, which will also affect the emotional foundation laid between each other.
This problem between Gao Zijian and I is just a small problem. A small problem can lead to a big problem. I need to reflect deeply.
"Gao Zijian, I admit that there was something wrong with my attitude last night. After all, whoever it is, it is impossible to be rational when encountering such a thing. I considered my own feelings more at that time, so I apologize."
Gao Zijian touched my head and said, "I shouldn't have hurt you yesterday."
Yes, when you love someone very much, this love may become qualitative. My mind is full of Gao Zijian's love, so there is a certain gap in accepting his yelling.
"Gao Zijian, I must make it clear to you that I am in love with you now. In my heart, you are the only one. I know that I am not gentle and considerate enough, but I am studying, so while I am studying,
For a while, please sir, please don't argue with me."
Passing the juice to Gao Zijian's hand, I spoke so seriously for the first time.
Gao Zijian seemed to be aware of the change in my attitude. He pinched my face gently and said with a smile: "Love masters also learn from failures, and I am also learning."
I nodded gently, divided the cold skin into two parts, gave one to Gao Zijian, and kept the other for myself, and said with a smile: "Half for you, half for me, you are my other half."
"No, you are my Youlemei." Gao Zijian picked up the cold skin and brought it to my mouth.
I chewed two mouthfuls and said with a smile: "Gao Zijian, I know that some stains in life cannot be removed, just like everyone has their own past. I went to find Shi Lei because I still regard him as a friend, but,
That's all, so you can rest assured that I..."
Before I finished speaking, Gao Zijian grabbed my hand, and I felt a thin layer of sweat on his palms. I heard him say: "The past is always the past. If I really want to struggle with it, how can my past be the same?"
It's not more outrageous, the value of growth is exactly like this. Moreover, I am not a saint. I let you go back alone last night, and I... I also feel very sorry."
I smiled and said, "Last night the driver was comforting me all the way, for fear that I would jump into the Huangpu River. Gao Zijian, if I jump into the sea, you will regret it!"
Gao Zijian stared at me with his eyes and said, "I won't give you this chance."
"Disgusting!" I sniffed gently, picked up the cold noodles on the table, and put them into Gao Zijian's mouth. He took a bite and I took a bite. Although it only cost a few dollars, it still tasted delicious.
I didn't ask why Gao Zijian suddenly appeared there. Some things are in the past, and there is no need to remind them again and again. Moreover, I also believe that true feelings cannot be easily separated when they go through hardships.
The premise is that we can tolerate each other's bad temper during the early running-in period of love.
Durian and Zheng Kai were chatting happily in the Shenghuang Hotel, while Gao Zijian and I were walking hand in hand on the side of the road. Passing by a place selling lychees, we bought some lychees and sat on the lawn to eat.
I picked three lychees for Gao Zijian, but he kept them in his mouth without eating them. When I peeled off the fourth one, Gao Zijian opened his mouth and three lychees were revealed.
I laughed at the small amount of air stored in his mouth. He motioned for me to come closer and stuffed one into me while I wasn't paying attention.
The lychee was covered with Gao Zijian's saliva, but after swallowing it, the taste was very tempting.
Just as the two of us were lying on the lawn, making love to each other, Gao Zijian's cell phone rang. He glanced at it, got up from the lawn, winked at me, and went to the side to answer the call.
This is related to the sexual relationship between the two people. As Gao Zijian’s girlfriend, I am definitely curious about everything about him. Before, it was difficult for me to understand the habit of many women to open their husband’s mobile phone text messages and e-mails.
, but now, I suddenly have a feeling that I can understand.
Gao Zijian was listening to the phone call with a polite voice and a calm expression. He glanced at me from time to time. I felt that there was no big problem.
After hanging up the phone, Gao Zijian came over with a smile on his face and said, "A friend."
"Boyfriend or girlfriend?" I asked almost instinctively.
Gao Zijian glanced at me and said, "A girl I used to play with now wants to buy a car from me."
I gave Gao Zijian a meaningful look, smiled and asked, "Is she your ex-girlfriend?"
Gao Zijian shrugged and finally nodded.
"My ex-girlfriend asked you to buy a car. Haha, will she buy a house from you again?" I asked jokingly.
Gao Zijian came to my side, put his arm on my shoulders, and wrote with a smile: "Chen Xiaojia, what exactly do you want to ask?"
"How many girlfriends have you had before?" Seeing that the time was right, I asked directly.
"Two or three, maybe," Gao Zijian glanced at me and said, "I can't remember exactly. How about you? How many boyfriends have you had?"
I glanced at Gao Zijian and said nothing. I only had one boyfriend, and he still knew that person.
Men always desire to conquer the world and conquer multiple women. The first man who desires this woman is himself, and what women desire most is to be the last woman for a man.
Two or three, this number is definitely an imaginary number, but I'm not going to care about it.
"Chen Xiaojia, I want to buy a house and leave it to my mother-in-law and them. What do you think?" Gao Zijian saw that I was silent and said again.
I was a little surprised. Gao Zijian and I had just established our relationship. Was he going to win over my mother?
"Gao Zijian, tell me about your family." As a future husband, I feel it is necessary for me to know the details of Gao Zijian.
Gao Zijian told me that his family has a stern old man, a kind mother, a naughty and willful sister, and a grandmother with a gentle personality.
Sounds good.
"What about you?" Gao Zijian turned to look at me and asked seriously.
"We are a family of three. My mother likes to nag, and my father likes to play cards and often loses money. My mother and I have been quarreling about this issue for half our lives." I didn't hide anything and said it directly, "My father likes me to celebrate the New Year the most.
I bought him some wine when I went to school. My mother likes the beautiful clothes I bought her the most, but I have worked here for so long and I don’t seem to be filial to them."
"Bring them here later," Gao Zijian gently stroked my head and said, "We will raise them together."
"Gao Zijian," I took a gentle breath and said, "My mother said she won't let me spend my boyfriend's money, so we'll talk about the house later."
Gao Zijian nodded gently, put me in his arms, and said, "Chen Xiaojia, starting from tomorrow, I will go to work with you and work hard for our common future!"
I looked at Gao Zijian in surprise and asked: "Going to work?"
Gao Zijian nodded and said: "I have almost relaxed during this period, and I also need to find a job to recharge my batteries. Didn't I tell Li Shu and the others last time that I wanted to start an interior decoration company? I want to give it a try.
"
"Have you thought about it?"
Gao Zijian nodded decisively in affirmation.
In fact, after Gao Zijian was with me, I could detect the subtle feelings. His heart was not as flamboyant as he appeared on the surface. On the contrary, he had a calm state of mind.
I discovered that I had picked up a big treasure. Moreover, it was a big treasure that I had not discovered before.
When I went back, Gao Zijian asked me again when I would go to his place. I smiled and did not answer directly.
We will indeed find more problems when we are together, but I want to cultivate more trust between each other before we live together.
The phone rang, and when I lowered my head to look, I saw that string of numbers. There are some people you don’t want to contact, but they pop up on your phone every day, and you still have to answer them.
I pressed the answer button.
"Let's talk." Liu Meiting's voice was as calm as ever, and she said, "The old place."
"It's very late now." I glanced at the time displayed on my phone. It was almost ten o'clock in the evening. "Why not, let's try another day."
The phone was silent for a while, and I suddenly felt a little irritable.
"Xiaojia, come out. I want to talk to you. Aren't you curious why Gao Zijian and I appeared in the bar at the same time? I know you, and you want to know." Liu Meiting's voice contained a chuckle.
, makes me shudder a little.
She succeeded, because every woman is the same, she caught my weak point, so she guessed that I would go.
Sometimes I wonder, if my curiosity was not so strong, would the following things not have happened?