The child's family gradually became numb to the child's condition and even became a little impatient.
The child came to the hospital alone.
Just like the child in front of me.
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Such a young child...
Let him come alone, face his own fantasies, his own fears...
His family cannot relate to him.
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Later, some families were unwilling to pay this expenditure that seemed to have no end or effect in sight, so they stopped their children's treatment.
As a doctor, all she can do is try her best to communicate with the patient's family.
If the other party is resolute...
There was nothing she could do.
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There are failures and successes in her communication.
For her patients, she is willing to do her best every time.
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The doctor asked the child to ask his parents to come with him next time.
Just say that she was looking for them and she had something to tell them.
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The child's parents are here.
This time, the doctor asked the child to stay alone in the room.
She went to another room with the child's parents.
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The child's parents were a little confused and a little excited.
They thought the child's problem was solved...
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The doctor shook his head.
If it was really solved, why would she avoid her children and tell them?
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The light in the eyes of the child's parents dimmed instantly.
They became more and more confused.
So what do doctors do with them?
They were a little angry.
They are very busy.
If there is nothing important...
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The doctor got straight to the point.
I asked the child’s parents directly why they stopped picking up and dropping off their children recently?
Let such a young child come to the hospital alone to see a doctor...
Don’t you think it’s too difficult for your children?
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The child's parents looked at each other.
It's actually because of this...
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They don't feel they have done anything wrong.
My kids have been here many times.
You are fully capable of doing it yourself.
In this case, why do so many people come together every time they mobilize troops?
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The doctor looks at the child's parents.
There doesn't seem to be anything wrong with their words.
But……
Why did Lele come to the hospital?
Because of nightmares.
Because of nightmares, the child is always in a state of anxiety even during the day.
It’s a state where you really need the company of your family.
The behavior of the child’s parents…
It is simply leaving the child in the whirlpool of nightmares.
Sit on the sidelines.
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The child has been suffering from nightmares.
As a parent, even if you feel like you can't do anything, you can always provide companionship and encouragement.
But the child told her that his parents were very busy.
They don't talk to him much.
They didn't like him mentioning the man-eating sheep.
Will be very angry.
They never asked him about the nightmare again.
And what I talked about with the doctor when I went to the hospital...
The child's parents seemed to ignore the child's problem.
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The expressions of the child's parents became a little unnatural.
The doctor's tone was gentle, without any hint of accusation.
But the meaning behind the words is obvious.
Doctors feel they care less about children.
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"...We are too busy..."
The child's mother murmured.
"We can't help much with the child's affairs..."
"Didn't we ask him to talk to the doctor?"
"Doctor, please pay more attention."
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"Doctor, has Lele's condition improved?"
The child's father spoke.
"Do I still need to come to the hospital all the time?"
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"yes."
The child's mother nodded.
"It's been so long..."
"It cost so much..."
"It can't have no effect at all, right?"
"Doctor, you also know the situation of our family."
"My father and I are both working laborers."
"Not much money."
"This child is about to go to school, and there will be a lot of money to spend in the future..."
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The doctor frowned slightly.
"Since you want him to get well soon, you should pay more attention to him."
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"Don't we care about him yet?"
The child's mother cried out for them, "Let him eat well and wear warm clothes."
"Let him see the doctor."
"Besides, isn't it the doctor's responsibility to cure him?"
"what can we do?"
"We gave him all the care he deserved."
"We are not such jaded parents."
"I can talk a lot verbally."
"He is our child."
"How could we not care about him?"
The child’s mother thought the doctor’s words were strange and funny.
As an outsider, you actually accuse them as parents of not caring enough about their children?
They don't care about children. Who else cares about children?
That's their child.
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Looking at the angry parents of the child, the doctor fell silent.
"...Just think I'm talking too much."
"I hope at least one of you can accompany the child to the hospital next time."
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"We try our best."
This is what the child's parents said to the doctor at that time.
Unfortunately……
Their best effort was to never show up in front of a doctor again.
Every time after that, only the child came by himself.
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Although the doctor felt sorry for the child, there was nothing he could do.
How could she, an outsider, interfere in other people's family affairs?
What's more, it's not that the children's parents don't care about their children, it's that they don't care about them that much.
They may prefer that their children become independent as soon as possible.
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The doctor was quite surprised when she received the call from the child.
This was also the first time the child called her.
This kid actually knows her phone number?
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Later she learned that the child saw her phone number from the business card she gave to the child's parents.
The child called to reschedule his next visit to the hospital.
The child is going back to his hometown in the countryside.
Because the child's grandfather is gone...
There is no way for the child to come over the day after tomorrow...
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Hearing the cry in the child's voice, the doctor comforted the child warmly.
But he felt even more dissatisfied that the child's parents actually let the child make this call in person.
Logically speaking, this phone call should have been made to her by the child's parents.
He said that the child was going back to attend his grandfather's funeral and could not come at the agreed time. He wanted to change the time of meeting...
That's how it should be, isn't it?
Rather than asking such a young child to explain to others that he wants to make an appointment to meet at another time because his dear grandfather is gone...
Wouldn't it be too cruel?
No buffering time is given to the children.
Let the child clearly know the fact that grandpa has left him...
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The doctor told the child not to worry about coming to the hospital.
Wait for the child to come back from the countryside and call her.
They made an appointment to meet again.
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The faint smile on the child's face disappeared as he hung up the phone.
grandfather……
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At first, the parents told the children that grandpa was gone, and the children looked confused.