Regarding Yu Lele's situation, one word immediately came to the teacher's mind: PTSD, which is post-traumatic stress disorder.
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"…….No."
The old lady shook her head, "Lele..."
"I don't like going to the hospital."
"We don't want to force him."
The car accident and the month in the hospital that followed were a nightmare for the child.
In the most severe cases, the child may even want to vomit just by smelling the disinfectant.
They feel very sorry for such children.
How can you be willing to force your children?
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"...We also feel that as time goes by...he will slowly accept the fact that his parents are no longer here."
Time heals everything.
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When the old lady said this, the teacher could not say anything to persuade her.
The main reason was that Yu Lele's past performance did not make her aware of anything unusual.
If it hadn't been for today, she might never have discovered Yu Lele's sequelae.
As a teacher, she felt that she had neglected her duty.
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What the old lady said...actually makes sense.
Time heals everything.
Everything is short-lived and fragile in the face of time...
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Rather than making the child suffer now...
It is better to leave it to time and let the children who are growing up realize this fact on their own...
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only……
The teacher felt a little worried in his heart.
This is not without its drawbacks.
if……
She means if...
No one tears apart the child's utopia and allows the child to indulge in it...
What should I do if I can’t help myself?
When the time comes, I want the child to wake up...
But it’s not easy.
No.
It's very difficult.
It's almost impossible.
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"...It's been two years since that incident..."
The teacher still expressed his concerns.
"Yu Lele hasn't understood it yet..."
"Don't you think this time..."
"Is it too long?"
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"...The child is still young."
After pursing her lips a few times, the old lady made a quiet sound.
The child is still young...
I still don’t understand the meaning of life and death.
He needs more time to understand and accept...
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"Two years."
Even though he knew what he said was unpleasant, the teacher said it anyway.
She was worried about the worst outcome happening.
In order to prevent future problems, some ugly words must be said upfront.
"You know the longer it goes on..."
The teacher took a deep breath.
"...Maybe what's waiting is not his awakening..."
"But his..."
The teacher paused, glanced at the child whose ears were covered, and then said, "Stubborn."
"Even if it's you then..."
"There's no way to wake him up."
"He is convinced of the fact that his parents are still with him, and it is deeply rooted in his bones."
"Have you ever thought about this possibility?"
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The old lady's lips trembled.
She made no sound.
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The old lady's appearance made the teacher a little unbearable.
She knew the old man had endured too much.
The pain of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person away is unimaginable.
The only grandson is in such a situation again...
But long-term pain is not as good as short-term pain.
"I suggest you..."
The teacher looked at the old lady seriously and said, "Take Yu Lele to see a psychiatrist one day."
"Leave professional matters to professionals."
"Maybe things go better than you expect."
"Only when Yu Lele realizes the fact that his parents are no longer around can he truly get over the car accident that year."
"...You don't want your children to dwell on the past, right?"
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The old lady pursed her lips.
Slowly, she nodded.
The old lady is always willing to believe what the teacher says.
only……
The situation of the child Lele is a bit special...
The old lady reached out and touched the child's head.
The soft touch under her hands didn't make her feel any better.
The old lady sometimes feels...
too difficult.
Why is her life so miserable...
The old lady lowered her eyes.
A tear fell.
fleeting.
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Xiao Xiao saw it clearly.
His brows furrowed for a second.
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After receiving a nod from the other party, the teacher said no more.
She looked at the other children and said, "I don't need you to write a letter of apology."
Before several children could smile, the teacher continued, "You apologize to Yu Lele."
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"Why?"
One child blurted out.
Shouldn't Yu Lele apologize to them?
Yu Lele moved first.
They are acting in self-defense.
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"Have you forgotten what the teacher told you before?"
The teacher frowned slightly and looked serious.
"Did the teacher tell you..."
The teacher lowered his voice and said, "Do you want you not to mention his parents in front of Yu Lele?"
"How did you do it?"
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"That happened a long time ago..."
Guo Youning was a little angry, "Who still remembers things so far away..."
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"that is."
"How long has it been..."
The other two boys spoke one after another.
Rather than writing a letter of apology, they could not accept an apology to Yu Lele.
Why?
It was said before that they all had to write a self-criticism, but now they are the only ones to apologize to Yu Lele.
"Yu Lele is the one who should apologize to us."
"He hurt us."
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"Didn't you also hurt him?"
The teacher shook his head slightly.
"You were wrong first..."
Originally, if Yu Lele had not been in that special situation, she would probably have had a hard time with each of these children.
A letter of apology is all it takes.
But knowing Yu Lele's special situation, she naturally wouldn't do this.
From Yu Lele's perspective, his parents were said to be extremely excessive and even vicious by several classmates.
It's still false and a rumor.
Yu Lele's anger is evident.
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If this is the case, if she carries the water again...
It’s unfair to Yu Lele.
Yu Lele is afraid that she will be disappointed too.
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Several children still wanted to quibble, but their mothers stopped them.
"alright."
"Why don't you just apologize?"
"What a small thing."
"Hurry up and apologize to others."
The child's mother pushed the child's shoulder.
The children still felt that they were justified. After all, the child's mother was not thick-skinned enough and could not let her child continue to argue with an orphan.
They were also a little angry.
"Why are you mentioning other people's parents so well?"
The teacher had also given them repeated orders in the past not to bring up any relevant topics in front of this classmate.
What did these children do?
It's better now, the beating was in vain.
I also need to apologize to others.
The main thing is that the three of them hit each other...
No matter how you look at it, these children are unreasonable.
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Under the double pressure from teachers and their mothers, several children reluctantly apologized.