Regardless of whether Zhao Mingyang was in his previous life or now, there is one thing that he cannot overcome. He has never reached the top of the pyramid, so his cognitive scope is limited.
There is a huge information gap. How terrible is the information gap?
For example, when a Tianya netizen posted an article about what the future would be like, he was chased and trolled by a group of people.
Say that he is whimsical, exaggerated, or even said that he is nothing but bragging, etc.
That article was about our domestic property market in the future, including the future development direction of each region and the value of houses. It wasn’t until ten years later that everyone got chills, because many plans and his posts ten years ago were basically the same.
Pretty much the same direction.
And that netizen was also found to be a student of a certain big shot. He shared what he learned and heard back then, which is the direction of future planning.
Of course, this was considered illegal, but even if he sent it out at the time, no one would believe it, so the matter was dropped.
In the early 2000s, he wanted to buy a house if he had money, and he also mentioned which areas would see housing prices rise sharply in the future, because a group of companies and plans would be implemented. Even if he had no money, he would borrow money to buy a house, and he would be able to buy one soon.
Book.
Who believed it at the time? Because the overall housing prices were not high, everyone thought this person was telling lies.
Zhao Mingyang is facing this problem now. It is now 12 years, and it will be 13 years soon. He knows the general direction of the next ten years or so, but many things are plans for the next twenty years.
The further back he goes, the less obvious his advantage becomes, so he has to climb up, and the strongest way to climb up is not to get acquainted with Shen Nanshan and Xu Lang.
In their view, Zhao Mingyang is nothing more than one of the young talents who cannot be given up.
And if you are together with Xu Qingqing, and you have a child with Xu Qingqing, and you coax Xu Qingqing well, after the child is born, Zhao Mingyang will become a member of the family.
Zhao Mingyang checked and found that she was the only daughter in Xu Qingqing's family. To be precise, she was the only daughter of Xu Qingqing's father. Even in the next ten years, there was no information that her father had any illegitimate child.
Her parents will not give up on Xu Qingqing. As long as Xu Qingqing does not give up on herself, then this will tie her up, even if she reaches an age when she has no advantage, that is, in the next five or six years.
Zhao Mingyang can also use Xu Qingqing's information network to continue to obtain future information and continue to improve his career. This is why Zhao Mingyang insists on entering the Xu family.
He knows very well that his advantage is not obvious at all, especially in the next few years, so he must have a backer and an information network.
"Mr. Xu, let me ask you a question. I have always been curious, but I have not come into contact with it. Maybe you have come into contact with it. You said those so-called nobles, those families that are still prosperous for four or five generations, are different from us ordinary people.
What is the difference between education?" Zhao Mingyang sat down and looked at Xu Lang and asked.
Xu Lang was also confused. Why didn't this kid answer his question and asked this question?
Xu Lang paused and said: "Actually, there is no need for you to ask this question, unless you and I have similar net worth. In fact, I have also researched and worked on your question.
To put it simply, there are some schools where I am rich, but they don’t let me in. It’s not that the school doesn’t let me in, but some parents, because it belongs to a closed circle, and someone must leave before they can invite new people to enter.
I thought at that time, how long would it take for a living person to be suffocated to death? I just need to use my brain.
I bought a manor in country F, built a teaching building in the manor, and then I spent money to hire teachers from the so-called aristocratic schools, with an annual salary of one million U.S. dollars.
Isn't this what happened? Teachers are not nobles. They only care about money, but they have taught nobles and know how to teach.
Soon I understood what was going on. I spent almost 40 to 20 million US dollars to buy a reference answer. It was not a loss at all, so I later opened a similar school in China.
The education model is actually very simple, that is, try to let the children try something when they are young, such as painting, piano, go, equestrian, skiing, etc.
Finding the child's most interesting hobbies and areas of highest talent, and finding professionals to train them, is to highlight a child's strengths. Do you think the child has any strengths?
I can tell you that basically every child has special talents, but why can’t ordinary children discover them?
Because there are no more opportunities to try and choose, can ordinary children be exposed to golf, equestrian, and skiing?
If you try more than ten kinds of projects for an ordinary child, you will find the child's advantages and strengths. In fact, ordinary people can also do this, but what ordinary people cannot do is persist in the later period and have enough time to study.
, as well as guidance from famous teachers.
For many skills, such as playing the piano, the piano teachers in those cram schools may only be able to take children to the entry level. Yes, they can only take the children to the entry level, because these teachers are also at the entry level.
For higher-level teachers, the fees are beyond the reach of ordinary people. If ordinary people persist, of course they can pay the fees. That is to sell their property and take a gamble on whether their children can become talented. Just like the piano player, his family
They sold the house and took him around to look for famous teachers, but this was too risky for ordinary people. If the child didn't become a talented person and didn't have a house, it would be very disturbing.
The second is useless socializing and learning. The useless socializing here refers to children playing with a group of children every day. The answer I got from the teachers hired with high salaries is that they are the children of families that you say can be rich for four or five generations.
We, since childhood, have been surrounded by adults and learned from them.
For example, when adults go to attend some meetings, some charity activities, some poverty alleviation in mountainous areas, etc., they will keep their children by their side. Under the influence of teachers from all over the world, children can actually cope with any scene and know how to deal with them.
thing.
Many Zhejiang businessmen learned how to do business with their children by their side since childhood, and the routines are actually pretty much the same.
There is another biggest difference. Many people may not be able to accept it, but for most children from such families, especially boys, their families will not stop them from falling in love, and will also teach them how to coax girls. This is scary.
Do you know what the problem is?"
Zhao Mingyang was silent. He was digesting Xu Lang's words. He raised his head and looked at Xu Lang and said: "It is intentional to train their children not to be influenced by feelings. Don't give up everything because of a woman. To put it bluntly, people who fall in love too much
, and people who have never been in love have completely different attitudes towards relationships.
Ordinary boys, who have never been in love, may give everything when they meet a girl. Even knowing that the girl betrayed him, the girl can still accept the girl and forgive the girl when she comes back. He takes relationships too seriously."
"Yes, this is why many girls like the second generation of rich people. It's not that the second generation of rich people are rich, but that the second generation of rich people can coax people. They know how to coax girls and can easily win the favor of girls. This is not who they are.
It’s a skill that comes with me, but it’s something that my family has taught me subtly.
Finally, when it comes to education, their education actually means giving up some useless knowledge. The teaching materials are all customized, such as history books, which teach failure cases in global history and how to avoid such failures. Most of them teach how to communicate with others.
They attach great importance to getting along with others. Their studies are not stressful, but extracurricular activities are more stressful.
For example, children can be asked to plan a play by themselves, sort out what they need, purchase it themselves, contact the venue, staff, etc.
Children are learning and exercising their own abilities all the time. Of course, if some children are very talented in physics and chemistry, the family will definitely try every means to let the children study specifically in this field and look for famous teachers instead of letting them
Children are learning subjects that they are not good at, such as foreign languages.
Of course, not all children are easy to learn, so they have another thing in common, that is, they have many children, and they will not have no way out because of one child.
For example, Wang Sibo's father said that he regretted having only Wang Sibo as his child. He was really not joking, because he had no other choice but Wang Sibo. Later, he became passive and could only compromise and support Wang Sibo, because this was the only choice.
a child.
Those families that have been rich for several generations rely on choosing the best among multiple children to take over. If the best has an accident, they will find the second best. Their core is not how to make money, but how to make money.
To train successors.
Of course, many politicians have received this kind of training since childhood. These are so far away from ordinary people that you really don’t need to understand them.”
How could Zhao Mingyang dare to tell Xu Lang that he wanted to know this? He might be trying to distract his daughter. Zhao Mingyang just wanted to know the growth trajectory of the children of families that had been rich for more than five generations.
"Yes, this is too far away from me. I want to ask you one thing, do the children of those rich people on the domestic wealth list have this kind of education?" Zhao Mingyang asked.
"No, there are overseas Chinese. The group of people on the domestic rich list, including me, who are really rich, have wealth, and can spend money lavishly are only after 1995. At that time, most of the rich people didn't understand it.
What about the capital market?
The older children of rich people are no different from ordinary people. They have no special skills and no plans. They only want to study abroad and see the outside world. No one will hire a bodyguard because no one knows them.
They are no different from ordinary people. They are very rich, spend money like water, and talk wildly. This is also the origin of the term nouveau riche, which means they suddenly became rich.
A nouveau riche usually lasts five years at most. The money is a windfall, not a person's ability. For example, if a person with no ability is suddenly demolished, the old man in the family will have a lot of land left behind, and he will get millions and thousands of dollars in one fell swoop.
Wan doesn't know how to manage wealth at all, including some coal bosses, most of them are windfalls.
As for Rebus and I, we have come up step by step on our own. After we have wealth, we know how to plan it, because it is wealth obtained by personal ability, but now we can be regarded as entrepreneurs at most, and this is still given.
It has a great reputation, but it actually creates a new generation.
At most, the children can be considered the first generation of rich people, not the second generation of rich people. Because we are now in the entrepreneurial stage, our wealth is unstable. Many people always think that we are the first generation of rich people. In fact, there is a huge difference between the first generation of rich people and the first generation of rich people.
My grandson will be considered a serious second generation of rich people. Generally speaking, the rich are only three generations. In fact, it is four generations, not three generations. Three generations. If the founding generation is here, there is no way they will let the third generation take over the family fortune.
If the founding generation dies suddenly, the fourth generation may be completely ruined.
A hundred-year-old family, a hundred-year-old family, if it can still be prosperous a hundred years later, it is a rare big family, and it can be worthy of being called an aristocratic family."
Zhao Mingyang basically understood. He looked at Xu Lang again and asked: "In the future, will there be a business legend of grassroots counterattack?"
"You mean from now on, that is, 13 years from now?"
"Yes." Zhao Mingyang said.
"That's basically impossible. Times have changed, the capital market is stable, and the business district is mature. You see, like the founder of Tuanmei and the Xiao Chen who speaks for himself, two people born in the 1980s are typical business fathers.
Their families already had money and were very rich, so they belonged to the rich generation. From now on, the younger generation will mostly fight for resources and opportunities for trial and error.
You see, the post-90s generation is not young this year, right? Are there any post-90s generation in their early twenties who are well-known in the business circle? Not to mention the post-90s generation, there are not many people born in the 80s who are grassroots.
At that time, we were completely benefiting from the times, the market was blank, and you could make money in any line of work, so what do you want your relatives to do now?"
"So ordinary people, the younger generation want to counterattack, I'm talking about men, how can they be the same as your time? Or be like the boss of Tuanmei."
Xu Lang narrowed his eyes and looked at Zhao Mingyang and said: "I know why you asked me the previous question, okay! You are such a brave kid, you are so courageous. I treat you as my brother, and you want to be my son-in-law!"