"Anything is fine as long as it doesn't violate my principles and doesn't touch the bottom line." Hao Ren said.
"Simple, if I become the team leader in the future and I want you to join the team, will you be my team member?"
"Hey! What do I think it is? This is a small thing, I absolutely agree." Hao Ren said, thinking in his heart, maybe I will become the team leader first.
Zhao Mingyang nodded and said: "As long as you say this, God will see that if you break your promise to me, no man will persist for three seconds, and no woman will be named Fu."
Hao Ren·······
This grandson actually started to curse, so damn...
"Come! Let me talk to you first and see if you can distinguish these things."
"Say." Hao Ren listened carefully.
Zhao Mingyang took a sip of water and said: "You know a girl. You think she is very beautiful and attractive. You tell her that you like her and give her a new fruit phone. She thinks you are nice and generous, and she is willing to work with her.
You dated and then slept with you.
You know a girl. You think she is very beautiful and attractive, so you ask her how much a night will cost. She says that the price of a new fruit phone is enough, and then you transfer her 6,000, and she stays with you for a night.
, the next day I took 6,000 yuan to buy a new fruit phone.
You know a girl. You think she is very beautiful and attractive. After chatting with her, you hint that you want to sleep with her. The girl says that a new fruit phone has come out. If you buy her one, she will agree to sleep with you.
After spending a good night together, you took her to a fruit store to buy a new fruit phone. After buying it, you went to the hotel.
What did you find? Did you understand anything?"
Hao Ren nodded and said: 'No wonder the new fruit phone is often out of stock, and the phone retains its value so well. It used to be hard currency and was used for money transactions. Are fruit phones used for transactions now?'
Zhao Mingyang gave Hao Ren a look of disdain and said, "The first is called love, the second is called prostitution, and the third is called dating. Do you understand?"
"Is there any essential difference between this? Did the first and third people go through taxation? The second one didn't?" Hao Ren asked.
"Wrong, it's the time cost and consequences. The first one requires more effort, and may end up being taken care of by the parents. The second one saves time and effort but not worry, because in the end the police will have to take care of it. The third one requires a lot of money."
A little thought, but you know that it is short-lived, the relationship between one and two, the most important thing is that the risk cost is too high, maybe the husband of the other party comes to take care of you with a kitchen knife, and you will go to her house to repair the faucet.
Useless.
This is the misunderstanding that many people have. They think that there is no difference between these three. In fact, the difference is very big, which can affect your life. You must first recognize these three differences and then talk about chasing girls."
Hao Ren picked up his phone, opened the memo, recorded these three items, and said, "What's next?"
Zhao Mingyang said: "When chasing girls, you must go through five stages: strangers, acquaintances, ordinary friends, good friends, and intimate relationships. Don't skip this step. The risk of skipping a step is very high. Strangers are the beginning. How do you change from strangers to strangers?"
To become ordinary friends? That means getting to know each other, and getting to know each other is divided into active and passive acquaintances.
Active means that you have to put in the effort to plan how to get to know the other person, while passive means that you will be introduced by friends, have dinner with colleagues, etc.
After becoming ordinary friends, you must know how to chat. Remember, don't chat awkwardly. If you find that the chat is awkward, end the chat. If you continue, the girl will have a bad impression of you, because if you are embarrassed, she will be embarrassed too.
How to chat without embarrassment? You have to remember this. According to global big data, girls’ preferences are: variety shows, travel, pets, zodiac signs, movies, and beauty. These categories are topics that most girls like to talk about.
, topics of interest.
If you are chasing a girl, it is best to exclude makeup first. Don’t let the girl think you know this very well. You can show it when giving gifts and say that you take the initiative to understand these things for her.
Girls think you deal with a lot of girls.
The best way is to understand the zodiac sign. This does not cost anything. It just requires more research. But don’t really believe in the zodiac sign. After all, it is definitely accurate without scientific basis. You have to guide the girl to believe this, for example, her zodiac sign is very similar to yours.
Whether you are a match or not, you need to find a match plan. What is the other person’s zodiac sign, what is he likes, what is his personality and preferences, etc., so that the other person can fall into the trap of your zodiac sign and be guided by you.
When chatting, you must learn to actively end the chat in a very good atmosphere, so that the girl looks forward to chatting with you next time, because the chatting skills in Niubi will have loopholes if you talk too much, which will make people tired.
Chatting is a very important part of love. You must be able to create topics, guide the direction of the chat, and end the chat. Many people do not understand this. To put it simply, you must learn how to make the other person interested in and expect you.
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Generally speaking, what everyone pays attention to is caring and paying attention to these two points. It is nothing more than paying attention to her activities and her daily life. If you like someone, you will think of ways to look at her more and focus on her every day. This is a big problem.
It is human nature to do things that some people do.
And most of the so-called love experts are telling you how to coax girls, please them, and fawn over them, but in the end a lot of things are counterproductive, because many experts may have never been in a relationship, and there is also Brother Xiaosha.
At best, that kind of thing is considered to be lustful, not falling in love.
If I'm going to fall in love, I won't tell you to death. Unless you and I and everyone in front of the screen are so strong, I will tell the love core.
From strangers to acquaintances to ordinary friends, put some thought into it. Love is like buying and selling. You are an entrepreneur and you are a seller. You want to find buyers and investors. This is equivalent to starting a business.
How to do it? Lock the target, make a detailed PPT in advance, and be ready to take action. You must first observe her preferences, from her mouth, and from social media. You want her to be interested in you and how to do it.
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Enrich yourself, as I said before, study zodiac signs, learn guitar or read more books if you have nothing to do. For example, when a girl encounters a problem she doesn’t understand, give her the answer and make her rely on and trust you. Every time
When you meet, you must have a clear goal. When chatting online, don't send messages all the time. When chatting offline, don't suddenly say "I love you, I like you."
This is giving girls a sense of oppression, do you understand? Don’t give the other person a sense of oppression, but don’t be too distant. For example, if you are chatting with a girl and suddenly get stuck, and you don’t know what to say, just say that I won’t disturb your work during the day.
, you are busy first, chatting back, and then you are thinking about what to talk about, and then you say go to bed early at night and wish you a good dream.
When you and the girl can chat for more than half an hour every day, it proves that you are good friends. At this time, you need to be more careful. You need to give her enough trust and let her see your responsibility, and do not express your feelings to her directly, but
It creates ambiguity, for example, I like your money, can you use it as my free cash machine?
This kind of word seems to be a joke, but it says I like you, but it doesn't say I like you, and the girl's reaction is different when she hears it.
In short, you must not think that falling in love is so easy, nor that it is so difficult. It is just a business project. You will gain experience after trying it a few times, and it is a risk-free business. This is still
Instead of trying a few more times, it’s best to do more entrepreneurial projects at once. If it doesn’t work here, it will definitely work there. What you need most to start a business is experience. No more chatting. Let’s talk next time. Xu Qingqing is here.” Zhao Mingyang quickly stopped.
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"What are you talking about?" Xu Qingqing came over and asked.