Zhao Mingyang made full use of the trick of a woman crying, making trouble, and hanging herself, as well as a set of templates for not bullying young people into poverty.
Why is it a tried-and-tested trick for women to cry, make trouble, and then hang themselves? Can it be eradicated? No.
There is a logic here. In fact, men can also use it, such as Zhao Mingyang. What logic?
That is, if you completely assume the identity of the victim, the other person will become the perpetrator.
For example, Zhao Mingyang constantly emphasized his grievances, that he was deceived and dominated by the Xu family and Xu Qingqing, strengthening his point of view time and time again.
It's like a girl who sheds tears and reveals the things that happened in the past. These things have been mentioned repeatedly. For example, thirty things have been mentioned. One of them may even make you feel that you have done something wrong.
, very guilty and self-blame, that’s enough, as long as you mention too many things, if you hit this point, you have already lost.
Add in crying and telling the girl's grievances, and you'll be defeated in an instant.
But what if boys cry? The effect is even more effective than that of girls. When others see it, they will say: "Okay, why are grown men crying? Men don't shed tears easily."
But other people will say behind their backs that men don’t shed tears easily, but they haven’t reached the point of sadness. They will think that the woman must have done something wrong, and the man really can’t stand it. How wronged he must be to be like this. But most men only care about their appearance.
I dare not do this, but the effect is actually more effective than that of women.
When girls see boys like this, they will be confused and blame themselves. They will wonder if they have really gone too far to make their boyfriends behave like this. But be careful, boys must not use this trick to cry with the same girl more than once, because crying
If you make too much noise, it won't work. Don't use it unless necessary. Unless you feel the situation is serious, then cry first and let the other party comfort you.
Zhao Mingyang turned himself into a victim, which made Xu Qingqing and her family feel self-blame and guilt. It also caused conflicts between Xu Qingqing and her family, and her family members felt that she had gone too far.
Will choose to make amends.
To put it bluntly, if you are a couple and the wife cries, makes trouble, or hangs herself, the people around the man will ask him to coax his daughter-in-law. This coaxing requires not only verbal concessions, but also money.
and a certain family weight.
Over time, strict control over his wife and fear of his wife have developed. Many men were not afraid of their wives or strict control over their wives before they got married, but after several such situations, it basically became like this. They were all coaxed out. Why should they be coaxed? Most of them
The man doesn't want to have a chaotic life at home, but wants to coax his wife into peace, and that's it.
Didn't Zhao Mingyang just let Xu Qingqingcheng coax him? Let the Xu family coax him.
The problem now is that if you leave here, you can stage a sad and sad drama of alcoholism. The decadent state of being hurt by feelings will make Xu Qingqing feel more self-blame and keep lowering her status to coax Zhao Mingyang, but the effect may not be good, and she is most afraid of it.
What if the Xu family takes this opportunity to completely break up Xu Qingqing and Zhao Mingyang?
When Zhao Mingyang walked out of the Xu family villa, Xu Qingqing chased him out. Zhao Mingyang ran all the way. Sometimes, as a man, you have to be ruthless. How can you get greater benefits if you don't be ruthless to yourself?
As Zhao Mingyang ran wildly, he glanced at both sides of the built cement road. There were still dirt roads and mountain forests on both sides. It seemed that Zhao Mingyang was running to escape from here, but in fact Zhao Mingyang was looking for a point.
Xu Qingqing followed and called Zhao Mingyang, "This mountain is not high. Zhao Mingyang is looking for a spot. He is calculating the damage value of cement roads and dirt roads."
Dirt roads have the advantage of causing little harm if you roll down them, but they have disadvantages, that is, there are many trees and rocks, so it is easy to hit your head, and the cement road wears a lot, and it is easy to scratch the skin.
However, there was little external impact, especially on this closed road. The direction Zhao Mingyang was running at this time was downhill.
It's time to break the skin and bleed a little. As long as the face is not hit and the bones are injured at noon, it will be fine. If you give it a try, the bicycle will become a motorcycle, and the distance is not too far.
Besides, it doesn't matter if you cover your face with your hands first, and then let go to scratch some skin on your face. As long as it's not a large area of skin, it doesn't matter. The wound heals quickly, and the main effect is better if you leave some blood.
But Zhao Mingyang thought of something else. He couldn't pretend to be unconscious without being hit on the head on the cement road.
For a brief moment, Zhao Mingyang's heart skipped a beat. The next second, it looked like he lost his footing due to an unstable center of gravity caused by running too fast. After falling, he rolled towards the downhill concrete road. He covered his face with his hands and watched from a distance.
Seeing this scene, Xu Qingqing was so frightened that she ran to chase Zhao Mingyang. Zhao Mingyang rolled all the way, adjusted his direction, and rolled directly down the cement road to the dirt road on the side.
The whole movement was done in one go, because the downhill rolling itself was smooth. Zhao Mingyang held his head tightly with his hands. If anyone saw this scene, they would say that he had quick reactions and strong safety awareness.
But it really hurts. There were a lot of pebbles in the ground, and it was really difficult to stop the downward movement. It kept going down. Zhao Mingyang had to be in good health to stabilize the speed of the downward slide and adjusted it.
I found a tree in a certain direction, looked at the blood stains on my hands, and smeared it directly on my face.
Then he closed his eyes again and hit his head hard against a tree. The next second he was lying on the ground with a bruise on his forehead, pretending to be unconscious. He would probably be discovered soon.
If I don't make your Xu family pay a price this time, then I, the Best Actor Oscar winner, will be in vain. Something happened to me in front of your Xu family. Do you want to be irresponsible? There is no way.
Zhao Mingyang has figured it out. There are blind spots in surveillance. Even if there are surveillance here, they are mostly near the top of the mountain and at the bottom of the mountain. It is impossible to have them all the way. Especially here is a mountain forest with a dirt road halfway up the mountain. The surveillance equipment does have more blind spots, with various trees.
and leaves may obscure vision.
That's why Zhao Mingyang dared to take a chance. This time, he wanted Xu Qingqing to have nothing but guilt and unconditional devotion for him, and become a strict husband.
"Come on! Come on! Help! Come on!" Xu Qingqing screamed at the top of her lungs.
But this distance is some way from the bottom of the mountain and some way from the top of the mountain, which is halfway up the mountain.
She was so panicked that she didn't know what to do, but luckily Mother Wu, who ran out behind her, caught up with her.
Seeing Xu Qing leaning toward the forest, she ran to stop her. After asking for details, she quickly called the people in the villa for help. There was a private doctor in the villa. She accompanied Xu Qingqing to look for her, looking at some blood stains on the cement road.
, Mother Wu was also panicked, nothing would happen to Zhao Mingyang.
Xu Qingqing cried and shouted: "Zhao Mingyang, where are you? Please reply!"
Her voice was so loud that Zhao Mingyang heard her sobbing voice.
When Zhao Mingyang heard this, he knew that Xu Qingqing was catching up, so he closed his eyes. He had pretended to be dead to Liu Bingbing once before, but this time it was Xu Qingqing, but he needed to pretend to be unconscious for a longer time.
Xu Qingqing was looking for it, and the place Zhao Mingyang chose was secretive enough, so it was really hard to find.
Most importantly, Xu Qingqing hated herself again. If it hadn't been for herself, Zhao Mingyang wouldn't have run away sadly, causing him to slip and roll down the mountain. It was all his fault!!!
The rescue workers from the mountain drove down directly. It would be easier to find them if there were more people.
Zhao Mingyang was quickly found, and Xu Qingqing wanted to step forward. The personal doctor did not let Xu Qingqing step forward and touch Zhao Mingyang. They went to check Zhao Mingyang's side first.
It was found that his heartbeat and breathing were normal, and Zhao Mingyang was quickly put on a stretcher and sent to the hospital for treatment.
Xu Qingqing followed and cried all the way: "Zhao Mingyang, please don't let anything happen to you. It's all my fault. I know I was wrong. Don't let anything happen to you. I will never lie to you again. If you don't trust me, listen to everything."
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After the old lady learned about this, she almost fainted. How could this happen? If something really happened, Qingqing would hate her as a grandma.
The old lady asked people to arrange for the best hospital and the best doctor. Get treatment as soon as possible. Don’t let anything happen. Why did this accident happen? Mother Wu secretly took a photo of Zhao Mingyang and showed it to the old lady. The old lady saw it all over her face.
It was Zhao Mingyang who was bleeding and unconscious, and he felt a burst of heartache and self-blame.
Nothing can happen, nothing can happen to Zhao Mingyang. The old lady is afraid that Xu Qingqing will hate her. What if the silly girl can't think about it.