Chapter Nine hundred and eighty first: Zhao Mingyang crashed
After Zhao Mingyang looked at Xiao Hulu's information, he didn't find anything. It can only mean that this person is more delicate and meticulous in his work, and he didn't leave any effective information, which means that nothing can be found on the Internet.
This part of the information is his overseas information, which is all information about his work in a security company. As for the domestic information, as Lao Wu said, his ancestral home is a county and town below Hu Jianfu City.
However, when they were very young, their family moved to the city. Their parents were fruit sellers. There were three brothers and sisters in the family. One of the older sisters was married, and the younger sister had just graduated from college and started working.
His parents had an accident after Xiaohulu's high school entrance examination. The couple wanted to buy a truck. They used to use three-wheeled motorcycles to transport fruits from the towns to the city for sale, but there were too few tricycles to transport them. They wanted to buy a big truck.
The couple decided to take a driver's license test together, and then took turns driving to the next city to collect fruits for sale. The fruits in the next city were better in appearance and taste than they had here. The purchase price was similar, but the selling price was different.
After all, many people buy fruits as gifts based on their appearance and taste, so it doesn’t matter if they are more expensive.
As a result, something happened while going to the driving school to practice driving at noon one day. When the driving school instructor took them on the road to practice driving, they came alongside a large truck, and the large truck rolled over. It was a large truck with four wheels in the front and eight wheels in the back.
It turned over, and it was covered with steel.
Anyone who runs a big car knows that pulling steel requires extra money and is too risky.
The instructor was also responsible. He was distracted while driving and kept chatting with a beautiful female student sitting in the passenger seat. He was distracted and took the wrong road.
As a result, the rollover took away all the people in the coach. The most embarrassing thing was that the insurance on the large car expired and the driver did not know that the boss did not buy the insurance in time. Moreover, the driver was also sent to the emergency room.
The owner of the big truck ran away and was later caught. He was only willing to compensate one million. Originally he only wanted to compensate up to 700,000, but in the end it was increased to one million. Is this a lot of money for a truck full of people? How many lives are there?
A family.
Without the financial support of her parents, the family collapsed in an instant. Xiaohulu's eldest sister had just finished her college entrance examination. She wanted to drop out of school to support her younger siblings in their studies. Her younger sister was only in the sixth grade of elementary school. Xiaohulu disagreed. He received the compensation and first
A large part of it went to the house. The house had just been bought and the family still had to pay off the mortgage.
The remaining money was given back to relatives. It is not easy for parents to raise three children, let alone send three children to school. The purpose of buying a house is for the children to go to school and have a place to live. Moving back and forth affects the children.
Of the last 400,000 yuan in compensation, a hundred thousand yuan was used to pay off the family's debts, and another hundred thousand yuan was left to pay back to the bank. It would last at least a few years. This family cannot be lost. It has the memories of mom and dad, and there are still tens of thousands left to give to my sister.
Twenty thousand to go to college, and the rest was saved for my younger sister to go to middle school. This money Xiaohulu knew that it would be spent soon. He had been independent since he was a child. When this happened to his family, he quickly made a decision at the age of fifteen.
Some decisions have been made.
My sister chose to study locally in college instead of going abroad. During this period, Xiao Hulu had an idea in his mind. He went to high school for more than a year, asked around, and finally went abroad to work under the counter with a fellow villager. The fellow said that he was doing illegal work.
Make more money.
After Xiao Hulu and the fellow countryman arrived in Taiguo, they transferred to another area, and then took the route [over mountains and ridges and across the border] to somewhere in Europe. In fact, they were smuggled there.
But Xiao Gourd had a plan before he went there. He knew that the fellow villager used to carry bricks and wash dishes, but he didn't do it. He knew that the fellow villager could lead him out, so he chose to come with him, but he also
You know you won't make much money by following him, and you might even get a commission from him.
The main reason is that Xiao Hulu knows foreign languages. He went to high school for more than a year just to strengthen his English learning. He went to school every three days to ask the teacher about some grammatical mistakes and pronunciation mistakes, and asked the teacher to help correct them. He knew that asking questions in school would be the most annoying to the teacher.
He, he will give the answer. He can also ask the substitute teachers in other classes?
There was also a small language program in that high school. Although there was only one class a week, which was a hobby class, but the teacher was at school, he shamelessly studied it. In addition to English, he also learned some Russian for daily communication.
After arriving there, he chose the same path as Lao Wu. Xiao Hulu went abroad very planned.
He checked a lot of information, chatted with some foreign netizens, and got some information. He knew how to make money quickly, that is, to make money by selling his life.
Before he left, he left a letter to his family, asking his sister to take good care of her and wait for him to come back.
In this way, his life changed in a real sense. After that, he sent money home every year and occasionally talked to his sisters on the phone. The money he sent home was enough for the two sisters to live a good life with no worries about food and clothing.
Soon he became famous in their circle for his life-saving and strong abilities, and the money came in faster. It was Lao Wu who brought him into the industry and took good care of him. Both of them had concerns. In fact, people in their industry
, most people are concerned about it, and most people go out to earn money by working hard.
Xiao Hulu's sister now opens an education and training institution in her hometown, and most of the money comes from Xiao Hulu.
And his sister currently works in a company. The background of Xiaohulu's family is much better than that of Lao Wu's family.
Zhao Mingyang looked at the current information of Sister Xiaohulu again. Her husband works in a private factory. The family structure is that Sister Xiaohulu has a strong family structure. The main income is earned by his sister. His brother-in-law is relatively introverted and prefers to lie down, but he treats him
His sister is pretty good, and his sister has a daughter who is currently in the first grade of elementary school.
This family is actually very stable, and there is nothing that Xiao Hulu needs to help or worry about.
On the contrary, it is Xiao Hulu’s younger sister. She currently works in an average company. Xiao Hulu’s younger sister is a college graduate. Her learning ability is much worse than that of her eldest sister and Xiao Hulu. She is a typical hard-working person, but her talent limit is there. She can only reach this point.
situation.
Xiao Hulu is most likely thinking about this younger sister. Her sister is very introverted, doesn't like to talk, and doesn't like to deal with people. In the future, we should pay more attention to this sister and start from her side to win over Xiao Hulu.
For example, this sister accidentally made a mistake, causing the company to lose millions or even tens of millions. They wanted to pursue the case. Xiao Hulu was unable to pay back, but Zhao Mingyang helped pay it back. How could such a thing happen without warning?
Zhao Mingyang didn't deliberately need to do this, but he knew that families like Xiaohulu would always encounter some problems that couldn't be solved with money or that they didn't have enough money to solve. They needed some connections. At this time, Zhao Mingyang could help, one step at a time.
It's just a favor.
What Xiao Hulu lacks most is relationships. He has actually been living in a world where the jungle is strong and the strong eat the strong. He uses force to solve some problems, but this ability is of little use in peaceful times. In addition to his strong personal combat ability, he actually has
All other aspects are weak.
Especially at the relationship level, unless he goes into business or something like that to improve quickly, he has missed some opportunities and has no experience in this area, so he has rejected this path himself.
The money he earns is the money he earns by fighting for his life. In fact, this kind of people are easier to control and master than people like Ning Dongsheng. Because the road is narrow, the first thing is not to push him into trouble. If you push him into trouble, he will be scary.
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Taking classes and teaching peacefully in school, Zhao Mingyang found that his life was basically stable now, without many changes.
Every day when I have nothing to do, I go to play chess, drink tea and practice calligraphy with Wu Zhonghua, and my life becomes dull.
This peace of mind was something he had earned after years of hard work, because there weren't many changes that could make him nervous.
Wu Zhonghua asked Zhao Mingyang to accompany him to climb the mountain. He is in good spirits now. Zhao Mingyang walked up the mountain with him, walking very slowly. At 6:50 in the morning, the weather was a bit cold, but after walking for a while, he felt a lot warmer.
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The two stopped at a pavilion and sat down to rest for a while. Zhao Mingyang handed the thermos cup in his backpack to Wu Zhonghua.
Wu Zhonghua drank black tea from a thermos cup and said: "Do you feel that you have lost your direction? At a young age, you have basically struggled to a point that many people will never struggle in their lives. You don't know what to do anymore, right? You should be cautious in this state.
Because you will think about doing something you have never tried before, and you may end up feeling even more empty. Because if a person loses a goal to strive for, he will start to move towards a state of loneliness. He may be depressed, or he may be completely mentally distorted.
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For example, some rich kids get into bad habits and do illegal and criminal things, just to get rid of emptiness in this way, which is a very wrong method."
Zhao Mingyang nodded and said: "I really don't know what to do. I have seen some entrepreneurs lose their way after they succeeded as teenagers. I don't know what to do. I do feel depressed, but I can't escape this kind of situation at the moment."
The state is beyond control."
This may be the benefit of getting along with wise people. As long as Zhao Mingyang changes slightly, Wu Zhonghua can see through it at a glance and can point out some solutions to Zhao Mingyang's problems.
"I don't have this experience like you, because when I was at the peak of my career, I always had an obsession, which was to find children, so I climbed faster than others. Most people, if there were no major life changes, then successfully completed their career.
After having a dream, you will basically fall into a strange circle, that is, emptiness, and the feeling that everything in this world is meaningless.
This state is actually the most terrifying. It tortures people’s mental level. If there is a problem on the mental level, it is the most terrifying. Most people have to get out of it on their own.
You see, you are almost in the same state as me these days. This is not normal, because if you continue like this, you will quickly enter the aging life circle. Next, you may need to clean up and find a small place to retire. But
Ah, can you let it go?
If you cannot overcome this hurdle, your career will plummet, and it will be difficult to get it back in the short term. Then the people who follow you will basically fall apart, and they may even be attacked by your former opponents.
You have to understand that your life can be endlessly speechless now, but what about them? They have just started. You, the helmsman, no longer want to move on. You got off the boat, but they are still on the boat, and there are still huge waves ahead.
With them, a ship without a captain will lose its backbone and direction, and it will easily capsize.
What do you need now? It is to play once to your heart's content. After playing enough, you can regroup and set off. When playing, you can't really play all the time. It is to look for new things when playing. This is what I once saw.
If a young man does this, he can be considered to have become famous at a young age. At the age of twenty-six or seven, he has already reached the limit that others pursue in their lives.
Finally he came out of this state. Think about it, you have no direction now. You need to determine what you want to do in the future. Just do one thing, one thing that can keep you doing.
Now, set a very big goal for yourself, even if you can’t achieve it, you still have to set it.”
Zhao Mingyang nodded, understanding what Wu Zhonghua said. He may have reached a bottleneck in his life. Breakthrough and decline appeared at the same time during this period. Choice is very important.
"Okay, let's continue climbing. This mountaineering pays attention to the scenery along the way. Remember, the higher you go, the lonelier you become, but the higher you go, the more you can see clearly. You can find a desired state of living. Lower your head.
When you see the scenery at the bottom of the mountain, you can find the place that you think is the most beautiful to live in. People are always looking for themselves in entanglement and confusion."
Wu Zhonghua's words once again pointed out a direction for Zhao Mingyang. He has indeed been a little confused recently. He feels that there is no need to fight anymore, but he doesn't want anything. As a human being, there are only seven emotions and six desires. He really seems to have gotten everything.
, he didn’t know what to do, but this state made him feel very painful, because he had been studying philosophy and metaphysics recently.
This is dangerous, because if you start thinking about the universe or gods and Buddhas, you may delve into it. Many people go to become a monk just to delve into something new?
But Zhao Mingyang didn't want to become a monk, but sooner or later, this state might lead him to an unknown path unknowingly. Fortunately, Wu Zhonghua stopped Zhao Mingyang in time.
People can change at any time and at any time, and Zhao Mingyang cannot escape it. When he was reborn, he had clear goals and pursuits at the beginning. When these things were realized, Zhao Mingyang could not escape the lack of spirit. He did not know that he
What to do.
Everything seems to be a dream. Zhao Mingyang has been confused recently. He doesn't even know what he should do next. Should he get married and have children, travel around? Or live in seclusion and cause trouble.
It’s hard to explain, but it’s reached a point where Zhao Mingyang seems to have died. He has lost the energy to pursue women. He has no shortage of women. He even has women that are envied by men all over the world. He can buy any car that a man likes.
He has a garage of limited-edition cars and a career.
At this moment, Zhao Mingyang deeply understands that Rebus lost himself after becoming famous at a young age. He went to bars every day for more than half a year and socialized online, and then felt all kinds of emptiness and didn't know what to do with himself.
I also understand why Zhang Sohu suffered from depression in the first place. He had everything, but it was the scariest thing because he didn’t know what to do anymore. He lost the simplest pleasure in life, the joy of living for the pursuit of life, and the spirit.
The emptiness in the world cannot be filled with material things.
Zhao Mingyang thought for a moment, what new goal should he set for himself?
Transforming into a superhero Cheng Shan to punish evil? Zhao Mingyang wanted to laugh. Indeed, this goal is what everyone thinks about, but everyone knows how ridiculous and unrealistic it is.
So what goal should you set? What is your next goal that you really want to do?
Zhao Mingyang fell into deep thought. He returned home and sat in front of the windowsill with a glass of whiskey. It turns out that it is so painful for people to lose their direction in life. In his previous life, he still had goals to strive for, earning hundreds of thousands, millions, and tens of millions.
They are all motivated. If they earn another 100 million, their life will be better once they have money.
But now? I am not interested in money anymore. This is really scary. I also understand what Jackma said. People must always have dreams. I also understand what he said about not being interested in money. What I miss most is being a teacher.
During the years when I was holding those tens of dollars a month, I had a bright future, a bright future, and a bright eye.
Putting down his wine glass, Zhao Mingyang wiped his face and thought about what else he wanted to do and be interested in.
Xu Qingqing has a strong career. She is busy with her career every day. Liu Bingbing, Qiu Shuhong and Gu Man have a strong career, and so does Hao Ren Xiaosha.
Zhao Mingyang suddenly felt envious of these people. He thought for a moment, picked up the wine glass and took another sip. Why not imitate Rebus and play with him for half a year, and let yourself go as you please.