The next day is the 13th, the day before the wedding.
According to custom, the bride and groom cannot meet each other before the wedding day, otherwise it will be unlucky.
So after dinner, Zhong Lingtian drove Liang Yixun back to her parents' home. Everything was ready and all she needed was Dongfeng, waiting for him to come to pick up the bride with his people and car early tomorrow morning.
The car had been parked downstairs for several minutes, but Zhong Lingtian was still reluctant to let her go.
Liang Yixun was also a little reluctant to leave. Too many things had happened during this period, and they were busy preparing for the wedding. She really felt tired many times, but she was so lucky. Every time she encountered difficulties,
Whenever possible, he would be by her side, helping her, comforting her, and encouraging her.
In fact, this is the life she wants. When she speaks, he can listen attentively; when she needs it, he can be by his side; when she is sad, he can give her a hug.
I remember there was a TV series before, in which the male protagonist said this: "If a person says he likes you, please wait until he takes care of you in every possible way before you believe it. If he agrees to take you to a place, wait until he books a flight ticket and then you will be happy."
, if he says he wants to marry you, wait until he buys a ring and kneels in front of you before you are moved. Feelings are not just words, we have passed the age of hearing about love."
She thinks that line makes sense. Love is not just a mouth, but a lifetime. Love at first sight is not necessarily a long-lasting romance. Love at first sight is not about the love, but the face. Love over time is more reliable.
If you fall in love with someone slowly, you will love them for a longer time. Love can last for a moment, but true love takes time. Because how long it takes to fall in love, it takes how long to forget. It takes a lifetime to love, and then you will never forget.
Don't fall off.
The love she wants is not the most beautiful thing like summer flowers, but the love that lasts calmly in the long river of time.
Then, in addition to the bond of love, there is another equally important thing in marriage, which is not children or money, but the common spiritual growth. When you are the most helpless and weak, when you are the most depressed and downcast,
He holds up your chin, straightens your spine, commands you to be strong, and stays by your side to bear your fate together. In addition to love, there is also a sincere loyalty, a tacit understanding that never leaves you, and an unforgettable kindness.
He did all of this. These were the things she longed for most in her heart, and he gave them to her one by one.
Her mother used to tell her that men are in love, but women are not, and a woman will follow whoever treats her well. Now she finally understands that this sentence makes sense.
Love is originally a very empty word. It is not just a simple metaphysics, but also some real care. To love someone, you have to give the other person something visible and tangible to care about. Ten thousand sweet words
, it’s better to say “Don’t worry, I’m here.”
Therefore, she was really grateful to him for being so kind to her, and she also vowed that she would repay him with the same sincerity.
Because marriage pursues eternity, when two people enter a marriage, they become each other's guardians. It becomes the common sacred mission of both parties to do their best to defend the marriage.
"Ling Tian, I feel honored to be able to marry you, thank you!" Liang Yixun said with emotion.
Zhong Lingtian looked at her and smiled softly, held hers gently with his big hand, and said dotingly, "Fool! I am lucky to marry you."
Over the years, he went from Hong Kong to the United States, and then back to the mainland. He had seen all kinds of girls, Eastern, Western, reserved, unrestrained, but none of them were as brave and bold as her. Gentle, tolerant and careful, kind and decisive.
Bravely have a flash marriage with him, or even a "naked" marriage; gently tell him that she is willing to take care of her mother and repay the mortgage together with her in the future; be tolerant and not ask about his past; carefully take care of his and his family's feelings, and even Xiao Zhe is so kind; he is kind and doesn't resent anyone, he doesn't hate the Meng family and his daughter, nor Shen Xuan, but he is so decisive, he lets it go when it's time to let it go, and never looks back.
If you get a wife like this, what else can a husband ask for?
"Xiao Xun, come with me to a place!"
Liang Yixun blinked and asked curiously, "Where are you going?"
"You'll know when you get there!" Zhong Lingtian smiled mysteriously.
Liang Yixun nodded and fastened his seat belt again.
Zhong Lingtian turned the car around and drove towards Chenxi Park.
Chenxi Park is the largest park in Jingzhou City. It is a government-planned land and has promised not to rebuild for a hundred years. It is a place that citizens trust and like very much.
There are hundreds of species of plants and flowers planted in the park, and the scenery is pleasant. Although it is winter, there are also green pines and cypresses, which are full of greenery.
Zhong Lingtian parked the car at the entrance of the park, then went to the convenience store nearby and bought two chocolates in iron boxes, a stack of letter paper, and two envelopes.
Liang Yixun was very curious, "What are you buying these for?"
Zhong Lingtian still smiled lightly and told her after paying the bill, "There is a very popular ritual abroad. When a couple gets married, they write a love letter to each other and bury the love letter and red wine. Until one day, they quarreled. Even when they are about to divorce, the two people open the box together, pour a glass of red wine each, go to different corners, drink red wine, read the love letters written by the other party, recall the sweetness when they got married, and remember the love between each other. That relationship means no more quarrels and no more divorces."
Liang Yixun found it novel, but also felt that this ceremony was really meaningful. "If life is just like the first time we met", this is probably how it feels!
There was ready-made red wine in Zhong Lingtian's car. He took out a bottle, then took her hand, and they walked into the park together.
They found the tallest and tallest pine tree, and then dug a deep hole with the tools they had just taken out of the trunk of the car.
Both of them had pens on their bodies, each wrote a letter, put it in an envelope, and then sealed it with a chocolate box.
Zhong Lingtian knelt down and said proactively, "I'll go first."
He put his box into the pit.
Liang Yixun smiled softly and followed him to put it away.
The two of them worked together to fill the soil back in and compact it firmly.
This is probably the most romantic thing they have done since they met, but this kind of romance is to make their future lives more solid.
Their marriage came too fast, and they didn't even have time to feel their love. However, the road to life is so long. No one can guarantee whether they will quarrel or get bored in the days to come. People with the seven-year itch So many, they haven't even been together for seventy days, but they are willing to work hard and pay.
People say that love is the prerequisite for marriage, but they ignore that cherishing is the necessary obsession to grow old together. Many times, in the end, growing old together has nothing to do with love, but more to do with love. Patience. But patience is also a kind of love. Therefore, the person who truly loves you is actually the person who is willing to endure you all the time. Such a person is worth loving and cherishing for a lifetime.
But nothing in this world is forever. A friendship will fade away if you leave it. A love will fade away if you separate it. So learning to cherish it is very, very important, and it is a lesson that can never be completed in a lifetime.
A woman's best dowry is a considerate and warm heart, and a man's best betrothal gift is a lifetime of tolerance and love. The most beautiful love story is falling in love with the most unexpected person at the most unexpected time.
The best marriage is nothing more than talking and laughing during the day and sleeping well at night.
But they have no superpowers, cannot predict the future, and cannot guarantee that there will be no quarrels or differences in the future, but they promise that as long as you persist, I will never leave you.
Happiness means that when the passion fades and the face ages, the hands that hold you are still those that do not regret; those that accompany you are those that do not look back; those that warm you are those that do not cool down.
I hope that after seven years, seventeen years later, twenty-seven years later...when I wake up every morning, the sun is there, the brightness is there, the love is there, and you are there.
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When Zhong Lingtian sent Liang Yixun back to her parents' home again, it was already very late, the night was hazy, and there was even light snow falling in the sky.
The snow is not heavy, it falls in the palm of your hand and disappears in the blink of an eye, leaving only a bright patch of snow.
The two of them chatted for a while, and then Zhong Lingcai reluctantly prepared to leave, "I'll take you up."
"No, my parents haven't gone to bed yet. Look, the lights are still on. I can just go up by myself."
Zhong Lingtian looked up and saw that the curtains in the living room were not drawn. He even saw his father-in-law and mother-in-law walking back and forth.
"Okay then, I won't go up."
Liang Yixun nodded and gently warned, "Be careful on the road."
Zhong Lingtian also told her, "You also go to bed early, and you have to get up early tomorrow."
"Yeah!" Liang Yixun nodded shyly, she would be his bride tomorrow.
She wasn't looking forward to the wedding so much before. After all, the two of them had already received their wedding certificates, and she didn't understand romance and didn't like to engage in those rituals. But now her mood has changed. As expected, every woman wants to wear the most beautiful wedding dress and get married.
To the most beloved person.
The most beloved person? Well... maybe he is not yet, but she believes that sooner or later he will be.
Liang Yixun felt that her face was slightly hot, and she quickly turned around and went upstairs, but when she turned back, she was slightly stunned.
Shen Xuan walked out of the shadow of the tree. His face was a little pale and his lips were a little purple, as if he had been frozen for a long time. His hair and shoulders were covered with snowflakes, and he looked miserable.