If she becomes like them, her fate will be something even she herself cannot predict.
An Xici stayed alone in the study for a long time. When she returned to the room, she was still a little dull.
Huangfuyan put down what he was doing, went over and pulled her into his arms, and asked, "What's wrong? But my father-in-law scolded you?"
An Xici looked at Huangfu Yan and asked him: "A Yan, do you think I am a bad person?"
Huangfuyan nodded sincerely.
An Xibi: "..."
Huangfuyan chuckled and pinched her nose: "Fool!"
Then he said to her: "Xi'er, in fact, there are never absolutely good or bad people in this world. But before we do anything, we must always consider the possible consequences of the matter. Everyone has selfish motives,
So it doesn’t matter what’s right or wrong, whatever you think is right is right, and whatever you think is wrong is wrong.”
"Isn't it bad enough to use other people's feelings to achieve your own goals?" An Xibi asked back.
"Let's put this question aside for now, Xi'er, do you want to be a good person or a bad person?" Huangfuyan did not answer An Xishui, but asked her other questions.
An Xici thought for a while: "I never think that I am a good person, but I am not bad in the end. I just do what I think I should do."
Huangfuyan nodded: "That's it, just do what you like. Who knows, what you do must be good or bad? In fact, you yourself understand this truth, Xi'er, but
The so-called taking advantage of other people's emotions is a dead end."
"Dad said that this will eventually hurt others and yourself. I have thought about it, and it is indeed the case." An Xici said.
"You're right, that's the truth." Huangfuyan smiled in agreement and continued: "But what if you can calculate the possible consequences of the whole thing?"
An Xici looked at him with some confusion.
Huangfu Yan said: "If you can know that the emotion you use can benefit others and yourself, then why not do it? So, no matter what kind of thing, it is not absolute."
"Isn't it absolutely?" An Xici looked at Huangfuyan in slight surprise.
Huangfuyan explained: "Let's take an example. When I was in Beiguan, Xueer came to beg me to fulfill her marriage to Zhao Lin. Logically speaking, this kind of thing should not be decided by me. But at that time,
In Beiguan, I am the only person who can make the decision for Xueer. Otherwise, if she marries Zhao Lin, it will be like having no matchmaker and no betrothal, and she will not have the support of her mother-in-law in the future. So tell me, should I agree or not?
Should I agree?"
An Xijie didn't know why he mentioned this, and nodded instinctively: "Of course I agree, why not? It won't bring you any loss!"
Huangfu Yan smiled: "You are right, of course I agreed, but I told General Zhao that I agreed."
An Xici was very confused.
Huangfu Yan: "The battle in Beiguan has defeated Beimeng, but if we want to make Beiguan stable, we still need a reliable person to garrison Beiguan. I sold General Zhao a favor, and I want him to return it to the Zhao family.
The loyalty of Beiguan and the stability of Beiguan for twenty years. Sometimes, if you use something just right, it will benefit others and yourself, but if you use it wrongly, it will harm others and yourself. It all depends on how you use it."
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