Chapter 1,202 How many beauties love idiots (Mu Yue 5)
It was July 18, 1993. The wedding of Zian Man and I was held as scheduled, and the weather was not unfavorable. The wedding day was an unexpectedly sunny day, and the guests were packed with people singing and dancing.
My father asked Master Kanyu to plan his life beforehand. Master Kanyu said that the day of my wedding was as smooth as April 11, 1954. As my mother was tossing about changing into dragon and phoenix gowns, I asked a question.
Why is April 11th so special? Master Kanyu explained to me that nothing happened on that day, not a single major event happened in the world, no big figures died, and there was no breaking news around the world. It was called the most boring day in human history.
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I asked why I got married on the most boring day. My mother patted the brocade hat on my head and said I was stupid. If I got married on that day, wouldn’t it be the only one in the world?
Something big happened?
To be honest, I don’t really believe in ethics, nor do I believe in fate, otherwise I wouldn’t have gone against my father’s wishes and chosen the path of medicine. But the idea of choosing a date for marriage is just for celebration, so I choose to obey my parents.
of painstaking efforts.
In fact, I was considered a maverick in my life before I was 23 years old, but I didn’t have much choice when it came to marriage. My parents always put a lot of pressure on me. In their eyes, men
It is time to think about marriage after you are crowned weak. It is unfilial to get married and have children one year later than the age of twenty-two.
I resisted the pressure from my parents for a whole year, until my mother gave me an ultimatum one day after I came back from "hanging out" outside. She told me that she had arranged a blind date for me, and if I was not honest,
If I go with her to meet other girls, I will never have to come back to this house again.
Filial piety comes first. I have never been able to resist my mother, and I don't want to see her cry, make trouble, and hang herself. I agreed to the blind date and spent a day between the two points in the library and the courtyard to catch up.
Place.
To be honest, before I went there, I just walked away with a casual attitude. After all, I have never been very cold about blind dates. My parents’ orders to find a matchmaker are all clichés in my opinion. On blind dates,
The man and the woman don't even have any emotional basis, and the forced match-making only seems blunt. I prefer the idea of love at first sight to the match-making (love at first sight was still a fashionable thing in our era).
The blind date is held in a large courtyard, which means that the blind date is mostly from the orthodox family. Although it is unlikely to be from our family, the Sima, Zhao, and Zhu families are not considered outsiders. Each family has its own family.
The children in our country have been running around everywhere since they were little, and I don’t know the person I’m going to be dating for sure.
I never thought that when I met this person, I would realize that I not only knew this person, but that I was extremely familiar with him.
The girl I have played with since childhood, who is considered a childhood sweetheart, is Zhao Yanman.
I met Zian Man a long time ago. It can be traced back to when I was copying "Kong Rong Rang Li" in the library. I remember that the first time I met her, she kicked the ball into the library.
, knocking several books to the ground, causing her to hide behind the door in fear, afraid to come in, for fear of being scolded by the uncle guarding the library.
In the end, I took the initiative to pick up the ball and returned it to her. She timidly apologized to me at that time. Her dirty little face is still very impressive to me. After that, I kicked the ball in a few more times, and I continued as usual.
I picked up the ball and gave it to her. After a while, she got familiar with it, and then she took the initiative to invite me to play with her friends.
Qian Man is from the Zhao family. Compared to my own family, the relationship with my uncle over the years has actually made me closer to the Zhao family. I know many of the elders of the Zhao family, including Qian Man.
My parents, I often receive red envelopes from their house during the holidays. My aunts and uncles keep making me rich every day so that I can buy snacks and firecrackers for the New Year. For this reason alone, I am very grateful to Xian Man. I always feel that my uncles and aunts are looking at me.
He gave me such a big red envelope because he has a good relationship with Xian Man.
I am one year older than Jian Man, so our recent relationship is just that we are classmates in the same school and at different levels. I am studying medicine and she is also studying medicine. We are even in the same school. I still remember seeing her at the door when the second semester started.
Bao Xiaobao was helpless and refused help from the enthusiastic seniors. If I hadn't come to the rescue in time, I'm afraid she would have been in trouble for the past four years.
When I celebrated my birthday before, Xian Man, who was still in school, took time off to come back and wish me a happy birthday. She also gave me a few ancient medical books that she bought on the cultural street. They looked like they were worth a lot, so I asked her if
Cheap, right? She waved her hands shyly.
It seems that what I said to my brother, "All my friends who we have met a few times come back to celebrate my birthday" is indeed a bit excessive. Thinking about it carefully, the relationship between me and Zian Man is more than just a few acquaintances.
, it’s no exaggeration to say they are childhood sweethearts.
On the day of the blind date, Yan Man was wearing a knitted woolen sweater and a white cashmere hat. She looked very well-behaved and quiet. She sat next to her mother obediently, put her hands on her knees and secretly looked at the person sitting at the opposite table.
As I sat there, I only dared to wave my hands quietly under the table to say hello.
My mother and her mother chatted so well that if we hadn't met for the first time, I would have called her "mother-in-law". This made her and I a little embarrassed. We are indeed familiar with each other, but it's also true that we are familiar with each other.
She was not familiar enough to talk freely at the blind date. So the first sentence I spoke was to ask her dryly how life was in college, and she replied dryly: Brother Xingchu, I have already
I graduated and am currently working at home.
I said it’s good to be unemployed, it’s good to be unemployed. After I said a few words, my mother slapped me on the back of the head and said what’s so good about being unemployed? Are you as knowledgeable as you and going to keep a library? I am prepared to work in the pharmacy department. How can I be like that?
You don't want to contribute to the clan after graduation, you are too lazy to do it.
I was thinking about belittling your son on a blind date. Are you really my mother? You are more eager for this to go south than I am, right? I didn’t expect that the person opposite me called Qian Man, who quickly helped me to smooth things over, saying Xingchu
My brother is not lazy. Liezu said that he is a person with great ambitions and ambitions, and he is very good at hiding his clumsiness.
It's okay if I don't say it, but when I say it, I almost want to dig into the ground, because I don't even know that I have ambitions, but my mother and the mother opposite are both overjoyed. How to put it in that sentence,
Before I got married, my elbow turned outward.
That blind date meeting went very well, at least that’s what my mother thought. On the way home, she praised how sensible and well-behaved she was, and how she was a traditional good girl. Their family lacked such a daughter-in-law, so I
No matter what, I have to get the vine.
I was unhappy and didn't say anything along the way. From time to time, my mind flashed to the dirty face of Xian Man holding a ball when she was a child, and from time to time, her shy and well-behaved look in a knitted sweater came to mind. When I got home, I didn't go into the house.
My mother stopped me and said to me earnestly outside the door, son, you have to love someone who likes you, not someone you like.
At that time, I just told my mother that I wanted to eat snowflake cakes and wanted to go to Daohua Village for a run.
She didn't stop me, she just let me run away.
At night, when I came home with the snowflake cakes, I found that there were no lights in the yard. The only thing that was lit was the ancestral hall of my family. Curious about whether there was a thief in the house, and what kind of thief would steal the ancestral hall, I
Carrying the snowflakes, I tiptoed over and found that the person standing in the ancestral hall was my father. He was holding incense in his hand, bowed and offered incense to his ancestors, and then asked me to come over and offer incense to his ancestors without looking back.
I used to offer the snowflake cake that was not yet warm in my hand to my ancestors. I held a stick of incense and bowed in an honest and learned manner. Halfway through the bow, I found that my father put his hand on my back.
, until I straightened up, his hands kept supporting my waist, making me stand ten times straighter than usual, until I completed a whole set of rituals.
Although I didn't know what my father was doing, after I finished lighting the incense, I still cared about him and told him to go to bed early and prepared to leave. Before I was about to leave, my father stopped me and asked me what I thought of Zhao Yanman.
I really wanted to make a joke like I did to my mother, but when I turned to look at my father, I found that behind him were the tablets of my ancestors. Under the light of the chandelier above his head, his expression was very calm and there was no blame.
He didn't complain, he seemed to be just waiting for my answer.
The answer I gave is that I don’t hate her. Because I don’t hate her at all. She is a good girl. Just like my mother said, she is a traditional good girl. Marrying a good girl into the family will only make others envious. I
I heard that countless boys wanted to chase her in college, but she rejected them all. She was as cold as ice cream, but at today's blind date, she was wrapped in that knitted woolen sweater and was docile.
Gotta be like a sheep.
My father said that if you don't hate her, then you should marry her. The Zhao family has this intention, and so do I. Now it mainly depends on what you think.
I immediately replied, "If you don't hate it, it doesn't mean you like it!"
My dad said, what are your thoughts? Do you have someone you like? If so, give me a name and I will make my own arrangements.
I was silent for a long time, standing in the ancestral hall without saying a word or moving.
My dad turned around and told me in a normal tone that for more than 20 years, he rarely asked me to do anything. Even when he asked me when I was young, he gave up because of my strong opinion. I want to learn
Doctor, he tried his best to silence some of the dissatisfied elders in the family. I didn't want to join the "Seven Stars" and serve the orthodoxy, so he arranged for me to work in the library to live a leisurely life.
The Zhengtong family is very big and the Li family is very big. It is easy to raise an idler, especially since this idler is his son Li Yuande.
So, he has followed my whim on so many things, so should I follow his ideas this time?
I wanted to retort, turn around and run away, but my father said again, "Xingchu, this is my father's request to your son."
I have never seen my father beg anyone since I was born. This is the first time.
That night, we didn't talk much more and broke up late at night.
In the days that followed, the blind dates continued. It was more like a natural date than a blind date.
Sometimes I asked her to drink tea in the courtyard and read in the library. Sometimes she took me to walk along the leaf-covered paths outside the Forbidden City. Most of the time, she made appointments with me more often, but on the contrary, I seemed a lot lazy.
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But as time went by, I got into the habit of looking up from time to time when I was sitting in the library reading a book to see if the girl in a knitted sweater would walk in at the door and sweetly ask me if I wanted to go out to play.
I am used to having another person in my life, and I am also used to having someone beside me making tea and studying ink when I am reading. When I am studying medical books and thinking about whether there is any solution to the problem in my mind, she even
You can give me constructive suggestions appropriately and point me in the direction that I have overlooked.
Everything was very natural, maybe too natural. When she asked me that day on the catkins-fluttering bridge outside the Forbidden City moat if I wanted to marry her, I naturally said yes.
Everything happened so naturally and fell into place.
She likes me very much. I actually knew from the beginning that she liked me very much. I have never seen a person like another person so purely, without any reservations, with everything written on his face. She is so good and mature.
, gentle as water, and sensible, as if she was born to be my lover. But I know that no one is born to fulfill another person. This is not called love, this is called sacrifice - if I let her down.
I know she likes me, and she also knows that I know. I asked her when did she like me, and she said that when she was a child, she kicked the ball into the library and she didn't dare to come in. She peeked inside and found me sitting on the desk reading seriously.
, he fell in love with me at that first glance, and he still falls in love with me until now.
Then we got married, naturally.
The wedding was a Chinese-style wedding. In my memory, that day was high-pitched and bright. Everything was covered with a light golden makeup. The girls' eyelashes were tanned to a snow-white color, and their smiles and singing melted and spread in the light.
Ten miles of red makeup, gongs, drums and suonas ring loudly.
The sedan was put down in the main hall of the courtyard, with a vermilion floor, carved dragons and phoenixes, a phoenix crown, and a red gauze. The bride was helped out of the sedan by the matchmaker and her companions. On a sunny day, she was as beautiful as a jade screen.
people came out.
We completed three prayers amidst the firecrackers. After the third prayer, the teasing entry into the bridal chamber made the guests laugh. My mother-in-law even whispered to my mother and the others, saying that she was afraid that she would not be used to sleeping at night after marrying her.
Shili Hongzhuang also specially added the Qiangong Babu bed.
My brother shed tears for the first time at my wedding. He hugged me and said that the Li family will depend on you from now on. I looked confused and thought he was talking nonsense because he drank too much. Anyway, everyone ended up drinking too much that day.
We talked a lot of nonsense, and Yan Man kept following me to help me stop drinking. She doesn't like drinking, but I have never seen her smile so happily.
At the end of that day, when I, Li Xingchu, introduced myself from now on, the "unmarried" column in the marriage relationship officially became a thing of the past, and I felt a little sad, as if I had graduated or lost something.
Also, Li Muyue was not present that day.
The seat I left for her was empty from beginning to end. I don’t know where she went that day. Maybe she was busy, or drinking tea under the osmanthus tree, or depending on her personality, she was sitting under the tree.
There is no guarantee that I will be puffing away at the branches. I can only wait with the best hope.
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