Xiao Langling repeated this sentence while thinking about its meaning.
One's own battles are easily influenced by one's own emotions, which may interfere with one's correct judgment. Although I was able to strengthen my will occasionally in the past, but like the situation just now that almost put myself in a situation of no return, it is indeed my fault.
Proof that he is prone to being impulsive. I have to admit it.
And what kind of state of mind do you want to achieve? Naturally, it is the kind that is completely opposite to what you are currently doing, which can make you not emotional but choose to be rational, and eliminate all distracting thoughts!
Generally speaking, it is an absolutely rational state of mind. Your own will will follow your own rationality and overcome being dominated by emotions.
Xiao Langling also told Polo his thoughts. Unexpectedly, Polo actually looked surprised.
"Absolutely rational, this is my elder brother's cultivation state of mind. But unfortunately, his spiritual consciousness has not awakened here. But I will try my best to help you through training to achieve this state of mind! I'll give this to you first!"
As he said that, Polo pointed at Xiao Langling's forehead, and then Xiao Langling felt a large amount of information pouring into her mind.
Xiao Langling felt it carefully and found that these were like secret books, instructions for teaching others how to cultivate their state of mind.
This is the basic formula for state of mind cultivation. It has no name, and its content is obscure and difficult to understand. And Polo just wants Xiao Lingling to preview it in advance so that she can understand as much as possible about state of mind.
In the days after that, Xiao Langling began to practice specifically on the state of mind.
Understand the key points of the state of mind formula in advance, and then try to calm down your mind, and then achieve the state you want.
But no matter how hard Xiao Langling tried to get herself to that state, Xiao Langling couldn't do it. It wasn't until Yan Fengxu woke up and showed up...
"Polo has already told you how to cultivate your state of mind! But judging from your current progress, it seems that there is no result! After all, it is a bit difficult to make you, who is impetuous, suddenly calm down."
Yan Fengxu commented: "It's like asking a habitual thief to suddenly wash his hands in a golden basin! It is impossible to change successfully all at once. Many habits are deeply ingrained in your bones, and they are almost separated from your body.
Not entirely affected by your brain.”
"You said you want to practice absolute rationality? Listen to my advice. Although the probability of you learning it is very low, I still advise you that it is best not to learn it!"
"Why?"
Xiao Langling didn't understand. Is there anything wrong with using absolute rationality to suppress the control of emotions over behavior? Only in the face of absolute rationality should people not be influenced by emotions, isn't it?
But Yan Fengxu couldn't tell what Xiao Langling was thinking right now?
"You don't seem to understand that only those who have absolute rationality and rely on rational judgment to judge things can make correct choices, right? But in fact that's not the case!"
Yan Fengxu seemed to have some memories and told Xiao Langling about his personal experience.
"My husband, because he practiced that way at the beginning, as soon as he enters the state of absolute rationality, he becomes very cold. Although he can analyze problems rationally, he becomes like a robot without emotions.
.”
Xiao Langling listened quietly to Yan Fengxu's account of her past. She seemed to be affected by her words.
"Once I was taken as a hostage by the enemy to threaten him. If he gave in at that time, hundreds or thousands of people would be affected. If he didn't give in, the other party would kill me. At that time, I was in an absolute state.
Being rational, he chose the former without hesitation... Compared with the lives of countless people, I am insignificant, just like a person's life is like a series of numbers, nothing more than a ratio of ten thousand to one. If the first
If I could personally save hundreds or thousands of people, he would be happy to sacrifice me."
"Although I know that under normal circumstances, he would not be able to make such a decision!"
Xiao Langling was fascinated by Yan Fengxu's words. She could also imagine that if she was caught as a hostage by others, and then threatened Polo with the lives of people from the previous world, Polo chose to do it for the sake of the world.
If someone sacrifices me, my heart may be... No, it will definitely be very painful...
"Although in terms of the result, what he did was right, because no matter what he chose, the result would remain the same. Later, he also successfully saved me and those innocent people. But at that moment, I and his
There was a crack in the relationship. I deliberately distanced myself from him, and he regretted it very much afterwards, and even felt confused. It took us a long time to eliminate the sequelae of that incident."
"After that, he never used absolute rationality in front of me..."
After listening to the story told by Yan Fengxu, Xiao Langling felt as if he had experienced this personally.
If you really achieve absolute rationality, you will become a robot that has no emotions and only respects reason blindly.
I absolutely don't want to become like that, thus affecting my relationship with Polo or others.
"Then...what should I do?"
Xiao Langling asked. Since absolute rationality is not enough, then what kind of rationality should one achieve to have the greatest impact on oneself?
"You have to find the answer by yourself! Cultivation of the state of mind will lead to enlightenment and find your own way! And the cultivation of the state of mind cannot be obtained by being confined in a small space! You need to use your own eyes, use your own
Body, use your own heart to feel everything in the world! Then you can find your own way!"
"I said I am responsible for the training, but in fact this process requires more awareness and understanding on your part! Polo just gave you the secret manual for getting started with your state of mind, but you can't understand it, right?"
"Um……"
Xiao Langling nodded. Polo just told him all the secrets in his memory without giving much guidance.
"That's just Polo's own understanding of his own state of mind that he instilled in you! There are different differences between people! His method may not actually be effective for you! Things like state of mind are mainly about
To achieve enlightenment on your own, you can learn from other people’s experiences at most! My guidance to you, sister, is nothing more than this, do you understand?"
"clear……"
Xiao Langling nodded and agreed. Did he suddenly realize his own state of mind?
"Furthermore, Polo's own mental state practice is only half-baked. Regarding guidance in this area, you should not ask him for guidance. It will be misleading..."
However, Polo, who was listening to their conversation not far away, showed a bitter expression at this time: "Ahem, is it really appropriate for you to say this in front of my girlfriend?"
Yan Fengxu: "Did I make a mistake? Otherwise, why would she still be like this after being with you for so many years?"
"But you didn't teach me immediately..."
"Um--?"
Yan Fengxu kicked suddenly, which made Polo's expression tighten in fright, and then he turned his head and paid no attention to her, deliberately avoiding her sight. It seemed that Polo was really afraid of her.
(This chapter is over, please collect and pay attention)