Ronan didn't dare to reply and let Mo Haihang continue.
"People are always a little selfish. My selfishness is probably to maintain the atmosphere at home. In fact, your aunt and I have always had a smooth career. In the 1970s, your aunt and your grandfather had a disagreement.
, she and I took Moya and worked alone in Xia City, and we didn't find it difficult. At that time, we were thinking about the wonderful things that would happen when our children grow up.
"When I have Mo Peng, and you come back, the family will be stable. I have many brothers and sisters, so I can share the burden of the elderly; my father-in-law is hospitalized all the year round, but he can support his expenses; my brother-in-law has a lawsuit, but he is self-reliant; my wife
My cooking skills are a bit poor, but I can worry about everything; and there are children. No matter how good the three children are, they can definitely imagine a better future... As I was thinking about it, Moya brought me an underground
The band boy is back."
Ronan couldn't help but defend Moya: "It turns out that she mainly wanted to start a band at that time, not a relationship."
"Facts have proven that the environment of underground bands can alienate and change people!"
Ronan immediately fell silent.
Mo Haihang laughed instead: "Forget it, you also know that from then on, your aunt has been better, so I have to be careful around Mo Ya, because I am not sure, I am only a daughter, Hai Jing
Having learned from that experience, I was afraid that the atmosphere in the family would collapse again. There was already one missing person in the family, what should I do if there was one more? Especially later, I knew more than your aunt, even more so...
This is the trouble with SCA. It has too many permissions and privacy, but unless you have the intention to harm others, you can't really do anything else.
"So, I knew that I had to reshape my ideals, starting with Moya. Slowly, I began to think, my child has grown up, I am not a bad person, and I can support myself. This seems okay? When she gets married, I give
She prepares a dowry; she gets divorced, and I clean up the mess; she stays unmarried and lives peacefully for the rest of her life, and is fine when I close my eyes... I think so. What are you worrying about as a younger brother? "
Why did it fall on me again?
Ronan didn't know how to respond for a while.
Mo Haihang asked him again: "Did I tell you about the goal of raising children?"
"ah?"
"I just want my children to live safely and with dignity, so that they can live under the protection of order, knowledge and power..."
"Ah, yes."
Ronan thought about it. It was actually Ronan who took the initiative to ask Mo Haihang how a father would treat his son. Mo Haihang gave this principled answer. It was based on this that Ronan found what his father left for him.
He almost missed the "parenting class" he went to.
Mo Haihang laughed again: "Actually, the only requirement for children here is to live safely and with dignity. The rest can be discussed. At most, the parents should bear more. In our family, this is what parents do.
That's a bit of a request.
"I know you are fat and strong now, and the earth is shaking when you stomp your feet. But at home, you are also a child. It doesn't mean that you don't have to worry about your sister. It's because you are not a parent after all, and parents are useless. Children can't do what you want.
How about living in an ideal state? If this is the case, in the end, all you will see is 'selfishness'."
Ronan's lips moved but still did not speak.
Mo Haihang's words were no longer very logical. He had no intention of educating Ronan, he just said: "Actually, if you think about it deeper, it is selfish for you not to let go, and it is also selfish for you to let go. Originally, there was a desire to change Mo Ya's concept.
opportunity, but I gave it up in order to maintain the family atmosphere I wanted and keep it in the best time of the 1980s forever... How can I say this?"
Ronan couldn't judge.
Mo Haihang turned to look at him: "Ronan, don't you have selfish motives?"
"ah?"
"To be more precise, do you not want this, but want that more? Or do you want them all and let the world exist according to your ideas, aesthetics, or desires? There is no point in telling others this, but in the end
Your current ability and influence seem to be able to make most people in this world move according to your will."
Ronan thought for a while and shook his head: "It is possible to turn around, but the consequences of turning around..."
Mo Haihang interrupted him: "Do you have a bit of a parent's mentality?"
Ronan was slightly stunned, then laughed: "It's really..."
"If so, that would be fine."
Mo Haihang made a brief comment and suddenly turned the topic back to Mo Ya: "I don't want to know the details about your sister. In this situation, if you really want to help her, as her father, I
, just ask for one thing - let her live safely and with dignity."
"Uncle..."
"I thought I could do it before, but now the world has changed. I still have to work hard, and I have to ask for help from our Qianliju..." Mo Haihang looked at Ronan again, "Who makes you the strongest one in the family?
"
Ronan and Mo Haihang looked at each other, then nodded: "Okay, uncle."
"Okay, it's here too."
At this time, the car had arrived outside Renai Hospital.
Mo Haihang signaled Ronan to get out of the car: "Go and do your work. I'm driving around the streets. It's rare to have such time."
Ronan actually wanted to say something to Mo Haihang, but he felt that no matter what he said, for a father who wanted his children to live a safe and dignified life, anything beyond his ability would be extremely cruel.
So he nodded, opened the door and got out of the car.
Mo Haihang stopped him again and stretched out his hand from the car window: "Here, take one."
Ronan was slightly stunned, but he still walked around and shook hands with Mo Haihang.
He was very forceful and tugged at him: "Since it is selfish to let go or not, as a parent, it is better to let go and respect the fate of others... As long as you maintain the basics of what you want. Let's encourage each other!"
"……mutual encouragement."
Mo Haihang drove away, and Ronan stood on the transfer platform, watching the car's taillights disappear into the sky.
Half a minute later, he turned around and walked towards the door of Renai Hospital.
At ten o'clock in the morning, Ronan arrived at Mr. Bai's independent office in the hospital on time.
The latter had already prepared the tea set, but still did not wear white clothes. It seemed that he really just invited Ronan to come over for tea and chat.
As for tea...
"How does it taste?"
Ronan told the truth: "The quality is not very good."
Mr. Bai laughed: "We are all laymen, but when it comes to the 'method of entering dreams', it is different."
Ronan listened with a smile, wanting to see what Mr. Bai would say in the end.
Mr. Bai's entry point somewhat surprised him: "Some time ago, I went to Anhai Medical Center, and Octopus asked me to do a project, so I stopped by to visit Mr. Luo and the leader of the monastery.