Lu Xinyuan also came for dinner that day. Because her parents live here, this is also her home.
What is home? If there are family members there, it is home. If there are no people and an empty house, it is not called home.
Rao Yuqiu asked: "Xinyuan, you are 33 years old, when are you going to have children?"
Lu Xinyuan said: "Mom, in three years, I am going to retire and stay at home to support my husband and raise my children."
"What kind of husband do you want? What kind of children do you want to teach? You have to have children as early as possible! The best age for women to have children is 23-30 years old. 36 years old is an advanced maternal age!"
"Mom, that's the old almanac! As a monk, you can have children later."
Neither Lu Cheng nor Jiang Qiuyun intervened in the quarrel between their mother and sister.
Lu Cheng believes that after the spiritual energy is revived, marriage and childbearing among monks are a new topic. What age is suitable for marriage, when is suitable for childbirth, whether you can have children after the age of 100, and whether you have the ability to have children after the age of 800. These are all unanswered questions.
, who knows what the answer is!
It was precisely because he was unsure of what would happen in the future that Guan Sangyue was so urgent. When facing the 40-year-old mark, he put down his face and shame and gritted his teeth to find Lu Cheng.
After a while, Jiang Qiuyun asked: "Xinyuan, why didn't Zhuo Yijian come with you?"
Lu Xinyuan said: "He has been very busy recently, taking over from Li Yueru in charge of the affairs of the 'Zhuifeng Tai Chi Sect'. Li Yueru is preparing to have a baby."
"What are your plans for the future?"
"Zhuo Yijian said that he is the master's only male disciple. Before Qingfeng grows up, he has to support the 'Zhuifeng Tai Chi Sect'."
At the mention of "Qingfeng", everyone here pricked up their ears, but no one dared to speak.
Lu Tianming and Rao Yuqiu had to take into account the face of their daughter-in-law Jiang Qiuyun. Although they knew that Qingfeng was a descendant of the Lu family, they could only pretend not to know.
Lu Qingyan knew this, but she stood firmly on her mother's side.
Lu Qingshan was at a loss and had no reaction.
Mei Lingshang had doubts, but wasn't too sure.
Lu Cheng felt guilty and said nothing.
The guilt in his heart was not only for his wife, but also for Guan Sangyue and Guan Qingfeng. He felt that he had failed as a man. He had neither been a good husband nor a good father, and had not accompanied Qingfeng to grow up. This was something that made him feel ashamed.
and uneasy things.
Among the people present, only Lu Xinyuan could take the initiative to mention "Guan Qingfeng". As a married sister, she hoped that her brother could handle this matter well and not forget Guan Sangyue, mother and son.
Jiang Qiuyun smiled slightly and said: "Next month, this year's 'Qingdai Award' will be awarded, and the 'Daishan Martial Arts Conference' will be organized. Lu Cheng, you can go alone. I will stay in the villa to practice in retreat."
When Lu Cheng heard this, he understood.
Some of the people present understood, some did not.
Even Lu Tianming didn't understand very well and asked: "Don't you rarely attend the Qingdai Award Ceremony?"
Jiang Qiuyun smiled and said: "This is the 20th anniversary celebration. My mother is getting older and wants Lu Cheng to host it."
Only Lu Xinyuan and Lu Qingyan can truly understand what Jiang Qiuyun meant.
Lu Xinyuan is an old actor and an innate monk. She knows that her brother is very skilled and it won't take long to run from Taohua Valley to Qingfeng Villa. Her sister-in-law's arrangement is a great indulgence for her brother.
When Lu Qingyan attended Lu Xinyuan's wedding, she witnessed the interaction between her mother and Guan Sangyue, and could roughly guess her mother's thoughts. Only she understood best how powerful her father's skills were, and he could appear hundreds of miles away with just a thought.
Outside, it means that while his father stayed in Taohuayu, he could see Guan Sangyue every day.
She understands, but she doesn't quite understand why her mother does this. As a woman in the new era, how can she allow her husband to have three wives and four concubines? Is her mother forced to do this, or is she willing? p>
Lu Qingyan could see that her mother's expression was natural, peaceful and calm, and her energy and blood were peaceful. She didn't look like she was angry.
She thought to herself: "How could this happen?"
After dinner, everyone dispersed.
Lu Qingyan stayed and looked at her mother, unable to speak.
Jiang Qiuyun said: "Do you have anything to say?"
Lu Qingyan said: "Mom, I do have something to say, but it's hard to say it."
Jiang Qiuyun said: "You want to ask about Guan Sangyue, right?"
"Yes."
"I have known about this for a long time. At the beginning, I was still a little depressed, but now I have thought about it."
"Mom, what exactly do you think? Do you feel wronged?"
"Have you ever heard of 'Tai Shang Wang Qing'?"
"I've heard of it, but I don't understand its meaning."
Jiang Qiuyun said slowly: "Wang Rong of the Jin Dynasty died of his son, and he was extremely sad. His good friend Shan Jian went to see him and said why it was necessary. He replied: 'A saint forgets love, and the worst is love. But love is the best thing.'
The focus of this passage is not only on "the saint forgets his love", but also on "the lowest level is not as good as love". The "lowest level" is a third-rate, inferior person. This kind of person is always moaning about love.
, there is no cultivation of restraint, transformation and sublimation. As a result, love becomes evil.
There are four realms of Taishang forgetting love: forgetting love and being fair, forgetting love when winning love, not being moved by emotions, and not being disturbed by emotions.
To forget one's feelings is not to be ruthless, but to have feelings and not to be held back by feelings, not to be trapped by feelings, and to deal with feelings in an open-minded and free manner.
Ever since I became a spiritual shaman, my mood has changed. I have improved from the mortal's 'loving place' to the state of 'the supreme forgetfulness of love'."
Lu Qingyan was frightened: "Mom, don't practice till the end, even I will be forgotten!"
Jiang Qiuyun smiled and said: "You are wrong. I haven't reached the point where I am too heartless. Even if I am, I am not really heartless. How could I forget you and Qingshan?"
"You really don't blame my dad?"
"There's nothing to complain about. All men are like this. It's your father's fault for supporting the Lu family with his own strength. Because of him, my life is perfect. Even though things like your Auntie Guan have happened, it doesn't matter.
Our feelings."
"Mom, I still don't quite understand."
Jiang Qiuyun continued: "The coin of life has a soul on one side and a body on the other. The body carries the soul, and the soul sublimates the body. Good-looking skins are all the same, but interesting souls are unique.
For mortals and low-level monks, the focus is on the body.
Once you reach the realm of spirit witches and your soul is strong enough, the focus is on the fusion of soul and soul, which is similar to Platonic love. At this point, I can't live without your dad."
Lu Qingyan was thoughtful and said: "Mom, can you really accept Aunt Guan and Guan Qingfeng?"
Jiang Qiuyun said: "It doesn't matter whether you accept it or not. She lives in Qingfeng Villa thousands of miles away, and I live in Yawurou Mountain on the bank of Qinghai Lake. I haven't reached the point where the Supreme Being forgets his love. It's okay to meet once in a while, but
I can't face her every day. Maybe I can in the future. Who knows."