Thinking of the previous investigation data mentioning that 'Urumo Ayaka's mother and stepfather are relatively strict', thinking of Urumo Ayaka's rebellious behavior, and thinking of Urumo Ayaka's recent softening of attitude, Chi Feichi had an answer in his mind.
This couple is very interesting.
When Ayaka Urano left home and came to Tokyo alone, the couple was indeed afraid of losing their daughter and worried about their daughter's safety. However, after deciding that Ayaka Urano's life was not in danger, the couple seemed to want to regain their love for their daughter.
He took control and treated his daughter in the same way as in the past.
The first step is to suppress accusations. We believe that praising children will make them complacent and lose their ambition. They always find faults with a critical eye, saying that this is wrong and that is not good, and never give recognition and encouragement to the child's performance.
The second step is moral kidnapping, using the words 'I have paid a lot for you, you can't refuse my request', 'Because of you, I live such a wronged life' to kidnap the child, making the child feel guilty and willingly succumb.
Discipline for low self-esteem.
At the same time, it is actually difficult for this couple to provide spiritual support and psychological comfort to Ayaka Urano.
Just like tonight, if it were a child from a normal family, after witnessing the cruel acts of a criminal organization, the child would want to cry and tell his parents about his fear, and then get comfort from their parents, but Ayaka Urano's
Without understanding Ayaka Urano's experience, her biological mother and stepfather relied on their own feelings to arbitrarily conclude that 'you look fine and it is impossible to have experienced anything terrible', and then repeatedly emphasized to Ayaka Urano - 'Like
Compared with what I have experienced, your suffering is nothing.'
No wonder Takatori said, "I don't think she had a chance to say it." Ayaka Urano was indeed deprived of the right to express herself in front of the couple. The couple didn't want to hear what their daughter had to say, they only cared about what they wanted.
This is a kind of mental abuse.
If there are three people living in the same room, and as roommates, two of them join forces and constantly accuse the third person of not doing anything well, and keep saying, 'We have done a lot for you, we are doing it for your own good, you have to thank us.'
, has no response to the third person's emotions, and if we live together like this for a year or two, the third person will have some psychological problems no matter what.
If the third person is a minor who needs to rely on the other two for survival and whose self-awareness is not yet complete, the mental trauma suffered in this process will be even more serious.
In that family, Ayaka Urumo was the third person who was mentally abused, and it was difficult for Ayaka Urumo to express her depression and pain to others.
Because Urano Ayaka's biological mother and stepfather never treated her harshly in food and clothing, and would care about her safety and her future. In the eyes of outsiders, Urano Ayaka is a child who is very loved by her biological mother and stepfather, so
, once Urano Ayaka acts against her parents, many people will question Urano Ayaka - your parents are just strict, why do you do these things to make them sad?
But in fact, Ayaka Urano has been living in a life of suppressed low self-esteem for a long time, and the psychological pressure may have almost exceeded her ability to bear it.
This is the last piece of the puzzle that belongs to Ayaka Urano.
In the past, Ayaka Urumo was involved in a group of delinquent girls, but he found that Ayaka Urumo was not a very aggressive person, and she did not like to bully others. Now it seems that Ayaka Urumo did not join the delinquent group because she advocated violence.
Girls' groups, but because they live a life of low self-esteem that is denied every day at home, they need to seek the experience of high self-esteem that is recognized by others outside, in order to obtain psychological comfort and ensure that they will not be driven crazy.
Perhaps Ayaka Urano doesn't know why she is like this. She just feels that the environment at home is suffocating and painful, and she subconsciously resists and escapes to save herself.
And the "you are so cool" that Ayaka Urano always talks about, eager to be evaluated by others, its essence should be——
"Urasheng, you are so great!"
"Wow, Ayaka, you are so awesome!"
After this piece of the puzzle appeared, he felt that it was understandable that Urano Ayaka was so prone to symptoms of Stockholm syndrome.
When it comes to "finding psychological solace on your own to prevent a nervous breakdown", Ayaka Urano must be very skilled at it.
In the past, Ayaka Urano used other delinquent boys and girls to say "you are so cool" to gain psychological comfort and prevent herself from collapsing in a long-term life of low self-esteem.
When she arrived at the organization's training ground, Ayaka Urano also used psychological hints such as 'They are actually not that cruel' and 'Lark definitely didn't want me to die' to gain mental support and prevent herself from having a nervous breakdown in fear.
Moreover, compared with children from normal families, it is difficult for Ayaka Urano's parents to become her spiritual support. After discovering the danger of the organization, Ayaka Urano does not think that her fellow bad girls can save her, so it is naturally difficult for her to save her peers.
As a spiritual support, as for the adults in the outside world, due to the suppression and denial of Urano Ayaka's biological mother and stepfather, and because those two people said, "You will only make adults hate you", Urano Ayaka thought of asking for help from teachers, police, etc.
As an adult, you may think, "They won't care about a terrible, rebellious kid like me," and have doubts about whether you can get help.
Under normal circumstances, Ayaka Uragou may not mind trying to see if she can get help from teachers and police. However, facing the threat of death, Ayaka Uragou's spirit itself is in a state of high anxiety or depression.
He will directly eliminate those options that make him doubt and distrust, and when there is no one to choose from, he will choose him as his psychological support.
He has the ability to influence the trial field and can be contacted by Ayaka Urano, and he has never shown any disgust because Ayaka Urano is among bad girls. For Ayaka Urano, he is indeed a good spiritual support...
Ayaka Urano just needs to find a suitable reason to convince herself, such as 'Lark is actually very good to me', 'As long as I do well, Lark will not hurt me', and brainwash herself to the point where she is convinced that 'Lark'
Wine truly becomes a spiritual pillar, so that you can still see the hope of living, giving Ayaka Urano the motivation to persist in survival, and avoid a complete mental collapse.
This is a choice driven by human survival instinct.
After Ayaka Urano leaves the trial field, Ayaka Urano's brain will automatically beautify that terrible experience. If you want to beautify that experience, you must naturally beautify the characters in your memory. They once served as spiritual pillars, and then they were indeed
If he didn't hurt Ayaka Urano, he would become the focus of beautification.
"How do you feel after listening to the recording?"
Seeing that Chi Feichi had turned off the recording on his cell phone, Takatori Yannan reached out to turn the knob on the monitoring device and said with emotion, "When Urama's mother and stepfather opened their mouths, they either said that this was not good, or they felt that they were wronged. Listen,
It makes me a little upset, it's really not easy for Pu Sheng to insist on finishing dinner with them."
"After listening to it, I actually felt that I was pretty good." There was a hint of sarcasm in Chi Feichi's hoarse voice, and he used the monitoring equipment to call up the second recording.
He really cares about the value of Ayaka Uno. If Ayaka Uno can't accomplish his goal, he will definitely let Ayaka Uno be punished. But if Ayaka Uno does well, he doesn't mind saying "this" to Ayaka Uno.
Well done this time'.
As long as he has time, he doesn't mind listening to Ayaka Urumo. Previously, he was listening when Ayaka Urumo chatted with him about her school life and study situation.
After such a comparison, he suddenly felt that he was doing a pretty good job as the boss. In terms of mental state and mental health, he seemed to be relatively normal.
Worthy of joy.
Moreover, the more pressure this couple puts on Urano Ayaka's production, the less willing she is to listen to Urano Ayaka's words, and the more conducive it is for the organization to exert influence on Urano Ayaka. With such a family, at least Urano Ayaka was influenced by her family and suddenly abandoned the dark side and turned to the bright side.
The possibility of the police was unlikely, and he could put aside his previous worries.