As the woman spoke, she turned around and asked the girl with long, straight black hair behind her, "Is that right, Sister Qinghua?"
Tiantian Qinghua was still frozen in place, looking at Chi Feichi blankly.
Those purple eyes are rare, so even though the handsome and fair face in the memory has become less immature and more angular, even though the gloomy and weak feeling in the memory has become cold and calm, but
She still recognized it.
She can even remember the name clearly.
Chi Fei Chi……
The male classmate in school who was said to be the heir to a large multinational group.
When the woman turned to ask questions, Chi Feichi also looked at Tiantian Qinghua.
He remembered that there was another incident this time. This group of people were college classmates. This woman named Qinghua worked hard to make friends and pretended to be the daughter of a rich family. In the end, the other three people saw through it, but the other three people still discussed taking advantage of her.
I did this fake eldest lady, but I didn’t expect Qinghua to hear me during the discussion.
While going out to camp this time, Qinghua killed one of them out of resentment, the blond woman who suggested draining Qinghua.
Wait a minute, Qinghua...
Class C’s Heavenly Sunny?
Chi Fei Chi didn’t recognize the pretty face, the drastically changed hairstyle and clothes. He lowered his eyes and saw two small black moles side by side on Tian Tian Qinghua’s exposed arm, and immediately confirmed his suspicion.
It’s really an old classmate of the original consciousness from primary school to junior high school.
That school offers direct admission from elementary school to junior high school. As long as you pass the sixth-grade elementary school exam, you can be promoted to the middle school. It is a school famous for its teaching achievements in that area.
But it was a private school. In addition to high tuition fees, it was also unavoidable with a problem that is not uncommon in Japan—campus bullying.
He compared the two memories he had now.
He had heard of a lot of bullying in his previous life, but there was very little bullying in his school. Even if someone was unhappy with someone, they might become good friends after a fight.
Simply put, school bullying in China tends to be violent, while school bullying in Japan is a gradual escalation of psychological torture until it is forced to commit crime. The proportion of bullying in schools is also more serious.
In Japanese campuses, there are five types of people who are easy to become victims:
First, girls from poor family backgrounds.
Second, boys from good family backgrounds.
Third, students who study poorly in good schools.
Fourth, children who are different from others for some reason, such as those who are beautiful, well-informed, tall, or on the contrary, such as those who are ugly, clumsy, or whose eye color and skin color are different from others
Different.
Fifth, children with special parents, such as parents who are criminals, or parents who are defective in one aspect.
Sometimes he couldn't understand what this thought was. At least in his previous life, more students who grew up differently than everyone else were just curious, while students from poor family backgrounds, good looks, or good personalities,
They are all likely to be taken care of, and this will not be a reason for bullying, at least not necessarily.
And it seems to have become a common reason in Japan. It seems that everyone likes to find someone who is different from others as an outlet, a tool to relieve boredom, or even a prop to promote feelings in a small circle.
He can easily name a few of these people who are different from everyone else.
For example, Toru Amuro, who was born with dark skin and blond hair, probably had an unpleasant experience when he was a child.
For example, Elena Miyano, who showed concern for Toru Amuro because of her special appearance, also told her husband that she was treated unfairly because her appearance was different from everyone else, which is why she cared so much about Toru Amuro when she was a child.
For example, a person with a good family background and a different eye color than other people.
Campus bullying in Japan escalates gradually, and is often a collective action in which everyone in the class participates to a greater or lesser extent.
First of all, it is isolation and talking behind the scenes.
Say bad things about the bullied person behind his back. When the other person appears, they stop talking and laughing, and the air becomes quiet. No one will touch the things that person has touched, and if someone touches them, they will get ridicule from their peers, just like that person
People are like viruses.
In physical education classes, activity classes, and home economics classes, no one wants to be in the same group as that person. Every time the teacher repeatedly asks "Is there anyone there?", he will be met with a silent attitude, or he will ignore the teacher by looking away, talking to his classmates, etc.
way to show resistance to that person.
In Japanese education, activities are almost all group activities, and even holiday homework may require team investigation. If the bullied person is in this situation at school, it will be difficult to move forward.
The second step is verbal attack.
Someone started calling the person being bullied a nickname. When passing by, he suddenly whispered into the person's ear and used language that did not match the actual situation to attack.
For example, 'You're so annoying', 'You're so dirty', 'Ugly', 'You're so fat', 'What are you wearing? It's so ugly'. Sometimes they are not said explicitly, but they are also used.
Discuss loudly so that the bullied can hear it.
The special ones will pretend to accept the bullied person, lend a helping hand when the bullied person needs it, and make the bullied person think that it is their own light, and then talk to others behind their back or in person on a certain day.
We all laughed at that person who was stupid and idiotic, and laughed and said things like, "I can't continue acting, I'm so tired."
During this process, isolation still exists, and coupled with the disgust expressed by more than one person, the blow is huge.
He remembered that in "Naruto", the Third Hokage said this: 'Iruka, do you know? When people hate a person and do not recognize his existence, people look at that person with cold eyes.
It's so scary.'
The old man still has never experienced that feeling personally. Not only is it cold, but he can also feel the strong disgust from the heart. Not only the eyes, but also no one will pay attention to him wherever he goes. Everyone is avoiding it like the plague.
Dislike and avoid.
The third step of bullying is the initial act of concealment.
For example, chalk dust will be put into the lunch box brought by the bully. Even if you ask who did it, no one will betray the bad person. There will only be a group of classmates laughing or watching indifferently, silently.
With.
For example, some people secretly throw empty bottles, paper balls and other objects at the bullied person behind the back, then apologize in a weird way and then laugh together.
For example, domestic garbage, nails, and even all kinds of strange things or animals such as snakes and rats are put into shoe cabinets, schoolbags, and desks.
For example, there was glue on the chair, the sneakers and clothes that needed to be changed before physical education class were lost, and a satirical painting was painted on the table that read, "Go to hell, you bastard."
For example, the original consciousness took care of the little hamster for more than a year, but when he arrived at school one morning, he found that it had turned into a bloody corpse.
In the fourth step, when the behavior in the first three steps is not enough to bring pleasure to the bullying group, the action will be escalated to the bright side.
Those who are bullied may have dirty water thrown at them, be put into a dark room with no one around, have their textbooks torn or discarded, or be suddenly pushed down the stairs from behind.
Someone will intentionally give something to the bullied person and then tell the teacher that the person took the thing.
Some people will deliberately destroy things that the bullied value in front of the bullied person, and even cruelly kill small animals in front of the bullied person.
The fifth and final step of bullying is violence and crime.
Beating, robbing money, causing serious bodily harm, forcing theft and other criminal acts, forcing girls to take off their clothes, and even girls being forced to have sex.
This is already a crime.
However, according to Japan's Juvenile Law, even if someone is under the age of 14, they do not have to go to jail, but only to an education center. In order to protect minors from being attacked by public opinion, it is forbidden to reveal their true identity. Not only do they not have photos, they do not even have their real names.
will be logged out.
This was in 2000 when Congress revised the minimum applicable age for criminal punishment. Before that, the age of protection under the Juvenile Law was 16 years old.
In addition, most people in Japan have the common thought that "it's your fault if you can't fit in, you are a loser, there must be something wrong with you or you haven't done something well", so bullies dare to be so emboldened.
The bullying suffered by the original consciousness lasted for more than a year.
When I entered elementary school, because the eyes of the original consciousness were different from everyone else, I was looked at curiously and distantly. At that time, everyone had just entered the new school, and they may not be familiar with each other, and the original consciousness had two friends in kindergarten.
, so this year has been uneventful.
He does not deny that there are problems with the social ability of the original consciousness.
The original consciousness does not want to neglect friends, and also wants to actively interact with people. However, when his parents abandon him and leave, the original consciousness begins to doubt himself and worry about gains and losses. Every time he speaks, he will be cautious and cautious. When it comes to feelings, he may have some thoughts in his heart.
Out of 7 points, only 3 points are expressed, and only 1 point is felt by others.
One year has passed, not only has the original consciousness not integrated into any small circle, but the two friends in kindergarten have also formed new circles.
At the beginning of the second grade, a certain boy who gathered a few people to form a small circle began to select targets for bullying, and the original consciousness became the chosen one.
It started as a rumor spread behind the scenes. The boy not only isolated his own small group from the original consciousness, but also instigated others to isolate themselves, gaining the friendship of more people.
At the beginning of the third grade, the atmosphere of isolation was completely established.
Wherever the original consciousness goes, there will be silence. No one wants to be with him. All classes that require group activities are only awkward, accompanied by the dejection of "I really can't do it."
In just half a year, the bullying escalated to the second stage. Those people began to be dissatisfied with the whispers behind their backs, and suddenly began to face-to-face verbal attacks on the original consciousness.
Hey, your eyes are so scary...
Your parents never participate in activities. They must have left you to find lovers...
I’ve really never met his parents...
Haha, a child that no one wants is so pitiful...
If I were you, I might as well just die...
Every day is gloomy, like a ghost...
The words spoken by **-year-old children are like sharp blades, designed to stab the most painful places in people's hearts. When they know where the stabbing will cause pain to the original body, they will be like wild wolves that smell the smell of blood, a
He rushed straight to the place where the blood was dripping.
At that time, the original consciousness was completely separated from the two friends in the kindergarten.
He found a memory. The boy in kindergarten who had been protected by the original consciousness also turned against him during that time, and boasted about the past of the original consciousness with others - "The way he stood in front of me at that time."
, What a fool, you thought I needed him, I almost died laughing...'
The knife from what I once thought was a good friend hurts the most when it pierces into my heart.
Starting from the fourth grade, after a holiday, those people began to be dissatisfied with the verbal attacks after being 'familiar' with them. Occasionally, there would be more or less items in the food, shoe cabinets, and desks of the original consciousness.
.
Then that’s the end of it.
Tolerance will escalate bullying, but from the memories, the original consciousness did not have the awareness of "tolerance" in the early days. It just felt sad and thought that there was something wrong with it.
Starting from the ridicule of a former good friend, the original consciousness' sadness completely escalated into disappointment. When school started, it was discovered that the situation had not improved and was getting worse. After the hamster died, the original consciousness realized that it was not him who was at fault.
Contacted Shinnosuke Ike.
Just two sentences...
‘Father, someone bullied me at school.’
‘I know, I will take care of it.’
After talking to Shinnosuke Ike on the phone, the original consciousness was still disappointed because he did not get the relief and encouragement he imagined, and Shinnosuke Ike still hung up the phone so quickly.
On the second day, the people who had taken the initiative to isolate him began to express their intention to make friends. Some people even took the initiative to say, "Let's be friends." The original consciousness did not respond and just looked at the other party quietly.
The original consciousness has its own pride and does not fight back when faced with verbal attacks. It is just that those people grasp the points that he cannot refute. His parents indeed seem to have completely abandoned him, but it does not mean that the original consciousness will be suffered.
After the mental bullying, Baba chose to reconcile with the other party.
Children, on the other hand, are far less realistic than adults, and they also care about face. Others will not respond to the original consciousness, and will not warm up to the cold butt, so at best everyone can live in peace with each other. Occasionally they can say a few insignificant words, and no one is deliberately
Excluded and isolated, no one is better than the original consciousness.
The original consciousness did not choose to retaliate and left a "proud" note when he was in junior high school. No one wanted to "ask for trouble".
After finishing junior high school, the original consciousness hoped to be freed from that environment and find real friends, so he moved to Abeido Town to live alone and attended Abeido High School. Unfortunately, he failed in the end.
Actually, he can probably guess what Shinnosuke Chi did that night——
Find someone to talk to the parents of those children.
According to Ike Shinnosuke's character, he wouldn't say anything threatening. It probably means that the other parent received a call from his boss or an important customer - the son of the 'Old Ike family' is in the same school as your child, so let your child follow him.
Make friends and get along well with each other.
This is enough.
Teachers and schools are worried that punishment will make parents dissatisfied, but benefits and threats can make those parents take the initiative to call their children and tell them who they want to be friends with. If they are really disobedient or talk back, they should be beaten.
In a class, as long as more than ten children compromise, the situation is considered to be broken.
The original consciousness and Tiantang Qinghua are in the same class, but the original consciousness is in Class A of Yingming Academy, while Tiantang Qinghua has always been in Class C.
The reason why he can recognize Tiantian Qinghua is because in his memory, Tiantian Qinghua was also a bullied person.