This is a good answer, and he sounds like a responsible man. After all, young people nowadays have a perfunctory attitude towards things like relationships.
"Assistant Ding, what you said is wrong. Work is important, and personal relationships are also important. Do you still want to wait until you retire before considering personal issues?"
Xiao Muyou continued to test, Ding Hao scratched his head and subconsciously glanced at Cao Lu on the side. However, Cao Lu was chewing chicken feet and did not see the complicated look Ding Hao cast, but Xiao Muyou on the side did. Clearly, a smile appeared on the corner of his mouth.
Then, Ding Hao opened his mouth and said as if he was pointing.
"Well, I've been thinking about it recently, mainly because I haven't met the right person before."
When Xiao Muyou heard this, he still didn't know what it meant. Even Shen Xin, who was standing beside him, raised his head to look at Ding Hao. However, Cao Lu was attracted by the delicious food and didn't even raise her head.
Xiao Muyou continued to ask.
"Oh, then I wonder what Assistant Ding's standards are in his mind? We have two single ladies here. If it's suitable, let's try to date them."
When Xiao Muyou said this, Shen Xin got excited and said immediately.
"Yes, yes, Assistant Ding, why don't you consider me? I have a house and a car now. With hard work and bonuses, my annual salary is one million. My parents have pensions at home, so I don't have to bear the burden. In addition, my family There are also two apartments, one to live in and one to rent, how about it?"
After saying that, Shen Xin raised his eyebrows at Ding Hao, who immediately shook his head and declined.
"Miss Shen, please stop joking. Just now I heard you and Lulu mention that you recently had a new boyfriend. I don't want to be a mistress."
Yes, Shen Xin did reveal that she had a new boyfriend when she was chatting with Cao Lu just now after she arrived. In fact, she just thought that the other person was quite interesting and handsome, so she wanted to date him first.
After hearing this, Shen Xin curled his lips and said.
"Hey, why do I feel like I missed a good man?"
When Shen Xin said this, everyone laughed, knowing that Shen Xin was joking.
At this time, Xiao Muyou spoke again.
"What about our Lulu? She is absolutely single, pretty, and has a good job. Assistant Ding, why don't we consider it?"
Hearing what Xiao Muyou said, Ding Hao was stunned for a moment. He finally knew what Xiao Muyou had planned, and he felt very grateful immediately. This would create another opportunity for him.
But just when Ding Hao was about to speak, Cao Lu, who had been chewing chicken feet just now, opened her mouth.
"Mu You, stop joking. For such an outstanding person as Special Assistant Ding, there must be many outstanding women who like him. Please stop making fun of me. My situation is not suitable for dating. Forget it, now I just want to Work hard, earn money to pay off the mortgage, and preferably buy a mobility vehicle before the end of the year, that will be perfect."
Obviously, Cao Lu is emotionally slow, and as of now, she seems to have no interest in Ding Hao.
However, after hearing Cao Lu's remarks, Xiao Muyou and others became somewhat disapproving.
"Lulu, don't think so badly of yourself. Your parents are your parents' business, and you have made up your mind not to help your brother now. Why is it not suitable for you to fall in love? Not every man is like this. Chen Yao is so naive."
Chen Yao, Cao Lu's second boyfriend, was a man who was directly scared off by the situation at Cao Lu's family. It is said that he later found a rich woman and became his son-in-law.
Hearing Xiao Muyou's words, Cao Lu smiled bitterly and said.
"But there are not so many men in this world who are generous enough to watch their wives continue to fill the bottomless pit of their parents' family. Don't young couples want to live together? Look at the divorce incidents shown on TV. Aren't many of them ended up because of these problems? We parted ways? In that case, it’s better not to be together in the first place.”
Perhaps because she was afraid of being squeezed by her parents and her unfulfilled brother over the years, Cao Lu's current thoughts were a bit pessimistic. Even though she had already made a break with her family, she knew that such a break could not really be broken. Clean, she knows her family too well.
After listening to Cao Lu's words, Xiao Muyou frowned slightly. She knew that it would be difficult for Cao Lu to change her mind. First, these things existed in reality. Second, it might be due to the influence of her second relationship. She was afraid of experiencing that again. matter.
Shen Xin on the side didn't know how to persuade him. He had never experienced the suffering of others, so he didn't know how to prescribe the right medicine.
At this time, Ding Hao, who had been quiet all this time, spoke.
"Lulu, your ideas are totally wrong. You can't deny all of us men just because of one man's ideas? Then if it's like what you said, I don't think men like me should fall in love and get married. "
When Ding Hao said this, Xiao Muyou and others were stunned and looked confused, as if there was something between the two of them that they didn't know.
Compared to Xiao Muyou who was curious but didn't speak, Shen Xin on the side couldn't help it.
"Ding Hao, what do you mean by this? It sounds like there is some story?"
Ding Hao was a little embarrassed and seemed ashamed to speak, but when he saw Cao Lu's lonely expression, he spoke.
"Actually, it's nothing. I'm the youngest son in the family, and I have an older sister. My family's situation is similar to Lulu's. Because the family conditions are not good, my eldest sister went out to work early so that I could have money to study in college. I may be the kind of brother you call the kind of brother who supports his younger brother."
After saying it, Ding Hao felt calm. Although he might be looked down upon by others, this was a fact and there was no escaping it.
But after Ding Hao finished speaking, Cao Lu helped him explain.
"Ding Hao is different from my brother. My brother is the kind of person who can't hold up a wall. But now that Ding Hao makes money, he will help his sister. And Ding Hao's parents are not as patriarchal as my parents."
When Cao Lu said this, Xiao Muyou and Shen Xin looked at each other. In this case, it seemed that the two people had contacted each other in private, and they also talked about such private matters. However, neither of them asked about this matter. Looking at Cao Lu and Ding Hao arguing, maybe Ding Hao is the only one who can help Cao Lu resolve her knot in this matter.
No, as soon as Cao Lu finished speaking, Ding Hao spoke.
"It's different, but it's actually similar in nature, and my situation is actually worse than yours. At least you still went to college, while my sister can only work in a factory in the county because I didn't even go to college."
Well, Cao Lu didn't know what to say. In fact, it was her own decision that she could go to college, because she knew very well that only by going to college could she get out of that family. Otherwise, she would have to be trapped by her all her life. His parents and younger brother were dragging him.
But if you say this, it seems that Ding Hao's sister is not doing her best. After all, there are various student loans, scholarships, and part-time jobs in college. As long as she is willing to endure hardships, she can actually afford the tuition and living expenses for four years of college.
Seeing that both of them were silent, Xiao Muyou spoke.
"Okay, okay, Lulu, I think you just haven't gotten out of the shadow of the past, but if you are willing to look at the people around you, you will know that you are actually very good. How many people from other places in Beijing can be here? Buy a house, and how many young people can earn tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands a month, these are your advantages. As for your parents and younger brother, you have no intention of continuing to fill this bottomless pit, so what are you worried about? What?"
"That's right, we Lulu are kind-hearted and capable. Whichever man finds you in the future will be his blessing. Don't let the trivial things at home delay your search for love, right, Assistant Ding."
Shen Xin also spoke, and finally did not forget to involve Ding Hao.
Ding Hao nodded repeatedly.
"Well, Miss Shen is right, Lulu, you are very good, really."
When Ding Hao said this, Xiao Muyou and Shen Xin suddenly felt goosebumps on their skin. This guy really has a lot of skills, at least he has a higher emotional intelligence than Lei Yan.
Thinking about the family experiences of the two people, it is actually quite suitable for these two people to get together. Ding Hao obviously also understood the situation of Cao Lu's family, and even though he understood it, he was moved. In fact, Cao Lu's worries are not a problem.
Furthermore, both of them are doing excellent jobs now. Although it is not clear what the specific salary of the special assistant to the president of the Feng Group is, Xiao Muyou knows that the annual salary of the special assistants around her two brothers is at least one or two million. , there is also a year-end bonus, in short, they can be regarded as high-income people.
Therefore, the next step depends on Cao Lu's thoughts, and of course, Ding Hao's actions. Don't give up after a few setbacks.
Xiao Muyou doesn't intend to get involved in this matter. Whether it can happen or not depends entirely on the two of them. After all, forcefulness is not sweet, and Cao Lu cannot withstand another blow.
After that, everyone did not talk about this matter anymore, but talked about other things. They chatted all over the world, and the atmosphere was very harmonious. However, the drinking aspect was a bit unsatisfactory, because after finishing two bottles of red wine, Lei Yan would no longer Xiao Muyou must have been drinking.
"We finally got together today. Why don't you allow Mu You to drink? Mr. Lei, you are not Mu You's husband yet."
Shen Xin, who was already drunk, said unhappily.
Xiao Muyou was also a little unhappy. After all, she hadn't gotten together with Cao Lu and Chen Xin for a long time. It was rare to be happy. Drinking more would be fine.
But Lei Yan said something at this time.
"You three have such a drinking capacity that you do things when you're drunk. Don't even think about taking advantage of my Mu You."
"You, whoever touched me, don't accuse me unjustly. Besides, we are all women. Even if we touch her, we will lose some flesh."