1956, being a mother for the first time, what experience can I have
There was no one outside, so the three of them walked directly into the inner ward.
Xiao Muyou was half leaning on the bed, Xiao Siluo was sitting cross-legged at the end of the bed, and Fu Juechen and Feng Beichen were sitting on chairs on either side.
On the small table on the bed, there was a sumptuous dinner, which looked like it had been prepared by the family.
"Daddy, Mommy, Big Brother."
Xiao Muyou saw Xiao Yingze and the others first and immediately put down the dishes and prepared to get out of bed. Lu Ziyou immediately walked over to stop them.
"Sit down and don't get out of bed."
Seeing the worry in her mother's eyes, Xiao Muyou nodded silently, then hugged Lu Ziyou and leaned into her arms coquettishly.
"Mommy, I'm sorry for making you worry again."
"Humph, you still know how to say sorry. Since you don't want your dad and I to worry, just take good care of yourself. You see, I haven't seen you for a few days and you have lost weight. How can you be a mother and take care of your children in the future?"
When Xiao Muyou heard this, he was stunned. Then he looked at his father and saw that his face was calm. Then he looked at Xiao Yiheng at the back. The expected storm didn't seem to be coming.
"Mommy, you...don't you advise me to give up this child?"
Xiao Muyou asked the question in her heart. She was afraid that her parents had other ideas.
"We advise you to give up, will you listen?"
Lu Ziyou sat down on the bedside and held Xiao Muyou's hand tightly with one hand.
Xiao Muyou shook his head and said.
"Mommy, this is my and A-Yan's child. It is a gift from God. I will not give up."
"Yes, so our persuasion is in vain, but Mu You, mommy has to tell you that it is still unknown whether Lei Yan will wake up in the future. Legally, you have nothing to do with Lei Yan. If you insist on giving birth to this child,
Then you will get pregnant out of wedlock, and you may become a single mother? Have you thought about all this clearly? "
"Mommy, I don't care. It's enough for me to know that this is mine and A-Yan's child. Also, I'm not a single mother. Although I don't know when A-Yan will wake up, I will let the child know A-Yan from an early age.
Yan is his father, and as for getting pregnant out of wedlock, I don't care."
Seeing that Xiao Muyou had thought everything through, Lu Ziyou sighed secretly. It seemed that the two elders in the family had really guessed that this daughter was determined.
"Okay, now that you have thought it through, don't be afraid. Daddy and Mommy will always be with you during this period."
Lu Ziyou expressed the attitude of their couple. Since their daughter is determined to have this child, they will face it together.
As for whether future births will be dangerous, they are worried but will not show it.
They would not use this matter to persuade Xiao Muyou to give up, because they knew very well that this reason could not persuade him.
"Mommy!"
Xiao Muyou couldn't hold it back anymore and tears flowed down. Seeing this, Lu Ziyou immediately picked up the napkin on the side and helped Xiao Muyou wipe it.
"Look, you're almost going to be a mother, so you can't just cry all the time. I've heard that crying when you're pregnant can easily affect the development of the fetus in your belly."
As soon as Xiao Muyou heard what her mother said, she immediately stopped crying and held it in while her body twitched.
"Okay, look at you two, you two are crying when you meet each other. Let Mu You eat the food first."
Before Xiao Yingze and the others came to the hospital, they found a restaurant on the road to have something to eat.
"Yes, yes, Mu You, you can't mess around now that you're pregnant. Don't even think about losing weight or controlling your weight. You must take good care of your body. Three meals a day must be nutritionally balanced. Do you understand?"
Lu Ziyou turned on the thought mode and wished she could teach Xiao Muyou all her pregnancy experience. After all, she was the most fertile woman in the Xiao family.
"Okay, wife, we have plenty of time in the future. If you say it all at once, Mu You may not be able to remember it."
Xiao Yingze on the side couldn't help but persuade him.
Lu Ziyou was stunned for a moment, then said with a smile.
"Look, aren't I too happy? Okay, we have plenty of time in the future. The baby won't be born for more than eight months. Then mom will accompany you to the delivery room."
When Lu Ziyou said the last words, he shook Xiao Muyou's hand tightly.
Everyone present knew the meaning of her words. Although no one mentioned that Xiao Muyou's current situation might cause an accident during childbirth, everyone knew very well that if Xiao Muyou wanted to give birth to this child,
It's like walking through the gates of hell.
Xiao Muyou didn't know the worries of her parents, especially her mother. Every time her mother was nervous and scared, she would talk a lot, as if she wanted to divert her attention in this way.
"Mom, I will be fine. I will live well for the sake of the baby and A-Yan."
It was okay if Xiao Muyou didn't say anything. As soon as she opened her mouth, Lu Ziyou immediately turned her back. Seeing this, Xiao Yingze on the side hugged her.
"Look at you, you just said that your daughter is crying, why is she doing the same thing? Didn't Mu You say that she will be fine? Besides, with so many of us by your side, you can just wait and be at ease to be a grandma.
Well, from now on when we go out, we don’t have to envy others for having grandchildren in their arms."
"That's right, Mom, Xiaoxi and I may have to wait a few years before we can let you have a grandson. Now you can have a grandson for fun first, and then you can gain more experience in raising children for us."
"You brat, didn't I bring up the three of you? I have a lot of experience."
When Lu Ziyou heard what Xiao Yiheng said on the side, she stared angrily.
Xiao Yiheng said quietly.
"Mom, you must be experienced."
As the eldest son of the family, Xiao Yiheng has a deep memory. Xiao Muyou and Xiao Siluo all looked at him curiously.
"Brother, what do you mean?"
"It's my destiny that you have me as your big brother now."
Xiao Yiheng said jokingly. In fact, this was what he heard from his grandparents.
"I was less than three months old when my good mother went to a nightclub and came back drunk to nurse her. As a result, I slept for two days without waking up. Another time, she helped me take a bath and took care of herself while she was washing.
She threw me into the bathtub with her beauty and skin care products and almost drowned me."
"Okay, okay, it's just a matter of sesame seeds and rotten millet. Why are you talking about this now? Isn't it my first time to be a mother? I don't have much experience. Later, Yichen and Muyou were raised to be fat and healthy.
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"Oh, Mom, are you sure this is your fault?"
Xiao Yiheng doesn't give his mother any face at all. We are all a family anyway, and aren't family members just for teasing?
At this time, Xiao Muyou frowned, vaguely remembered some things from his childhood, and said.
"I remember that when I was a child, I seemed to have been living with my grandparents. Aren't my parents in Kyoto all the time at that time?"
When Xiao Yiheng heard this, he laughed, looked at his mother who was full of embarrassment, and said with a smile.
"Mom, look, I didn't say this. My little sister remembers it herself."
With that said, Xiao Yiheng explained again.
"You and Yichen have been taken care of by your grandparents since you and Yichen were one month old. At that time, your parents were busy with the company."
"You brat, aren't you happy teasing your mother like this? You already said we have to be busy with company matters."
"Okay, okay, brat, please stop saying a few words. Your mother was also young back then. She became a mother for the first time, so what experience can she have?"
Xiao Yingze couldn't stand it anymore, so of course he stepped forward to help his wife. For a moment, the atmosphere in the ward became particularly warm.
At about nine o'clock in the evening, Xiao Yiheng and the others left the hospital, but Lu Ziyou insisted on staying with her daughter. They couldn't resist her, so they agreed.
In the evening, the mother and daughter did not go to rest immediately. Instead, they sat in the living room outside, eating fruit and chatting.
"Mu You, what are your plans next? It's not a problem to stay in the hospital all the time."
Lu Ziyou asked worriedly, Xiao Muyou thought for a while, then looked at the door not far away and said.
"Mom, Xiaodai and I also discussed this issue this afternoon and asked Jue Chen what he meant. I plan to take A Yan home and hire a medical team."
After knowing that she was pregnant and understanding her physical condition, Xiao Muyou was no longer willful and thought more maturely and rationally.
Lu Ziyou listened to Xiao Muyou's words and nodded.
"Okay, let's reorganize the house in the next few days. We need to get a room on the first floor. By the way, we also need to hire a live-in aunt. With your current body, you can't eat out every day."
Xiao Muyou did not refute, snuggled into Lu Ziyou's arms and nodded.
"Well, listen to mommy."
"As expected, now that I'm a mother, I'm much more obedient than before."
Lu Ziyou said with a comforting look on her face. Xiao Muyou was slightly startled, and then she took Lu Ziyou's arm and said.
"Mom, I'm sorry for worrying you all these years."
"What are you talking about? Parents just like to worry about their children. You don't need us to worry about it that day. Your dad and I are still not used to it."
As she spoke, Lu Ziyou reached out and touched Xiao Muyou's flat belly. In her heart, expectations and worries coexisted, but she hid her worries very well.
"Mommy really didn't expect that my baby girl would be the first person to let me hold my grandson in the end."
"Mom, what if this is a daughter."
"It's okay to have a daughter, that's my granddaughter. I have to pamper her like a little princess."
"That's not okay. It's not good to be spoiled."
"You can't be spoiled. The children of our Xiao family are kind-hearted and will never be spoiled."
The mother and daughter chatted for almost an hour. After Xiao Muyou settled down with her mother and was about to go back to the room to sleep, Lu Ziyou stopped her again.
"Mu You, are you scared? I mean, if, if Lei Yan really doesn't wake up, do you really have to keep waiting?"
Xiao Muyou was stunned for a moment, then slowly turned around and looked at the worry on her mother's face. Suddenly, she realized that her mother was much older than she thought.
Xiao Muyou was silent for a moment and said.
"Mom, I can't hold anyone else in my heart anyway, so just let me wait like this with a glimmer of hope. Wouldn't it be nice?"
After saying that, Xiao Muyou walked into the room inside.
Lu Ziyou sighed softly and finally lay down.
Yes, even if everyone comes to persuade him now, Xiao Muyou only has Lei Yan in his heart, so perhaps his attempts to persuade him at this time will be counterproductive.
Now we can only take one step at a time. Maybe one day in the future, Lei Yan will really wake up, or maybe, during this long wait, her woman will gradually feel relieved, let go, and be willing to start a new life.
As for the child, Lu Ziyou didn't think much about it. To the Xiao family, it was just an extra mouth and an extra pair of dishes and chopsticks to eat, not to mention that this was Xiao Muyou's own child.
As for whether having this child will affect Xiao Muyou's future happiness, that is even more impossible. Those who truly love Xiao Muyou will not mind this, and those who care about this child will not be accepted by the Xiao family.
After thinking about this, Lu Ziyou was relieved. When the children are older, let them live the life they want. Only by choosing for themselves will they not have any regrets in the future.