Chapter 1552 May there be no crutches in the world (17)
"Actually, adoptive parents are not the main culprits of child trafficking. If they did not abuse the children they bought and sincerely raised the children, they could have reduced or even not pursued criminal liability as appropriate. Instead, they blindly pursued the adoptive parents.
It will only cause the children to be harmed twice and make the existing social problems worse." M.
"Although the adoptive parents are at fault, they have been very good to their children in the past ten years. The children have feelings. How can we just abandon them? I can only say that the adoptive parents have a weak legal awareness."
"Children have feelings for their adoptive parents. The most important thing for a person is their feelings. Does it mean that if the adoptive parents commit a crime, the child will lose the grace of upbringing? Support the child's good character and support that nurturing kindness is greater than heaven."
"It is natural that traffickers who abduct children should be punished, but how can it be said that the adoptive parents have taken good care of the children for so many years and it is a crime?"
"The kindness of raising a child is also a kindness. I hope that the biological parents will be qualified parents in the next life, protect their children, and do not want to blame this or that for losing their children."
"That's right, if you can't even take care of your own children, you'd better stop being a parent."
"What you mean above is that the parents who lost their children are also at fault? Have you ever heard a saying, you are not afraid of thieves stealing, you are afraid of thieves missing you. Sometimes bad people are around you and you can't guard against them. As long as no one steals
No kidnapping or selling, the child is right there and no one can abduct it."
"What is nurturing grace? What is foster parent? It is understandable that children find it hard to accept, but don't confuse the concepts. A crime is a crime. The crime of stealing other people's children and raising them for more than ten years cannot be treated as a so-called nurturing grace.
Offset, if all buyers can enjoy family happiness without any psychological burden, then human trafficking will only become more and more rampant in the future."
"The kindness of raising a child is great? Fostering kindness is greater than giving birth to kindness? So what did the biological parents do wrong? They did not sell the child voluntarily. Isn't this kind of rhetoric making excuses for the buyer's criminal behavior? Isn't it true?
It makes people think that child trafficking is not a crime at all but a good deed. Is it condoning crime? Because even if the buyer is exposed many years later, they will not be held accountable and the children will not leave. They will still be filial to them and blame themselves.
Having been a biological parent for many years, I believe that the most sinful and destructive aspect of child trafficking is that abducted children are willing to consider their thieves as their fathers and their harm as their mothers. This is obviously a social phenomenon that distorts human nature. How can it be worthy of praise?
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Some netizens told their own stories, hoping to let Yu Feng know that from the moment the human trafficking incident occurred, his adoptive parents had already committed crimes and even committed murder.
"Seeing that everyone is arguing about this matter, let me talk about my own affairs."
"I am a girl, born into a decadent and backward feudal family. This family continues the traditional concepts of male superiority and female inferiority, patriarchy, and eldest son inheritance."
"Yes, you read that right. Even today in the 21st century, our country still has such bad feudal habits."
"Here in our country, if there is no boy in the family, people will laugh at him as a poor man, and he will not be able to hold his head high in front of outsiders, so buying boys is common. They do not think it is a crime, but to continue the family line and continue the incense.
An act of loyalty and filial piety.”
"Because I was a girl, I was almost strangled to death when I was born. My mother paid a great price to let me survive. Since I was a child, I have suffered a lot of unfair treatment because I am a girl, and I have seen it with my own eyes.
My mother suffered all the hardships, they did not allow women to eat at the table, and they could beat and scold women at any time when they were unhappy. It is precisely because I grew up in such a family that I have developed an extremely low self-esteem..."
"There is a boy next door to our house who is about the same age as me. He is very good-looking, but he is silly. I don't know where he came from, but one day he suddenly appeared in the house next door.
He became their son. Later, when I grew up, my mother told me that the boy was abducted and became stupid because he took too many drugs on the road and his brain was deprived of oxygen."
"But even so, his adoptive parents gave him the best of everything in the family, and even sold several of his sisters in exchange for bride price to give him a wife and children."
"So Yu Feng, it may be a blessing that you did not suffer after being abducted, so you can say that kindness is greater than heaven, but not all children have your luck. They can obviously be healthy by their biological parents.
Kang, live with dignity, biological parents don't care whether they can carry on the family line, they will do their best to give their children the best educational resources, living environment, and let them spread their wings."
"However, because the selfish interests of the buyers and traffickers have turned them into disabled people, when their biological parents are searching for them, they live a life of being manipulated like a zombie in a place where their biological parents cannot see."
"Everything your adoptive parents have given you now is what you should have had. It can be seen that your biological mother is a very tough, kind and outstanding woman. If you had not been trafficked and grew up by her side, you would have had
There should be more”
"If you were not abducted, your father would not have committed suicide due to depression, your grandparents would not have died with hatred, and your mother would not have been homeless for more than ten years. Therefore, your adoptive parents would not live together.
You are an enemy who killed your father. You can't just kill your father and keep you and raise you, so you don't have to take revenge."
"What's more, your adoptive parents' kindness to you is not good, but a continuation of evil. Now that you stand up to whitewash them, you are openly supporting evil, the laws of the country, and the fairness and justice pursued by human nature.
It's like Stockholm Syndrome defending the perpetrator."
More people supported and sympathized with Gu Mo.
"The most pitiable thing is Mother Gu. She worked hard to find the child, but in the end, she became the culprit who broke the child's peaceful life and destroyed the child's family. It turns out that people are like things. Once lost, they will be lost forever.
Can’t get it back.”
"The murderer paid for her own child, and now she considers herself a victim, bringing the child out to clean up her crime. In fact, whether she complained or not, the child has never returned to her. They say they were abducted by human traffickers.
The child's family will lose the child twice, once when he is abducted and once when he is found. It is estimated that as long as she thinks that her child will have to provide for those criminals in the future, she will die of depression. Since she is depressed no matter what,
Qu, then why don’t you pursue it and give yourself an explanation for all the years of hardship?”
