1914. Chapter 1914 I am a small town and a problem solver (15)
Gu Mo squinted his eyes and took a closer look and saw a man wearing glasses.
The man didn't look outstanding. He was wearing a gray polo and a pair of shiny leather shoes.
Gu Mo was still searching for information about this man in his original memory, when he heard the man say: "Gu Mo, it's me, Wu Youguang!"
Wu Youguang?
I have been so busy these days that I have forgotten that I actually have a boyfriend, Wu Youguang.
Wu Youguang and Yuan Shen are university alumni. They are very similar in terms of family background and growth experience. Therefore, the two people who have a common topic naturally became good friends. After graduation, the two stayed in the same city to work hard, and finally left naturally.
Got together.
It cannot be said that there is love between two people. In fact, they just think they are suitable for each other, so they rush to get married together.
This made Gu Mo feel numb. She didn't want to be involved in anything related to relationships, so marrying Wu Youguang was definitely out of the question.
And from a bystander's point of view, Gu Mo really didn't think that the original person and Wu Youguang were suitable. It was either because of their background or their personalities that they were not suitable for living together.
After changing his mind, Gu Mo took a step back and apologized to Wu Youguang, "Sorry, I didn't know it was you."
Wu Youguang rubbed his arms, not caring about it, just thinking about when Gu Mo had become so strong.
Thinking about it, his eyes fell on Gu Mo inquiringly. He was still the same person and his face had not changed, but Wu Youguang felt that Gu Mo seemed different.
Is it because Gu Mo looks too tired?
"Gu Mo, why are the dark circles under your eyes so serious again? Did you stay up late again? Did you find a few part-time jobs again?"
Before Gu Mo could say anything, Wu Youguang sighed, "Why do you always make yourself so tired? I will feel bad if you do this."
Gu Mo stopped talking because he had nothing to say.
Seeing this, Wu Youguang continued: "Gu Mo, promise me that you will have a good rest and eat well in the future, and don't let me worry anymore, okay?"
If it were the original person, even if she didn't agree with Wu Youguang's words in her heart, she would still nod and agree, because she couldn't bear to live up to every good intention, no matter whether she needed it or not.
But Gu Mo didn't have so many worries. Rather than obediently accepting everything around her, she wanted to reject some care that she didn't need.
So she looked at Wu Youguang and asked: "How can I live if I don't find more part-time jobs and work hard to make money? How can I repay my parents who have spent their entire lives supporting me?"
After a pause, he added: "Or if I don't work so hard, can you support me? Can you support my family?"
In fact, Gu Mo is very annoyed by such people. They always ask all kinds of questions, asking you why you are doing this and this, how you could have been more relaxed, why do you have to do it?
The original character is already low on self-esteem. What she needs is more recognition, a partner who works together to supervise her, and someone who can help her at critical moments.
Although your boyfriend is not obligated to help your girlfriend solve these problems in life, you don't need to keep asking unanswerable questions to complain about the other person. This sounds like concern, but it often just puts more psychological pressure on the other person.
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Just like when the original aunt came, even if she was rolling on the ground in pain, Wu Youguang would only say something like, "Drink more hot water, I feel sorry for you"...
He doesn't know how to take action, he doesn't know how to search online, he doesn't know how to go to the drugstore to buy painkillers, he doesn't know how to help you boil hot water and cover yourself with a quilt, he will only complain about why you don't wear more clothes and why you still eat ice.
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In short, I criticize you in the name of being nice to you.
There are also things like staying up late and working overtime. The original person never thought this was a problem, because she had to do this, and she was well prepared for the consequences of doing so. But Wu Youguang thought this was a problem, and he wanted to take care of it but did not help solve it.
Knowing how to point fingers creates more problems
Are you going to let the original person stop working just to tell her not to stay up late, and just lie down and die?
This is why Gu Mo said that the two of them are not suitable, because the original person refused without understanding, and Wu Youguang's heartache was only expressed in words. If you analyze it carefully, you will find that he has been denying the original person's efforts, which will only make the original person
Being more tired and having low self-esteem makes the original person feel that all his efforts are in vain and not worthy of praise, which leads to a sense of frustration and suffocation in life.
If you have been affected by these negative energies for a long time, it is hard not to say that your original body will collapse.
This is not Wu Youguang's fault. After all, the original person had character flaws, and Wu Youguang was not a perfect person.
It can only be said that the two people do not complement each other in terms of personality. It would be better for each other if they were not together.
Gu Mo didn't want to drag it out any longer and said directly to Wu Youguang, "Youguang, shall we break up?"
Wu Youguang was still chattering about expressing his concern for Gu Mo, but when he heard Gu Mo's words, he was stunned, "Gu Mo, what did you say?"
Gu Mo said: "You mentioned marriage to me last time and asked me to go home with you during the Chinese New Year this year. I have thought about it carefully. My most important task at this stage is to get ahead. The love between my children will only affect my future, so
Before I become successful, I don't think about marriage or children."
Isn't this what a scumbag does if he abandons his partner for the sake of his future?
And how could Gu Mo say such funny things in a serious manner?
"Gu Mo, are you angry because I'm too busy these days and don't have time to see you?"
Wu Youguang said cautiously: "I know that I have neglected you these days. It is understandable that you are angry. Can I apologize to you?"
After saying that, he quickly said: "Let's go have a late-night snack. I know there is a barbecue restaurant nearby..."
He came to pull Gu Mo, but Gu Mo avoided his hand and tried to express his position in a gentle but firm tone, "I won't eat the midnight snack. What I said today is serious. I hope you will think about it carefully."
think."
After Gu Mo finished speaking, he was about to leave.
Wu Youguang realized that Gu Mo really wanted to break up with him, and became anxious, "Gu Mo, because of you, I even refused the opportunity given by the company to go to the capital for development. How can you break up with me now?"
Gu Mo looked at Wu Youguang, "I broke up with you because I realized that we have the same background and the same experience, but we cannot understand and tolerate each other in many things. For example, now, once something happens to you, you cannot accept it.
You will regret what you have done, put all the serious consequences of this incident on my head, let me take the blame, and say it is all because of me, but you have forgotten that you made the decision in the first place
It's you yourself, I have never interfered with you or asked you for anything."
