"If a boy dyes his hair by himself, it means he is trendy and handsome. If a girl dyes her hair, it means she has a career. I don't need to tell you. These are outrageous statements."
"Women first? Where do women have priority? Have you ever seen any company giving priority to female employees? When it comes to women's priority, where is the priority? It's because women's parking spaces are larger than men's parking spaces. When women go in and out, men help
Helping you is a small detail that women can handle in life. Women can also drive a car into a parking space. Women are not so weak that they cannot push a door open. The so-called women first,
It's just covering up the real problem with sugar-coating. It's just brainwashing everyone to make women regard men as natural protectors, while women are naturally weak and the ones to be taken care of. It also uses small compensations in minutiae to cover up the negative impact on women.
It's just plundering in other aspects, as if I took away the most important thing from you, and then gave you a little favor in an insignificant place, and used this to invite to block and cover up the real problem..."
"Don't eulogize about traditional women giving up so much for their husbands, children and family. That's great. Why should women give up so much for their children and husbands? Is that great? That's just a restriction in the name of praise from a male perspective.
It's just that I can't stand the heroines of those TV dramas in the past. They were abandoned by their fathers, husbands, and sons without any regrets, as if men decided their lives."
"Men object to betrothal gifts because it is not him who suffers the loss. No one can empathize with the suffering of others. In their eyes, they are only filled with money. They feel that you are not equal to the money. They feel that they can buy it with the heavy love on his lips."
I want to end your life, so I have given my love, so why do I need a betrothal gift?"
"Sure enough, men need marriage more than women. They claim that the bride price is high, and they scold women for their money-worshiping, but I have never seen anyone say that they don't want to get married."
"The truth is out there. When you see the crime of abducting women and children, you know who needs marriage more. No, they need free nannies.
"You can object to betrothal gifts, but you can't just object to betrothal gifts. You also object to children taking the husband's surname, object to the woman marrying to take care of her parents-in-law but the man does not take care of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, object to domestic violence, object to celebrating the Chinese New Year in the man's family, and object to the preference for sons over daughters.
…When these most basic and most urgent problems are solved, the issue of bride price will naturally be solved.”
"Marriage is actually very unfriendly to women. I remember one country had a very strange law. If a husband cheats on his wife, if the wife wants to get evidence, she must bring a legal person with her, and the evidence must be that the two of them are actually in bed, otherwise
Even if you wear a nightgown, it is called invalid evidence, and our country’s newly introduced marriage law changes one year of separation to two years of separation before the court can order a divorce..."
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The Internet has completely fallen into a melee. A daughter-in-law has a daughter-in-law's position, a mother-in-law has a mother-in-law's position, a man has a man's position, a woman has a woman's position, a married person has a married position, an unmarried person has a non-married position, and so on.
Coupled with the various male and female boxing that stirred up trouble and chaos, the comment area was simply a bloody mess, which was too horrible to watch.
There are also people who speak rationally and objectively.
"There is a sentence in "Misogyny" that men's suffering and women's suffering are not corresponding. A woman's suffering often comes from the fact that she is a woman, while a man's suffering often comes from the fact that he is not an upright man.
, Women are not only a gender, women are actually a situation. Even if there are no women in the world and there are only men, then the disadvantaged men will also face the same situation as women."
"Don't be led astray by some one-sided incidents. In fact, it's not easy for daughters-in-law and mothers-in-law, and it's not easy for men and women, especially the people at the bottom. Don't be gender-based and have opposing positions. Let's understand each other and have less resentment.
, there will always be many wonderful things in life.”
The internet celebrity had no idea that the video she posted of Gu Mo would actually generate such high popularity.
He quickly posted another video, including some of the things he had deleted, so that everyone could better understand the truth behind Gu Mo's "unfilial" mother-in-law.
The truth is that Gu Mo was the one who was beaten by her parents-in-law and husband before after several years of domestic violence. It was only recently that she stood up and started to fight back.
Most people continued to cheer for Gu Mo. After all, in real life, it is really rare to see people who become angry due to domestic violence.
But there are some people who like to advocate the theory of victim guilt.
"Poor people must be hateful. There must be a reason why Gu Mo was beaten. Men will not beat women for no reason. The high gift must be one of the reasons. Also, men are under great pressure to make money to support their families and want to vent.
, Life is not easy. As a wife, Gu Mo doesn’t understand, and she is still fussy and resists her husband. This is too much."
"It's also possible that the woman made some unforgivable mistake and forced the man to panic, so the man united his family to beat her. Otherwise, if other families didn't beat their daughter-in-law, why would his family beat their daughter-in-law?
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"I also think it must be this girl's fault. Some fairies on the Internet are still female. I want to say, don't make random comments if you don't know the truth. In addition, I advise modern women to drink less poisonous chicken soup. If you don't have a princess life, don't get princess disease.
, otherwise someone will really treat you."
"So what you above are saying is that if you make a mistake, you can beat your daughter-in-law, even if she is beaten to death?"
"If, according to what some people say, the person who was beaten made the mistake first, then now it is the parents-in-law and husband of the family who are being beaten. Shouldn't it be their fault? How come the other family's son
The daughter-in-law doesn’t even beat her parents-in-law and husband, but this family is the only one who gets beaten?”
"Some people are still talking about the bride price. Didn't you listen to what the blogger said? The woman was also sold by her parents. She didn't get a cent of the bride price. She obviously resisted domestic violence because she couldn't bear it, but she said that she was like this in the first place.
Only this kind of people will be subjected to domestic violence. The cause and effect are all involved. You men are really good at excusing yourself."
Then there was a new round of quarrels between men and women, and the comment area was still a mess.
Some people also shared their similar experiences in the comment area.
"Like the protagonist in the blogger's video, I also had parents who favored boys over girls. I relied on my own efforts to get into college and studied hard to get out of the farm. However, I couldn't find a decent job after graduation. I was frustrated many times and my parents still refused.
You want me to marry a guy who didn’t graduate from junior high school and doesn’t have a job?
There were many times when men who had no skills or qualities and flirted with girls in front of me could no longer hold on. I wanted to break out of my narrow home and break through the shackles of the world to gain real freedom, but every time I was dragged away by my biological parents.
