On May 3rd, after the apprenticeship ceremony, Mr. Zhuang and his party stayed in Huliang for a week.
Dai Chengbi and his wife were driving around nearby.
The old man and his wife followed Grandpa Xia Yu around the nearby hills.
Regarding the arrival of Mr. Zhuang and his wife, Grandpa Xia Yu was very happy and made plans early.
As soon as Xia Yu returned home, she started a long road of criticism - her parents first checked the accounts of Xia Yu's studio. They didn't understand it, but they were not novices.
When they were banned by Xue Zang, the two of them also touched the account.
After watching it all night, I checked it roughly and found that there was no problem, so I let Xia Yu go.
Comrade Lao Xia teaches and educates people, and their responsibilities are fully fulfilled.
But he didn't expect that Xia Yu would be able to retire in a few years and Xia Yu would be found to have moral problems.
Then they really can't survive.
Once the origin of the money is clear, the only problem is its destination.
I was taught a harsh lesson all night, and all in all, I kept going over and over again, with the same idea.
“Making money is not easy!”
"You are still young now, and you can still make a little money. What will happen when you get old? You spend as much money as you do. When you get old, sick, or me or your father... Even if we are fine, can you guarantee that you and Xia Yi
Won’t you get sick?”
"Also, this is your 38 million down payment, and the next 39 million, are you sure that the movie you invest in will earn that much? If the box office -" Her mother paused at this point.
People of their generation believe this so much that they don’t dare to talk about it.
For example, when they were talking about being sick just now, they didn’t dare to talk about themselves.
Xia Yu's mother's idea is that she hopes she will be healthy and safe throughout her life, and does not want to torment her siblings when she gets old and sick.
I digressed, back to the topic...
"Even if the box office is enough, the various expenses will be a huge expense every month and every year."
"Have you forgotten what happened a few years ago? Have you lost your memory?"
When she said these words, Xia Yu's mother was simply a "devil", at least that's what Xia Yu thought.
She's not attacking you superficially, she's attacking you with her attitude, her emotions, and Xia Yu's softest part!
"Aggressive!"
While talking, Yu Heng thought of Xia Yu's miserable situation during that time, and felt extremely distressed. He couldn't help but talk and his eyes turned red.
Xia Yu couldn't bear it. He was filled with emotion and at the same time dumbfounded - when others suddenly became rich overnight, they all planned how to spend their money. Those who were excited had to start thinking about not working and just lie down at home and wait for the harvest.
Bank interest.
"If you have so much money, what kind of job can you do? Go home and become an old lady and hire a few nannies and bodyguards!"
Only her mother would worry about the money coming from the wrong way and would have so many worries.
It's really the sequelae of the Xia Yu incident.
He took Xia Yu directly.
You can only listen to the "training" quietly.
When her mother cries, her father looks at her and wants to kick her in the ass.
Seeing this, Xia Yu couldn't laugh or cry, "Yes, I made the wrong money."
By this time, Tao Tang's words were no longer effective, but Mrs. Zhuang listened and came over the next day to personally provide psychological counseling to Xia Yu's mother.
First, regarding their concerns about Xia Yu, "Xiao Heng, with me and Lao Zhuang watching over her, are you still worried that Yu Bao will go astray?"
"We don't say how much money Yu Bao can earn, nor do we expect her to earn much. But if you buy an apartment, you won't have to worry about food and clothing in the future. It's no problem. You just think too much!"
In general, as a mother, she can certainly understand Yu Heng's psychology and state.
Finally, he gave her a reassurance, "Since Lao Zhuang and I have accepted her as our student, we will definitely not ignore her in the future, and we will teach what needs to be taught. Besides, what is your own daughter like?
Can I get no points?"
At the same time, she understood better that Yu Heng’s current state was not quite right.
After explaining to Yu Heng and opening up her heart, she would inevitably have to be scolded by Mrs. Zhuang again.
It may not be appropriate for others to scold her like Tao Tang, since she is half a junior after all.
But as an elder, Mrs. Zhuang.
But there is no problem at all.
Treat him in his own way, or in other words, change Yu Heng's perspective.
"We, Yu Bao, are much better than our peers. You stay far away and only pay attention to the superficial news. It seems very beautiful, and you are indeed wronged, but is this her fault?"
"You only care about your own face and the path you have set for them, but apart from talking about it, what help have you actually given? Yes, the path you envisioned is very good and smooth, but... you don't give your children any help.
This is a chance of trial and error. Why did you give birth to them? Just to carry on the family line?"
"Every young eagle on the way to growth, which one has not fallen to pieces? In order for them not to fall, do you have to trap them in this small county you have chosen? Can you tie them up for the rest of their lives?
?”
"Have you and your wife paid attention to Yu Bao's efforts to make a comeback?"
"Don't talk about Yu Bao, Xia Yi, have you paid attention to that kid again?"
"Among other things, I heard Xia Yu say that the reason why he took up a career was to pay off Xia Yu's debt. Indeed, this is too whimsical for a sophomore in high school, but two years and five hundred and thirty
Wan, he’s done!”
"For a child who is about to turn eighteen, he doesn't rely on his family. I can count the number of times I have seen him in my entire life without relying on his family!"
Mrs. Zhuang sees things clearly.
She knew very well that her parents would not be able to change their mentality if they did not break up some of the words.
As an old patriarch, Lao Yu himself is trapped by the mountains and rivers of Huliang, so it's hard to say.
In the past, she was not Xia Yu's formal master's wife, let alone suitable. This time, it is appropriate to formally become his master.
Now that she was here and the matter was brought up, she simply opened it up. Otherwise, why should she be a master's wife and why should she be an elder?
"You don't seem to have criticized Xia Yu on your face, but you really haven't in your heart?"
"I never thought that if Xia Yu hadn't insisted on acting, nothing would have happened. If Xia Yu could follow your arrangements and return to Huliang after graduation, even if you are in Bingcheng, you have some connections. If something happened, nothing would happen.
I can protect her, but have you ever thought that if you want to live such a stable, plain and warm life, your two children will also be with you? I also admire you for being respectful and dedicated, but,
Don’t forget, besides being a teacher, you are also parents!”
"Don't always use the same old rules, requirements, and ideas to regulate the children of this era. Why did you have more children in the past? In order to have more labor in the family, you can raise them with just a mouthful of food. What kind of family is this? This
It’s a family that can’t afford food. No matter whether it was in ancient times or in the 1970s and 1980s, any family with a little bit of foundation wouldn’t put the efforts of the whole family together to raise their children?”
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Everyone is progressing or regressing, but there is one word for it: growth.