[The real misfortune of families that favor boys over girls]
[How girls with defects in their native families can help themselves]
[How do girls protect their rights when faced with violations?]
[How terminally ill patients obtain social assistance]
[Do terminally ill patients have the right to commit suicide]
[Raising children from divorced families or single-parent families]
[It’s impossible to take into account the issues of children’s education and parents’ support at the same time, which one is more important! (Talking about single-parent families)]
"The above is a question I asked after watching the movie twice, and I still can't calm down for a long time!"
"I'm glad once again that I gave birth to a son and was able to provide him with good social, material and spiritual protection!"
"1. Preferring sons over daughters is truly a problem left over from history. In reality, parents are often unaware of most of the notions of favoring sons over daughters. They ignore, ignore, ignore the healthy growth of girls, and even persecute girls. Most of them play the role of mother.
For a role like grandma, this film gives us a deeper question worth pondering!"
"Who decided on the concept of 'preferring sons over daughters' in the family? Is this "woman" just targeting daughters? No, not necessarily! To be honest, I didn't understand it at first, but after watching the whole movie, I found out
, I have seen real-life examples of son preference over daughters in the past, but they were all too one-sided. The film very implicitly analyzed the truth about son preference over daughters. After watching the movie, everyone seemed to pay attention to the fact that the mother seemed to be aggressive from beginning to end.
In fact, the driving force behind everything was her father."
"In the Bai family, his father hardly spoke. He seemed to be cowardly and was manipulated by Bai's mother, but every word he said was Bai's mother's 'Dinghai Shenzhen'. Whether it was the delay in the hospital or the final compromise, the peripheral vision of her mother's eyes
It will always fall on Bai Jianen!"
"Her father seems to be cowardly, but in fact, he mentally controls the white mother Liu Qingrong in a twisted way!"
"Her father not only despised his daughter, he was also dismissive and indifferent to Liu Qingrong, which directly caused her mother's psychological distortion, her sister was sold, and Bai Xiaofei almost became the victim of the 'Fu Di Demon'!"
"In the narration, there is a sentence like, 'This is what I will do all my life. If Bai Jianen wants me to stop him in the quagmire, then I will let his daughter die in the quagmire. He doesn't care about the girl anyway!', which shows that.
Everything!"
"What I want to express is that the responsibility for favoring boys over girls should not be pushed entirely on women. We should analyze and solve it from the source to put an end to this phenomenon. In addition to caring for girls, we must also pay attention to the mental health problems of these mothers!"
"2. It is really difficult for this kind of native family to save themselves. It is different from the movie. In the movie, Bai Xiaofei met Chen Zimo!"
"In reality, I have encountered a girl whose family conditions are better. Her family seems to be pretty good to her, but they completely treat her as a cash machine and passively become a "helping brother demon". And she is not as 'lucky' as Bai Xiaofei.
, She has not met 'Chen Zimo', Now she is almost forty, from the past when all the stars were admiring her to now, no one cares about her. In the past few years, she was overwhelmed and finally broke up with her family!"
"I've seen some cases these days -... some were even forced to commit suicide, and even after they died, they were still consumed by their families! I'm not a professional expert, but I still want to talk to those who are being persecuted by their original families.
The children said that if you are brave enough to refuse persecution, you must be brave and strong to live on!"
"3. How do girls save themselves when faced with being violated? They must call the police and escalate the situation. Don't believe that big things become trivial. Only the law is your weapon and tool!"
"4. Regarding how terminally ill patients can obtain social assistance, there are two options I know of here. [1] For patients who need emergency treatment but whose identity is unknown, or who are unable to pay the emergency fee, first aid expenses that meet the regulations can be provided to [Emergency Aid]
[Emergency Assistance Gene] Apply for medical assistance; [2] Social welfare funds, such as [Casting Wings Fund] founded by Junhao!"
"5. Whether terminally ill patients have the right to commit suicide is currently not available in our country - we can briefly talk about it, just from the video. The main reason is that many families cannot afford the expensive medical expenses, and the patients cannot bear the pain. It is sad!
According to my idea, I really hope that one day in the future, it can be realized!"
Gu Shi
"6. Support of children from divorced families or single-parent families - although there are legal provisions that require children to be raised until they are eighteen years old, in many cases, abandoned children do not have the ability to think independently and safeguard their own rights and interests.
! I can only appeal to the public, if you see this kind of situation, you can lend a helping hand and help the children!"
"7. It is impossible to balance the issue of children's education and the issue of parental support. Which one is more important! This issue is also the issue that I am most hesitant about and the most undecided at the moment. Therefore, I do not target this issue for ordinary parents who are healthy and have nurturing parents.
We should not discuss this issue with families with children, but extend it to [single-parent] [disabled] [poor] families to discuss this issue!"
"On this issue, my speech may be biased, but I think it is a direction that needs to be paid attention to. I know that society is now calling for 'children who want to be raised, but relatives are not allowed to wait', but what I want to talk about
The question is—take care of yourself once you’re born!”
"When you give birth to children, you have to teach them well. I'm not talking about how much money you have to give them, how good material conditions you have to give them, and a complete home... Since you can't give them these, then you have to pay attention to them on the spiritual level.
, to educate and influence them!”
"Teach them to be kind, teach them to fight back if they are beaten, teach them not to take the initiative to cause trouble, but not to be afraid of trouble, practice it personally - don't take care of your parents and forget your children because of social constraints!"
“Old people should also be more tolerant to young people in this regard——”
"Perhaps what I said is a bit incorrect, but I still want to say that the old man is old. Since he has voluntarily become a candle that has been burning for his whole life, he might as well burn one last time - don't let his children and grandchildren walk anymore.
A well-worn road!”
"If it were me, I think I would make the same choice as Mrs. Cao..."
"Finally, the whole movie "The Cure" seems to be expressing one meaning [There is only one disease in the world, and that is the disease of poverty!]. What the movie says is not wrong, but I hope everyone can understand [it] more richly!
"
“This [poverty] is not only material, but also spiritual!”
…
After reading it twice, Chen Lin took a deep breath and looked up, seeing that it was already slightly bright.
After drinking the coffee in the cup, he walked to the window, opened it, lit a cigarette, and remained silent for a long time.
Until the smoke went out, he posted [movie reviews] and [perceptions] on several platforms.
Finally, I stretched my arms and went into the kitchen, which I had not been to for many years, and made an unsightly breakfast!
Before breakfast was finished, his wife got up.
Looking at him in surprise, he smiled softly in the apron he was wearing, "Why did you remember to make breakfast?"
He raised his head and said, "It's outrageous to cook breakfast for your wife and son? Isn't it inappropriate?"
The two looked at each other and smiled.
"Do you remember the last time you were in the kitchen?"
"...don't remember."
"I remember, when I was pregnant with my son, I said, I want to eat stinky tofu. You said the food outside was unclean, so I turned around and started messing around on my own without saying a word. You didn't know that you looked so embarrassed at that time.
, how tall you are in my eyes."
She smiled slightly, just for that one time... she gritted her teeth and endured it for twenty years.