Chapter 810 Don't cry and we ask for monthly tickets
"Crackling..."
Fireworks and firecrackers have been banned for several years.
But most of the regulations are enforced in urban areas. In small counties like Huliang, as long as you don't go too far, don't make a big fuss, and set off a few small fireworks, people will turn a blind eye and treat you like a piece of shit.
Let it go!
In this small county on the 18th line, on the seventh day of the Lunar New Year, the flavor of the New Year is still a bit strong.
At around six o'clock in the morning... there are early risers who light up a bunch of fireworks and firecrackers, hoping to relive the childhood addiction after the New Year.
Xia Yu was not woken up by fireworks. He woke up during the script course of "Aversia Hatcher" and reviewed the past and learned something new.
Didn't go out after getting up.
Huliang is surrounded by ice and snow, and it’s Chinese New Year again, so the snow clearing staff are still busy.
These days, Xia Yu simply does morning exercises at home.
How can a treadmill, a yoga mat, or practicing Baguazhang or classical dance for hours in the living room not be considered morning exercise?
The so-called self-discipline and self-control are formed through repetition day after day.
It seems that you still felt troubled in the first two years after entering society. After a certain period of time, you don't even know which point in time it is.
Grandpa Xia Yu left between 4 and 5 pm on the 21st. Today is exactly the tenth day.
After hearing these words while busy talking, Xia Yu was also silent: "Yes, when you get older, don't you just want to be comfortable and avoid suffering?"
Before finally being pushed into the crematorium, I was already crying.
Xia Yi has become more and more sensitive to emotions since the "Bridge Meeting". The moment he felt Xia Yu's loss, he had already held her hand. With his big stature and thick shoulders, he slowly stopped Xia Yu.
In arms.
Faced with his brother's concern, Xia Yu did not refuse and patted Xia Yi on the back, "It's very warm..."
The old man and old lady who came to offer incense and chatter: "What's wrong with walking at home? It's better than going to the hospital and going around in a big circle. In the end, the money is gone and the people are gone, so they are pushed to the morgue, right?"
From the time of death to the funeral home, it was finally time to mourn. At this point, the two parents finally came to their senses.
There were many people coming and going in the cemetery, and almost all of them felt a sense of sadness.
Busy and busy all morning.
Even Xia Yu's grandparents felt a sense of uncontrollable sadness, after all, age was at stake.
The cemetery was chosen to be large enough to bury a small family. As Xia Yu said, "I bought everything, why not just get it right at once."
"You are in your eighties or nineties, what are you still thinking about? Like me, half of a month is either in the hospital or in bed..."
Xia Yu's eyes were only slightly red, and she was full of emotions, but she was able to burst into tears in an instant during the performance. At this moment, she couldn't even produce a single tear. The switch of her tear glands seemed to be turned off at this moment.
“In the second half of my life, if I don’t suffer and can sleep comfortably, that will be the greatest happiness for myself and my children!”
Suddenly, you no longer feel the noise, but want to pursue, "Who released it?"
We pushed into the crematorium, queued up, and waited for about forty minutes. No one was there, and there was only one urn left.
"I don't know for sure, we will be here in a few months or a few years," he said sadly.
By the time Xia Yu and the other children sent their relatives and friends to the parking lot and returned to the tomb, Yu Heng and his sister were already kneeling in front of the tomb and crying bitterly.
Grandma Xia Yu passed away more than ten or two years ago. This is the first time in so many years that the Yu family has held a funeral. It also happens to be the year before, so fortunately there is no mess. It is not too public, and it cannot be public in the first place. Although it is considered a happy funeral,
He left without any illness or disaster, and was very peaceful, but in the end it was not a happy event!
Xia Yu's parents, uncle and aunt haven't come to their senses yet, and they are so busy nagging that they don't even have time to feel sad.
The ones who are more busy are Xia Yu and her cousin - they are the ones responsible for the entire process.
Grandpa Xia Yu has suffered a lot in his life, and he is naturally very popular, but he is one of the people in their area who left late. He sent away many relatives and friends - when he arrived, there were only a few friends left.
She is an old man and an old woman with weak legs and feet.
Then he looked at the man blankly.
Are the sporadic fireworks and firecrackers noisy?
The old men and women were really "crying out", and another one was sent away!
But he also said, "You, Lao Yu, are good at choosing the right time. It's Chinese New Year, and all your relatives and friends just happened to come back to see you off!"
In this world, lives are passing away every day, and no one in the cemetery cares whether you are Xia Yu or some international star.
"When I look back and react, I think about it. If I'm tired, I can feel more at ease, right?"
As children, the Yu Heng brothers and sisters were in front of the tomb, while Xia Yu and the younger ones were behind helping to fold and distribute paper money for incense and candles...
If you are an adult, you will smile unconsciously and comment secretly, 'That is probably a person who still carries his childhood, right?'
"Don't talk about Lao Yu's children. Our grandchildren are all capable of achieving their goals and have already enjoyed themselves. Is there anything you can't let go of?"
Xia Yu smiled bitterly: "Yeah! What impressed me the most was when you were bullied when you were a child. You cried in my arms... You were so small that you burst into tears, but now you can support me."
Halfway back to the car, Ms. Yu Heng looked at Xia Yu and was speechless.
Communicate with the funeral home, buy a tomb, and have a one-stop funeral. In fact, when the money is available, people will not suffer.
Xia Yu and others just squatted aside and said nothing. The two families stayed in front of their grandfather's tomb until the cemetery closed in the afternoon.
She knew very well, "This is the first relative I have sent away in my life, but it is not the last one..."
We stayed up all night to keep vigil, and there were a lot of relatives and friends coming and going all night.
But after discussion with their cousins, the Xia Yu siblings decided that it would be better for their parents to do it themselves.
For most of the day, Yu Heng and Uncle Xia Yu couldn't cry anymore. They didn't talk anymore and just looked at the tombstone in a daze.
Uncle Xia Yu held it, and the group went to the cemetery which was not too far from the funeral home.
Xia Yu's silence is like the alternative core of the movie "Twilight Series":
Only he knows what Xia Yu is thinking at this moment, and only he knows what Xia Yu will experience.
"In a few decades, you will send away one family member after another until you are the only one left."
It is different from ten or twenty years ago. Cemetery tombs have replaced burials. There is no old "lively" atmosphere like playing music and singing about weddings and funerals. However, you still have to go through the formalities that need to be done. Say it to your relatives and friends.
Gone.
"If you're busy with something, you don't have time to think about it."
This is the most deserted and pure Spring Festival that the Yu family and Xia Yu family have experienced in the past few years.
Early the next morning, dozens of people went to the funeral parlor.
Children will find it interesting.
Xia Yu leaned on Xia Yi's shoulder, but his eyes were on Yu Heng and his wife, and he said something specious: "Compared to my parents, I can stay with you for many, many years, fifty years? Sixty years? So you have to be good.
Yes, if you live one more year, you can stay with me for one more year..."
Xia Yu hugged her in his arms, and after a while he heard her say: "Yubao, mommy has no daddy..."
Xia Yu licked his lips, unable to laugh, and didn't know what to say to comfort him.
Said: 'Don't cry, do you still have us?'
I was stunned for a long time, rubbing my mother's neck and listening to her whimpering...
My breathing went from heavy breathing to slowly and steadily. After two days of exhaustion, I finally couldn't hold on and fell asleep.